Stihl46
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Why do scorpios keep coming back
Hell, this sounds a lot like where I am at with a Scorp love interest. I just don't know if she will be back this time. :/
I don't have the answer, I am still searching myself. All I can say is good luck. I know the feeling, and as far as I am concerned, no matter what, they are absolutely worth it. 😉 You won't find a more feminine woman than a true and honest scorp. Drives me nuts and I love it.
I don't have the answer, I am still searching myself. All I can say is good luck. I know the feeling, and as far as I am concerned, no matter what, they are absolutely worth it. 😉 You won't find a more feminine woman than a true and honest scorp. Drives me nuts and I love it.
Hello! As a Scorpio woman, I generally give two or three chances to the people I consider worth it. When I fight with a friend who I have shared stuff with or who has been a good and loyal friend to me, I usually forgive them when they apologize. Scorps tend to do that. If you hurt a scorp, especially a woman, and they forgive you, it's like a silent plea saying "What you did hurt me, please don't do it again". At least that's what I do. I give them another chance to see if they would really stop doing what hurt me. That's like a test to see if I am valued.
If your scorp friend keeps coming back, it means that she keeps giving you a chance. What you must remember about scorps is that we are very, very loyal friends. If you pass all our tests and are worthy of being our friend then we stand with you through thick and thin and don't give up on the friendship so easily. It's an emotional investment for us - there is too much riding on a true friendship to just give it up.
And the part about her admitting she is nervous around you? that's a big deal for a scorp. We're such freaks that when people start affecting our calm composure our mind goes "Woah! how did that happen??" and that alone is a big deal. If that were to happen to me, I would never ever tell the person who was making me nervous that they were in fact having that effect on me. So for her to tell you that certainly means she values you.
That being said, I don't know if she values you as more than a friend. Maybe you should look into her eyes sometime.. that'll hold the truth 😛
And sorry about the long message.. hope it helps 🙂
If your scorp friend keeps coming back, it means that she keeps giving you a chance. What you must remember about scorps is that we are very, very loyal friends. If you pass all our tests and are worthy of being our friend then we stand with you through thick and thin and don't give up on the friendship so easily. It's an emotional investment for us - there is too much riding on a true friendship to just give it up.
And the part about her admitting she is nervous around you? that's a big deal for a scorp. We're such freaks that when people start affecting our calm composure our mind goes "Woah! how did that happen??" and that alone is a big deal. If that were to happen to me, I would never ever tell the person who was making me nervous that they were in fact having that effect on me. So for her to tell you that certainly means she values you.
That being said, I don't know if she values you as more than a friend. Maybe you should look into her eyes sometime.. that'll hold the truth 😛
And sorry about the long message.. hope it helps 🙂
Hi I'm new to the forums I'm a Cancer man with Taurus moon I have a strange friendship with a Scorpio girl she has a virgo moon. We met over 2 years ago we got to know each other she wanted a relationship I wasn't ready she ended up dating a Gemini guy. Our friendship continued until I tried to end it last year I wanted to move on and try kick her out of my life. She ended up with hurt feelings and stung me she was mad I tried to end the friendship.
Its been the rollercoaster relationship with her I got to know her we've had times where she would want space but she keeps coming back. After she got revenge on me I thought she would be gone for good nope it wasn't a month after she was trying to get our friendship back. I let her work for it I was surprised she came crawling back to me. She tried stinging me again I guess she was having boyfriend troubles she ended up stinging herself.
She is submissive and timid around me she's even told me I make her nervous she does treat me differently than other guys she has no problems talking to them. Around me she starts acting shy and timid.
So why does a scorpio keep coming back? Her and I do have an emotional bond we share I can read her like a book. She can't control me like she does with others she controls her boyfriend thou she snaps her fingers she jumps. He doesn't have the courage to stand up to her he is so desperate for attention a typical Gemini he does everything she wants.
Should I just walk away from her or will that break her heart she's told me that I don't realize how much I effect people I know she means her. Do I think she is happy in her relationship with the Gemini guy? No. Currently she's being really friendly and nice to me again almost acting like she did when we first met.
Do I like her sure I do she will always be in my life I have an emotional connection with her I have never had with another woman. I'm I intimidated of her nope, after she tried stinging me again and she stung herself her submissive behavior around me increased.
What do you guys think?
