HMMMMM........

Well, I had a second date last nite. He was born on the cusp, April 18. (aries,taurus anyone?)...with his venus bein in taurus!!!

This is crazy, he is already bein possesive of me. He has strong taurus traits, like takin things slow and he told me that if the first date doesn't work out he always tells them right away and then there is no more. He said there is no use in keeping people hangin on a string. I got a second date, and I'm scared, especially after what jus happened. I like him, and he is VERY sexy and I find myself attracted to him, but I'm hurt still over what has happened and I told him I was scared and he knows what has happened too.

TG,CL, anyone— What do you think—.....and btw HE IS NOT MARRIED AND HAS NO G/F!!!!..LOL. He is free and clear.

"...first date doesn't work out he always tells them right away and then there is no more. He said there is no use in keeping people hangin on a string."

OMG, an honest guy!!! Hey you have a second date & he just finished saying that. Sounds like he really likes you too. Taking it slow is also a very good idea for you. You probally will have trust issues after that last experience so this way you guys can take it at the pace that will probally be better for long term. Either way, you think he's hot & you like him! Of course you're gonna be scared, you probally would be with anyone after that last man. Play it out, see where it goes. This guys says he doesn't want to hang anyone on a string, the last guy did. Just see if his words match his action. Watch for details.

I can't send more private messages either, 😢 , but I wanna hear more about this!

what kind of details should i watch for??...he is a very busy man as he has two kids. He is very sweet, but he is not my x lover!!!...grrrrrrr

i wish i could get over this shit!!

Details, like what he says & does. Even what he asks you, what's important to him. How he responds. This is a way of avoiding the blindlove thing. By really paying attention.

I was married to an aries. Repeat WAS... Horrible relationship. The sex is what brought us together. Wooo!! Bloody porn star!! But as the relationship progressed, I became unattracted to him and his ways pretty much just him!! We were totally uncompatible. The only thing we had was sex. Then the sex went away (I didn't want to anymore) and we still were married.
You can't have 2 stubborn, bull-headed, unwilling to change for the other person, always right, frustrating, set in our own ways, always wanting to be in control, individuals trying to cohabitate and be wed together. Just ain't happening, of course, there are more details but romance does bring people together and sometimes blindly.
Aries on a taurus cusp, wow, that must be an interesting mix. Since in my experience the two separate don't work, I can only imagine what the two mixed within one individual would be like.

Hey...I'm a Taurus on the cusp of Aries. I think I'm a good blend. I like and appreciate security/loyality but I am not boring. I have the energy and passion to be free sprited and to appreciate that in others.

I like the energy of aries a lot!

CrystalTears...

First off, I think it is GREAT that you are seeing someone else especially someone who is wanting to take things slow mainly because you are still healing over the other guy and it is really in your best interest to take things slow.

Secondly, with Aries/Taurus cusp, I have NO doubt that this guy is NOT lying to you about being busy & spending time with his kids. Both Aries & Taurus's are very ambitious people (though not work-a-holics like the Cappy's) and his work will probably keep him moving. Aries & Taurus men also tend to be good fathers but that's a GOOD thing, him spending time with his kids.

Lastly...I agree with TG, this guy seems honest because most men would just ignore your phone calls and blow you off rather than tell you the truth about not feeling the chemistry.

Good Luck...I really hope things work out for you!

Cancerlady

Here's some extra info for ya!

Aries/Taurus
April 19 to April 23

Aries is the first sign of the zodiac. It represents birth and the first realization of self. Taurus, the second sign of the Zodiac, moves beyond what is represented by Aries. Taurus begins to physically explore the world. Aries tend to display strong leadership, and their extroverted and assertive nature lets them eagerly lead the new cycle of the zodiac. Taureans tend to be richly sensual, enjoying the good things in life and the physical pleasures that come with them. Together, these two astrological signs denote an active and dynamic pioneer who responds to the world by examining the worth of each possible response. The ability to follow through and complete projects that others may have abandoned through boredom or because it was too difficult is blended with the sign of new beginnings. This promises a tremendous amount of fulfilling adventure and achievement for those born on the Aries/Taurus cusp.

The astrological symbol of Aries is the Ram. Like the popular conception of the Ram, Aries people are able to accomplish a lot by sheer energy and force of will, ramming their way to their goals. In this way, Aries exemplifies the cardinal quality assigned to it. The astrological symbol of Taurus is the Bull. The term bullheaded applies to Taureans in both its positive and negative connotations, and Taurus exemplifies the fixed quality assigned to it. The Aries/Taurus can be blunt, and they are bold and strong. They are among the strongest combination of signs when it comes to meeting goals because of their reliable persistence. Those born under the influence of both astrological signs are able to initiate and successfully complete projects and activities.

Aries is ruled by the planet Mars. In ancient Roman mythology, Mars (and his Greek equivalent, Aries) was the god of war. He was bold, aggressive, energetic and courageous. On the negative side, he was impulsive, compulsive and quick-tempered, and he could give in to anger and a will for destruction. Taurus is ruled by the planet Venus. In ancient Roman mythology, Venus (and her Greek equivalent, Aphrodite) was the goddess of love, beauty and pleasure. She represented joy, happiness and appreciation of beautiful things. On the negative side, her appreciation for sweets and luxury could result in overindulgence. Mars was active and high-spirited, full of physical energy and vitality; the Aries/Taurus-born reflect his leadership and initiative. They are strongly independent and determined and have the physical stamina to stay their course. They have a great love for culture. It's important for them to feel good. They often maintain extensive art collections and tend to be artistic themselves, sometimes through singing. They enjoy partnership and marriage, and use their charm -- as well as their focused perseverance -- to work toward harmony and personal security. An individual born on the Aries/Taurus cusp has the potential for great satisfaction in life, thanks to the balance of great action and great will.

The element associated with Aries is Fire, and the element associated with Taurus is Earth. Fire Signs are physical beings who tend to respond to the world through action. Earth Signs tend to respond to the world by examining the worth of each possible response. The combination of these two elements provides a solid foundation to pioneer uncharted territories.

The Aries/Taurus tends to want what they want, when they want it. The Aries side of their character needs to accept that this isn't always possible and stop butting their heads, ram-like, into the nearest wall. Aries/Taurus people can also be extremely patient and dependable. Their ambition ensures that they are hardworking and helpful to others. The blending of their elements, earth and fire, gives them a general focus on building things and seeing their ideas through to completion. However

well ty...but i'm still unsure of seein someone else right now...too scared...very scared...tired of bein used and played with...ya know...but i will watch for signs and such and see where it goes...

Did not mean to offend tauruslady2 but I was merely writing of the separate entities, a taurus and an aries in a relationship, and besides you are female and my aries was male. I am sure that makes a whole lot of difference.

hmmmmmm what...??

you qs and answer yourself...??

no i don't qs and answer myself...jus don't know what to think and don't know if i want to do this...date someone else right now...

It's good to question yourself sometimes. As long as you find answers, and she is! CT, if you're not ready, then you're not. You don't need the rebound replacement thing happening. Someone awesome in your life would be cool, right? So you decide whether it's him you like or what. Take your time. The guy already said he's cool with taking it slow.