jaya
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Guys, remember this post.. why do tauruses leave..
wow, and I'd said that I'd be brief.... I apologize to you all... but I just get so fumed up when it comes to him.
Thankyou for listening guys.
Thankyou for listening guys.
by the way, in case you're wondering.. we both agreed to keep our friendship, so I was not actually pushing myself on him in any way. Also, this is not the first time that he's done this sort of thing. I've just brushed these things off mostly but after what he said to me this Christmas.. I can not let this one go by just like that.
Hi jaya,
Life is happening to you, huh? I am sorry that you are experiencing this confusion with your friend. I think we all go through this type of thing sometime or another in our lives. So, let's find a way for you to get through this.
Here are some ideas that I will throw out to you and you decide in your heart which to follow, okay?
First of all, none of us can stop this insanity for you. Only YOU can do this. My motto, "If the shoe does NOT fit, don't wear it." Move yourself out of the situation and realize (which you already have) that this is not working.
Try to understand that there is no way for you to truly understand why or what he does. You can only understand yourself and take responsibility for your own happiness. Make some decisions to move you on another path which will bring joy to you.
Know that we each are responsible for creating our own lives by the choices that we make. If you keep yourself involved in this situation, than expect the same results over and over again.
Why do you let someone "fume you up?" You are giving away your power when you do this. Life is too short to waste our energy on this type of thing.
I so wish you the best of wishes.....honor yourself first and the rest will fall into place.
Freebird
Life is happening to you, huh? I am sorry that you are experiencing this confusion with your friend. I think we all go through this type of thing sometime or another in our lives. So, let's find a way for you to get through this.
Here are some ideas that I will throw out to you and you decide in your heart which to follow, okay?
First of all, none of us can stop this insanity for you. Only YOU can do this. My motto, "If the shoe does NOT fit, don't wear it." Move yourself out of the situation and realize (which you already have) that this is not working.
Try to understand that there is no way for you to truly understand why or what he does. You can only understand yourself and take responsibility for your own happiness. Make some decisions to move you on another path which will bring joy to you.
Know that we each are responsible for creating our own lives by the choices that we make. If you keep yourself involved in this situation, than expect the same results over and over again.
Why do you let someone "fume you up?" You are giving away your power when you do this. Life is too short to waste our energy on this type of thing.
I so wish you the best of wishes.....honor yourself first and the rest will fall into place.
Freebird
Thankyou Freebird =) for understanding me..I needed venting last evening, and also, for the great advice you gave. Just wanted to let you know that rational ability has made its way back to my brain today..and I am thinking clearly as before the deed. This guy is one with his own issues. I will try to leave those issues where I met them-- over there, with him... lol..(I believe over at the left bookcase..)lol..no issues for me...yay!! Now... if only his socks would sink into his shoes... hehehe.. 3 months I tell ya! 3 months for the socks...lol
Luv Jai-jai. Have a good holiday every1!
Luv Jai-jai. Have a good holiday every1!
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