Its been the rollercoaster relationship with her I got to know her we've had times where she would want space but she keeps coming back. After she got revenge on me I thought she would be gone for good nope it wasn't a month after she was trying to get our friendship back. I let her work for it I was surprised she came crawling back to me. She tried stinging me again I guess she was having boyfriend troubles she ended up stinging herself.
She is submissive and timid around me she's even told me I make her nervous she does treat me differently than other guys she has no problems talking to them. Around me she starts acting shy and timid.
So why does a scorpio keep coming back? Her and I do have an emotional bond we share I can read her like a book. She can't control me like she does with others she controls her boyfriend thou she snaps her fingers she jumps. He doesn't have the courage to stand up to her he is so desperate for attention a typical Gemini he does everything she wants.
Should I just walk away from her or will that break her heart she's told me that I don't realize how much I effect people I know she means her. Do I think she is happy in her relationship with the Gemini guy? No. Currently she's being really friendly and nice to me again almost acting like she did when we first met.
Do I like her sure I do she will always be in my life I have an emotional connection with her I have never had with another woman. I'm I intimidated of her nope, after she tried stinging me again and she stung herself her submissive behavior around me increased.
What do you guys think?
She loves you and cares about you. That's seems like the only reason why she keeps coming back. Most Scorps don't come back.
Tell her to drop that gem. I don't know why some Scorps end up in relationships with gems. They're cool, but.... No.
Do you love her? Why do you let her come back each time?
Do I love her? I care about her a lot I'm protective of her. I try to walk out of her life and she seems to reach out and pull me back. I tried the ignore her to see if she would go away that didn't work she was hurt and told me she was.
Funny she is back staring at me again with the dreamy look in her eyes and smiles. I have made some changes in my life I'am a little different now since her and I met 2 years ago. I was in a close friendship with an Aquarius girl I wasn't in a good emotional state when I met this scorpio girl.
I started to gain info about Scorpios so I could get to know her better. I made a lot of mistakes when we first met. Her and I connect on a deep emotional level I know what Skip to main contentSkip to footerBasic HTML version
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Funny she is back staring at me again with the dreamy look in her eyes and smiles. I have made some changes in my life I'am a little different now since her and I met 2 years ago. I was in a close friendship with an Aquarius girl I wasn't in a good emotional state when I met this scorpio girl.
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I'm not sure how my post got messed up I'm using my I phone grrr.
It's been an emotional ride with my scorpio friend I have read a lot of stories about other zodiac men having troubles with Scorpio women. I know her gemini boyfriend is having a hard time with her he has said it to me in an indirect way.
Her and I are emotionally close its always been that way since we met. Yes we have had our rough patches but I have read it is common for Cancer and Scorpios. I have seen her emotional side, her anger when she's lashed out at me I've seen her feel vulnerable around me. She has let me into her life she has a warm fragile heart under that tough exterior.
I made a lot of mistakes early in our friendship like prying into her personal life. I have read enough about Scorpios I don't repeat those mistakes.
She stung me the first time because of hurt feelings I realize that now she said to me you effect people. I realized how vindictive she can be. I think most guys would have dumped her after what she did to me. It did make our emotional bond a little tighter.
It wasn't a month after her revenge she was trying to get me back. It's been a long road to try rebuild our friendship. She tried stinging me again she was having problems with her boyfriend emotions got the best of her. She ended up stinging herself I laughed about that. She realized then she is powerless around me.
She is very much a control freak she loves control she doesn't do it with me thou. You can add manipulative to the list she's tried that on me as well. Funny she tries the passive aggressive tact she gets it right back. She rubs a lot of people the wrong way she does have a bit of an attitude. What I have read about Scorpio women she has those traits.
It is her submissiveness around me she is very timid. She is not timid around others only around me. I can look her in the eyes and she lets go of her scorpio power. She is happy around me I get her to giggle. I can tell by one look at her face if she is feeling ill or sad I will give her some comfort.
Do I think her Gemini boyfriend can give her the emotional connection she craves, I doubt it. He thinks humor can solve everything humor doesn't work for us water signs.
I have a bit of Taurus in my chart I'm not a overly emotional Cancer. I know I have Taurus in me from the traits I display.
I'm still learning about Scorpios I'm not scared of my scorpio friend she will always have a piece of my heart. She keeps comin
It's been an emotional ride with my scorpio friend I have read a lot of stories about other zodiac men having troubles with Scorpio women. I know her gemini boyfriend is having a hard time with her he has said it to me in an indirect way.
