Because this guy likes for me to make the decisions, but I try to encourage him to take the initiative... and step up his game. He wants to make this official but I think he should be doing more to show and prove.
Do taurus men like to be courted?
Well, I have my ways, and he seems to be coming around to giving me more of the responses that I want... I'm liking my Taurus experience, you guys are such an exciting challenge... which makes up for your so called boredom.

Taurus men are very "it's up to you" type of people. Get used to deciding what you and him will do, go, see, etc. It's not so much that he doesn't care, but it's rather he wants to do what you want to do.
It makes it hard, trust me. I dated a Taurus for a while. A Taurus/Taurus relationship is a lot of push and pull, but you need patience with a Bull because a bull will be patient with you.
He'll be decisive in many other aspects and like Merc says, don't be surprised if one day or week he's making the decision in your relationship and all of sudden he reverts back. It's a typical thing.
It makes it hard, trust me. I dated a Taurus for a while. A Taurus/Taurus relationship is a lot of push and pull, but you need patience with a Bull because a bull will be patient with you.
He'll be decisive in many other aspects and like Merc says, don't be surprised if one day or week he's making the decision in your relationship and all of sudden he reverts back. It's a typical thing.
I wouldn't say that Taurians are lazy in making dicissions...i had taurus friend and he would actually make all decissions, even for me lol...he would say like 'let me help you...if you do this and that...this gonna happen..but if you do so and so...that gonna happen...i suggest taking this step'...and like 89% of the time he would decide the right way...so i don't know maybe that's just him...
I think he got used to you leading. For example, when a guy asks me what I want to do I can think up a million things... as a matter of fact I have the whole date planned out! LOL If I'm with my friends I'm usually the one deciding too, they let me so it's cool... but if you wanna do something else, speak up quickly before I like MY ideas too much heheheheee
However, with my bf he was always the one wanting to do this or that and taking charge (which is nice in a man) so I'm used to that now. I've gotten comfy with that so don't bother moi 🙂
However, with my bf he was always the one wanting to do this or that and taking charge (which is nice in a man) so I'm used to that now. I've gotten comfy with that so don't bother moi 🙂
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