Changes of getting Taurus Man back?

Hey guys I hope to get a better idea on my situation. I was hoping to hear from Taurus men regarding this topic so here it goes:

I met my Taurus man from online dating. Initially I was not so much interested in him mainly because he was nonchalant with his approach and the attention that I was getting from other men from the dating app outweigh his interest towards me. I just thought he was only looking for hook ups so I didnt take him seriously.

After a few days of back and forth texting we eventually agreed to meet up for the first time. So for our first date, he took me to the movies. We both had a great time and I really enjoyed his company too so I decided to continue talking to him.

We eventually hung out more, not so frequent but it was more of only whenever we were free. We both smoke pot so we would usually meet up for a quick sesh and just talk about random things.

Eventually we decided to be intimate with each other. The sex was amazing and we both enjoyed it. After being intimate with him, he hinted something along the lines of "you're mine and mine yours". As a scorpio woman, this was comforting to hear because having someone to want you like that makes you feel loved.

I agreed to this so I decided to delete my profile from the dating app as I do not want to entertain other men when I am interested in one. As we tried to be exclusive (this was about 2.5 weeks after meeting up for the first time), I started opening up more to him. I have always been an advocate of transparency so I was honest with him about everything and showed my true self. Now, we all know how scorpios can get (LOL) so I'm not going to lie, I ended up being clingy and was just too intense. Not to say that I didnt have my own life, but I really liked him that I wanted to spend time with him more than just weekends.

I started noticing that he became more distant but he would still be around, sort of. He doesn't text as much but whenever we would see each other hes always all over me. Once we parted ways, he goes back to being non-communicative and distant.

Im not going to lie, this hot/cold treatment that I got from him really bothered me. I was open about it (not confrontational but I was direct about it), and his responses about the situation has always been nonchalant. Nothing changed even after several talks about it.

I finally decided to end it with him since I realized if this is already a problem in the beginning then who knows what it could be months or years down the line. I wasnt about to put both of us through drama, seeing how he is and how I am, so I decided to call it quits.

My break up text to him was very indifferent but kind, I wish him well in the future and hope that he finds what he's looking for. He never responded to that text. I totally get it so I wasnt really expecting a text back.

Its been a week and I do miss him. Reading up about Taurus men I realized that he was really into me and he really liked me. But I realized I made a mistake and was being selfish wherein I was expecting a certain kind of relationship with him. During our small fights about this, I've always told him that I am not used to nonchalant guys like him.

I dont know if he hates me or not. I dont even know where I stand since its not like we've been dating for a while (its only been a month). I want to reach out to him and rekindle, and apologize for how I acted and tell him that I appreciated everything he did for me. I know some people might say that it's better to move on. But I got a feeling that even though hes the total opposite of me, it will also teach me to work on my weaknesses (such as impatience and just being able to go with the flow). I realized what I did wrong and not say I'm willing to change but I do realize that I have to be less intense (I've been told this even by friends from before so I know this is sort of my problem lol).

My question is, based on what has happened between us, should I try to reach out to him first or just move on? I have no problems apologizing for what I did, but I am not a push over either so I do want to have a convo with him about just realizing the bad things that I did. Is it too late? I dont plan to do it right away as I know Taurus men do want their space so I am not going to do it right away, maybe within a few weeks, not sure.

Any input on this topic? Please feel free to comment, any comments are appreciated🙂

He doesn't like to be told what to do and he certainly doesn't like an Ultimatum which was that final text you send him. He was probably Relieved when you send that final goodbye it meant you guys were done and his hands were clean.

We don't like manipulative and clingy people. When you sent him that text you knew you were really only sending it to make him "act right" and change so that he wouldn't lose you. He deeply resents you for that, again he doesn't like to be told what to do. So if he comes back use this a learning lesson and just go with the flow and let him lead you. Normally Taurus men don't come back though, extremely stubborn. Be as ladylike as possible, let him be the Man.Trust you can get a man to do what you want him to do by actions. Example, he is being slow about a commitment start dating again, put that profile pic back up. When he wants to hang out apologize and say you already have plans. If he doesn't want you dating other Men he will let his intentions for you be known.

Taurus are usually slow to get into someone, but once they're in it they're all in, so they do emotionally stick around longer than most signs, so chances are he probably does still have feelings for you. However, the taurus pride and ego is a big thing and you ending things with him probably did a lot to his pride/ego so I wouldnt expect him to be like "yay we're cool lets get back together"... nah, you hurt him, he needs space and time. You DO need to apologize genuinely and let him know how you feel, he may not respond right away but he'll think about it, and the gesture is appreciated and needed if you want to get a taurus back. They appreciate honesty and also need to know where they stand before they make a decision. If you give him too much time, he'll assume you don't care, so its best to apologize sooner than later.

One iffy thing is you said "but I am not a push over either so I do want to have a convo with him about just realizing the bad things that I did".... I mean, you broke up with him....to a taurus thats the main focus and not everything else, so you may not see it that way but he wont be thinking "well i did xyz". it's not the best time to bring up who did what, just apologize if you want him back and let him process, later on you two can discuss the balance of your relationship.

