Busy time

These last two weeks have been particularly trying, and have kind of left me physically, emotionally, and mentally exhausted. They really have nothing to do with my taurus, but that things have just been busy and hectic. My taurus has been the same. I last saw him a little over a week ago, and since then, it's been nonstop working, to the point where he hasn't gotten much sleep (which we were joking about yesterday). Still, even though we are sending texts and trying to make it through the week, I've been feeling incredibly anxious because he hasn't been around much at all (and I'm just generally anxious from all this work I have to do). I offhandedly mentioned it to him, but I was thinking of baking him cookies. Food (especially swee things) tends to relax me, especially during the act of making it. I figured cookies would help him feel better, too. Would he appreciate this; considering all I'm planning on doing is making the cookies, handing them to him, and waiting his life to take a chill pill before he'd be able to come back around.

Coooooooooooooookies! Yes. A kind gesture that says you are thinking of someone is never amiss in my book.

I'm thinking of baking peanut butter and chocolate chip cookies. Something ooey and gooey and make you feel like you could just curl up into a ball.

It'd be a good stress reliever.

And to be honest, I'm not quite sure what to do to recharge myself. I feeling apprehensive and like I've been treading on eggshells, but mainly because I think I've been translating his actions via my personal woes.

Win/win lady. Stress relief and relaxation for you, something caring and delicious for him.

*fidgets* That actually sounds really nice. LOL 🙂

I'd crumble hot bacon onto the ice cream, I eat my ice cream melty. 🙂 Did you know they make chocolate covered bacon? It's true.

Whole rashers of it. Like a gleaming vista of salt/sweet so touchingly beautiful it brings a tear to your eye.

Me too. I licked the screen, but it tasted funny.

*snicker* This could enter a whole new and odd area for internet stalking/crushes for people.

Damn you people for talking about fold and I'm class and I haven't had a proper meal yet. :p

Many apologies, the gross unfairness of such a thing. Sit tight, I'll whip you up some breakfast.

Posted by venusianbull
Whole rashers of it. Like a gleaming vista of salt/sweet so touchingly beautiful it brings a tear to your eye.

Can you come bring this to me now? I live in Florida. Thanks.

Posted by venusianbull
Whole rashers of it. Like a gleaming vista of salt/sweet so touchingly beautiful it brings a tear to your eye.

Can you come bring this to me now? I live in Florida. Thanks.

Posted by venusianbull
Whole rashers of it. Like a gleaming vista of salt/sweet so touchingly beautiful it brings a tear to your eye.

Why that posted so, many times not sure but I want that chocolate bacon!

In short - I've been dating this Taurus 5/14/1969 since late January(2011). We've known each other since high school and reconnected on FB. Instant attraction & comfortability is what I felt in the beginning until he started his disappearing acts. His company is based in the caribbean and sometimes he's there for weeks at a time. While away, we talk via Skype, email or he'll call when he can. He's really open with me and comfortable discussing his personal business with me and whatever problems he may be experiencing at the time. I even handle his personal business (banking ect.) when he's not here. He's given me access to most of his personal business (social security #, passwords ect.) I always accomplish what he needs me do. We were getting along great up until the last couple of months - 2 arguments sort of changed the happy course of things. I've tried to break things off with him twice and he kind of bypasses what I say and acts like things are normal. Recently, I've notice a change in him in that he's not as available as he had been in the past - he usually answers my calls right away but now he'll wait to call me back. I really think he's still upset about this recent argument but he won't admit it to me (I've asked). "Babe" is what he usually calls me, but now he calls me by my name. Not really sure what to make of his behavior & if he's still mad why doesn't he just admit it?

Sorry to post under your topic, but I'm having a very blonde moment.
Any feedback is appreciated.

LOL TigerGoddess, looks good, eh? I think so. 🙂

libra..I think you need to set his butt down proper and define the terms of your arrangement. Are you a flipping secretary or more. Put things smack down into realities court. Sounds to me like he's having a lovely pout because you stood your ground over some things. Too damned bad, he'd not respect you otherwise, sniveling or not. Let him have his mantrum..let it ride, then get to getting.

Venusianbull - I thought he was probably having an affair.... I've been reading your posts for a while now. Love your feedback!!! Thanks!

You're very welcome. 🙂 Nah, sounds like he's in need of some manpons and a box of chocolates to me. 😛

Question: Do bulls say "I love you" easily?

