Taumau
@Taumau
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Anyone else who gets rejected by Virgos?
Umm, I'm sorry but it sounds weird that I shouldn't chase at all but the other person should 100% chase me, every time? I think it should be 50 - 50 if both are truly interested.
And a bit silly question, why do I bother with Virgos, well why should anyone bother with Taurus either? Geez...
And a bit silly question, why do I bother with Virgos, well why should anyone bother with Taurus either? Geez...
How's your hygiene? My Virgo male BFF does NOT mess around with bad hygiene or a messy house. Stereotype I know, buts it TRUE.
Take some virgos from my life please. I've too many of them 😄
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100The dynamic is basically the same. It's about masculine/feminine energy as opposed to male vs. female dynamics.Posted by TaumauYour bi right?
Umm, I'm sorry but it sounds weird that I shouldn't chase at all but the other person should 100% chase me, every time? I think it should be 50 - 50 if both are truly interested.
And a bit silly question, why do I bother with Virgos, well why should anyone bother with Taurus either? Geez...
So in the initial stages the guy should be chasing you as for the female part, I don't know how that works as I am heterosexual.
The reason I say why Virgos, is because they are not the only sun sign out there! No biggie..
But yes, if you are constantly being rejected then the issue lies with you. Maybe you are not as good looking as you think you are, you could be generally unkempt or have poor hygiene. .click to expand
@Taumau
Virgos are odd. They want emotional consistency, but don't convey their own affections/emotions. They love by doing. They love by being around and helping basically. They make your life easier. They are constantly fact checking and scrutinizing every detail. Not every Libra is the same though. Some Virgos are attracted to people they connect with mentally (and physically), who will understand their intellectual side. Others want a person who puts their mind at ease and understands their faults, but who won't call them out on it. Virgos also take things very slowly, which can become irritating to the other person.
Tauruses can be far too direct and heavy handed for a Virgo at times. When you want an answer, you want it (not unlike your neighbor Aries). Virgos however are like their neighbor Libra and want to deliberate. Demanding an action from a Virgo before they are ready can cause them to back away.
Here's how you get a Virgo's attention. Be a high value person. If a Virgo (or anyone) is being indirect with you, don't chase. Merely reach out to them periodically. If things aren't developing along the path you desire, retract the offer (or just stop contacting them). Virgos don't like to be ignored, even if they do it to other people. It makes them nervous. Virgos are constantly evaluating themselves and those around them. Virgos know that they don't always make the best decisions and will question themselves. If the Virgo was interested (or at least curious), they'll reach out. If they reach out, then make plans.
Virgos can be very direct, except when it comes to matters of the heart when they are still evaluating a person. They prefer to watch you and gather all of the information they can. They are looking for a person who is perfect for them. Most of them though tend to settle for fixer uppers, people who they can "mold" into the perfect lover. Virgos also like to help people and this can bleed into their relationships. This can often backfire on them though because changing people is basically impossible. At the end of the day, while they may wind up in tumultuous situations, even though they crave stability.
Here's an odd analogy: Imagine a Virgo like the Prince who is waiting for an enchanted kiss, or the Princess who is trapped in a tower. The misconception is that the path to getting to the Virgo is direct, when instead it's a long and winding road filled with obstacles. It's a journey not a race. The other misconception is that prince or princess didn't have some hand in their own predicament. Ever wonder why the prince was cursed? Ever wonder how the princess wound up in that tower? Probably because they wound up tangled up in their own mess.
So it is with a Virgo, they mean well, they just get tangled up in their own issues. Like Belle (Beauty & The Beast) or Shrek though, sometimes you have to back away and have them come after you. If they value you, they won't let you go so easily.
Posted by ChuckcemI still love the time and thought you put into your posts. ❤️Posted by JohnTheBaptist100The dynamic is basically the same. It's about masculine/feminine energy as opposed to male vs. female dynamics.Posted by TaumauYour bi right?
Umm, I'm sorry but it sounds weird that I shouldn't chase at all but the other person should 100% chase me, every time? I think it should be 50 - 50 if both are truly interested.
And a bit silly question, why do I bother with Virgos, well why should anyone bother with Taurus either? Geez...
So in the initial stages the guy should be chasing you as for the female part, I don't know how that works as I am heterosexual.
The reason I say why Virgos, is because they are not the only sun sign out there! No biggie..
But yes, if you are constantly being rejected then the issue lies with you. Maybe you are not as good looking as you think you are, you could be generally unkempt or have poor hygiene. .
@Taumau
Virgos are odd. They want emotional consistency, but don't convey their own affections/emotions. They love by doing. They love by being around and helping basically. They make your life easier. They are constantly fact checking and scrutinizing every detail. Not every Libra is the same though. Some Virgos are attracted to people they connect with mentally (and physically), who will understand their intellectual side. Others want a person who puts their mind at ease and understands their faults, but who won't call them out on it. Virgos also take things very slowly, which can become irritating to the other person.
