Words of wisdom to Taurus............

I?m new here. What I?m about to say you may or may not like it, but it needs to be said.

There seem to be the same common problem everyone is having with their Taurus partner. I see a pattern that the Taurus men just suddenly drop out sight without warning & resurface again. I just posted the same questions.

I been doing a lot of reading in this forum & from what I have read, Taurus seems to be stuck in ruts with financial stability, ex-girlfriend, ex-wife & their children (if any). By doing so, Taurus is the one creating their own dramas in their life & their partner lives. Yet, they don?t want to be disturbed & want a harmonist relationship.

For the sake of other people feeling?s why do Taurus get into another relationship if they already are having past personal issues? It gets worst; they disappear & resurface weeks, months, or years later & this pattern continue over & over again. When they do disappear they neglect their partner?s feelings, emotion, & mental being & it doesn?t seem to faze them that this is happening.

Correct me if I?m wrong, but that behavior seem straight out selfish to me. Maybe Taurus is too dam practical to remember that other people have feelings too. Taurus people need to put some poetry & spiritual inspiration into their lives. Being practical is how you deal with the real world, but when dealing with human?s emotion, it takes more than just practical sense.

I know that Taurus more than any sign are looking for security & stability in a relationships. I don?t doubt that once they have found that in a partner that they will be loyal, dependable, compassionate, romantic, & full of passions. BUT, before all this can happen, Taurus has to learn to trust & open up to the one that truly & genuinely care & love them.

Taurus might feel they need to runaway when there is a problem, but for other signs, they need their Taurus mate to presently be there. It is OK if Taurus needs to go away for a certain time, but when your partner needs you, you should emerge from your hideout & comfort your partner. There is stronger word that speaks louder than saying ?I love you.? That magical word is—.. ?COMPRIMISE.?

If Taurus doesn?t possess people like objects & materials??.Taurus will live a more harmonious life. Dwelling on a lost will only eat you up alive, inside! Like the old saying goes & it should reflect strongly on Taurus, ?If you love her, set her free!?

One more thing, don?t wait to reach your status quo to confess your love. I believe, ?The strongest foundations of a relationship are builds from the ground up??..together!?

welcome daydreamer,

I have the same problem you do with the xception that he is married and wanted a divorce since last yr..and there is a child involved...

unfortuneatly there is nothing no one can do for you or to help you xcept to tell you let it ride...or let it go...(should b taken my own advice). The bull is stubborn very stubborn and won't listen to reason. I have called over and over again and he jus don't care . I am about to the point of confronting the wife and tellin my side as she has started some crap. what you say is sooo true and i wish that my xlover was to read it but he can't.

I almost thought from reading your story that we had the same man..lol..we don't jus the same problem. I"m sorry you are goin through the same crap i am.. all i can do is wish you good luck and hope that it all works out for you.

I hope you don't get a broken heart like i have and have to go through what i have been through...i have learned that taurus males(some of them) contradict themselves and really can't make up their minds on anything. They get scared and they can't help it. Its their nature and you can really jus deal with it or not bother with bein with him. I"m sorry not to sound like a b*&@!, but that is how it is. you can't change a person or how they think. you will jus have to b patient and wait. I still call mine everyday and even tho he don't answer the phone i still leave a message to let him knowi am thinkin about him. It makes me feel better anyway and i know that he knows how i feel.

I hope none of my friends on here take offense to what i said and i hope you don't either.

(( *hugs*))

CT

Hey Daydreamer,

I just posted to your other thread. All I can say is you hit the nail on the head with this one. Crystaltears is right..either love it or leave it. Personally it hasnt been that long and Im getting ready to leave it. It's sad too beacause we are such good friends and now that we are together its like we never got a honeymoon. Were like an old married couple doing what he wants when he wants it. I just dont feel like I wow him in any way, feel like anyone could be doing what Im doing and he would be fine with it. Never have been with a guy like this. I have been giving it time thinking things will improve or he just needs time to see what he is feeling but I think this is just the way he is. I know I dont want to spend the rest of my life like this, so I'm thinking of letting it go. Knowing Taurus (they dont like to be told no or they cant have) he will decide to do what it takes to keep me. Me being a Libra, I work at it until Im done, but when Im done, Im done. Too bad really, could have been something really good. Good luck to you and your situation, and thanks for letting me know im not alone..