Depends on the Bull. I'd say most of the time the answer is no. It's not something that easily comes to the lips; when it is said it is meant. 100% . If it's not, you'll not be hearing it. That and we are more inclined to show one through deed and action rather than verbal. If one is being shown this, no need to say it..as it is said in hundreds..thousands of ways every day.

Oh trust he doesn't say it much but when he does, it catches me off guard. I guess I'm confused, he's not really spending time with me and the arguments have left me a little unsettled (he says I "betrayed" him) oh, the drama!!.

Posted by libra21
Question: Do bulls say "I love you" easily?

If he's a true Taurus, then the answer is no. I don't think many Bulls, male or female, say those words too easily. With me, I make sure I feel it and believe it before I say them.

Mmmm, why does he feel betrayed?

He feels betrayed because he's paranoid & crazy. In short - A common friend (from high school) asked me out on a date. I mentioned to him that I was currently seeing the bull. The bull gets mad because I told high school dude that we were seeing each other (hence betrayal). What gives?

BTW... They were not speaking when all of this ocurred - And they're still not speaking.

I see, so his insecurity in general is rearing its head. He feels you must have led the other on in some fashion or he'd not have asked.

If you did not engage in flirting, flirty touching, etc. ( and as a Libra, it's like breathing for you..intent there or not ) then Mister needs to get over himself. If you did, make a conscious effort to reign it in knowing what type of man you are dealing with.

Believe me this needs nipped in the bud before he disengages and distances himself. He might have begun the process.

No, not at all. Maybe a comment on FB, but that's it. I'm soooo not attracted to high school dude. It's interesting you say insecure, I thought that he may have been trying to keep me a SECRET.

If they're not speaking, then how did the Bull come to find out about the HS dude? What I also don't understand is why the Bull would see that telling someone else that the two of you are dating - as betrayal. That's flattery in my opinion. So spill it, there's more to this story. The pieces don't fit with what you've typed above.

Some Bulls enjoy a rather harem-esque attitude, even with friends. They know whom they can go to for what, whom they trust with personal information, etc. Who will flatter shamelessly, who will give them a truly righteous foot in the ass when they need it. A bevy of lovelies is an ego boost. ( Whether he would squire one to his bed is a non-issue, i.e. might think about it, but won't do anything about it either. ) He did two things with you though. Trusted with finance and sensitive digits, and said he loved you. That's upper echelon right there. As to keeping one a secret, I believe some do. Care about someone and hog them close to themself and enjoy them utterly..but in romantic entanglement we are proud of whom we are with. Want the world to know it.

In an earlier post, you say the two of hard 2 arguments. Were they related to the HS dude?

It's a process Peach, no bout adout it.

Argument #1 - High school dude and why I mentioned that we were dating knowing that they are currently not friends.
# 2 - An email I sent to him detailing "what I'm sick of"

Oh dear.

Venusianbull: I think that's precisely what he's doing "disengaging"

ok, you pushed into a wall. He is dealing with this the best way he can without causing his nostrils to flare. Step away from the Bull for a while. He needs some space.

*you pushed him into a wall.

i can't type today.

Lol! We talk everyday, he calls me (yesterday 5 times) & questions me, but I still feel the distance.

I went to go and see my bull last night, and he was so precious. At one point, he just rested his head on my shoulder/chest, and he apologized for not being around, mentioned how he wanted to text me, but he just kept holding back and stuff and blah blah. I just planted a kiss on his head and told him that life sucks sometimes. He then told me he was happy I came to visit him. I totally plan to make him cookies.

Cookies... that's sweet!! (no pun intented). He's calling me "babe" again!! Maybe he's over it.

Posted by Candeh15
I went to go and see my bull last night, and he was so precious. At one point, he just rested his head on my shoulder/chest, and he apologized for not being around, mentioned how he wanted to text me, but he just kept holding back and stuff and blah blah. I just planted a kiss on his head and told him that life sucks sometimes. He then told me he was happy I came to visit him. I totally plan to make him cookies.

you're a cool girlf

VB.. can I borrow Manpon from you?? Might be the FUNNIEST phrase ever I have EVER heard in LIFE! LOLOLOL
@Candeh- You two are SO adorable! :-)
@ Punky- Best. Avatar.Ever! LOL

Feel free. LOL Lord knows they are every bit as hormonal as we are.