Tauruses can be far too direct and heavy handed for a Virgo at times. When you want an answer, you want it (not unlike your neighbor Aries). Virgos however are like their neighbor Libra and want to deliberate. Demanding an action from a Virgo before they are ready can cause them to back away.
Here's how you get a Virgo's attention. Be a high value person. If a Virgo (or anyone) is being indirect with you, don't chase. Merely reach out to them periodically. If things aren't developing along the path you desire, retract the offer (or just stop contacting them). Virgos don't like to be ignored, even if they do it to other people. It makes them nervous. Virgos are constantly evaluating themselves and those around them. Virgos know that they don't always make the best decisions and will question themselves. If the Virgo was interested (or at least curious), they'll reach out. If they reach out, then make plans.
Virgos can be very direct, except when it comes to matters of the heart when they are still evaluating a person. They prefer to watch you and gather all of the information they can. They are looking for a person who is perfect for them. Most of them though tend to settle for fixer uppers, people who they can "mold" into the perfect lover. Virgos also like to help people and this can bleed into their relationships. This can often backfire on them though because changing people is basically impossible. At the end of the day, while they may wind up in tumultuous situations, even though they crave stability.
Here's an odd analogy: Imagine a Virgo like the Prince who is waiting for an enchanted kiss, or the Princess who is trapped in a tower. The misconception is that the path to getting to the Virgo is direct, when instead it's a long and winding road filled with obstacles. It's a journey not a race. The other misconception is that prince or princess didn't have some hand in their own predicament. Ever wonder why the prince was cursed? Ever wonder how the princess wound up in that tower? Probably because they wound up tangled up in their own mess.
So it is with a Virgo, they mean well, they just get tangled up in their own issues. Like Belle (Beauty & The Beast) or Shrek though, sometimes you have to back away and have them come after you. If they value you, they won't let you go so easily.click to expand
Posted by heliumfiascoJust trying to repay the kindness that's been given to me by others here on these boards.Posted by ChuckcemI still love the time and thought you put into your posts. ❤️Posted by JohnTheBaptist100The dynamic is basically the same. It's about masculine/feminine energy as opposed to male vs. female dynamics.Posted by TaumauYour bi right?
Umm, I'm sorry but it sounds weird that I shouldn't chase at all but the other person should 100% chase me, every time? I think it should be 50 - 50 if both are truly interested.
And a bit silly question, why do I bother with Virgos, well why should anyone bother with Taurus either? Geez...
So in the initial stages the guy should be chasing you as for the female part, I don't know how that works as I am heterosexual.
The reason I say why Virgos, is because they are not the only sun sign out there! No biggie..
But yes, if you are constantly being rejected then the issue lies with you. Maybe you are not as good looking as you think you are, you could be generally unkempt or have poor hygiene. .
@Taumau
Virgos are odd. They want emotional consistency, but don't convey their own affections/emotions. They love by doing. They love by being around and helping basically. They make your life easier. They are constantly fact checking and scrutinizing every detail. Not every Libra is the same though. Some Virgos are attracted to people they connect with mentally (and physically), who will understand their intellectual side. Others want a person who puts their mind at ease and understands their faults, but who won't call them out on it. Virgos also take things very slowly, which can become irritating to the other person.
Tauruses can be far too direct and heavy handed for a Virgo at times. When you want an answer, you want it (not unlike your neighbor Aries). Virgos however are like their neighbor Libra and want to deliberate. Demanding an action from a Virgo before they are ready can cause them to back away.
Here's how you get a Virgo's attention. Be a high value person. If a Virgo (or anyone) is being indirect with you, don't chase. Merely reach out to them periodically. If things aren't developing along the path you desire, retract the offer (or just stop contacting them). Virgos don't like to be ignored, even if they do it to other people. It makes them nervous. Virgos are constantly evaluating themselves and those around them. Virgos know that they don't always make the best decisions and will question themselves. If the Virgo was interested (or at least curious), they'll reach out. If they reach out, then make plans.
Virgos can be very direct, except when it comes to matters of the heart when they are still evaluating a person. They prefer to watch you and gather all of the information they can. They are looking for a person who is perfect for them. Most of them though tend to settle for fixer uppers, people who they can "mold" into the perfect lover. Virgos also like to help people and this can bleed into their relationships. This can often backfire on them though because changing people is basically impossible. At the end of the day, while they may wind up in tumultuous situations, even though they crave stability.
Here's an odd analogy: Imagine a Virgo like the Prince who is waiting for an enchanted kiss, or the Princess who is trapped in a tower. The misconception is that the path to getting to the Virgo is direct, when instead it's a long and winding road filled with obstacles. It's a journey not a race. The other misconception is that prince or princess didn't have some hand in their own predicament. Ever wonder why the prince was cursed? Ever wonder how the princess wound up in that tower? Probably because they wound up tangled up in their own mess.