Sunshine....

Hit it on the nail is right. The question is: DO you actually expect us bulls to change?!!

No I?m not upset about your comment. The problems we both have are not because of us. If you read the other topics most of the problems the other Taurus partner have are quit similar.

This forum has given me a whole understand & better outlook about Taurus. If you read between the lines you will see that the Taurus can be reliable, compassionate, caring, etc?.. It is getting a Taurus to that point & how long are you willing to wait for him to get to that point is really the challenge.

I don?t doubt that my Taurus friend doesn?t care about me, it is that I think he don?t want to add on another relationship when he is going through personal dilemma or trying to get over an old relationship. From what I read, once the Taurus let go of that love they have for an old partner, his heart will not open up to them again, especially, if it was a disloyalty that cause the relationship to be broken. He needs time to heal his pains before he can love again.

This is why I?m just happy to even be a part of his life & be there for him when he needs me. Maybe, in time, he will feel that I?m not a threat to his security & will open up his heart to me. Beside we are not just friend, we are childhood friend. I think that I was a part of security blanket??. growing up. I don?t think he can put me completely out of life yet, since having similarity in his life is a part of his security!

Thanks & hang on!

another thing: Do bulls actually want to even change? -to conform to what you think is right?

no we don't want bulls to change....nor to conform to what we think is right...you wouldn't b you if you weren't like that...that is how i feel anyway..

i don't doubt that my x lover cares either..and i'm tryin to hang on with all my might..but it seems there is no divorce in the horizan either..i'm scared he has forgotten me...he thinks we were a mistake and is pretty grouchy towards me lately for no reason...he only talks to me on the phone every once in awhile but i still call and let him know i am thinkin about him...i jus can't seem to let it go..my love is strong and i feel it in my gut that we have something...i jus keep reassuring him how i feel and that is all i can do...but here in about the next week or so we are movin out of the area..i'm scared to leave for fear of losing him altogether...and i don't want that..i have told him i don't want to leave and that i want to b with him..but everytime we are together and then he has to leave me(which he says he doesn't like doin he would rather stay with me)...he ignores me a few days and then when he does talk to me he pushes me away...and i jus try an stay calm and take it with a grain assault...i know he is upset and torn(mayb)

i will keep hangin on as long as i can..bein with another man jus makes me sick so i would rather hang on to this..as i feel one day we will b together(HOPEFULLY)

havin this site has helped me too and i'm glad its here and i'm thankful for the people i have met on here...they are good support...good luck to you too...keep me posted...

((((hugs))))

CT

Hey CT, I just thought of it. Taurus people are JEALOUS kings & queens. Maybe if you maybe not moved on, but say, went on a date, had some fun, he might get concerned. Who knows, maybe, just maybe you might meet someone that can make you feel like you never thought you could. Think about it.

No??.. Bull doesn?t want to change because they are stubborn to the core.
My friend said he is so upset with everybody wanting to change him. I agree with him, he has a right to be upset. If people accepted you for the way you are from the get go, why are they trying to change you later?

The answer is simple, people fear that their partner might not be considered acceptable in their own community, religion, and social rack. They want everyone else to accept their partner. They don?t want their partner to be label as ?different? because they themselves want to be accepted. I say, those people who want to change other are the people who want to be different but are scare sh****** to do so. Nothing wrong if one can?t express that, as long it is in their heart they are free-spirited.

Hey CT, I just thought of it. Taurus people are JEALOUS kings & queens. Maybe if you maybe not moved on, but say, went on a date, had some fun, he might get concerned. Who knows, maybe, just maybe you might meet someone that can make you feel like you never thought you could. Think about it.

