In love with a taurus man.

He calls me 'back' and texts me 'back' but never takes the initiative. Off late its even started 'slipping' his mind to call me back. Even when we speak he sounds preoccupied most times. He keeps using work as an excuse, and I too keep telling myself that he's a workaholic and its just work, and there's nothing else on his mind. WORK I CAN HANDLE. But i keep getting this feeling he's into some other woman. I know this other really attractive woman in his office who was very interested in him, and he used to give her alot of attention back and is very friendly with her. I have no clue what goes on in office, and have curbed my imaginations cause i want to trust him. I really do want to. Should i discuss things with him? i dont wanna sound paranoid. WE haven't known each other so long, so trust is still in formation.

I shouldn't have fallen in love. Not with a taurean.

It doesn't really seem like he's that into you. When a Taurus is interested in you its very obvious and they make it known to you that they are. I'm sure he is focused on his career but he would make time for you if thats what he wanted to do, he would fit you in. You shouldn't have fallen in love not sure of what his feelings for you are.

Taurus Men tend to think they are the Don Juan of the zodiac. I've said it time and time again.

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lol well they kinda are like the Don Juan of the zodiac. Thats why you have all these posters asking about them. Their hard to resist. Hi Merc!

The only one and the only one who has his heart is a big difference!

Im all defense of the Bull men, if there is someone among that number that REALLY bares his interest I feel like he would make it exclusive to her, because Im the same way. I do a little flirting and whatnot as to stay entertained, but when I find someone that truly interests me I quickly clear the room of any distraction and devote my true affection to them. I call them my "suitors". It may seem wrong, but I'm sure, like me, the Bull Men let everyone know nothing is exclusive. Now after that point is made, I feel like any efforts made are self directed and initiated. And don't get me wrong these "suitors" decide to be suitors, I dont ask them for anything other than friendship and I dont lead anyone on. I dont have sex with anyone except the ONE person I am truly interested in and I dont make it a secret that Im interested in someONE when I am.

Now that makes sense!

"Oh and Tuaurs really do sit back and want people to come to them. Oh they'll poke you every once in awhile just to make sure you are still there, but the expect you to do alot of the initial contacting, I think any way."

He actually has started making ALOT of time for me, after/during work, but everytime i get stuck with some work, and am not able to get back to him 'almost immidiately' his moodiness returns and he starts acting all wierd and when i finally do get back to him, he'll act aloof and non-responsive. He' might act all tough and wierd, but he's really such an immature kid inside. His moodiness has started affecting me now, i've started withdrawing from him from within. As much as i want to be with him, i've been hurt too many times before, and dont want to be part of his little harem that mite be running. I just hope he clarifies what he really wants soon, before its too late, before we ruin something we both wanted.

Well as far as the contacting part goes, thats how they are and thats not going to change. They like for you to march to the beat of THEIR drum. If you withdraw he will only do the same so you have to decide either you want to try and make something with him or you don't. You can't straddle the fence. If you put up guards he's going to put up guards and neither of you will get anywhere with each other. If you have a fear of the past repeating itself then maybe you are not emotionally ready to have a serious relationship and need to get over your past let downs before trying to proceed with another relationship. In a relationship its not going to be about what and how you want things all the time. You HAVE to step outside yourself in order to reach the other person.

Most people don't want to do this because it makes you valunable to the other person and could lead to heartbreak but its a risk you have to take if you want a meaningful relationship with someone.

Not him, but his aloofness leads to same feelings.

Maybe i've been reading too much into things, and he's not into this as much as i'd want him to be.

I'm so used to direct guys...aarghh!

"They like for you to march to the beat of THEIR drum"

Jesus!

P.S. Merc -

'what exactly are the taurean requirements of a love-interest' =p

Here's what you need to do to GET & KEEP a Taurus man?.
Be a stable
Be affectionate
Be financially savvy
Be classy and don't over do it with the make up
Dress with taste but don't waste money on trendy fashion
Be loyal
Don't be a party animal
Be feminine and sensual
Enjoy the fine things in life such as food, fine, and other delicacies
Take pleasure in cozy nights in rather than crazy nights out
Have culture and an appreciation for the arts ? music, poetry, art?
Know how to entertain guests
Be open to uncensored displays of affection
Want to be slowly and patiently explored by his hands and mouth
Return his admiration and flirtation
Have a desire to build a steady, loving home
Be honest
Stand up for what you believe in
Desire peace and harmony rather than turmoil
Have respect for his family and yours
Want a long-lasting, stable relationship
Be ready to follow a routine
Be ready to curb your wallet
Cultivate true friendships
Again, be loyal
And again, desire consistent ?earthly? pleasures




Here's what you can do to LOSE your Taurus man?
Play games
Be dishonest
Betray him
Be cold and aloof
Be unpredictable
Play ?unattainable?
Be frivolous with your money (and especially his!)
Party all night, every night
Show little affection
Start fights
Hang out with the ?wrong crowd?
Pay more attention to your friends than him
Try to make him jealous by contacting your ex's
Be crude and rude without interest in the finer things in life
Decline his advances
Censor his sensual exploration of your body
Rush lovemaking
Again, betray him in the slightest way
Again, be cerebral, abstract, and unaffectionate
Again, be wasteful with your (and his) resources
Destabilize his routine