So it is with a Virgo, they mean well, they just get tangled up in their own issues. Like Belle (Beauty & The Beast) or Shrek though, sometimes you have to back away and have them come after you. If they value you, they won't let you go so easily.click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemI could not disagree more.
Here's an odd analogy: Imagine a Virgo like the Prince who is waiting for an enchanted kiss, or the Princess who is trapped in a tower. The misconception is that the path to getting to the Virgo is direct, when instead it's a long and winding road filled with obstacles. It's a journey not a race.
This is the WORST path to take with Virgos. Forget if they tell you they need time, they need to deliberate bla bla bla. That time will NOT go in your favor ever. It will just have us overthink everything. Short circuit us by being as direct as possible and we'll be forced then to acknowledge any chemistry/attraction that exists. At least you'll get a straight forward uncalculated reaction and you'll know where you stand. Anything short of that approach, you are gambling and the odds aren't in your favor. You'll just be stuck wondering if a Virgo likes you or not or what did that gesture mean etc while we're going to be confused by the way you relate to us. It spirals into nowhere.
Well im so sorry to hear that. 😢
Posted by DamnataOh I agree and maybe my analogy is a bit confusing.Posted by ChuckcemI could not disagree more.
Here's an odd analogy: Imagine a Virgo like the Prince who is waiting for an enchanted kiss, or the Princess who is trapped in a tower. The misconception is that the path to getting to the Virgo is direct, when instead it's a long and winding road filled with obstacles. It's a journey not a race.
This is the WORST path to take with Virgos. Forget if they tell you they need time, they need to deliberate bla bla bla. That time will NOT go in your favor ever. It will just have us overthink everything. Short circuit us by being as direct as possible and we'll be forced then to acknowledge any chemistry/attraction that exists. At least you'll get a straight forward uncalculated reaction and you'll know where you stand. Anything short of that approach, you are gambling and the odds aren't in your favor. You'll just be stuck wondering if a Virgo likes you or not or what did that gesture mean etc while we're going to be confused by the way you relate to us. It spirals into nowhere.
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I think the direct approach is the best approach always. My point is I think most people believe the route to a Virgo's heart will be simple and easy. I've known far too many Virgos who have been approached directly and didn't know how to handle it. Instead they danced around the situation until either the person backed off or they got REALLY upset.
Making intentions clear early on is a MUST for any sign. A Virgo must know you're interested. HOWEVER if they can't be direct themselves, it's not worth the effort of constant pursuit. The Virgos I've known who fallen madly in love with a person didn't do so because they were being chased. They actually had to do some of the chasing themselves.
In fact I know Virgos who are still obsessed with the ones who got away. Conversely the Virgos who WERE chased, wound up convincing themselves into the relationship after several years. It's not to say that the love doesn't exist, but it was a far more grueling process. The Virgos stayed in the relationships because it was logical, not because they were madly in love. I myself would rather have a Virgo be insanely in love with me than needing to convince them of that love years later.
So yes, be direct. If a Virgo flip flops, give them space to figure it out. That's not to say being cold to a Virgo works either, but give them space to think.
Lord, you Virgos sound confusing. lol
And I thought us Scorpios were bad. lol
And I thought us Scorpios were bad. lol
Posted by nikkistarNaw Scorpios aren't confusing (at least not at the start). In fact I think I've been the MOST direct with Scorpios.
Lord, you Virgos sound confusing. lol
And I thought us Scorpios were bad. lol
Posted by ChuckcemOh no, we are very direct. But what I mean is, is I thought we were worse about letting people in.Posted by nikkistarNaw Scorpios aren't confusing (at least not at the start). In fact I think I've been the MOST direct with Scorpios.
Lord, you Virgos sound confusing. lol
And I thought us Scorpios were bad. lolclick to expand
I got an 11 year old that is a Virgo, and I am prepping myself for him when he likes girls. Looks like i don't have to worry about any girls for awhile. lol
Posted by nikkistarOh I get you. It's different. Scorpio's know there is power in secrets, a silent control. Knowing those dark things and how someone ticks is valuable information. Virgos aren't necessarily going for that. Virgos just want to be absolutely sure about their emotional prospects.Posted by ChuckcemOh no, we are very direct. But what I mean is, is I thought we were worse about letting people in.Posted by nikkistarNaw Scorpios aren't confusing (at least not at the start). In fact I think I've been the MOST direct with Scorpios.
Lord, you Virgos sound confusing. lol
And I thought us Scorpios were bad. lol
I got an 11 year old that is a Virgo, and I am prepping myself for him when he likes girls. Looks like i don't have to worry about any girls for awhile. lolclick to expand
The Scorps/Scorp placements I've known were far more intrigued by me when they saw my dark side (which is rare for me since I'm usually emotionally composed). An emotional outburst though wouldn't be the best approach for a Virgo.
