I realized I can be pretty harsh with words . My advice is great but way too critical . But every friend I have tells me that I made them stronger then they were & also made them mean ! Anyone else been told this ?
Any Tauruses W/ Virgo Rising

lol... I've been told that I can be judgmental. People close to me sometimes withhold information if they think that i'll give them the harsh advice they were trying to avoid. But for the most part, i'm not as quick to give my opinions on other people's lives and I do my best to be open minded. I don't want to alienate people but it has backfired once or twice. Being critical protects. I kept someone around me longer than I wanted to because I didn't want to be judgmental but I finally admitted to myself that I couldn't stand the cookiemonster, she's flakey and lacks integrity and it drove me nuts that she would brag about how smart she was but she would state from time to time "made up facts"

Thanks to LivingonPurpose I found a video of a woman personating different signs. oddly enough I relate the most to the Virgo video.
Posted by VenusStar
Thanks to LivingonPurpose I found a video of a woman personating different signs. oddly enough I relate the most to the Virgo video.
Wow it's amazing how much I relate to this video !! I am always changing things around . & I honestly feel like Im coming from good place when I'm being critical ! Also I feel like it's my job to help people . especially people closest to me !
I always feel like I'm the only one with common sense out of all my friends !! Thanks ! Makes me feel good to know ok not crazy !! Haha

You're not alone, i've been told that I shouldn't be harsh to others and try not to be a critic of everything, i'm a critic and want perfection and because of that i hate myself because i'm flawed, I try my best to be open minded and now I try my best not to judge others as well.

ooooh yayy, someone similar 😄
how are you fellow similar stranger?
how are you fellow similar stranger?

Sorry I'm late. Ummmhmmm Yep I'll tell you the truth... I've learned to keep my mouth shut until I'm asked.
That's the great thing about Virgo rising tho, you can focus on perfecting, perfection.
I don't think anyone's ever told me flat out I'm judgmental. But I do get condescending a lot, but that's just because I don't really like to associate with stupid people.
That's the great thing about Virgo rising tho, you can focus on perfecting, perfection.
I don't think anyone's ever told me flat out I'm judgmental. But I do get condescending a lot, but that's just because I don't really like to associate with stupid people.

Posted by Astrobyn
Sorry I'm late. Ummmhmmm Yep I'll tell you the truth... I've learned to keep my mouth shut until I'm asked.
That's the great thing about Virgo rising tho, you can focus on perfecting, perfection.
I don't think anyone's ever told me flat out I'm judgmental. But I do get condescending a lot, but that's just because I don't really like to associate with stupid people.
I think a lot of us have learned that =p
I'm Starting to feel like i don't want any friends anymore !!! It's complicated but being around my friends feel like work ! I value them more then they value themselves .. I'm losing respect for them as a person ! I've been friends with them 15+ years but I don't see a friendship anymore because they are becoming stupid everyday .. I don't agree with their choices in life & idk why when it's not really my business but it makes me wanna distant myself ...
I've had 2 cancer friends stop being my friend because of their man so in finally had it & that's when I went off on her about being stupid a dating someone who don't have her best interest at heart ! I went in on her ass !! That's when I realize wow ! That was a bit much lol
I've had 2 cancer friends stop being my friend because of their man so in finally had it & that's when I went off on her about being stupid a dating someone who don't have her best interest at heart ! I went in on her ass !! That's when I realize wow ! That was a bit much lol

I've distant myself from most of the people I know and the reason? what you explained above, exactly the same.
Posted by AnotherTaurus
I've distant myself from most of the people I know and the reason? what you explained above, exactly the same.
Yeaaa it just doesn't seem right being friends with someone you can't be your self around ... I rather not be friends if I can't speak my mind !
Omg this lady was hilarious - I was cracking up! Both the Taurus and Virgo skits hit home...not really sure what Virgo rising means but I am Taurus sun/Virgo moon.
And I also feel the same abt my friends -- they start to get on my nerves and then I have to take a break from them. What I hate is when they do silly sht and don't act their age. Like they can't think for themselves and then wanting to go to the b/r together when we're out? Come on. And then snapping pics all the time to hurry and post on FB. Urg
And I also feel the same abt my friends -- they start to get on my nerves and then I have to take a break from them. What I hate is when they do silly sht and don't act their age. Like they can't think for themselves and then wanting to go to the b/r together when we're out? Come on. And then snapping pics all the time to hurry and post on FB. Urg
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