TG, I have thought about that and when i am out on a date he never sees me with anyone...that is the only problem...but he hears of it and says something to me about but in the same sentence says he don't care...xplain that one——

if i could only get him to see me with someone else ....that probably would b xceptionally good!!!! but it never happens...but you do know i told you one time we have some kind of connection..i think he knows when i am with someone cuz i get weird feelings...i read somewhere that taurus males have telepathy with the person they have been with...i have that too..so i think he knows...i think it would bother him more tho if he seen me with someone...hehe

Hit it on the nail is right. The question is: DO you actually expect us bulls to change?!!


No, not at all. That is why I said you have to either love it or leave it. I dont think anyone should have to change.

Sunshine...

Hi Daydreamer!

This is a bit spooky... have you been dating the same guy as me?? Just kidding!

You are totally right though, my Taurus guy is so practical to a fault. He has ended up hurting everyone around him.. including himself. And unfortuntately... "Mr No-change" is the only one who can change the situation. He has created this comfy little life for himself, and (it appears) would rather put up with being in a loveless relationship, than do anything to make anyone he supposidly cares about happy.

To my aquarius mind, I can't understand this... we know when it's not right, and when it's not... we do something about it!

I love what was said about the jealousy thing, my guy got very jealous when he knew I was dating other people.. however, I HATED being out with other guys, it did make me feel sick.

I do have a gut feeling that I will be with my guy eventually... call it intuition/or gullible stupidity :-0
I'm just hanging on, and every now and then, letting him know that I'm still here for him. I'm ready for the long-haul, which is just as well considering he is a Taurus male!!

ageofaqua x.

OK, sagitTAURies, I got one mystery for you to solve. Why do Taurus disappear for certain time & resurface again when everything is going good?

The last time we talked about the relationship he told me this, ?Take it for what it is. Just be patience with me, I don?t have a lot to offer right now.? But yet, he has 2 houses, a car, & stable job. Do you think he is telling me to be patience because he has not reach his status quo, or is he not emotional available?

The last time I saw him, he played this CD & wanted me to listen to the lyrics & I think he was relaying this message to me. This song is by Tom Petty & the Heartbreaker. The title is called ?Breakdown.? The lyric goes, ?It?s alright if you love me, it?s alright if you don?t.? ?Honey I?m not afraid of you runaway because I get the feeling you won?t?. ?There is no sense in pretend.? ?Your eyes give you away.? ?Something inside of you was feeling like I do, so there is all there is to say?...breakdown??go ahead & give it to me?..breakdown??.honey take me through the night??breakdown?..it?s alright!?

You know, he might be able to read me at that moment, but if he keeps taking me for granted, I will be the one to disappear out of his life—for good!

Hey, by the way, what is wrong with being selfish?!!! "I" have no problem with it! lol

OK, maybe not selfish?..how about overindulging in being selfish. Everybody needs time for themselves, what I?m saying is, you need to get out of selfish mode when your partner is having a crisis??.for god sake!

By the way I'm Pisces...........

I?m saying is, you need to get out of selfish mode when your partner is having a crisis??.for god sake!

Ok, this is not my area at all. I'm always there for the people I love. You must be speaking of some people you know, not a taurus. I get selfish in my life because I want it to be good, people I love are a part of that.

What kind of crisis was going on anyways, pisces daydreamer?

I?m not in any particular crisis. Everything that I read in this forum I see a pattern. Taurus seems to disappear for whatever reason & then reappear again like nothing happen. When their partner need them or send little sincere messages they never respond. Where or what do Taurus go or do when you are gone? Do you think about that person that misses you?

"Do you think about that person that misses you?"

If I am getting away to be away from them, No, I don't think of them, until I miss them & realize I want to be with them.
But, sometimes I get away because I'm scared that I am scaring the person I want away. I notice my strong feelings & get scared & try to distance myself. I'm sure Venuspenis would agree with me on that one, eh Sagitaurus?

