Broken hearted or just plain confused?

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When I told a girl how I felt and sort of asked her out, she did not give me a yes or no answer, all she said that I was sweet and had a lot of guts to go up to her myself, and she said that she was involved in a relationship right now. Than on the last day of school, I gave her a "happy summer" present and she said that I really was sweet and that I restored her faith in mankind. I also got her number. But she is still with her boyfriend and I am still madly in love with her. I have no idea what is happening. Does anyone think I still have a chance with her, or was what she said the lead into "lets just be friends?" I really need your help!!!
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Scorpio female here : )

I hate to say this, but I get the feeling that she's pretty much only wanting to be friends with you. I could be wrong, but based on what you said she said, it seems to me she's not thinking relationship. Have you talked to her enough to have gotten any sort of gut-feeling about how she feels? That's your best indicator. But regardless, if she hasn't broken up with her boyfriend at this point, then it's not something you want to mess with anyway. You will know for *certain*, however, only by directly asking her. Which is hard, but it's the only way to know for sure.

Hope that helps some, and good luck!🙂

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Here is a true story for you and perhaps it will help. My ex-husband (and still very, very close friend) pursued me relentlessly (he is a Taurus) while I was engaged to someone else. He never gave up. We worked for the same company and he took me to lunch (what I thought was just as friends), sent me roses, made me things, etc. I had no real idea he was after me in that way. After about 4-6 months of this, one day I woke up and realized I had strong feelings for him. To make a long story short, I married him instead (for seven years). It all depends on how much you want someone. Don't give up. She may not look at you more than friends right now BUT who's to say how she will look at you down the road.