How to get an Aqua man's interest n make him miss me again?

This topic was created in the Sports forum by Yoctapra on Monday, February 27, 2017 and has 5 replies.

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@Yoctapra
9 Years

Hi its me again.still cant get over my Aqua man.

Having to fast movement in our new dating time n he said we need to slow down.He changed alots.bcome cold,not exciting,we still texting sometimes but normally he was sweeter..i think as a libra i showed too much emotions but its bcx he treated me like his gf from beginning n who wud not be melted?after he treated me like that i feel emotional n then he said we spent too much times together n want to take it slow—?what the hell!—? It was him that always said : "you can always bother me",'you are such an amazing person i wud like to know u better","yes sure im never be super busy,lets do it tmrw or whenever","you are always welcome to my place"

Oh mann...now he acting different and its so damn HURT!!! How to make him back to the one i used to know? Im giving him spaces now.we just texting sometimes,havent had idea to meet up yet (i dont know if he still want to meet me,but he said he still wud)

Please tell me what he meant when he said "WE MET ALMOST EVERYDAY,WE NEED TO TAKE IT SLOW?"

DOES IT MEAN ITS OVER OR HE JUST NEED SPACE?PLEASE TELL ME.Im suffering from wondering 😢

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

You should never meet with someone everyday while dating! This is no. 1 reason why dating goes nowhere. Meeting once a week and a few emails/texts in between is plenty. To start "feeling something special" he needs to see your relationship as something special and also miss your "special" presence.

So get a new hobby to keep yourself busy during the time not spent with him. Talk about how excited you are about it when he contacts you. Have fresh and interesting things to talk about. Or let him be, if he doesn't contact you and ask you out. Go back to dating.