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As i get to know people, I don't like them...
Understanding Taurus Reactions to Flawed Personalities
Taurus individuals may become frustrated with others' flaws, especially if positive traits fade. This reaction stems from their need for stability and loyalty. Recognizing these feelings can help manage relationships better and foster patience. Taurus often values consistency, so understanding their perspective can improve interactions and reduce resentment.
especially with friends and acquaintances, i'll just keep my opinions to myself for months and years until we finally have an official "falling out" or we are no long in touch then I let lose about how much that person really annoyed. I guess this happens more with coworkers and friends of family friends who are forced on me.
Posted by capricornmoon
Do you have antisocial traits? What kind of flaws? Maybe how you feel about them is a projection of who you really are. Are you a cold, not too friendly person? Reason why I ask is because our own personalities plays a big part in how we get along with others, and sometimes you have to bring out your positive side to see more positives in others. Actually most times.
lol... I've been told that I come off as cold and unfeeling at first and as I let my guard down (which doesn't happen often) I am described as warm, sensitive and lovable. In my younger days I find that there would always be one or two random people who would gravitate towards me because something about me caught their eye and they would become attached or just really like me. I don't trust people.
I worked with children during college and the leo boys would be the first to become attached to me (i.e. want to stay by my side every second I was at work, ages 5-7)
I have 4-5 planets retrograde and mars in scorpio retrograde. virgo rising. Taurus venus and mercury.
I also find that my better relationships resulted letting people choose me rather than me just choosing the closest people near me.
Posted by capricornmoon
Interesting. Then continue to let people come to you instead of you having high hopes and being let down as you try to get to know them. The ones who come to you aren't afraid. Fear can be a driving force, fearing what you don't know or understand keeps people apart.
The people I tried to befriend out of proximity, weren't best people because turned out to be negative, insecure and pessimistic.
Fear of what?
Posted by tomhardysfirecrotch
Lmao it is your rising. 🙂
lmao true... I'm a Virgo rising and I'm the same way.
I see a pattern, so i'm not alone. =p
Virgo risings unite!!! yeah, it's true that peoples initial reaction to me is caution, intimidation, and suspicion.
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this includes family friends and acquaintances. Their personality flaws grow bigger as their positive traits disappear; I start to get antsy and resentful. Are any other Taurus like this?