"after several talks about it" yeesh. how many talks can you realistically have about it in a month?

are you sure this is a good match? do you miss him or do you miss a person to smoke pot and have sex with?

if you want to apologise, then be honest and apologise. understand that it may fall on deaf ears and even if it doesn't, you're going to have to deal with a guy who is not expressive with his feelings, acts in a way that you perceive to be hot and cold, and most likely ping every nervous disposition you have.

you guys are opposite. as much as he is going to frustrate you, you are going to frustrate him. if you think there is something worth clinging on to then i wish you good luck but i don't know how you can realistically know that after a clingy month.

Posted by jeane

"after several talks about it" yeesh. how many talks can you realistically have about it in a month?

are you sure this is a good match? do you miss him or do you miss a person to smoke pot and have sex with?

if you want to apologise, then be honest and apologise. understand that it may fall on deaf ears and even if it doesn't, you're going to have to deal with a guy who is not expressive with his feelings, acts in a way that you perceive to be hot and cold, and most likely ping every nervous disposition you have.

you guys are opposite. as much as he is going to frustrate you, you are going to frustrate him. if you think there is something worth clinging on to then i wish you good luck but i don't know how you can realistically know that after a clingy month.

what she said - I got nothing else

I'm not a Taurus nor a man lol but I've been involved with a Taurus for a year. They do not like ultimatums and you shouldn't have broke up with him if you weren't prepared to actually break up. They don't play games. At least mine doesn't. Next time rather than making proclamations, just lean back and give him time and space and see what happens.

Posted by ScorpioMama

Hey guys I hope to get a better idea on my situation. I was hoping to hear from Taurus men regarding this topic so here it goes:

I met my Taurus man from online dating. Initially I was not so much interested in him mainly because he was nonchalant with his approach and the attention that I was getting from other men from the dating app outweigh his interest towards me. I just thought he was only looking for hook ups so I didnt take him seriously.

After a few days of back and forth texting we eventually agreed to meet up for the first time. So for our first date, he took me to the movies. We both had a great time and I really enjoyed his company too so I decided to continue talking to him.

We eventually hung out more, not so frequent but it was more of only whenever we were free. We both smoke pot so we would usually meet up for a quick sesh and just talk about random things.

Eventually we decided to be intimate with each other. The sex was amazing and we both enjoyed it. After being intimate with him, he hinted something along the lines of "you're mine and mine yours". As a scorpio woman, this was comforting to hear because having someone to want you like that makes you feel loved.

I agreed to this so I decided to delete my profile from the dating app as I do not want to entertain other men when I am interested in one. As we tried to be exclusive (this was about 2.5 weeks after meeting up for the first time), I started opening up more to him. I have always been an advocate of transparency so I was honest with him about everything and showed my true self. Now, we all know how scorpios can get (LOL) so I'm not going to lie, I ended up being clingy and was just too intense. Not to say that I didnt have my own life, but I really liked him that I wanted to spend time with him more than just weekends.

I started noticing that he became more distant but he would still be around, sort of. He doesn't text as much but whenever we would see each other hes always all over me. Once we parted ways, he goes back to being non-communicative and distant.

Im not going to lie, this hot/cold treatment that I got from him really bothered me. I was open about it (not confrontational but I was direct about it), and his responses about the situation has always been nonchalant. Nothing changed even after several talks about it.

I finally decided to end it with him since I realized if this is already a problem in the beginning then who knows what it could be months or years down the line. I wasnt about to put both of us through drama, seeing how he is and how I am, so I decided to call it quits.

My break up text to him was very indifferent but kind, I wish him well in the future and hope that he finds what he's looking for. He never responded to that text. I totally get it so I wasnt really expecting a text back.

Its been a week and I do miss him. Reading up about Taurus men I realized that he was really into me and he really liked me. But I realized I made a mistake and was being selfish wherein I was expecting a certain kind of relationship with him. During our small fights about this, I've always told him that I am not used to nonchalant guys like him.

I dont know if he hates me or not. I dont even know where I stand since its not like we've been dating for a while (its only been a month). I want to reach out to him and rekindle, and apologize for how I acted and tell him that I appreciated everything he did for me. I know some people might say that it's better to move on. But I got a feeling that even though hes the total opposite of me, it will also teach me to work on my weaknesses (such as impatience and just being able to go with the flow). I realized what I did wrong and not say I'm willing to change but I do realize that I have to be less intense (I've been told this even by friends from before so I know this is sort of my problem lol).

My question is, based on what has happened between us, should I try to reach out to him first or just move on? I have no problems apologizing for what I did, but I am not a push over either so I do want to have a convo with him about just realizing the bad things that I did. Is it too late? I dont plan to do it right away as I know Taurus men do want their space so I am not going to do it right away, maybe within a few weeks, not sure.

Any input on this topic? Please feel free to comment, any comments are appreciated🙂

You never make a Taurus man do what he does not want to do. You caught feelings too soon and tried to solidify a relationship because of the intimacy without allowing it to continue naturally. A Taurus man is a hunter which means most prefer the chase not the other way around.

In my personal experience with Taurus' of the past and my current Taurus is that they don't like to be treared as if they're on your time and the nicer you treat them the more distant they become. You have to put your foot down and remain independent.

If he really like you he will come back without any effort from you. I suggest living your best life and if he comes back by then you might have found someone better suited for you.