Her and I are emotionally close its always been that way since we met. Yes we have had our rough patches but I have read it is common for Cancer and Scorpios. I have seen her emotional side, her anger when she's lashed out at me I've seen her feel vulnerable around me. She has let me into her life she has a warm fragile heart under that tough exterior.
I made a lot of mistakes early in our friendship like prying into her personal life. I have read enough about Scorpios I don't repeat those mistakes.
She stung me the first time because of hurt feelings I realize that now she said to me you effect people. I realized how vindictive she can be. I think most guys would have dumped her after what she did to me. It did make our emotional bond a little tighter.
It wasn't a month after her revenge she was trying to get me back. It's been a long road to try rebuild our friendship. She tried stinging me again she was having problems with her boyfriend emotions got the best of her. She ended up stinging herself I laughed about that. She realized then she is powerless around me.
She is very much a control freak she loves control she doesn't do it with me thou. You can add manipulative to the list she's tried that on me as well. Funny she tries the passive aggressive tact she gets it right back. She rubs a lot of people the wrong way she does have a bit of an attitude. What I have read about Scorpio women she has those traits.
It is her submissiveness around me she is very timid. She is not timid around others only around me. I can look her in the eyes and she lets go of her scorpio power. She is happy around me I get her to giggle. I can tell by one look at her face if she is feeling ill or sad I will give her some comfort.
Do I think her Gemini boyfriend can give her the emotional connection she craves, I doubt it. He thinks humor can solve everything humor doesn't work for us water signs.
I have a bit of Taurus in my chart I'm not a overly emotional Cancer. I know I have Taurus in me from the traits I display.
I'm still learning about Scorpios I'm not scared of my scorpio friend she will always have a piece of my heart. She keeps comin
With the deep connection going on, why did you try to get her out of your life?
Phone cut off my post :o(
She keeps coming back to me no matter how angry she gets she comes back eventually. I have seen her get angry at others and she will never talk to them again. It only takes her to get mad once and she won't talk to the person again.
I do get the feeling she has feelings for me again the way she stares at me with the dreamy eyes and smiles. Around other guys she will laugh and talk to them around me she is quiet as a church mouse.
I read Scorpios never change their mind about a guy I really wonder how true that is.
She keeps coming back to me no matter how angry she gets she comes back eventually. I have seen her get angry at others and she will never talk to them again. It only takes her to get mad once and she won't talk to the person again.
I do get the feeling she has feelings for me again the way she stares at me with the dreamy eyes and smiles. Around other guys she will laugh and talk to them around me she is quiet as a church mouse.
I read Scorpios never change their mind about a guy I really wonder how true that is.
They may not change their mind... But they sure do pick up on people they can manipulate...
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Her boyfriend is a few bricks short of a load I've know the guy for a few years. I didn't want to get between them two. I realize it was a mistake trying to part ways with her. She didn't want me out of her life.
I get the feeling her boyfriend wants me to take her out of his life lol
Her boyfriend is a few bricks short of a load I've know the guy for a few years. I didn't want to get between them two. I realize it was a mistake trying to part ways with her. She didn't want me out of her life.
I get the feeling her boyfriend wants me to take her out of his life lol
She digs you because you challenge her. She may be trying to play that role of shy and timid til she gets you right where she wants you and under her control. You may bring that side out of her, and surely she genuinely likes you. I'm married to a Gemini. If a Gem falls in love with you He will jump for you, do what you want, give you the world, and tell the world about it. They are putty in your hand. They can become extremely possessive and suffucating though so be careful if that Gem gets attached to scorp because his twin will have no problem eliminating ANY obstacle in his way. Lol. No seriously.
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I'm using my phone to post as I'm at work. I do like her, she has lots of positives she's smart, attractive, she's fun to be around. I don't see many insecurities in her. Her boyfriend she uses him I'm not getting into the details. There is a lot more to the story I don't want to say it here. She has let it slip out she is getting tired of him.
TwirlingStrawberry my moon is Taurus, she stung me because I hurt her feelings.
phEnyxBull76 She tries to manipulate me but it doesn't work I give it right back to her. She manipulates her boyfriend I've seen her do it many times. She gets mad when her manipulation has no effect on me she gets in one of her moods.
SCORPIOGYRL She will never get me under her control I dangle the carrot in front of her just to let her have some taste of control on me then pull it away. I have to watch it I can hurt her feelings really easy she is so sensitive around me. She can't hide anything from me I've caught her lying to me. I know when she is hiding something when I look her in the eyes and she pulls away her eye contact. I can look at her and I will ask her if she is okay. There are times I will rub my hand on her back she knows I care. When she talks to me the tone of her voice changes it gets softer she acts differently around me than everybody else. Will I ever be putty in her hands I doubt that I won't put up with that.