Okay...CrystalTears I can't hold this in anymore.

I know you really "love" this guy, but WHY are you hanging on to a married man? Why Why Why? Have you ever thought of yourself in his WIFE'S position? Have you ever considered HER feelings? Because ultimately SHE is the one getting hurt in this situation. It is irrelevant whether their marriage is a good one or not, if he wanted to leave her he would and until he does...THEY ARE STILL MARRIED! Do you not respect the sanctity of that union? And please don't think if he is so able to have a mistress across town for so long that he wouldn't lie to you about her. She could be the sweetest most caring person in the world, but he is going to make her out to be the biggest b^^ch so he can get what he wants. Besides, Taurus men are some of the most LOYAL beings on the planet...HE IS NOT GOING TO GET A DIVORCE! LET IT GO!

What makes you think even if he DOES get one, that he wouldn't do the same to you? I guess you obviously don't mind sharing a man, but (sorry to be so judgmental) women like you REALLY disgust me. I mean it is one thing to be fooled ie him lying about being married, but you WILLINGLY chase after a married man? COME ON! I think you must have some SERIOUS self-esteem issues to think you are only worth being some cheating lying deceitful man's second choice. Oh yeah, and how would you feel if you found out he had ANOTHER girlfriend besides you? There is no honor amongst philanderers, remember that.

My only suggestion is leave this train wreck and find someone better, or better yet take time to rediscover YOU and start loving yourself.

I hope you are not mad because I was so direct, but this is a VERY personal issue to me and I cannot pretend like it is "okay" just because you "love" him.

Cancerlady

ok CL,
No i'm not mad at all...but that could have been said in a private manner instead of makin me look like a fool...but thats ok...lemme tell you somethings you don't know..

first off...i didn't chase him, he chased me...i didn't know about his wife for along time...when i did find out..granted i didn't take myself out of the situation...he came to me alot!!!! i didn't go to him..now i only call to get him to stand up and b a man about things!!! cuz he has no balls to stand up to people.

I have heard from other people how she treats him. They have been there when she has treated him badly, therefore i know he is not lying to me about that. I don't know that he wouldn't do the same thing to me. But usually if a man is happy he wouldn't be out lookin for it somewhere else. I don't have self asteem issues. I know I am a good person and would do anything for anyone. And I do love myself.

And you want to talk about how taurus men a loyal—? He don't seem so loyal to me. For if he was he wouldn't have done what he did. He told me he regrets what he did and he should have waited until he was divorced from her b4 he started something with me. And yes I do know how she feels, but also know she cheated on him too. I don't think it was ok, cuz when I found out I was very pissed off at the situation and I told him this would never had happened if I knew in the beginning. He also has land and other property to think about goin through a divorce that was bought b4 marriage that he is scared of losing. HIs problem i know. But you see i'm not gonna let him get away with what he has done I plan on speakin to his wife about the situation as i'm sure she don't know the truth. I am putting closer to this situation now.

THANK YOU FOR SLAMMING ME IN FRONT OF PEOPLE....

I really didn't deserve that...but I understand your point.

Daydreamer:

Something you need to understand about Taureans. We are a more independent sign than a co-dependent one. We tend to suffer our crises alone. And when a Bull isn't feeling up to snuff, being there for someone else is much more difficult.

You may be freaking him out a bit with you intense feelings. I dated a Pisces for years, and her emotions just got to me after a while. And I ended up giving her what she asked for before I was ready to give it. Needless to say---the relationship crapped out. Bulls do things when they are ready to do them, and not a second sooner. If the Bull isn't feeling strong enough, he'll get drowned out by all those emotions, and then you've got mush.

