jools4me
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Will a Scorpio male fight his feelings ?
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Yes your right about not being able to sleep with him and stay friends. I told him this last time I spoke to him. I said I thought I could do it but turns out I can't so could we just be friends (without benefits lol)
I think I will just not contact him now and see what happens. Its so annoying as any other guy I have liked in the past I've never had that connection like I have to him. The first time I met him I couldn't even look him in the eye and had butterflies the entire night ! Thats why I'm having a hard time forgetting about him as I have never had this feeling with anyone else.
Yes your right about not being able to sleep with him and stay friends. I told him this last time I spoke to him. I said I thought I could do it but turns out I can't so could we just be friends (without benefits lol)
I think I will just not contact him now and see what happens. Its so annoying as any other guy I have liked in the past I've never had that connection like I have to him. The first time I met him I couldn't even look him in the eye and had butterflies the entire night ! Thats why I'm having a hard time forgetting about him as I have never had this feeling with anyone else.
Posted by xxnightbynight
i know the feeling...
just let it be. (there will be an answer, let it be) - The Beatles! great song 😉
HEY!!!
Posted by xxnightbynight
You're a woman. It's impossible to sleep with a man you have feelings for, and JUST stay friends... impossible. IM.POSS.I.BLE.
Excuse me, something fell off the back of your rig.
Ummmm....... Why is it "'IMPOSSIBLE' for a woman to sleep with a man she has feelings for"—?
Yes they do fight their feelings and pretend they don't exist because acknowledging intense feelings is the first step towards love and emotional surrender which makes them feel vulnerable to pain of detachment and hence he would probably pretend to only acknowledge the physical aspects of the relationship and say there isn't more quite blatantly.If he is caring and there is an emotional connect then i suggest you stick around ans see how it goes.If more brews, you will have sweet and strong coffee🙂.If not, you still have a good friend.So win win situation for you.Relax and enjoy spending time with him(minus the sex) without thinking too much about what is in store ahead.Good luck🙂.
An evolved Scoprio doesn't fight his feelings. Our feelings are too Powerful to fight. But, we do and can do a good job of hiding them from our surface and from others if we feel those people will use them against us or those people do not deserve to see those feelings!
Posted by jools4me
There is this Scorpio guy I am interested in we have slept together twice and we have a connection for sure. I am in a really, really complicated relationship with someone else. We have split up but my ex won't accept it so for any new guy
...... we met six months ago and have been in constant contact since then.
It sounds to me as if you started the affair with the Scorpio while still with your ex ...
Two things .... first, the Scorpio probably liked you when you weren't available, and now that you are, you are just fuckable now due to being single means you might want more. Second, if you cheated to be with him, then he now knows you are capable of cheating on him.
Either way, if he considers you only good for being fuckable, then why does this thread even exist?
You don't have any pride?
Posted by P-AngelPosted by jools4me
There is this Scorpio guy I am interested in we have slept together twice and we have a connection for sure. I am in a really, really complicated relationship with someone else. We have split up but my ex won't accept it so for any new guy
...... we met six months ago and have been in constant contact since then.
It sounds to me as if you started the affair with the Scorpio while still with your ex ...
Two things .... first, the Scorpio probably liked you when you weren't available, and now that you are, you are just fuckable now due to being single means you might want more. Second, if you cheated to be with him, then he now knows you are capable of cheating on him.
Either way, if he considers you only good for being fuckable, then why does this thread even exist?
You don't have any pride?click to expand
I got the same impression.
You screw around with one, while, yet, with another, you're apt to do it, again.
Easy Come, Easy Go.
Posted by jools4me
There is this Scorpio guy I am interested in we have slept together twice and we have a connection for sure.
Posted by jools4me
The scorpio guy says he just wants sex but...
Posted by jools4me
I told him I want more than casual sex but he didn't so we agreed to just be friends.click to expand
When someone tells/shows you who they are, believe them. Although I can not speak for a Scorpio male, I will say as a Scorp we don't plaster our feelings on a billboard, but we don't hide them either. The "connection" you felt may have been great sex compatibility, great conversation, he can talk to you and you "get" him, you peak his curiosity...who knows. Whatever it is, none of these are necessarily enough to want/desire pursue a relationship. If this is what you wanted why didn't you communicate this BEFORE sleeping with him? Or was the sex that wonderful that now you want more? Both rhetorical questions. You can't go into a relationship (sexual or otherwise) with no expectations then suddenly have expectations.
You've voiced your wants, so did he. You need to respect his choice as he is respecting yours, which it sounds like he is doing by suggesting that you "just be friends". Don't let outside chatter confuse you, unless you don't in fact respect his choice. May not be what you want to hear....
Posted by QUlETstorm
Of course you will have that intense magnetic feeling between the two of you. You're sleeping together.
I should have just +1 this^^^^
Posted by jools4me
I am in a really, really complicated relationship with someone else.
Until that other relationship is DONE FOR SURE ... Scorpio will protect himself.
The way he looks at it is: "If she can't end the other one, I should not invest because I may lose her ... and she's a bit of a pushover who may lead us to a bad situation with other things in life ( salesmen may talk her into buying expensive useless things etc etc )
Posted by jools4me
I really do feel like there is more to it than that...
Its like there is a magnetic connection between us.
I'm cancer
... Since you're a cancer, you're probably right about your feelings expressed above!
Posted by jools4me
If he is fighting his feelings what am I supposed to do ? Just leave him and let him come to me when he's ready ?
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1 END the relationship with the other FIRST ( not making it a conditional of you and Scorpio ) or he'll see threat.
2 Tell him how YOU feel about HIM. ( Not how you think HE feels about YOU, or he'll run )
Tell him your heartfelt feelings for HIM. ( That is, "you go first" expressing your heart. )
3 Tell him that you could see you two together long term because ... ( enter nice things about him )
Ask him if he thinks he could ever love you.
If he says "no" ... IF you love or are infatuated with "him" ... tell him so, from the heart.
And tell him how disappointed you are about that ... but that you'll try to get over it
FOR THE SAKE OF THE BEST SEX YOU'VE EVER HAD.
( It's a done-deal ... as long as you please him sexually and give him time alone ... he can't resist all that. )
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FEELINGS?: What's that? A new fragrance by Calvin Klein?
I'd be embarrassed to wear it or let anyone know I used it ... so I'd probably hide the bottle.
Scorpio male does not want anything serious with you. Concentrate on getting rid of the Ex and getting your new life started. You might find in a few months that you don't really want him.
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The scorpio guy says he just wants sex but I really do feel like there is more to it than that, we met six months ago and have been in constant contact since then. Its like there is a magnetic connection between us. I'm cancer and ive never met anyone like him before. I told him I want more than casual sex but he didn't so we agreed to just be friends. If this was any other guy I would just knock it on the head and move on but I can't help feel there is more to it.
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I guess what I'm struggling with is am I just ignoring the obvious that he does just want sex or is he hiding his feelings and I should give it a bit more time ?
If he is fighting his feelings what am I supposed to do ? Just leave him and let him come to me when he's ready ?