Posted by ChuckcemI always wondered about the Virgo and Scorpio combo. Never dated one, so never had any real experience with them. Only Virgo I have is my son, so I have no real experience with them. But I keep seeing Virgos are suppose to be our better matches.Posted by nikkistarOh I get you. It's different. Scorpio's know there is power in secrets, a silent control. Knowing those dark things and how someone ticks is valuable information. Virgos aren't necessarily going for that. Virgos just want to be absolutely sure about their emotional prospects.Posted by ChuckcemOh no, we are very direct. But what I mean is, is I thought we were worse about letting people in.Posted by nikkistarNaw Scorpios aren't confusing (at least not at the start). In fact I think I've been the MOST direct with Scorpios.
Lord, you Virgos sound confusing. lol
And I thought us Scorpios were bad. lol
I got an 11 year old that is a Virgo, and I am prepping myself for him when he likes girls. Looks like i don't have to worry about any girls for awhile. lol
The Scorps/Scorp placements I've known were far more intrigued by me when they saw my dark side (which is rare for me since I'm usually emotionally composed). An emotional outburst though wouldn't be the best approach for a Virgo.click to expand
You have any knowledge about that combination? Just pondering, since you seem well versed on a lot subjects and I like learning anything and everything.
You are right though, I like silent control. And I LOVE knowing what makes a person tick. I probably use that skill more often than not. I am not one prone to big emotional outbursts either.
They might find that being bi is too dirty for a relationship maybe a fling is ok, you have to keep that about yourself to yourself the next time u meet a Virgo, they want clean and polished.,
Or reject them he'll come banging your door down.
Posted by nikkistarUnfortunately I don't know the Virgo/Scorpio dynamic. I can see it working and not working for a number of reasons. There's a quiet loyalty that can exist between the two. The Virgo is great at handling the mundane parts of life with great efficiency. They can be workaholics, but also know how to have fun. Their tastes are more refined typically, but they aren't necessarily stuck up by any means. They will feel comfortable with this dynamic, especially the attention to detailPosted by ChuckcemI always wondered about the Virgo and Scorpio combo. Never dated one, so never had any real experience with them. Only Virgo I have is my son, so I have no real experience with them. But I keep seeing Virgos are suppose to be our better matches.Posted by nikkistarOh I get you. It's different. Scorpio's know there is power in secrets, a silent control. Knowing those dark things and how someone ticks is valuable information. Virgos aren't necessarily going for that. Virgos just want to be absolutely sure about their emotional prospects.Posted by ChuckcemOh no, we are very direct. But what I mean is, is I thought we were worse about letting people in.Posted by nikkistarNaw Scorpios aren't confusing (at least not at the start). In fact I think I've been the MOST direct with Scorpios.
Lord, you Virgos sound confusing. lol
And I thought us Scorpios were bad. lol
I got an 11 year old that is a Virgo, and I am prepping myself for him when he likes girls. Looks like i don't have to worry about any girls for awhile. lol
The Scorps/Scorp placements I've known were far more intrigued by me when they saw my dark side (which is rare for me since I'm usually emotionally composed). An emotional outburst though wouldn't be the best approach for a Virgo.
You have any knowledge about that combination? Just pondering, since you seem well versed on a lot subjects and I like learning anything and everything.
You are right though, I like silent control. And I LOVE knowing what makes a person tick. I probably use that skill more often than not. I am not one prone to big emotional outbursts either.click to expand
The Scorpio needs it's mystery though and the Virgo needs it's time. Virgos run on their own clock, while Scorpios love an intense connection. Not to say that Scorpios don't want their space too, but Scorpios can definitely get wrapped up into a love that would be far too intense for other signs to handle. The Virgo may know how to deal with this as long as long as the Scorpio doesn't try poking at the Virgo. Scorpios like to shake things up a bit to "see what happens." Again wanting to know how the other person ticks. Virgos love consistency, so this may annoy the Virgo a bit. Once annoyed the Virgo may start nitpicking the Scorpio. We all know that Scorpios don't like to be stung. It's not a huge issue as long as both can reach an emotoional understanding perhaps.
This is all just a guess though.
Posted by ChuckcemI should ask @Hare since he has a virgo wife. lolPosted by nikkistarUnfortunately I don't know the Virgo/Scorpio dynamic. I can see it working and not working for a number of reasons. There's a quiet loyalty that can exist between the two. The Virgo is great at handling the mundane parts of life with great efficiency. They can be workaholics, but also know how to have fun. Their tastes are more refined typically, but they aren't necessarily stuck up by any means. They will feel comfortable with this dynamic, especially the attention to detailPosted by ChuckcemI always wondered about the Virgo and Scorpio combo. Never dated one, so never had any real experience with them. Only Virgo I have is my son, so I have no real experience with them. But I keep seeing Virgos are suppose to be our better matches.Posted by nikkistarOh I get you. It's different. Scorpio's know there is power in secrets, a silent control. Knowing those dark things and how someone ticks is valuable information. Virgos aren't necessarily going for that. Virgos just want to be absolutely sure about their emotional prospects.Posted by ChuckcemOh no, we are very direct. But what I mean is, is I thought we were worse about letting people in.Posted by nikkistarNaw Scorpios aren't confusing (at least not at the start). In fact I think I've been the MOST direct with Scorpios.
