Would I be wrong?

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So I have been posting on for some time about Sagg #1 and more recently about Sagg#2, while me and Sagg#1 hadn't seen each other in like 2 1/2 months and we finally seen each other last night, and all those feelings came back. I should have thought about this whole thing a little more before I just jump into something and didn't think. I think that Sagg #2 wants to have a relationship but at the same time Sagg #1 we have been having a relationship that's off and on but my heart is really with him. I don't want to tell Sagg #1 about the Sagg #2 situation because I know it will be a big problem and he probably will never speak to me again? Would I be wrong if I take that route and Sagg #2 I think he is cool but I don't want to take it any further and it's still early so hopefully it won't be hard to let him know that. I also posted this on the sagg board to get their point of view.
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Well its time for a new experience. Time to give your mind a mental exercise, and your body a pleasure ride.
You see if you was dating a fish you wouldnt make these topics cause you would automatically be in perfect harmony.
Now sing along you should be familiar with this
"Put the code in the gate
Pull up to the driveway
Cause she like the way I touch her
Listenin to usher
I got a confession
kno we bout to sin but your body is a blessing
FATHER FORGIVE ME!!!!"
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Think about it from the sags perspective. How would you like it if you weren't the only women in his life? Idk your entire situation, but as a sag, if a scorpio did that to me where I found out or suspected (and believe me we sags are keen, we will sense something is fishy) I would be so hurt and probably end the relationship saying "it was nice being with you, but if I can't be the only person in your life obviously you don't value me enough. Please don't take advantage of our trusting/caring nature. We get a lot of bad rap because people say we get with a lot of people, but when we're willing to get in a relationship with you you better bet we're going to be loyal and let people know we're with you.

And I don't know your whole situation. I just know it would really hurt me and you should really consider both sags feelings before you jump into things.
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Im surprised you are attracted to saggs to be honest. and of course they are easy to get along with due to their laid back carefree nature. While its easy to carry a conversation with them I honestly do not trust them, there nature is way to carefree meaning "IE that generally they keep their own best interest at heart first and then someone else" and often they can be extremely devious a manipulative, and damn are they good at it.

I always feel on guard around one cause you never can tell what their true intentions are, they can act like they nicest people in the world while stabbing a knife in you back don't be fooled by shallow surfaces. You being a scorp and all I'm surprised you can see through it.

(my sources: My grandmother is married to one and one of my friends has a good friend that is one) My friends, friend, even admitted he liked to mind fuck with people as opposed to verbally confronting people about his problems.

Heres an example: me and my friend went to la to go to a huge rave and we stayed at his other friends house which happened to be where this guy was staying (he was the ex boyfriend of this person's house) initially i thought the two were dating but at the rave i found out they were not (also i sensed the girl like me because of the small passes, like touching my arm and leaning into closer to me when i talked to her, like she was overly interested lmao) anyways I found out they were not together from them and he said he didnt mind if i tried to get at her (probably cause he didnt think i have a chance) well I danced with her that night, and turned on my charm 🙂. Anyways to make this story short she became attracted to me.

Well I managed to get her to drive up to ventura which is where i lived at the time from LA to come see me for my birthday, well this guy found out and begged to have her take him with her so he could visit a friend in oxnard (which later turned into a gayfest on sitting at this dudes house playing video games). So while they were visiting me I asked the dude in private i said "If you have a problem with this an this is weird for you just let me know ill back off" he said "nah, you know what at first i had a problem but your a cool guy and if she likes you i wont get in the way".

Anyways after an hour of hanging out he tries to have her dump me off so they could go to oxnard and visit his friend (she didnt want to do that so she said to bring me along) well I wasn't gonna stay at that house so i to
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ld her just to take me home. Well on the ride home we got to talking and when we came to my house i asked her for one last dance, started seducing here and i got all in her pants (just with me hand though) and she was about to get in mine when the dude kept blowing up here phone then he was whining and bitching that he needed to go home right now.

Well I know that dude talked some shit and filled her head with his manipulative bullshit on their way back to LA becaus e never heard from here again.
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point incase fuck sagg men, don't be fooled by a smile and a carefree attitude, cause that carefree attitude actually translated to I don't care about anything other than myself.

Don't get me started on my grandma's husband damn hes even worse.

Sagg men (from the ones I've known) are Class A sociopaths, and if you don't know that is then look it up but ill give you a brief run down.

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Characteristics of a Sociopath

Manipulating
A sociopath has a brain. Sadly, a sociopath never uses the brain for his/her use. They believe that much can be achieved by conning and manipulating others. Hence, with a thought like that, sociopath wastes time in convincing others about heir malicious ideas. They do so by putting on their charm. A sociopath victimizes the other person as an object to be used for implementing cruel intentions.