I'm using my phone to post as I'm at work. I do like her, she has lots of positives she's smart, attractive, she's fun to be around. I don't see many insecurities in her. Her boyfriend she uses him I'm not getting into the details. There is a lot more to the story I don't want to say it here. She has let it slip out she is getting tired of him.
TwirlingStrawberry my moon is Taurus, she stung me because I hurt her feelings.
phEnyxBull76 She tries to manipulate me but it doesn't work I give it right back to her. She manipulates her boyfriend I've seen her do it many times. She gets mad when her manipulation has no effect on me she gets in one of her moods.
SCORPIOGYRL She will never get me under her control I dangle the carrot in front of her just to let her have some taste of control on me then pull it away. I have to watch it I can hurt her feelings really easy she is so sensitive around me. She can't hide anything from me I've caught her lying to me. I know when she is hiding something when I look her in the eyes and she pulls away her eye contact. I can look at her and I will ask her if she is okay. There are times I will rub my hand on her back she knows I care. When she talks to me the tone of her voice changes it gets softer she acts differently around me than everybody else. Will I ever be putty in her hands I doubt that I won't put up with that.
Wow. She really likes you, adores you.
The fact that you have moon in Taurus adds an intensity and an understanding of each other.
I once met a cancer with moon in taurus and I got him so well, I remember when I first met him it was like INSTANT. Boom, we connected, and from then we were good friends for two years. I'm pretty sure he had a crush on me but I was too immature at the time to pick up on it, lol...`
She acts shy around you? That could mean a few things. She wants you to step up and take advantage of that shyness, she wants you to talk to her more. Or, it could mean that she feels insecure around you because she worries about what you think of her. It could also be a sign that she is hiding a part of herself from you that she doesn't want you to know about.
Try to maintain the friendship, take it slow... don't jump into anything or assumptions too fast.
The fact that you have moon in Taurus adds an intensity and an understanding of each other.
I once met a cancer with moon in taurus and I got him so well, I remember when I first met him it was like INSTANT. Boom, we connected, and from then we were good friends for two years. I'm pretty sure he had a crush on me but I was too immature at the time to pick up on it, lol...`
She acts shy around you? That could mean a few things. She wants you to step up and take advantage of that shyness, she wants you to talk to her more. Or, it could mean that she feels insecure around you because she worries about what you think of her. It could also be a sign that she is hiding a part of herself from you that she doesn't want you to know about.
Try to maintain the friendship, take it slow... don't jump into anything or assumptions too fast.
I don't come back around a guy unless I really, really adore him... just FYI...
I'am letting her make the moves she is the one that's started to be friendly again she knows where to find me. The way she is acting around me now is almost like when we first met. She can come back to me on her own terms.
I'm a Cancer man I'm very observant I have watched her relationship with her Gemini man do I think it is a health relationship,nope, I'm I going to discuss what I have observed no I'm not.
There is always a reason to why Scorpios do things she had a goal in mind dating this Gemini guy those goals didn't pan out as planned. Does she use her boyfriend,yes, she's even admitted it to me she does. Do Scorpios have a tendency to use people you bet they do I have seen her try to use people for her advantage I noticed that right away. Scorpios do have ulterior motives.
She can't get away with much around me I notice things that she does that she thinks that nobody notices trust me I've said things to her and she's a little shocked I noticed what she is doing. She is well aware she can't hide anything from me I will find out. Never doubt a Scorpio woman they are very smart you don't know what goes on in her head unless you are close to one like I'm. She's angry with a guy I know, I know she's plotting revenge on this guy I've casually said to her your plotting revenge aren't you. She holds grudges it doesn't take much for her to hold a grudge or get a hate on for somebody.
I'm a Cancer man I'm very observant I have watched her relationship with her Gemini man do I think it is a health relationship,nope, I'm I going to discuss what I have observed no I'm not.
There is always a reason to why Scorpios do things she had a goal in mind dating this Gemini guy those goals didn't pan out as planned. Does she use her boyfriend,yes, she's even admitted it to me she does. Do Scorpios have a tendency to use people you bet they do I have seen her try to use people for her advantage I noticed that right away. Scorpios do have ulterior motives.