If a Bull takes off a for a while, keep in mind thats because he/she has to regain their personal strength and power back. We (Aries-Virgo) need to recharge more often than the more "social signs" (Libra-Pisces), and are more focused on ourselves than others. That's just the way the signs work. Understand this, accept this, and don't try to get more from him than he is willing to give you. I'm betting if he truly loves you, and you give him his time and space to figure his stuff out, he'll give you what you want eventually.

The responsibility doesn?t lies solely upon crystaltears, but to the man who is being unfaithful to his wife. He is the one that have a commitment to his wife & he should keep that promise. He has created more drama for himself, his wife & crystaltears. All crystaltears did was fall in love with a man she thought was loyal & loving. No wonder Taurus runaway & hide because they stir up these quarrel themselves & when the pressure get to high??.they runaway! How loyal is that?!!!

The problem is—. he is SELFISH!

HOLY SHITE CL & CT!!! This is getting crazy. CL, that was very harsh, but I know you've been blunt with me & I did appreciate it (later on), CT think about it. No one wants to see you hurt more than you already are. From the last posts you've done, it seems like things are only getting more separated between you two, and maybe that's a sign to leave. You are "hanging on" but you shouldn't unless he is really giving you signs that you should. No one desires someone that is hanging on and waiting anyways. You can state all sorts of facts and what you want to say, but the truth is, are you really happy?

no i'm not happy....and i'm very hurt over this whole situation...i did wrong and i know this...and she won't talk to me..so i am left feeling like the fool while the live "happily ever after"..i take the blame for it all as far as she is concerned..i give up on this crap....i give up...there is nothing more i can do...i jus wanted closure to this situation so i again can sleep at nite...but thats not happin...granted he hasn't called me ..and i'm to the point of, u know the song, my give a d^*n's busted?....thats me....now...i can't help it she treats him like her child instead of her husband...i didn't know he needed another mommy...but ok if that is what floats his boat....i won't b posting on here anymore...so take care...everyone..and good luck with everything you do in your lives....

CT don't distance yourself! We are here for you. Don't sound that way. I really want you to get through this in the best way possible. You shouldn't have any guilt about what happened. He screwed up, you're the one hurt and you can't help what you feel. What you can help is what you do and how you can change the way of seeing it. Step back, look at the big picture. Don't let your life get pulled into this hardship more than it is. You can still step away and pick up the pieces of your heart and move on. Him & his wife can't. You can still repair. Email me if you want to talk more about it. But take care of yourself.

This is so sad. I feel that my situation might end up that way too. I know he is not over his ex because being the Taurus that he is, he is probably lingering on even when there is nothing there.

I have been trying to detach my emotions away from him when we do spend time together. But he is making it so hard for me not to have those emotions.

My best friend is Taurus, & she move on from one guy to next with ease. She plays mind games wheather she noticed or not.

I'm not fully attach to him yet, but my advice to you CystalTears is......cherish the memories you have him & just let time heal your heart.........

CrystalTears

You are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT I was wrong for "slamming" you on the messageboard. I guess I didn't write you personally because I thought it was crazy that noone else seemed to think sleeping with a married man was wrong.

For slamming you I am truly sorry and I hope you accept my apology. I wasn't trying to offend you or be an ass so much as get a point across. I am also sorry for saying women like you disgust me...I could have been much less judgemental, I just let my emotions carry me away.

I must also say, I was in a VERY similar situation as you with a Taurus no less.. (Although that's not the reason the subject matter was so personally offensive to me)

Long story short, to this day in that small time we were "dating" he treated me better than I have ever been before or since then by any man except my father. HOWEVER, the MINUTE I found out he was married (and yes I was developing feelings for him) I lost ALL respect for him and immediately cut him off.

Now, every person handles things differently and I was able to let go very easily because of my views on the matter. Maybe you haven't been so lucky but if you continue to hold onto this you will only hurt yourself. In your words I quote...

