confused on the guy i like too much

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i met this taurus guy during a christmas carol in december i was dating a scorpio at the time and me and taurus bagan to be friends we'd flirt a little but that about it bcuz at the time he had a girlfriend. after the show ended he left to college in maine. he comes down every weekend to work and see family and friends. he usually ahngs out with me after work wich is at about 10 and night. when we hangout we go joyrididng or out to eat . i left scorpio bcuz i lost interst and i gained alot of interst in taurus. i told taurus i liked hima nd he told me he does like me but not like that but he'd like it if we can still hangout. we kept on hanging out and we eneded up kissing bcuz we were over flirting. then we eneded having sex. i talked to hima bout ti tot see whats going on. i told him how i flet and all and he said i know i understand im just not looking for a realtionship right now (he just go out of one) i understood were he is coming from. i tolfd him im very determined and i would wait till he is ready and if he liked i never got that answer unsurely. we still hangout but everytime we say hi or bye we kiss and he spends most of his weekends with me. i dont get whats going on. why does he still kiss me and why does he give me this sweet stare afater it? why does he hangout with me more than his old friends in his town? i dont get it! is this a taurus thing some one help me please.

yep, stop asking about the commitment, he is obviously around u, and taurus' wouldn't be around unless they actually enjoyed u as a person. so best advice, be happi hes around, make him a home cooked meal and cuddle on the couch and everything will be alright.

Perhaps he's spending time with you because your giving affection/sex without a commitment? He has the best of both worlds.... a young lady to spend time with & get physical pleasure from without having to answer to. I'm a Taurus & dated a Taurus for 4 yrs & this is my guess

eva78,
you might be right but im feeling something else coming off him....... the thing is he probably does like me im soemthing new and exciting to him and he probably not telling me bcuz if he does the excitment might go away adn get boring. i only had sex with him once and thats were in gunna leave it until i get a diffrent reaction towards him.

OK I would say..... you are right to not have sex with him anymore, that is what will prove if he's really into you or not. You already did it once so either he's hangin in there waiting for the next time or he genuinly likes you. The only way to know is to not do it. If he REALLY likes you, he'll stick around. Keep in mind he may say things or treat you really nice in order to get in your pants again. Boys are not dumb, especially when it comes to sex & they always seem to know just the right things to say or do to get you in the heart strings which by the way is what holds a womans vagina onto her body LOL. Keep hanging out with him in a "friend" way & things will either progress into something more or he'll drift away. But I agree with everyone else, let go of the commitment talk & focus more on the friend aspect, after all friends make the best lovers 🙂 Good Luck!

OK I would say..... you are right to not have sex with him anymore, that is what will prove if he's really into you or not. You already did it once so either he's hangin in there waiting for the next time or he genuinly likes you. The only way to know is to not do it. If he REALLY likes you, he'll stick around. Keep in mind he may say things or treat you really nice in order to get in your pants again. Boys are not dumb, especially when it comes to sex & they always seem to know just the right things to say or do to get you in the heart strings which by the way is what holds a womans vagina onto her body LOL. Keep hanging out with him in a "friend" way & things will either progress into something more or he'll drift away. But I agree with everyone else, let go of the commitment talk & focus more on the friend aspect, after all friends make the best lovers 🙂 Good Luck!

Sorry....I had to add more after I re-read your original post, You told him you liked him after you had sex & he said he understood but wasn't ready for a relationship? This right here says exactly what he wants.... Sex without a commitment, he had no problem sleeping with you but he has reservations about being in a relationship. 2nd you told him you were determined & you would wait? This is a BIG mistake for a couple reasons, 1 being a taurus, that sounds like a challange( just using the word determined) & You could never be more stubborn than a Taurus, saying something like that would make me hold out even longer, 2nd when you tell him you'll wait......you hand him the power to decide when & if ever he'll give you more & saying you'll wait for him means to him that he can take his good ole sweet time & he'll be confident you'll be there at his beck & call. Next time he calls to hang out I'd be unavailable, you can't just be there whenever he wants you around, IMO of course 🙂

eva 78,
he told me we shouldnt of had sex bcuz feelings get all mixed up. he said this because he thougth he hurt me but i let him know that he didnt and that i didnt regret anything that happend and he agreed, and he let me know clearly that its up to me if i wanted to have sex with him again. yeah i know it was a compleltly BIG mistake to let him know that im determined and that i would wait i beat myself up for that. but as of now im showing him that i shouldnt be chasing after him. im way ahead of you with that im buisy i cant hangout. the thing is i usually call him almost everyday or text him but he never returns my calls or text me back. so what im doing is not calling him at all or texting him. im just going with the flow im kinda getting over him (keyword:kinda) he's hard to try to let go.

I know, always easier said than done! I'm going through a similiar situation I suppose so I know that it's hard. &&& Merc, I thought that would be a bit of useful info for everyone to know LOL 🙂

i gave up!......im just gunna be his friend and not be up his ass much i got tired of it w.e.......im moving on with my life lol

He's back, its been a year since I last saw him. Over the summer I bumped into him (litteraly) without knowin it was him I looked up saw him said hi (akwardly) and walked away. A month ago I sent him a message on my facebook just sayin hi and how he's been. He wrote back "im sorry I haven't spoken to you in such a long time, u must hate me! And I don't blame u to be mad at me" well I was mad at him bcuz after he told he wasn't ready for a realition ship and week later he got into one. Right now im just his friend and maybe hopin later after some time he will open his eyes. Right now he is single and just livin life just how I am. I hung out with hi yesterday and when I saw him the feelings came back. And I just closed my eyes for a second took a breath and tried to brush out the feelings, basically I hid it very well. He knows im all about the friendship right now and he wants me to keep in touch him. Thing is I still want him. Im taking this as a second chance to start over with him. I just don't want to make the same mistake as before and I know im a changed woman bcuz of a lot of turning points goin on with me this year. I jsut don't want to scare him off, I want him to fall for me...for me. I need some guidance to this stubborn taurus heart.

Corrections

*Keep in touch with him lol
*turning points that went on this year.

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Hey Libraeyes, I just read your story and was curious what happened to you and your Taurus guy?