Lord, you Virgos sound confusing. lol
And I thought us Scorpios were bad. lol
I got an 11 year old that is a Virgo, and I am prepping myself for him when he likes girls. Looks like i don't have to worry about any girls for awhile. lol
The Scorps/Scorp placements I've known were far more intrigued by me when they saw my dark side (which is rare for me since I'm usually emotionally composed). An emotional outburst though wouldn't be the best approach for a Virgo.
You have any knowledge about that combination? Just pondering, since you seem well versed on a lot subjects and I like learning anything and everything.
You are right though, I like silent control. And I LOVE knowing what makes a person tick. I probably use that skill more often than not. I am not one prone to big emotional outbursts either.
The Scorpio needs it's mystery though and the Virgo needs it's time. Virgos run on their own clock, while Scorpios love an intense connection. Not to say that Scorpios don't want their space too, but Scorpios can definitely get wrapped up into a love that would be far too intense for other signs to handle. The Virgo may know how to deal with this as long as long as the Scorpio doesn't try poking at the Virgo. Scorpios like to shake things up a bit to "see what happens." Again wanting to know how the other person ticks. Virgos love consistency, so this may annoy the Virgo a bit. Once annoyed the Virgo may start nitpicking the Scorpio. We all know that Scorpios don't like to be stung. It's not a huge issue as long as both can reach an emotoional understanding perhaps.
This is all just a guess though.click to expand
But I can see what you are saying. Not sure about the "see what happens" part. I don't THINK I do that, but then again, I could. lol
Posted by nikkistarIt's more of an immaturity thing I've noticed. Like not all Leos are self centered braggarts, but we can be when we're being immature.Posted by ChuckcemI should ask @Hare since he has a virgo wife. lolPosted by nikkistarUnfortunately I don't know the Virgo/Scorpio dynamic. I can see it working and not working for a number of reasons. There's a quiet loyalty that can exist between the two. The Virgo is great at handling the mundane parts of life with great efficiency. They can be workaholics, but also know how to have fun. Their tastes are more refined typically, but they aren't necessarily stuck up by any means. They will feel comfortable with this dynamic, especially the attention to detailPosted by ChuckcemI always wondered about the Virgo and Scorpio combo. Never dated one, so never had any real experience with them. Only Virgo I have is my son, so I have no real experience with them. But I keep seeing Virgos are suppose to be our better matches.Posted by nikkistarOh I get you. It's different. Scorpio's know there is power in secrets, a silent control. Knowing those dark things and how someone ticks is valuable information. Virgos aren't necessarily going for that. Virgos just want to be absolutely sure about their emotional prospects.Posted by ChuckcemOh no, we are very direct. But what I mean is, is I thought we were worse about letting people in.Posted by nikkistarNaw Scorpios aren't confusing (at least not at the start). In fact I think I've been the MOST direct with Scorpios.
Lord, you Virgos sound confusing. lol
And I thought us Scorpios were bad. lol
I got an 11 year old that is a Virgo, and I am prepping myself for him when he likes girls. Looks like i don't have to worry about any girls for awhile. lol
The Scorps/Scorp placements I've known were far more intrigued by me when they saw my dark side (which is rare for me since I'm usually emotionally composed). An emotional outburst though wouldn't be the best approach for a Virgo.
You have any knowledge about that combination? Just pondering, since you seem well versed on a lot subjects and I like learning anything and everything.
You are right though, I like silent control. And I LOVE knowing what makes a person tick. I probably use that skill more often than not. I am not one prone to big emotional outbursts either.
The Scorpio needs it's mystery though and the Virgo needs it's time. Virgos run on their own clock, while Scorpios love an intense connection. Not to say that Scorpios don't want their space too, but Scorpios can definitely get wrapped up into a love that would be far too intense for other signs to handle. The Virgo may know how to deal with this as long as long as the Scorpio doesn't try poking at the Virgo. Scorpios like to shake things up a bit to "see what happens." Again wanting to know how the other person ticks. Virgos love consistency, so this may annoy the Virgo a bit. Once annoyed the Virgo may start nitpicking the Scorpio. We all know that Scorpios don't like to be stung. It's not a huge issue as long as both can reach an emotoional understanding perhaps.
This is all just a guess though.