"I still call mine everyday and even tho he don't answer the phone i still leave a message to let him knowi am thinkin about him."
and
"and i'm tryin to hang on with all my might..but it seems there is no divorce in the horizan either"
and
"i will keep hangin on as long as i can..bein with another man jus makes me sick so i would rather hang on to this..as i feel one day we will b together(HOPEFULLY)"

How can you say you are not chasing him? We all know he is at fault, but do you fail to see your own? Now I actually think talking to the wife is a good idea...maybe it will help bring some closure for you or for them as a couple because it seems like they are pretty screwed up...but would you still want him if he divorced her?

By the way Daydreamer, if you'll reread my post you'll see I said he was a lying cheating deceitful etc...Oh yeah, and I meant loyal as in he will more than likely stay with the "situation" rather than jump from her to you.

What if he gets a divorce then decides he wants to be single? Where does that leave you? Even MORE hurt than before...It's a catch 22 but you have to weigh the consequences on your own.

Honestly, who am I to tell you who is wrong or right? What to do or not to do? I can't...I just don't see you winning in this situation so I thought I would put my two cents in like everyone else.

I hope your heart leads you in the direction that is most fulfilling for you and again please excuse my crass language...

Cancerlady

CL,
If I could let go like that I would have. But for some reason I couldn't. He told me alot of things and I trusted him and opened up to him. Only for a hurt that I can no longer handle. I am sooo confused and hurt so bad. I know what I said in my post, cuz I just don't want to let go of that hope. And yes mayb I'm stupid for that, and yes I did try to make contact with his wife but unfortuneatly she won't talk to me. So I am left to sit and feel the way I do while they do their thing. I couldn't help fallin in love with him. I wish I wasn't, I wish I could go back and take it all back. But I can't. I apoligize to all the woman out there who have had to go through this, and I'm truely sorry for ever getttin involved in a situation like this. He told me he wouldn't do this to me and I was naive an soft hearted enough to believe him. I told him one time I think he did this to make her jealous and his reply was that he didn't do it to do that. He said he closed off to her last yr. I don't fail to see my own fault in this situation, as a matter of fact I take full responsibility for what happened. Altho I shouldn't b the only taken all the responsibility, part is himself to. Yes their marriage is screwed up, and she holds a lil boy over his head, I have heard her myself doin it. She can't even b an adult about any of this. She is a scorpio/sag cusp. So all the descriptions fit her to a T. She manupulates and lies to him and he knows she is doing this but prefers to stay cuz of his son. She tells him he is doin bad things to his son. And him bein the soft heart he has, believes her. I know it is up to him to stop her in her tracks but won't cuz like I said, he has no balls. She controls him. Also his problem, it jus pisses me off that he lets her treat him as so.

As for wanting him if he ever does get a divorce, I don't know anymore. Remember the old saying love is blind? But I also know when someone is screwing around on me and have the temper to boot their azzz's out the door!!! I don't put up with it. I will never b able to put closure to this situation. I must live with what I have done. I can't change it and yes I need to pick up my broken heart and move on. But that is easier said than done. It will b awhile b4 I will feel better again. I am done with men for awhile, as I am tired of bein used and hurt. I can't take much more of the crap they dish out and the games they play. When you are close to the situation it is hard to see the BIG pic. And when a taurus tells you he don't play games or tell you things he doesn't mean, you tend to believe it. As they look so sincere when they say it and he has said it to me alot. He has opened up a lil to me about things and has done alot of things that I jus couldn't help but love about him. Yes I'm a mess right now and try to make every xcuse in the book instead of jus moving on. Someday he will regret what he has done to me. And he will b back, I know cuz all the guys I have dated have always come back and I turn them away. (not tryin to sound stuck on myself)
And most likely when he tries it will b too late and it will b his loss. It takes me a long time to heal from something like this and I"m tryin to not turn into some cold hearted b*^ $ c, but everyday it is goin that way. Where I close my heart off to everything and everybody no matter who it hurts.(besides my kids) He was told by me that i didn't want to b a rebound situation and he told me I wasn't. That he was done with her but he had some things he had to take care of. So here I sat for five months waiting like a dumb b* $ c. I have dated others and jus can't seem to connect with anyone else, and the one person I did date recently that I did connect with isn't lookin for anything right now. Story of my life. This is how i feel. And i would have emailed all this to you but I can only send 20 messages through here so i couldn't. So now everyone knows everything. So embarrassing!!!!! Thank you CL, mayb that is

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STAY! Don't GO! There are already so few Leo women here...we need the lioness!

