Have I lost my Taurus man? (Page 2)

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Its a fair point from Jeane and I would agree he may well be sensitive (his history is not available) and didn't handle his perceived physical rejection well.

My Taurus had himself a couple of sex related paddies during the first year of our relationship. His issues were in his own head. He'd have some sort of really irritating meltdown over fuck knows what which would ruin the moment unnecessarily. Sometimes I'd give him the softer approach and other times I'd give him the stern approach which did tell him if he did not like something then he was free to leave. It's not as harsh as it sounds and it would take a while to get to this stage. He rarely has any type of paddies now but when he does I tend to keep him in check in one way or another.

It sounds like OP didn't go straight to the 'lose my number' bit. I've cut and pasted below:

***Then we were in bed and he got frustrated at me because I was to tired to have sex.

Two months in and he's getting frustrated about her not putting out. Did he mistake her for a tap or something? Just turn it on whenever he wants. Does he feel he has some jurisdiction over her body? I'm not being all feminist here but she was too tired. It happens.

***He huffed and wanted to leave,

That's possibly a turn off and as he did not get the sex he wanted he just wanted to fuck off. Nice boyfriend.

***I asked him to stay and told him being to tired had nothing to do with him. It didn’t I was almost unconscious and this behaviour was a real turn off.

She reiterated her reasons because explaining these things once clearly is not sufficient for him. She wanted him to stay so it is not 'him'.

***He continued to huff

Really? Who has time and energy to deal with your new boyfriend of two months

whinging because he couldn't get his dick in. He'd been told twice. What more does it take?

***and I told him if he continued to act this way he could lose my number.

She probably got fucked off. Well she was tired and probably ran out of patience justifying why she did not want to explain the use of her own body.

***He stayed

So he didn't actually leave as he had threatened to do so.

***and in the morning I thought we worked it out,

Assume they had a conversation of some sort and parted on what she thought were good terms.

***but then later that day he texted to say he was hurt that I would say “lose my number” and that he needed space.

Perhaps things were not as sorted as he thought they were but then he needed to say that he'd like to discuss it further later as he still has some concerns. Then he cowardly said he needed 'space'. He needs space because what? He couldn't put his dick in. Yawn. From then on he just played attention games saying he needed space but then text OP but then went back to wanting space and it just went to shit then.

I think if I were OP I'd look at the whole picture. Is there enough here with this person to try and preserve this? Do you want to? Are you happy with how he chooses to handle things? He sounds a little manipulative whereas OP seems more straightforward. Not sure if he has any Cancer or Leo in there and she has some air placements. Charts would be interesting to see!

What is needed to get charts done?

If you go to astro.com, you can enter your birth info in. Then you can do the same for his. If you don't know birth time then just put midday or unknown. It will still give the basics. You already know his Sun sign of Taurus. You're looking for his moon, Venus, Mars and Mercury which are the main planets. They will be in one of the 12 signs.

He is a Taurus sun

Libra moon

Gemini Venus

Gemini mercury

Taurus mars

I am sun leo

Moon Scorpio

Mercury Leo

Venus cancer

Mars Libra

What does that all mean?

Im not the best astrologer here but here's a few things below that stick out. Also you can Google 'Gemini in Venus man' or 'moon in Scorpio woman' etc and read up on this stuff although probably a waste of time for this fella now, lol.

He's a Taurus so his core self would be taurus traits such as loyal, stubborn, handsome (that one was my fella's contribution!) However, his Venus, which is how he loves, is in Gemini so he will have Gemini traits here. Fickle and flighty are the main ones that spring to mind. Not emotional in the usual way, quite cerebral, likes mental connection over emotional. I didn't get on with a Taurus Sun/Venus Gemini man. Communication was awful. My mother is a Gemini Sun and Venus. It is like talking to an alien!

Mercury, planet of communication, in gemini would be good with words, witty, writes well.

Libra moon can be a bit flighty too.

From an astrology point of view, I would think your moon and venus would not be a match for this man. Long term would be hard work.

Anyone else can chip in here!

No wonder he got hurt by "losing the number" since air placement and gems are sensitive with words.

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Interesting. Are they not sensitive with the words they use?

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Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Peachesmal

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Peachesmal

Posted by AgentP911

Its a fair point from Jeane and I would agree he may well be sensitive (his history is not available) and didn't handle his perceived physical rejection well.

My Taurus had himself a couple of sex related paddies during the first year of our relationship. His issues were in his own head. He'd have some sort of really irritating meltdown over fuck knows what which would ruin the moment unnecessarily. Sometimes I'd give him the softer approach and other times I'd give him the stern approach which did tell him if he did not like something then he was free to leave. It's not as harsh as it sounds and it would take a while to get to this stage. He rarely has any type of paddies now but when he does I tend to keep him in check in one way or another.

It sounds like OP didn't go straight to the 'lose my number' bit. I've cut and pasted below:

***Then we were in bed and he got frustrated at me because I was to tired to have sex.

Two months in and he's getting frustrated about her not putting out. Did he mistake her for a tap or something? Just turn it on whenever he wants. Does he feel he has some jurisdiction over her body? I'm not being all feminist here but she was too tired. It happens.

***He huffed and wanted to leave,

That's possibly a turn off and as he did not get the sex he wanted he just wanted to fuck off. Nice boyfriend.

***I asked him to stay and told him being to tired had nothing to do with him. It didn’t I was almost unconscious and this behaviour was a real turn off.

