Any Taurus & Virgo experience?

I've been in an on & off relationship with this Virgo man. He always mocks me & he's a little bit immature sometimes.. But when I told him I'm gonna find someone else & forget about him he told me he loves me & he don't want me to go... Sometimes or couple of times perhaps he always acts like he don't care.. Like when we're having a disagreement he just shut me off & vanish. Does he still have feelings for me left?

I wish I had advice for you... But I'm not a Taurus and not a Virgo. My close friend is going through the same thing with her Virgo man though. I wish I knew what to tell her when she talks to me about him. Unfortunately, I can't because it seems quite complicated. She loves him though...

I hope you end up happy in the end.. Just like I wish the same for her.

Good luck on getting good advice from others. I would like to hear it as well, just to get a better picture of why she stays.

I don't know about the mocking bit (maybe nerves or other signs in his chart?). I tend to react to serious or high emotion situations with humor and immaturity but I've always blamed that on my Sag rising not virgo. I also get serious really fast, usually when I realize that the joke went to far or no one else is taking the situation as lightly as I am. I tend to care more than I like to express, which is usually the reason for the facade.

On the disagreement bit, I shut down pretty easy when it comes to disagreements in relationships as well. Once again, it's usually because I care more than I want to express in the moment, and disagreements usually pressure people into speaking their emotions in order to "win" the argument. Therefore when forced my reaction is, to say nothing. At least until I have the time I want to think through my response. It's rarely a "i don't have feelings" for the person moment, and usually it's a "i have too many feelings for this person moment."

His feelings aren't a factor.

Each time your ready to move on from him to someone who might give you what your looking for he spouts out all those pretty words and "I love yous".

He know exactly what to say to make you stay. He's done it before, he'll do it again...for as long as you let him play you.

Posted by LadyNeptune
His feelings aren't a factor.

Each time your ready to move on from him to someone who might give you what your looking for he spouts out all those pretty words and "I love yous".

He know exactly what to say to make you stay. He's done it before, he'll do it again...for as long as you let him play you.

This^^^

Fuck those spew of words. Can go to hell!

Posted by mskuran
I've been in an on & off relationship with this Virgo man. He always mocks me & he's a little bit immature sometimes.. But when I told him I'm gonna find someone else & forget about him he told me he loves me & he don't want me to go... Sometimes or couple of times perhaps he always acts like he don't care.. Like when we're having a disagreement he just shut me off & vanish. Does he still have feelings for me left?

I'm a Tuaurs who had a Virgo BF just like that. I hated it when he made fun of me or mocked me or did things I didn't like. I think Virgos do this because they're basically insecure and it's a cover but it's annoying. When I told him I hated his mocking and insulting name calling he went dead silent. Once he cried. We never did work out our problems and split after two years. Talk to him and walk if he doesn't respect your wishes.

Other Virgos I've been with were not like this

Posted by mskuran
I've been in an on & off relationship with this Virgo man. He always mocks me & he's a little bit immature sometimes.. But when I told him I'm gonna find someone else & forget about him he told me he loves me & he don't want me to go... Sometimes or couple of times perhaps he always acts like he don't care.. Like when we're having a disagreement he just shut me off & vanish. Does he still have feelings for me left?

You both play to many games.
Both of you need to mature not just him.
Get real or get out.

Posted by Season

Posted by mskuran
I've been in an on & off relationship with this Virgo man. He always mocks me & he's a little bit immature sometimes.. But when I told him I'm gonna find someone else & forget about him he told me he loves me & he don't want me to go... Sometimes or couple of times perhaps he always acts like he don't care.. Like when we're having a disagreement he just shut me off & vanish. Does he still have feelings for me left?

I'm a Tuaurs who had a Virgo BF just like that. I hated it when he made fun of me or mocked me or did things I didn't like. I think Virgos do this because they're basically insecure and it's a cover but it's annoying. When I told him I hated his mocking and insulting name calling he went dead silent. Once he cried. We never did work out our problems and split after two years. Talk to him and walk if he doesn't respect your wishes.

Other Virgos I've been with were not like this

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I really hope we can work this out! 😢 I really do love him. He's being too complicated tho. He's not like that before..