But I can see what you are saying. Not sure about the "see what happens" part. I don't THINK I do that, but then again, I could. lolclick to expand
Posted by ChuckcemAh, yes. I like to poke here on DXP because I get bored. I see what you are saying. I don't necessarily do this IRL, but I like to shake things up on here.Posted by nikkistarIt's more of an immaturity thing I've noticed. Like not all Leos are self centered braggarts, but we can be when we're being immature.Posted by ChuckcemI should ask @Hare since he has a virgo wife. lolPosted by nikkistarUnfortunately I don't know the Virgo/Scorpio dynamic. I can see it working and not working for a number of reasons. There's a quiet loyalty that can exist between the two. The Virgo is great at handling the mundane parts of life with great efficiency. They can be workaholics, but also know how to have fun. Their tastes are more refined typically, but they aren't necessarily stuck up by any means. They will feel comfortable with this dynamic, especially the attention to detailPosted by ChuckcemI always wondered about the Virgo and Scorpio combo. Never dated one, so never had any real experience with them. Only Virgo I have is my son, so I have no real experience with them. But I keep seeing Virgos are suppose to be our better matches.Posted by nikkistarOh I get you. It's different. Scorpio's know there is power in secrets, a silent control. Knowing those dark things and how someone ticks is valuable information. Virgos aren't necessarily going for that. Virgos just want to be absolutely sure about their emotional prospects.Posted by ChuckcemOh no, we are very direct. But what I mean is, is I thought we were worse about letting people in.Posted by nikkistarNaw Scorpios aren't confusing (at least not at the start). In fact I think I've been the MOST direct with Scorpios.
Lord, you Virgos sound confusing. lol
And I thought us Scorpios were bad. lol
I got an 11 year old that is a Virgo, and I am prepping myself for him when he likes girls. Looks like i don't have to worry about any girls for awhile. lol
The Scorps/Scorp placements I've known were far more intrigued by me when they saw my dark side (which is rare for me since I'm usually emotionally composed). An emotional outburst though wouldn't be the best approach for a Virgo.
You have any knowledge about that combination? Just pondering, since you seem well versed on a lot subjects and I like learning anything and everything.
You are right though, I like silent control. And I LOVE knowing what makes a person tick. I probably use that skill more often than not. I am not one prone to big emotional outbursts either.
The Scorpio needs it's mystery though and the Virgo needs it's time. Virgos run on their own clock, while Scorpios love an intense connection. Not to say that Scorpios don't want their space too, but Scorpios can definitely get wrapped up into a love that would be far too intense for other signs to handle. The Virgo may know how to deal with this as long as long as the Scorpio doesn't try poking at the Virgo. Scorpios like to shake things up a bit to "see what happens." Again wanting to know how the other person ticks. Virgos love consistency, so this may annoy the Virgo a bit. Once annoyed the Virgo may start nitpicking the Scorpio. We all know that Scorpios don't like to be stung. It's not a huge issue as long as both can reach an emotoional understanding perhaps.
This is all just a guess though.
But I can see what you are saying. Not sure about the "see what happens" part. I don't THINK I do that, but then again, I could. lolclick to expand
Posted by nikkistarThat makes sense to use the boards as a way to channel that energy. I think a lot of people do that in different ways here.Posted by ChuckcemAh, yes. I like to poke here on DXP because I get bored. I see what you are saying. I don't necessarily do this IRL, but I like to shake things up on here.Posted by nikkistarIt's more of an immaturity thing I've noticed. Like not all Leos are self centered braggarts, but we can be when we're being immature.Posted by ChuckcemI should ask @Hare since he has a virgo wife. lolPosted by nikkistarUnfortunately I don't know the Virgo/Scorpio dynamic. I can see it working and not working for a number of reasons. There's a quiet loyalty that can exist between the two. The Virgo is great at handling the mundane parts of life with great efficiency. They can be workaholics, but also know how to have fun. Their tastes are more refined typically, but they aren't necessarily stuck up by any means. They will feel comfortable with this dynamic, especially the attention to detailPosted by ChuckcemI always wondered about the Virgo and Scorpio combo. Never dated one, so never had any real experience with them. Only Virgo I have is my son, so I have no real experience with them. But I keep seeing Virgos are suppose to be our better matches.Posted by nikkistarOh I get you. It's different. Scorpio's know there is power in secrets, a silent control. Knowing those dark things and how someone ticks is valuable information. Virgos aren't necessarily going for that. Virgos just want to be absolutely sure about their emotional prospects.Posted by ChuckcemOh no, we are very direct. But what I mean is, is I thought we were worse about letting people in.Posted by nikkistarNaw Scorpios aren't confusing (at least not at the start). In fact I think I've been the MOST direct with Scorpios.
Lord, you Virgos sound confusing. lol
And I thought us Scorpios were bad. lol
I got an 11 year old that is a Virgo, and I am prepping myself for him when he likes girls. Looks like i don't have to worry about any girls for awhile. lol
The Scorps/Scorp placements I've known were far more intrigued by me when they saw my dark side (which is rare for me since I'm usually emotionally composed). An emotional outburst though wouldn't be the best approach for a Virgo.
