don't move fast unless I say so...

Are there any other Taurus women out there like me? I hate it when men come on too strong and too fast. I don't like a man to force me to be where he is our friendship (ready for MORE) I haven't ever been in the current position...NEVER. I'm interested in a Libra and he is moving too damn slow so It's making me have to chase and I don't know how....ok, I don't like it! SMILE!

But for real....how do you chase a Libra?

my libra boyfriend of 8 months has moved slowed every day along the way...wait, 9 months, today.

just be patient. God knows I have been very patient with mine! But it's a two-way street. I'm Taurus, too.

Its just funny...when I want it I want it NOW, and when I don't I want you to RESPECT that and LEAVE me alone. But when it comes to me wanting a person more than their actions shows they want me (but always VERBAL)...it's tough.

Damn, I glad I'm 33 when this showed up....could have been a rough childhood...lol! very interesting...just learning!

and what it makes me do is just allow the one that does show ACTION I allow him to SPOIL me even though I don't like him. Sucks, but true...and you know WE both get sompthing from it. SMILE!

im a taurus who was dating a taurus for 8 mo....everything was great....now he wont take a call or talk to me......and seriously NOTHING happened.....—?

don't chase Libra's they will just run , they cannot handle heart felt actions, all must seem calm and normal other wise there gone till all is clear , you must keep them guessing thats there way , make love to their mind with your sexual mind play , and you got them, but be ready for a long wait ,as they love to flirt for ever. they like strength and pride .my chase went on for two years untill l chased to hard because l thought ld cracked it , nevr saw my libra again , and we never even got nasty.!

Posted by rocket1968
don't chase Libra's they will just run , they cannot handle heart felt actions, all must seem calm and normal other wise there gone till all is clear , you must keep them guessing thats there way , make love to their mind with your sexual mind play , and you got them, but be ready for a long wait ,as they love to flirt for ever. they like strength and pride .my chase went on for two years untill l chased to hard because l thought ld cracked it , nevr saw my libra again , and we never even got nasty.!

This is so true on many levels. Libra is all about the mental and so many ppl do not even know where to begin with that. I know I will go on and on and on... will power unknown.

There's not a lot of information here... it just says he moves too slow.

How long have you been together?
Are you even dating him or is it a new person you met?
What is he taking too long with?


Most people say libras move too fast in a relationship, that we just rush in and see what happens. If he is moving slow it just means that he is giving thought to everything. It could be 'good' or 'bad', he just hasn't decided yet.

If you want to nudge him more towards you, become part of his life. Hang out with him, talk to him about silly minor things, ask his opinion about things and give yours, express yourself. You don't have to "chase" him really, it should feel natural. If you all are dating and going out places together, suggest things you would like to do sometimes. Do it randomly when you see something and let him plan it for you.

I disagree about Libras not being able to accept heart felt action or running if chased. It is only like that if it is unwanted attention. If I am not into you and you are confessing your love to me or chasing hardcore, yes I'll run and no I won't be accepting of heart felt actions. If I into you as well, bring it on! I actually want someone who will chase me as much as I chase them. I definitely disagree about keep us guessing... if you act one way one time and another the next (contantly) I don't find it myterious or interesting, I find it flaky and a sign that you are unstable.

The other advice such as giving genuine compliments, making love to his mind, being strong and confident in yourself, and flirting with us is great. Just make sure it is all reciprocated by him.

It's funny you say that....When I met my husband (libra) he asked for my nummber..he came on hard..calling me for 4 days straight and leaving messages because I would not answer( i was out of town) 1 week later he said *you know you are going to be my wife and mother of my kids right?* I was like WHAT—— LOL yeah he came on very strong and FAST. We hooked up pretty quick..3 months later I was preggo with twins. Crazy I know!! LOL And when my twins were born he came in one day from work and propsed we get married. We were married for 12 yrs(passed away)


I myself being a bullette don't know how to chase either..Libra men like to be told how good and amazing they are..and they LOVE confident women. Shower him with lots of love...i dunno people say Libras run if you chase...I didn't experience that with my ex husband..he did all the chasing😉