To pay the pieper or not?

Hello all, I hope you have all had a lovely christmas 🙂

Now let's begin 😄

My family has really upset me. This time beyond reasoning.
They basically disowned me and told me they wanted nothing to do with me. All of this over christmas.
I'm fumming and wanting to lash out. I know I can hurt every single one of them very quickly and I know it would sting them more than they have stung me.

However my very cautios and resonable and very Virgo like boyfriend has told me to not react asnd to ignore them and have nothing else to do with them.

What do you all think?

What did YOU do?

I haven't done anything.... yet.

To be disowned? What did u do?

To be disowned? What did u do?

The worst that I did was tell them I wasn't going to spending christmas with someone who tried destroying not only me but my relationship and my boyfriends career. Even if that ment not spending christmas with them and playing happy families.

Posted by scoripoblood93
Hello all, I hope you have all had a lovely christmas 🙂

Now let's begin 😄

My family has really upset me. This time beyond reasoning.
They basically disowned me and told me they wanted nothing to do with me. All of this over christmas.

I'm fumming and wanting to lash out....

What do you all think?

Posted by scoripoblood93
The worst that I did was tell them I wasn't going to spending christmas with someone who tried destroying not only me but my relationship and my boyfriends career. Even if that ment not spending christmas with them and playing happy families.

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Soo

You basically said 'If ______ is going to be there,

then I'm not coming.' ... ?

But instead of barring ______ from attending, they just

told you to suit yourself... and you feel that was wrong.

Is that right?

Or did they give you an ultimatum right back?

Interesting that your virgo supports you giving your family the finger. Id drop him real fast.

They told me she was going to be there and they wanted me there. I said no because they know my history with her and know that it would cause problems. So rather than uninvite her they told me to come or they wanted nothing else to do with me.

I wouldnt allow your issues with one person 1. Keep you away from your blood 2. Keep you away from your presents. How could you let said person run your life and dictate where you go.

think for yourself.

Posted by scoripoblood93
The worst that I did was tell them I wasn't going to spending christmas with someone who tried destroying not only me but my relationship and my boyfriends career. Even if that ment not spending christmas with them and playing happy families.

Is no one else bothered that she 'tried destroying you?'

😕

Is it your sister?

Do you two have a history of cataclysmic fights?

What are we missing here?

still think your parents should have your back..

if your momma aint ride or die for you than she does not deserve the title mother..

She's my neice's mother (( not that my neice is under her care anymore)) and we always end up fighting around eachother after she accused me of taking drugs.

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Posted by scoripoblood93
She's my neice's mother (( not that my neice is under her care anymore)) and we always end up fighting around eachother after she accused me of taking drugs.

Uhm..

Let's recap shall we?

One, you choose to abandon your family for a "boyfriend"

two, You are taking to heart the OPINION of an individual with NO ethos to steam your engine.

three, you said you could hurt them if you wanted.... Have you always enjoyed being sadistic? Did you kill animals when you were young... sounds to me like you did. Whatever, you need to know YOU ARE SENSITIVE AND TAKING IT TOO PERSONALLY. DO YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE? HOW WELL DO YOU KNOW YOURSELF?

Ask yourself those questions. And p.s. I don't give a shit what you say back to me. I'm the internet so sting on scorpion - you are young and will realize you only sting yourself with this mentality.

Wtf?

Posted by scoripoblood93
The worst that I did was tell them I wasn't going to spending christmas with someone who tried destroying not only me but my relationship and my boyfriends career. Even if that ment not spending christmas with them and playing happy families.

Posted by scoripoblood93 ...after she accused me of taking drugs.

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Uhm...

You don't let people treat your kid like that--

even if it's your other kid.

Well... maybe you would.

Posted by tiziani

Posted by DMV
I wouldnt allow your issues with one person 1. Keep you away from your blood 2. Keep you away from your presents. How could you let said person run your life and dictate where you go.

think for yourself.

You said your values were spouse over family?

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I dont get what youre trying to insinuate. Please elaborate.

Correct.

God
Spouse
Family

these fools aint even married Tiz.

Posted by scoripoblood93
She's my neice's mother (( not that my neice is under her care anymore)) and we always end up fighting around eachother after she accused me of taking drugs.

That would make the neice's mother YOUR SISTER..(nice derail there)

So you think your family should choose between the two of you? That's real mature..
Maybe when you grow up, you'll understand how adults look at the whole picture.

Posted by scoripoblood93

Now let's begin 😄

My family has really upset me. This time beyond reasoning.
They basically disowned me and told me they wanted nothing to do with me.

Posted by scoripoblood93

They told me she was going to be there and they wanted me there. I said no because they know my history with her and know that it would cause problems. So rather than uninvite her they told me to come or they wanted nothing else to do with me.

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Looks like you are trying to throw us off to side with you as some here fell for it and have.

One thing...unless you pay the mortgage and bills on the home who invited you and your sister, who the hell are you to tell them WHO they can or cannot invite? Like I said...GROW UP...