You have any knowledge about that combination? Just pondering, since you seem well versed on a lot subjects and I like learning anything and everything.
You are right though, I like silent control. And I LOVE knowing what makes a person tick. I probably use that skill more often than not. I am not one prone to big emotional outbursts either.
The Scorpio needs it's mystery though and the Virgo needs it's time. Virgos run on their own clock, while Scorpios love an intense connection. Not to say that Scorpios don't want their space too, but Scorpios can definitely get wrapped up into a love that would be far too intense for other signs to handle. The Virgo may know how to deal with this as long as long as the Scorpio doesn't try poking at the Virgo. Scorpios like to shake things up a bit to "see what happens." Again wanting to know how the other person ticks. Virgos love consistency, so this may annoy the Virgo a bit. Once annoyed the Virgo may start nitpicking the Scorpio. We all know that Scorpios don't like to be stung. It's not a huge issue as long as both can reach an emotoional understanding perhaps.
This is all just a guess though.
But I can see what you are saying. Not sure about the "see what happens" part. I don't THINK I do that, but then again, I could. lolclick to expand
Posted by DamnataI agree with both your assessments because the best way to approach a Virgo is to be balanced.Posted by ChuckcemI could not disagree more.
Here's an odd analogy: Imagine a Virgo like the Prince who is waiting for an enchanted kiss, or the Princess who is trapped in a tower. The misconception is that the path to getting to the Virgo is direct, when instead it's a long and winding road filled with obstacles. It's a journey not a race.
This is the WORST path to take with Virgos. Forget if they tell you they need time, they need to deliberate bla bla bla. That time will NOT go in your favor ever. It will just have us overthink everything. Short circuit us by being as direct as possible and we'll be forced then to acknowledge any chemistry/attraction that exists. At least you'll get a straight forward uncalculated reaction and you'll know where you stand. Anything short of that approach, you are gambling and the odds aren't in your favor. You'll just be stuck wondering if a Virgo likes you or not or what did that gesture mean etc while we're going to be confused by the way you relate to us. It spirals into nowhere.
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Posted by TaumauI don't mean to discriminate, but could it be because you are a bi? Virgos are somewhat conservative, they might not be able to accept bi.
Yeah, so, I'm a bi Taurus woman, in my twenties. I keep crushing on Virgo Suns, both sexes, and they just keep rejecting me. This has now happened to me 6 times already, and I'm starting to wonder what is it in me that they don't like? I can't be that unattractive, because I attract Aries, Aquarius, Libra, Scorpio, Capricorn and other Taurians.
I do attract Virgos always at first, and they seem to enjoy my company, but then that's just it. No relationships with them.
So, has this happened to anyone else, or is it just me? I'm getting really really sick of this 😢
I thought Virgos and Taurus are usually compatible as both are earth sign and share many similarities.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I was referring to the guy/girl dynamic vs the girll/girl dynamic in your comment:Posted by ChuckcemTo be rejected by 6 Virgos is more to it than that!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100The dynamic is basically the same. It's about masculine/feminine energy as opposed to male vs. female dynamics.Posted by TaumauYour bi right?
Umm, I'm sorry but it sounds weird that I shouldn't chase at all but the other person should 100% chase me, every time? I think it should be 50 - 50 if both are truly interested.
And a bit silly question, why do I bother with Virgos, well why should anyone bother with Taurus either? Geez...
So in the initial stages the guy should be chasing you as for the female part, I don't know how that works as I am heterosexual.
The reason I say why Virgos, is because they are not the only sun sign out there! No biggie..
But yes, if you are constantly being rejected then the issue lies with you. Maybe you are not as good looking as you think you are, you could be generally unkempt or have poor hygiene. .
@Taumau
Virgos are odd. They want emotional consistency, but don't convey their own affections/emotions. They love by doing. They love by being around and helping basically. They make your life easier. They are constantly fact checking and scrutinizing every detail. Not every Libra is the same though. Some Virgos are attracted to people they connect with mentally (and physically), who will understand their intellectual side. Others want a person who puts their mind at ease and understands their faults, but who won't call them out on it. Virgos also take things very slowly, which can become irritating to the other person.
Tauruses can be far too direct and heavy handed for a Virgo at times. When you want an answer, you want it (not unlike your neighbor Aries). Virgos however are like their neighbor Libra and want to deliberate. Demanding an action from a Virgo before they are ready can cause them to back away.
Here's how you get a Virgo's attention. Be a high value person. If a Virgo (or anyone) is being indirect with you, don't chase. Merely reach out to them periodically. If things aren't developing along the path you desire, retract the offer (or just stop contacting them). Virgos don't like to be ignored, even if they do it to other people. It makes them nervous. Virgos are constantly evaluating themselves and those around them. Virgos know that they don't always make the best decisions and will question themselves. If the Virgo was interested (or at least curious), they'll reach out. If they reach out, then make plans.