She can't get away with much around me I notice things that she does that she thinks that nobody notices trust me I've said things to her and she's a little shocked I noticed what she is doing. She is well aware she can't hide anything from me I will find out. Never doubt a Scorpio woman they are very smart you don't know what goes on in her head unless you are close to one like I'm. She's angry with a guy I know, I know she's plotting revenge on this guy I've casually said to her your plotting revenge aren't you. She holds grudges it doesn't take much for her to hold a grudge or get a hate on for somebody.
I have read a lot of stories about guys having troubles with a Scorpio girl I can see it happening if you are not aware of her. It is hard to describe all I can say is don't mess with a Scorpio unless you know what you are doing. You start messing with their feelings you will pay for it, start prodding into their personal life that is a death wish.
After my first sting from her I learned okay I have to pay attention to you a little more I observed her. I let my guard down with her I usually don't do that with people I observe people before I get to know them. Most guys would have walked away after what my Scorpio friend did to me I give people second chances I knew it was my fault. She has learned never mess with a Cancer I pinch back I can get mean and nasty she seen that when I got some emotional jabs at her. I won't ever hurt her I'm a bit over protective of her she gets mad at me she says I'm a big girl I can handle it. I have saved her from getting herself into trouble I seen what she was doing pulled her back. I think before I act she doesn't do that she puts her foot in her mouth.
When I first met her she was testing me it was non stop I started to search the net about Scorpios testing. She was a total emotional wreck when we first met she had a bad break up she stopped eating because of stress. She would hide the fact she was in emotional pain from anybody else around me she didn't hide that pain. I seen how Scorpios are when a relationship goes bad.
The Scorpio "Mask" came off early in the friendship she let me see the real her right away she never wears the mask when I'm around when other people are around the mask is on. There is the side everybody else sees and the side I see.
She has become shy around me again she's being timid she giggles when I say something funny, she is back staring and smiling at me. She was never as submissive as she is with me now her submissive behavior surprises nobody else will see that side of her. Not sure why she would say I make her nervous we've known each other long enough why is she nervous around me?
After my first sting from her I learned okay I have to pay attention to you a little more I observed her. I let my guard down with her I usually don't do that with people I observe people before I get to know them. Most guys would have walked away after what my Scorpio friend did to me I give people second chances I knew it was my fault. She has learned never mess with a Cancer I pinch back I can get mean and nasty she seen that when I got some emotional jabs at her. I won't ever hurt her I'm a bit over protective of her she gets mad at me she says I'm a big girl I can handle it. I have saved her from getting herself into trouble I seen what she was doing pulled her back. I think before I act she doesn't do that she puts her foot in her mouth.
When I first met her she was testing me it was non stop I started to search the net about Scorpios testing. She was a total emotional wreck when we first met she had a bad break up she stopped eating because of stress. She would hide the fact she was in emotional pain from anybody else around me she didn't hide that pain. I seen how Scorpios are when a relationship goes bad.
The Scorpio "Mask" came off early in the friendship she let me see the real her right away she never wears the mask when I'm around when other people are around the mask is on. There is the side everybody else sees and the side I see.
She has become shy around me again she's being timid she giggles when I say something funny, she is back staring and smiling at me. She was never as submissive as she is with me now her submissive behavior surprises nobody else will see that side of her. Not sure why she would say I make her nervous we've known each other long enough why is she nervous around me?
Hello! As a Scorpio woman, I generally give two or three chances to the people I consider worth it. When I fight with a friend who I have shared stuff with or who has been a good and loyal friend to me, I usually forgive them when they apologize. Scorps tend to do that. If you hurt a scorp, especially a woman, and they forgive you, it's like a silent plea saying "What you did hurt me, please don't do it again". At least that's what I do. I give them another chance to see if they would really stop doing what hurt me. That's like a test to see if I am valued.
If your scorp friend keeps coming back, it means that she keeps giving you a chance. What you must remember about scorps is that we are very, very loyal friends. If you pass all our tests and are worthy of being our friend then we stand with you through thick and thin and don't give up on the friendship so easily. It's an emotional investment for us - there is too much riding on a true friendship to just give it up.
And the part about her admitting she is nervous around you? that's a big deal for a scorp. We're such freaks that when people start affecting our calm composure our mind goes "Woah! how did that happen??" and that alone is a big deal. If that were to happen to me, I would never ever tell the person who was making me nervous that they were in fact having that effect on me. So for her to tell you that certainly means she values you.