Incapacity for Feelings or Emotions
This is the main, yet hidden sociopath characteristics. A sociopath has no scope for emotions or feelings. They only make a superficial exhibition of their emotions. They do laugh, cry, get angry and depressed momentarily. The underlying reason for this superficiality is, they live in their own world and have their own set of morals. They are often ruled by a belief that their actions bear no consequence whatsoever, and they are not accountable to anyone. Incapacity for feelings and emotions allow a sociopath to elude responsibility for actions by placing the blame on others.

Compulsive Liars
Sociopaths have a boundless capacity to lie. It all begins when they lie once to hide a mistake and then continue lying to cover the earlier lies. As mentioned earlier, they are incapacitated to feelings, they do not understand the impact of compulsively lying. If they are caught lying, sociopaths are clever at changing the subject by blaming someone else and crawling clean out of the mess. Often, sociopaths are so clever at lying, that they pass lie detector tests also. Which is why, they rarely end up in prisons. And who thought sociopaths were out of brains!

Shallow Emotions
A sociopath does not have emotions is true. But a sociopath has shallow emotions is equally true. Shallow emotions adheres to show of warmth, joy, appreciation and motivation towards others to satisfy the ulterior motives. These sociopath traits make them seem emotionally strong. They remain cold and do not show reactions to what may cause a normal person to react. They make promises to others to get their job done. However, they are fake, and so are their promises.

Impulsive Nature
The logic of thinking twice before you do anything or say anything does not exist with a sociopath. They get so overwhelmed by a certain idea to which they react impulsively. These actions are always driven by a devious acumen, such as cheating, stealing and lying. The excitement of doing the act is so great, that they jump on
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Parasitic Living
Amongst characteristics of a sociopath, their parasitic nature is very evident. They act like leeches that cling on to everybody. They do so to find an accomplice to their actions. To get their plans done, they get hold of people closest to them, so that they can conveniently slip out the act when desired and then place the blame on others.

Radiating Charm
Sociopaths have a beautiful charm about themselves, which is good enough to cover up all their devilish acts. They are very amusing, carefree and lively. These are the traits that draws a person to them. They often win the admiration from others and can make the crowd gawk at them.

Egocentric
Sociopaths indulge in bragging about themselves like there's no tomorrow. They firmly believe that what they are doing is absolutely right and there's no way they would do anything wrong. They are self-assured about themselves. This leads them to making highly preposterous and unrealistic plans about life, making money, marriage and living. Sociopaths fail to understand why others around them are so against them.

No Guilt
Whether it's a murder, robbery, lie or any other criminal act for that matter, a sociopath feels no guilt whatsoever. They can never empathize with others and neither can they feel guilt for blaming others. They have an amoral world of their own. They lie to an extent where room for guilt gets occupied by self made reality. They often believe that the pain inflicted on the other person was deserved by them. Many criminal sociopath often are seen giving such explanations.
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I do see your point King of Libra because with Sagg #1 is has been off an on because he will always get upset at me about something I think that is silly and he will ignore me so I see what you mean by selfish. We do have a good time together and great conversation so that is what intially attracted me and at first he was great a total gentlemen so that's what kept me. They both have admitted to me throught talking that they can be azz hole and that's kinda the sagg men attitude I guess but I don't like when he's being an azz toward me and that's normally what would happen then we would fall out, and then we would reunite again.

Like you said dreamer maybe just date them both, but I don't wanna be caught up in something that could get nasty, but why put all my eggs in the basket with Sagg#1 if he is not willing to change some things about his self like he wants me to change things about myself and their lies the conflict.
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It was established on the Sagittarius board that these two men don't know that you are fucking the other AND it was also established that one of them (the younger, I think I recall, will go look after posting this) is worried about you cheating with the gym instructor which definitely means he has no clue about the multi-relationship you have going .... so, anything that has to do you and relating to either of them is going to be wrong, since you aren't being honest with either one.
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Posted by P-Angel
Correction, it's the older Sag that you have suspicious of you about cheating.

He says you are sneaky ... and since you're cheating on him, just not with the gym guy ... he's suspicion is accurate in that you are indeed sneaky.



He has a pisces moon so yes he may be on to something, but he still continue to want to be with me he is not being force if anything I have tried to break it off with him when we have our breaks due to disagreements where he can't admit to being wrong and always text out the blue saying he loves me and yes I have feelings for him to that's why I would try one final time to make it right and ofcourse let the younger sagg know. At this point I can't tell Sagg #1 about anything cause I can't even go out with my sister without him getting upset.