Does anyone think that our signs........

played an important role on how we respond, interact, or behave in relationships?

I was in a general forum......it wasn't about astrology signs or how a certain signs handle a certain situation........it was general Q&A about relationships.

I have to compare this forum to this other forum. I'm trying to figure out if I should cut loose my Taurus friend, whom I like, or continue on supporting him, although, he isn't always there for me.

In the other forum, the respond seem cruel & thoughtless of the person asking for advice. Every answered is what you would expect.....it's all generalized. Like he is playing you so drop him or he is using you...blah, blah, blah...........

What forum would you think have a more validation on how one handle a relationships?

When I read the other forum, I felt hopeless to even try to be patience with my Taurus friend.............

Alot of people here seem to try to be optimistic and not want to judge from one side of the story.There seems to be a if you don't know whats going on how are we supposed to know when your the one who knows this person point of view from alot of people here.Also knowing people like to exaggerate whats going on and wants to be a victem even if there isn't any black and white evidence proving it.

I think I see where you are coming from, Tiamat. I used to date an aries (I'm a leo). Leo/Aries are supposed to make great relationships. I was obsessed with that fact, and thus, it is still hard to let go of him and the idea of us being together. I do believe that your signs definitely have an influence on the way you approach relationships. The reason why I believe that is because it's been my experience...e.g. Leo's are known to fall in love often and quickly. Whether it's true love, or not, it always happens to me.

The bottom line, however, is that you need to be honest with yourself. If you really like this guy, obviously, you try to be more understanding of his needs. You might give more of yourself than he does to you. You may make excuses for him, and try to put yourself in his shoes. Being supportive and loving, in this regard, is perfectly fine and natural. But, you have to ask yourself if you can keep it up. He may not treat you the way you want to be treated...you can either deal with that, or leave, especially if you're not happy. At least you are trying, daydreamer, and that shows you care and really do have strong feelings for him. If you are content with the way things are, that's ok. If not, talk to him and decide whether or not you can be with him. But don't expect him to change...especially over night. Sometimes, relationships just take time...when two people care, they will put forth the effot to make it work.

Hope this helps!