I feel betrayed

My friend of 5 years...Scorpio male friend and I went out to dinner today..as he'd been bothering me for days etc....we've known each other 5 years...trust him with my life..today he ruined it by trying to kiss me when I saw him at the train station...

I never ever saw him more than a friend and he knows it too....he said I've been wanting to do this for years and today I have plucked up the courage...of course I didn't let him come near me but the fact that he made the attempt has really pissed me off...how dare he!...He's betrayed my trust in him....things will never be the same again...I don't care how much he apologises...

I feel kinda sick....he's engaged to be married!!!!!!!!!!

saw him off*

Major catastrophy .. inform the President, have the National Guard sent out, call The Press.

Moral to the story: Trust your life with yourself ONLY

He's a guy, mm .. no matter how much of friend YOU may think he is .. he's still a Man, and will take advantage of opportunities.

You feel betrayed?

Imagine how his fiance must be made a fool of .... makes a person wonder, doesn't it?

Like .. is MY man trying to kiss one of his female friends unbeknownst to me?

I don't think men and women can be genuine, platonic friends. People will probably say, "that's not true I have a dear friend that" but there is always some attraction, from one or the other. I've had several friendships with girls throughout my life, moreso when I was a teen, and yes, either I wanted her or she wanted me, but we settled for friendship.

Men and women are different from each other for a reason. So we can get together.

But I hope you can just take it as flattery miss morals, he said he never had the courage... so he probably has been in love or at least infatuated with you for all that time. Guys will settle for friendship, usually deluding themselves that it will become something more down the road.

You should have slapped the bullsh*t out of him.

Hey, choc 😉

One really can't judge the true character based on one incident. I think U can definitely remain "very" loyal to one person but to assert that U will not be attracted to anyone else for the lifetime, will be sheer hypocrisy. Indeed, to appear less tribal and more evolved, such instincts are to be curbed and feelings kept under wrap. Goes a long way in maintaining order, socially.

He should have opted for that continued display of decent behavior but if he didn't, then therez always an explanation.

" think the worst thing is that it destroys the foundation of your friendship with that person - it makes it all a lie"

Perhaps true for women but it doen't happen vice versa though 😉 In fact itz more than welcome.

Oooh hello all....Well....last night when I got in my phone battery life had died..when it came back to life there was a message on there.."Moment of madness, please forgive me..I don't know what came over me"....I felt like throwing my phone and smashing it to pieces..but didn't (naturally)...This morning on the way to work another text to say he was geniunely sorry and feels incredibly embarrassed and annoyed at himself for doing what he did and he hopes he hasn't lost his most dearest friend...So I replied back "well I was shocked to say the least...what the hell provoked you to do such a thing, you've ruined 6 years of innocent friendship on my part and its going to take time (if at all) to mend. Bye"...and just left it at that...

Knowing him the way I do, I know he would be pretty cut up about it all...but whatever his reasons he's engaged to be married (to a virgo if thats of any significance)..he has no excuse...I am a Scorpio, I have moments of madness but that doesn't mean I go and kiss the sod sitting next to me...sheesh...

And no I didn't slap him..in the middle of a crowded train station...I am a dignified young lady..hate to make a scene..my death stare would've said it all...Eeeeeeek makes me sick just picturing his face coming towards me in that manner...

But all was well with the world because my aries phoned me on that same night...Awwww...

P-Angel, its not that I am crying I feel betrayed or anything, just a shock that he saw this relationship as something completely different to what I did...And whoever said men and women can't just be friends is correct..there will always be at some stage some sexual thing from the male side..Females however, can switch off and just be platonic..but unfortuntely man is born to operate the 3rd leg at some stage..has a mind of its own..

Its no skin off my nose...I can go from love to hate within miliseconds without any remorse...but he's a complete and utter fool for doing what he did..moron!

Well he defo looked in the wrong place..fuckin moron..I feel sorry for his wife to be who's utterly loyal...but lol @ sex with a chia pet...are they really that bad? I have kissed a virgo and that was really mechanical....the worse thing is...he actually thought he was some sex god and created the word passion...I did laugh at that in his face..whatever mate..prick

Oh shit..lol..thats really bad..imagine!...That would be the death of me..I need Olympics in the bedroom..high jumps, sprint, hurdles, you name it..

I am sticking to my aries men and failing that..another Leo...

Aries man*

During the actual sex part, they lie there like a stone. And trying to move them is like lifting a corpse. I can't count the number of times I just wanted to shout, "MOVE! SIT UP, DO SOME ING THING!"

...Perhaps the chloroform and ropes were a bad idea then?

I'll be here all week! Try the veal.

OMIGOD!....Was that really your experience with a virgo chick...oh you poor mite...I feel the pain...how horrid...

Hey TB!...the weekend has finally arrived..thank god..been a long time coming...

We want to join with the person in sexual matrimony...

I can't imagine emotionless sex..what a waste of oxygen...

lol...or elegant sipping wine and well...doing a better job yourself frankly!...