As a matter a fact, I am surprised you didn't rip me a new butthole for being so insensitive...Seriously don't leave on my account. I was NOT trying to hurt you or make you feel foolish. If that's the reason you are leaving, DON'T! I didn't mean it! Please, Please, PLEASE! I can be a jerk sometimes...

YOU ARE NOT STUPID! YOU ARE NOT A FOOL!

Say it with me...I AM NOT STUPID! I AM NOT A FOOL!

You are right...it IS easier said than done, BUT you are a very beautiful obviously giving lady and you will find true love. When you do it will all come together. Just keep your head up and heal in your own time.

Don't be embarrassed...it happens to the best of us! And look at the bright side, at least you aren't Jennifer Aniston! Then again, Brad left her for Angelina Jolie, so there might be hope for you two yet! (Joking of course)

CL

I will never ever rip anyone a new butthole unless I think they deserve it..you don't deserve that..I am not like that in any way.

and how do you get your im smileys on here—? I can't get mine on here.

ur not a jerk, girlie you jus speak the truth...and I needed to hear that...no matter how harsh it was. someone had to wake me up. lord knows no one else could have done it. you wouldn't have said anything if you hadn't of cared. I"m glad someone is out there listening..U TOO TG...I FEEL THE SAME WAY AND SAG!!!! you all have abeen a big help...I would rather someone speak their mind than not aand i have to say i respect that in you...you say the truth..and i appreciate that...cuz like the taurus' i'm bullheaded also...and need a lil azz chewin sometimes...

LOL....TOO FUNNY...

YAY!!! we all love each other after all! 🙂

GROUP HUG!

BTW...you have to have the html code, or you can go to smiley central.com download the program, then choose the one you want...right click and choose copy html code...then paste it here & you got your smileys!

Good Luck

tanky tanky CL....((((((HUGS))))))...ahhhh, group hugs are WONDERFUL!!!!!!

Can we play twister now? 😛

Watch it Venusyummypenis! We might get this kicked off again! lol

Doctor Doctor is a good nekked game too! 😛

I think this post is all together wrong. I am a taurus and I know many of them. NONE of what was said was right. Taurus are one of , if not the most creative sign in the zodiac. We submerge ourselves in the beauty of music, poetry,and spirituality. So we don't need those thing to combat our practical way of thinking. The only thing that may be true about that part is that we have a habit of thinking too much and over analyzing ...pretty much EVERYTHING> I will take that charge!! However, We are dedicated and loyal to a fault. The disappearing act thing— I don't think so. Maybe its the only the male taurus..however none of the ones I have dated did that. Hell, they were so "dedicated" I'd wish at time they would find something else to do!!

As a taurus woman I do take major offense at what was said.

I noticed things getting negative, thanks for the positve outlook Kocahontis! hmmmm, could be another taurus trait? lol

Yummy! I love those! The red ones that makes for a nice lipstick?

I don?t think it is all astrology on how people judge other, but there are some truths to it. If you read this forum and other forum, there are significant numbers of people having a misunderstanding of Taurus. It is the same dilemma in every post.

Don?t get me wrong, I enjoyed being around Taurus. One of my good friends is a Taurus. She is very loyal & dedicated to me & vice versa. She admitted she likes to be in control of everything. Most of the dramas in her relationships are caused by her. She would date many people at once and she would go out her way to make sure the other guys know she is dating other men.