That being said, I don't know if she values you as more than a friend. Maybe you should look into her eyes sometime.. that'll hold the truth
And sorry about the long message.. hope it helps
If your scorp friend keeps coming back, it means that she keeps giving you a chance. What you must remember about scorps is that we are very, very loyal friends. If you pass all our tests and are worthy of being our friend then we stand with you through thick and thin and don't give up on the friendship so easily. It's an emotional investment for us - there is too much riding on a true friendship to just give it up.
And the part about her admitting she is nervous around you? that's a big deal for a scorp. We're such freaks that when people start affecting our calm composure our mind goes "Woah! how did that happen??" and that alone is a big deal. If that were to happen to me, I would never ever tell the person who was making me nervous that they were in fact having that effect on me. So for her to tell you that certainly means she values you.
That being said, I don't know if she values you as more than a friend. Maybe you should look into her eyes sometime.. that'll hold the truth
And sorry about the long message.. hope it helps
I do look her in the eyes somedays she will look down at the ground and be submissive. Then there are days she will give me a big toothy smile. I can get my face close enough to kiss her.
When we are alone she will get close to me not sure what scorpio women and personal space.
Do scorpio women get jealous if a guy talks to other women in front of them? I get the how dare you look from her I can see she is jealous. I try not to do it the last time she was staring at me from a distance while I was talking to another woman. Boy did I get the glare from my scorpio friend. I have women approach me all the time my female friends have told me I'm a very attractive guy.
When we are alone she will get close to me not sure what scorpio women and personal space.
Do scorpio women get jealous if a guy talks to other women in front of them? I get the how dare you look from her I can see she is jealous. I try not to do it the last time she was staring at me from a distance while I was talking to another woman. Boy did I get the glare from my scorpio friend. I have women approach me all the time my female friends have told me I'm a very attractive guy.
I try not spark her jealously I know she has messed with my personal life I mention I was talking to this other girl this other girl started acting strange around me coincidence? not sure. I learned not to even talk about women in front of her.
I'm aware I can make her feel insecure she's doubted herself many times I've looked her in the eyes and reassured her. I treat her like a princess I've stood up for her I watch out for her and I have protected her at times she knows I care.
This Gemini guy she is seeing is insecure my female friends know this guy they have told me what he is like. He is a typical Gemini man he thinks he is a ladies man but in fact he is not I've watched him get rejected time after time. My aquarius friend said he used to try flirt with her all the time she finally told him to screw off.
He tries to the use the fact he has money to try attract women the first week into him dating my scorpio friend he paid for her half of an all expenses paid trip 400 dollars. He keeps spending money on her I figure in the 1.5 years of them being together he has spent 8 grand or more on her. I watch him spending money on her he is so desperate for attention he is using money to buy her love. She's even told me that she likes spending his money. She is not a gold digger she isn't one with me, with her boyfriend he keeps opening his wallet to her. She is well aware of her finances she knows how much she spends right down to the penny she has spread sheets of her expenses.
This Gemini guy he craves attention I've seen him pout when he doesn't get attention he really hates it when I steal the attention of women away from him. He tries to be all charming around the women and they want nothing to do with him. He's tried chatting up girls that walk always from him he is still talking.
I can see through him he is fake he puts on this act to cover up the fact he is grossly insecure. He never stops talking he has diarrhea of the mouth he's always got to be the center of attention so he speaks loudly or tries to make something to draw attention to himself in the end he gets ignored.
I really don't know who is playing who in this Scorpio/Gemini relationship I know my Scorpio friend is very manipulative. She knows he is insecure she even said it to me that he is insecure. She had a goal when she started dating him it didn't pan out but she still used him she made money off his back he gave her a place to stay while she worked at job to further h
I'm aware I can make her feel insecure she's doubted herself many times I've looked her in the eyes and reassured her. I treat her like a princess I've stood up for her I watch out for her and I have protected her at times she knows I care.
This Gemini guy she is seeing is insecure my female friends know this guy they have told me what he is like. He is a typical Gemini man he thinks he is a ladies man but in fact he is not I've watched him get rejected time after time. My aquarius friend said he used to try flirt with her all the time she finally told him to screw off.