Virgos can be very direct, except when it comes to matters of the heart when they are still evaluating a person. They prefer to watch you and gather all of the information they can. They are looking for a person who is perfect for them. Most of them though tend to settle for fixer uppers, people who they can "mold" into the perfect lover. Virgos also like to help people and this can bleed into their relationships. This can often backfire on them though because changing people is basically impossible. At the end of the day, while they may wind up in tumultuous situations, even though they crave stability.
Here's an odd analogy: Imagine a Virgo like the Prince who is waiting for an enchanted kiss, or the Princess who is trapped in a tower. The misconception is that the path to getting to the Virgo is direct, when instead it's a long and winding road filled with obstacles. It's a journey not a race. The other misconception is that prince or princess didn't have some hand in their own predicament. Ever wonder why the prince was cursed? Ever wonder how the princess wound up in that tower? Probably because they wound up tangled up in their own mess.
So it is with a Virgo, they mean well, they just get tangled up in their own issues. Like Belle (Beauty & The Beast) or Shrek though, sometimes you have to back away and have them come after you. If they value you, they won't let you go so easily.
I have had Virgos hunt me down and I still have one on my tail 5 years later even without any encouragement on my part.
They are NOT THAT hard to get.
But they are very very very picky.
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"Your bi right?
So in the initial stages the guy should be chasing you as for the female part, I don't know how that works as I am heterosexual"
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100You also make a good point though. Why is it that a Virgo has been chasing you for 5 years?Posted by ChuckcemTo be rejected by 6 Virgos is more to it than that!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100The dynamic is basically the same. It's about masculine/feminine energy as opposed to male vs. female dynamics.Posted by TaumauYour bi right?
Umm, I'm sorry but it sounds weird that I shouldn't chase at all but the other person should 100% chase me, every time? I think it should be 50 - 50 if both are truly interested.
And a bit silly question, why do I bother with Virgos, well why should anyone bother with Taurus either? Geez...
So in the initial stages the guy should be chasing you as for the female part, I don't know how that works as I am heterosexual.
The reason I say why Virgos, is because they are not the only sun sign out there! No biggie..
But yes, if you are constantly being rejected then the issue lies with you. Maybe you are not as good looking as you think you are, you could be generally unkempt or have poor hygiene. .
@Taumau
Virgos are odd. They want emotional consistency, but don't convey their own affections/emotions. They love by doing. They love by being around and helping basically. They make your life easier. They are constantly fact checking and scrutinizing every detail. Not every Libra is the same though. Some Virgos are attracted to people they connect with mentally (and physically), who will understand their intellectual side. Others want a person who puts their mind at ease and understands their faults, but who won't call them out on it. Virgos also take things very slowly, which can become irritating to the other person.
Tauruses can be far too direct and heavy handed for a Virgo at times. When you want an answer, you want it (not unlike your neighbor Aries). Virgos however are like their neighbor Libra and want to deliberate. Demanding an action from a Virgo before they are ready can cause them to back away.
Here's how you get a Virgo's attention. Be a high value person. If a Virgo (or anyone) is being indirect with you, don't chase. Merely reach out to them periodically. If things aren't developing along the path you desire, retract the offer (or just stop contacting them). Virgos don't like to be ignored, even if they do it to other people. It makes them nervous. Virgos are constantly evaluating themselves and those around them. Virgos know that they don't always make the best decisions and will question themselves. If the Virgo was interested (or at least curious), they'll reach out. If they reach out, then make plans.
Virgos can be very direct, except when it comes to matters of the heart when they are still evaluating a person. They prefer to watch you and gather all of the information they can. They are looking for a person who is perfect for them. Most of them though tend to settle for fixer uppers, people who they can "mold" into the perfect lover. Virgos also like to help people and this can bleed into their relationships. This can often backfire on them though because changing people is basically impossible. At the end of the day, while they may wind up in tumultuous situations, even though they crave stability.
Here's an odd analogy: Imagine a Virgo like the Prince who is waiting for an enchanted kiss, or the Princess who is trapped in a tower. The misconception is that the path to getting to the Virgo is direct, when instead it's a long and winding road filled with obstacles. It's a journey not a race. The other misconception is that prince or princess didn't have some hand in their own predicament. Ever wonder why the prince was cursed? Ever wonder how the princess wound up in that tower? Probably because they wound up tangled up in their own mess.
So it is with a Virgo, they mean well, they just get tangled up in their own issues. Like Belle (Beauty & The Beast) or Shrek though, sometimes you have to back away and have them come after you. If they value you, they won't let you go so easily.
I have had Virgos hunt me down and I still have one on my tail 5 years later even without any encouragement on my part.
They are NOT THAT hard to get.
But they are very very very picky.
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