Now, In my own experience with a Taurus male (Whom I have known forever). One night I went over to his house to hang out, although he never admitted, but he slipped some GHB in my drink. I was very disappointed that he took my friendship & trust for granted. We never talked for about a month. Then one night he called me & said he missed me, but he was still upset with me for accusing him of that kind of behavior.

I thought since that incident, him being a Taurus that he would not want anything to do with me because I had threaten his security. Why do you think someone who likes to have peace & harmonious life would cause drama for them self & friends?
Is this because he is guilty or is he up something to get back at me?

Since then, we hung out & he is very compassionate & sincere when I?m with him. We never brought up that incident. Now, I have not heard from him in 3 weeks. I did e-mail him to see how he is doing & to my surprise he e-mail back. He said he is under tremendous pressure & appreciated my thoughts & concern for him.

I am drain & tired because I don?t understand his inconsistency behaviors. I know he is going through some legal stuff, gambling addiction & still obsessing over an ex-girlfriend. Does any Taurus think I should still support him & continue being there for him & eventually it will pay off, because I care a great deal about him?

omg! ROFL, ok sagitauries, white lipstick will do we'll play dress up & you pick my outfits, ok?

and Daydreamer! Yikes what kind of person are you hanging out with?!! So many people on this site bring attention to these psychos they are seeing and blame it on their sign. It's not taurus or aquarius or scorpio - it's called F'in PSYCHO!!! Maybe look at the big picture?!!

oh and sagitauries, would it be a taurus thing to handle alcohol better than most? Besides weight & experience I guess. Very interesting though. It's true for me & the other bulls I know too. Anyways, sorry to hear about the bigboned carry. You can handle it! lol

I strongly agreed with you both. I don?t know why I?m so easily to forgive & forget. I feel if you hold grudges inside, it will eat you a live from the inside. I?m a sucker for sob story. I feel that anyone who come across me, I have some responsibility to their well being.

This guy has been a part of my childhood, because of that reasons, I can?t disregard him out of my life. I think he knows it too.
I told him I didn?t want anything to do with him after that incident. I thought that was that. As I was getting over him, he called & said he misses me!

Why hasn?t he disregarded me out of life? I don?t understand what he wants from me! He is never there for me. He doesn?t want a relationship. If it is sex, he is an attractive, charming, & a successful business man, he shouldn?t have trouble getting lay.
I don?t understand!

Forgiving & forgetting is good. But it doesn't mean, "come back into my life!"

..." I don?t understand what he wants from me! He is never there for me. He doesn?t want a relationship. "

I know you have a childhood past which makes it all the more important for him to treat you right. If you let a bull walk all over you, he just might.

Thanks taurusgodness. I don?t think I have let him walk all me. Beside that incident, he always has been sincere. I have brought up about my friendship how he doesn?t value it & I have called him out on his bulls***. Oh did I mention he tease during my childhood. He said he did it because he likes me & he said he knew someday we would end up having sex.

He sent subtle message through this song. ?I?m not afraid of you runaway?. Honey, I get the feeling you won?t.? Are you Taurus that good at reading people? I?m kind of embarrassed he could read like that considering Taurus is only suppose to have the 5 senses. Is this why you think he is taking me for granted?

What is this about a Taurus is able to handle their alcohol??sagitTAUrus, are you implying a Taurus can never be too drunk not to remember what happen the night before? When I have called him out about what he said while he was drunk, he said he was so drunk he didn?t remember what he said. These are some of the things he said; you are my future wife. You are everything I want. What ever happen, nothing is going change our childhood together. Do you think he is using his drunkenness to hide the truth because he realizes he was getting too deep too fast? Why is this person afraid of his own feelings?

Maybe he was backtracking who knows. He sounds like he has a lot of issues to deal with. Does he ever talk serious with you sober? Next time he really wants to be with you, maybe talk first. See where is stands & what he is really thinking. It's only fair.

'I can also say for myself, that I have OFTEN denied things I have said when I was drunk. Not necessarily because I didn't mean it, sometimes because of pride/ego.'