Being nice one minute..

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by ccaqua on Friday, May 8, 2015 and has 10 replies.

Understanding the Impact of Being Nice in Social Situations

Being kind in social interactions fosters positive relationships and encourages mutual respect. While it may sometimes lead to being taken advantage of, consistent kindness builds trust and improves communication over time. Recognizing when to set boundaries is key to maintaining healthy interactions while remaining considerate.

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@ccaqua
11 YearsAquarius

Then being totally "off" and rude the next and so on... Is this a Taurus thing or is this person abit strange?? lol!!! Can't work it out at all! It's just a friend.. not relationship orientated. But with this weird hot and cold I cant work out where the friendship lies? :-/ (sorry premature posting earlier)

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@Ilovemyaqua
12 Years500+ Posts

Naah,not a Taurus thing.If I'll be rude,I'll be rude throughout,if I'll be nice,I'll be nice throughout.But yeah, at times,with only those close to me,I maybe normal with you but then,you'll do something which Has been troubling me,which I haven't told you yet and see me go super rude!

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@ccaqua
11 YearsAquarius

Wow busyeyes88 how weird!! lol!! Would inviting you to a bbq piss you off?? lol!! I honestly hand on heart cant think of a thing i have done to piss him off :-/ he replied with "What the actual F***?" I was really taken aback and replied "What is a bbq beneath you??" to which he replied "It's not that at all!" I'm still clueless but apparently he is coming.. heard through a mutual friend today (I didn't ask, he just mentioned it)So why behave like that with me :-O I am a Libra Moon :-)

Merc is Taurus!

Thanks Ilovemyaqua!!

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@ccaqua
11 YearsAquarius

He was invited the same time as everyone else and the bbq is in 3 weeks time so plenty of notice! Maybe he has taken offense to something I have said at some point... We have exchanged jokes but maybe he took one to heart but didn't let on at the time? I'm having a very strong feeling though that my Cancer female friend has rocked the boat somehow because today she screwed her face up and said " i don't think he will come, definitely not" But then her partner (his "BFF") said he was coming! She is sneaky, something about her. His Merc is Taurus.

It's just really annoying i feel like i need to get to the bottom of it.. wondering if these people are really my friends you know? Thanks for your replies!! :-)

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@Gil
11 YearsTaurus

I'm this way around air signs Geminis and Aquas mostly. Sometimes they can't see beyond their own noses, which are high above the clouds most of the time. Don't play on words and most of all listen to what others feel and want. Do what you say and say what you mean.

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@ccaqua
11 YearsAquarius

Yes busyeyes88 I think that is the only way i'm going to get a straightforward answer is by talking to him directly face to face. Last time he was rude to me it turned to be her (cancer friends) fault.. she denied it all and I can only imagine how she explained it to them to get herself out of trouble probably making me look like the idiot! Anyway I will talk to him!! Thank you!

Gil, everything has always been lighthearted between us, there has been no opportunity to be in the situation that you have explained above. When he said "that's it we are getting married and eloping to plaque" Should I have taken that seriously? lol!! It's all just tongue an cheek amongst friends so far so i cant understand how i may have offended him. Though I will take on board what you have said when I speak to him :-)

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@Gil
11 YearsTaurus

Posted by ccaqua
Yes busyeyes88 I think that is the only way i'm going to get a straightforward answer is by talking to him directly face to face. Last time he was rude to me it turned to be her (cancer friends) fault.. she denied it all and I can only imagine how she explained it to them to get herself out of trouble probably making me look like the idiot! Anyway I will talk to him!! Thank you!

Gil, everything has always been lighthearted between us, there has been no opportunity to be in the situation that you have explained above. When he said "that's it we are getting married and eloping to plaque" Should I have taken that seriously? lol!! It's all just tongue an cheek amongst friends so far so i cant understand how i may have offended him. Though I will take on board what you have said when I speak to him :-)

How old is he? It took a long time, I mean decades, before I could say what I really felt straight forward to a woman. Most Taurus hate rejection more than anything, so we hint around at things. When we can't take it anymore, it seems like we are dropping the bomb on you, but we really were trying to say how we felt all along. There are definitely signs and words if you look for them.