He tries to the use the fact he has money to try attract women the first week into him dating my scorpio friend he paid for her half of an all expenses paid trip 400 dollars. He keeps spending money on her I figure in the 1.5 years of them being together he has spent 8 grand or more on her. I watch him spending money on her he is so desperate for attention he is using money to buy her love. She's even told me that she likes spending his money. She is not a gold digger she isn't one with me, with her boyfriend he keeps opening his wallet to her. She is well aware of her finances she knows how much she spends right down to the penny she has spread sheets of her expenses.
This Gemini guy he craves attention I've seen him pout when he doesn't get attention he really hates it when I steal the attention of women away from him. He tries to be all charming around the women and they want nothing to do with him. He's tried chatting up girls that walk always from him he is still talking.
I can see through him he is fake he puts on this act to cover up the fact he is grossly insecure. He never stops talking he has diarrhea of the mouth he's always got to be the center of attention so he speaks loudly or tries to make something to draw attention to himself in the end he gets ignored.
I really don't know who is playing who in this Scorpio/Gemini relationship I know my Scorpio friend is very manipulative. She knows he is insecure she even said it to me that he is insecure. She had a goal when she started dating him it didn't pan out but she still used him she made money off his back he gave her a place to stay while she worked at job to further h
her career she is using him I know she is, she claims to love him I call BS on that. If she really loved this guy she wouldn't be trying to hard to win my friendship back. She won't let me walk out of her life.
I'm protective of her I have told her boyfriend if he hurts her he better watch out he will be lights out. He is scared of me he knows he would be out cold if I got a hold of him nobody messes with me.
Do I think she is getting the emotional connection from him? I seriously doubt it he wants attention all the time he seems really shallow. The way he acts around other women putting on this act he is a ladies man a real charmer. As I said I can see right through him he is fake.
All I know is I'm trying to rebuild my relationship with her I knew I screwed up I messed things up I do want her back in my life. I have never had such a connection with a woman ever we do get each other. Almost from day one when we first met there was this strange connection, after I observed her for awhile the connection started to get stronger.
I have since corrected the mistakes I was making I have realized she is far more sensitive than I realized I'm sensitive too but she is much more so that I'm. Still learning about Scorpios I don't think I will ever stop learning about them.
I'm protective of her I have told her boyfriend if he hurts her he better watch out he will be lights out. He is scared of me he knows he would be out cold if I got a hold of him nobody messes with me.
Do I think she is getting the emotional connection from him? I seriously doubt it he wants attention all the time he seems really shallow. The way he acts around other women putting on this act he is a ladies man a real charmer. As I said I can see right through him he is fake.
All I know is I'm trying to rebuild my relationship with her I knew I screwed up I messed things up I do want her back in my life. I have never had such a connection with a woman ever we do get each other. Almost from day one when we first met there was this strange connection, after I observed her for awhile the connection started to get stronger.
I have since corrected the mistakes I was making I have realized she is far more sensitive than I realized I'm sensitive too but she is much more so that I'm. Still learning about Scorpios I don't think I will ever stop learning about them.
This is not a Scorpio thing, it's a human thing.
When people have unresolved feelings for someone they go back to try to resolve them by reconnecting or finding that one thing that sets them free.
You two have not done this.
True feelings are not being revealed, games are being played, so nothing gets resolved.
When people have unresolved feelings for someone they go back to try to resolve them by reconnecting or finding that one thing that sets them free.
You two have not done this.
True feelings are not being revealed, games are being played, so nothing gets resolved.
Yes I like her more than a friend I have never had a connection with a woman like I have with my Scorpio friend.
Yes she is worth it to keep her in my life she makes me laugh.
I tried booting her out of my life that didn't work its not my imagination of her trying to get me back. She wanted a full explanation why I wanted her out of my life that's when she got mad and took revenge on me. It wasn't 3-4 weeks after she got mad she started to try get my friendship back ever since then she's been working hard to get me back. She has a boyfriend so why is she trying so hard to have me back in her life.
Her and I are co-workers but we don't work together full time we are on different shifts. She had the chance to take another position in the company it was more money and she could live with her boyfriend so she took it. She was making good money it was 1000 dollars more per month than she was currently making she liked the money she only stuck it out for 3 months. I think she realized she couldn't live with her boyfriend I could tell she was stressed when I talked to her. The extra money she was making per month wasn't enough to make her want to live with her boyfriend. She even said she was getting paid to live with her boyfriend. She still rented a house in the same area I live in so she moved back she works with me again. She wants to buy her own house her boyfriend lives 100km (62 miles) away.