Had a very erotic dream about the Aries last night and then he phoned come 1.30am!..bless his heart he sounded sooo exhausted..I must be good 😛

He'll phone me at the weekend he said..Rrrrrrrarr..wish he was here..I want his passionate kisses..

I wonder what Virgo men are like....

Dear oh dear...thats not good..what a waste of life...

Can people avoid typing all the way across the screen..such a pain having to find "add a message" link..Scrolling is ball ache

Read Fumingli Scorps post...and you'll understand deemi

Deemi come on..stop being so predictable...

Its so annoying seeing the page distorted..

So we are all in agreement virgo men/women suck at sex (even that is pushing it..Does it matter what other planets they have...I guess it depends on the mars as well...or not? Dunno...

Now Capricorns...I hear despite their bum rap..(lol..getting used to those terms) they are actually randy buggers...

"But of course...you COULD experiment if you really wanted to know"

Well, that's certainly generous of you.

"*Shakes Yum*

Don't listen to it Yum. Taureans are utter slobs. They get chunky as they get older. Don't do it Yum! Don't do it!!"

Yeah, and with Scorpio being the sign of sex, they, our opposite, are probably the sign of not-sex.

Probably the sign of masturbation.

Yeah ALL the Taurus chicks I know eat like food is going out of existence...why? and Cancers do that too...

I eat because I have to..can't say I've ever enjoyed it..its just a task that one needs to do to stay upright..if it wasn't necessary I could probably invest that time in better things..

I envy anyone that can put on weight...I am curvyish..not size 0 but I have to force feed myself to actually put on weight...would help if I actually enjoyed food but I don't....on the odd occasion its alright..

Yeah I am size 8 as well...

LOL @ Dyr...yeah seriously dude, its high time I bought a new mattress..this one is giving me backache...I can safely say Leo and I had a good time in it..lol..

And your right, I wasn't romantically involved with that Virgo...I just hope to god they aren't all like that..cos if they are..then indeed..what a waste..

Yes please spare me her pain...I would hate my sex life plastered everywhere in intricate detail...in fact I would come at you with a blunt knife!..

I am glad you guys click...All I am saying and from what I hear...robotic loving is kinda eeeeeeeow...

As long as the man can mix and match well and with total surprise..its all good..

Satyrmind - 36

Anonymous or not Dyr..people still know you and know that your married to Debs....she's thinking waaaaaaaaay ahead of you..so I am with her on that one..wholeheartedly...So now can I have the new mattress at wholesale prices!!..coool...I have a King size bed all to myself...quite a chore turning over the mattress...(as one is meant to)

LOL @ deemi..yes darling..like alphabet soup....

::strokes hair::

"Satyrmind - 36"

Great, now what is that in men-speak? Skinny? Fat? Real fat?

Nah I think 36 is 8...it can't be 4..38 is 10...Hmm...bloody americans and their weird sizes!..I am an 8 but I want to be a extremely toned 10...thats what I am working towards..I like curves with attitude..

LOL..Yum its close to Petra...slightly more meat...

Satyrmind..wow thats quite slim...

Thanks guys.

Deemi: "Something like your butt saying, "Oi!" to your back? That kind of curve attitude?"

Yes something like that..cos butt is sooo toned and waist is so slender, the distance apart is the attitude..(that prolly made no sense..but i know what I am talking about)..like a sturdy strong figure you know...?

And yes I was stroking your hair.....it just looks so shiny...

Forget it then...go back to day dreaming

Gap is totally overrated bollox...actually I take some of those insults back...SOME stuff is alright in there..

"Yeah I am quite slim. But I want to be strong too. My upper body is kind of weak."

Yes, I can see where's that drive to be strong coming from. I've heard the hierarchy of most IT companies is determined by ring-battles.

Yeah as long as you work out and have a strong body its all good....I need to seriously get that car of mine sorted and get my ass to the gym asap!..Mr Aries is coming to town in like 2 months!...

LOL @ TB..hun, have you seen the way those girls in the Gucci shops throw daggers at you the minute you walk in? Gosh..its like fucking get over yourself love, you only work in a shop..hardly requires brain power...that usually does the trick and shuts them up....

Grrrrrrrr..but yeah love Gucci..lol..Alexander McQueen and oh..I love D&G...But I am not realy a label person..its nice to have one or two items but I refuse to throw away my money at that overpriced bollox..why line the pockets of the already wealthy...leave that to the chavs...who insist on wearing a big fat blue jumper with Armani plastered across it!...saddos...

That was a mean thing to say so i've hidden it..sometimes I just get carried away and don't think...

deo is a good name for a dad who is a leo also

LOL @ Dorpio...hahha...that sounds like someone doped to the eyeballs..hahhaha..

dyr, you're not a dirty old man. You are going to be a father soon. 🙂 That's a whole new type of respect.

LOL...Quality assurance...hahah...how ironic..

I love my shape...and size..

LOL..Never I guess...as long as there is outside interest....of course nowadays its much easier to be led astray..due to the internet..Everyone is literally a click away...beforehand, one had to actually go out..less chance of meeting someone you clicked with etc...

Its got alot to do with how you carry yourself.