She isn't being nice to me just because we work together I try ignoring her at work every time she would try get my attention. When we are in the same room together she's playing with her hair or shes fidgeting or stroking a pencil around her mouth. Then there are times she will stand close to me and we have quiet time together. When I do ignore her she will do things to get my attention like correcting my mistakes on paper work or other little things she knows that annoys me. She doesn't do it with the other staff members. In meetings she will eat food off my plate she started that early in our friendship. She's left me a note it only happened once but she signed her name then XO at the end that took me by surprise. She gets in one of her moods and she tries to ignore me but it doesn't last long I laugh when she gets in one of those moods where she pretends not to look at me she starts pouting I eventually get her to smile at me and she giggles.
Yes she is worth it to keep her in my life she makes me laugh.
I tried booting her out of my life that didn't work its not my imagination of her trying to get me back. She wanted a full explanation why I wanted her out of my life that's when she got mad and took revenge on me. It wasn't 3-4 weeks after she got mad she started to try get my friendship back ever since then she's been working hard to get me back. She has a boyfriend so why is she trying so hard to have me back in her life.
Her and I are co-workers but we don't work together full time we are on different shifts. She had the chance to take another position in the company it was more money and she could live with her boyfriend so she took it. She was making good money it was 1000 dollars more per month than she was currently making she liked the money she only stuck it out for 3 months. I think she realized she couldn't live with her boyfriend I could tell she was stressed when I talked to her. The extra money she was making per month wasn't enough to make her want to live with her boyfriend. She even said she was getting paid to live with her boyfriend. She still rented a house in the same area I live in so she moved back she works with me again. She wants to buy her own house her boyfriend lives 100km (62 miles) away.
She isn't being nice to me just because we work together I try ignoring her at work every time she would try get my attention. When we are in the same room together she's playing with her hair or shes fidgeting or stroking a pencil around her mouth. Then there are times she will stand close to me and we have quiet time together. When I do ignore her she will do things to get my attention like correcting my mistakes on paper work or other little things she knows that annoys me. She doesn't do it with the other staff members. In meetings she will eat food off my plate she started that early in our friendship. She's left me a note it only happened once but she signed her name then XO at the end that took me by surprise. She gets in one of her moods and she tries to ignore me but it doesn't last long I laugh when she gets in one of those moods where she pretends not to look at me she starts pouting I eventually get her to smile at me and she giggles.
Hmmm...wow. Vulnerability. You should drop your mask if only with her.....
I wanted to just lace into you while reading this post, considering the other one, but kicking someone when they are down and hurting and struggling. NO. All that projecting does you more harm than good and if you think that everyone else is transparent. Take a look at yourself, stop talking crap and do what you most fear.
...from one light weight to another.
I wanted to just lace into you while reading this post, considering the other one, but kicking someone when they are down and hurting and struggling. NO. All that projecting does you more harm than good and if you think that everyone else is transparent. Take a look at yourself, stop talking crap and do what you most fear.
...from one light weight to another.
Posted by Infinite8Posted by LunarMaiden
This is not a Scorpio thing, it's a human thing.
When people have unresolved feelings for someone they go back to try to resolve them by reconnecting or finding that one thing that sets them free.
You two have not done this.
True feelings are not being revealed, games are being played, so nothing gets resolved.
+1000000
Stihl46 - Another yes or no:
Will you be bold enough to cut the BULL on both ends and just act on the ROOT of the issue?
You both feel the same way. Both scared to come out and say it. You already revealed it is WORTH IT to have her in your life and already admitted you are attracted to her as MORE THAN friends. You want her as a girlfriend. You see the connection and you want it. Your gut instinct tells you she wants it too.
So, its up to you to BOLDLY cut the bull and tell her straight: You want her, and you want her to cut the bull and admit she wants you too. Let nature take its course after that.
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I'm going to leave her be for now I tried pushing to further the relationship it made her too nervous she is scared of me she's had a rough past I'm not going to get into it.
I march to the beat of my own drum if she wants to join me she can I need to keep moving forward with my life.
Posted by LevitatingPosted by Stihl46
So why does a scorpio keep coming back?
Because. That is, in my experience, the truest, most accurate answer: because. Until they decide not to, then you won't see them for dust. Actually, you won't even see dust because they'll just POOF! disappear. But you will never know; they'll decide, in their own good time.
Sometimes that's a good thing (they way they keep coming back) and sometimes, sometimes it just is *not*
Depends. Either way, I wish you well.click to expand
I don't think this one plans on disappearing not the way she talks.
so did everything get sorted out?
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