She reiterated her reasons because explaining these things once clearly is not sufficient for him. She wanted him to stay so it is not 'him'.

***He continued to huff

Really? Who has time and energy to deal with your new boyfriend of two months

whinging because he couldn't get his dick in. He'd been told twice. What more does it take?

***and I told him if he continued to act this way he could lose my number.

She probably got fucked off. Well she was tired and probably ran out of patience justifying why she did not want to explain the use of her own body.

***He stayed

So he didn't actually leave as he had threatened to do so.

***and in the morning I thought we worked it out,

Assume they had a conversation of some sort and parted on what she thought were good terms.

***but then later that day he texted to say he was hurt that I would say “lose my number” and that he needed space.

Perhaps things were not as sorted as he thought they were but then he needed to say that he'd like to discuss it further later as he still has some concerns. Then he cowardly said he needed 'space'. He needs space because what? He couldn't put his dick in. Yawn. From then on he just played attention games saying he needed space but then text OP but then went back to wanting space and it just went to shit then.

I think if I were OP I'd look at the whole picture. Is there enough here with this person to try and preserve this? Do you want to? Are you happy with how he chooses to handle things? He sounds a little manipulative whereas OP seems more straightforward. Not sure if he has any Cancer or Leo in there and she has some air placements. Charts would be interesting to see!

What is needed to get charts done?

If you go to astro.com, you can enter your birth info in. Then you can do the same for his. If you don't know birth time then just put midday or unknown. It will still give the basics. You already know his Sun sign of Taurus. You're looking for his moon, Venus, Mars and Mercury which are the main planets. They will be in one of the 12 signs.

He is a Taurus sun

Libra moon

Gemini Venus

Gemini mercury

Taurus mars

I am sun leo

Moon Scorpio

Mercury Leo

Venus cancer

Mars Libra

What does that all mean?

Im not the best astrologer here but here's a few things below that stick out. Also you can Google 'Gemini in Venus man' or 'moon in Scorpio woman' etc and read up on this stuff although probably a waste of time for this fella now, lol.

He's a Taurus so his core self would be taurus traits such as loyal, stubborn, handsome (that one was my fella's contribution!) However, his Venus, which is how he loves, is in Gemini so he will have Gemini traits here. Fickle and flighty are the main ones that spring to mind. Not emotional in the usual way, quite cerebral, likes mental connection over emotional. I didn't get on with a Taurus Sun/Venus Gemini man. Communication was awful. My mother is a Gemini Sun and Venus. It is like talking to an alien!

Mercury, planet of communication, in gemini would be good with words, witty, writes well.

Libra moon can be a bit flighty too.

From an astrology point of view, I would think your moon and venus would not be a match for this man. Long term would be hard work.

Anyone else can chip in here!

No wonder he got hurt by "losing the number" since air placement and gems are sensitive with words.

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Interesting. Are they not sensitive with the words they use?

Posted by Peachesmal

Posted by Skeleton

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Peachesmal

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Peachesmal

Posted by AgentP911

Its a fair point from Jeane and I would agree he may well be sensitive (his history is not available) and didn't handle his perceived physical rejection well.

My Taurus had himself a couple of sex related paddies during the first year of our relationship. His issues were in his own head. He'd have some sort of really irritating meltdown over fuck knows what which would ruin the moment unnecessarily. Sometimes I'd give him the softer approach and other times I'd give him the stern approach which did tell him if he did not like something then he was free to leave. It's not as harsh as it sounds and it would take a while to get to this stage. He rarely has any type of paddies now but when he does I tend to keep him in check in one way or another.

It sounds like OP didn't go straight to the 'lose my number' bit. I've cut and pasted below:

***Then we were in bed and he got frustrated at me because I was to tired to have sex.

Two months in and he's getting frustrated about her not putting out. Did he mistake her for a tap or something? Just turn it on whenever he wants. Does he feel he has some jurisdiction over her body? I'm not being all feminist here but she was too tired. It happens.

***He huffed and wanted to leave,

That's possibly a turn off and as he did not get the sex he wanted he just wanted to fuck off. Nice boyfriend.

***I asked him to stay and told him being to tired had nothing to do with him. It didn’t I was almost unconscious and this behaviour was a real turn off.

She reiterated her reasons because explaining these things once clearly is not sufficient for him. She wanted him to stay so it is not 'him'.

***He continued to huff

Really? Who has time and energy to deal with your new boyfriend of two months

whinging because he couldn't get his dick in. He'd been told twice. What more does it take?

***and I told him if he continued to act this way he could lose my number.

She probably got fucked off. Well she was tired and probably ran out of patience justifying why she did not want to explain the use of her own body.

***He stayed

So he didn't actually leave as he had threatened to do so.

***and in the morning I thought we worked it out,

Assume they had a conversation of some sort and parted on what she thought were good terms.

***but then later that day he texted to say he was hurt that I would say “lose my number” and that he needed space.

Perhaps things were not as sorted as he thought they were but then he needed to say that he'd like to discuss it further later as he still has some concerns. Then he cowardly said he needed 'space'. He needs space because what? He couldn't put his dick in. Yawn. From then on he just played attention games saying he needed space but then text OP but then went back to wanting space and it just went to shit then.

I think if I were OP I'd look at the whole picture. Is there enough here with this person to try and preserve this? Do you want to? Are you happy with how he chooses to handle things? He sounds a little manipulative whereas OP seems more straightforward. Not sure if he has any Cancer or Leo in there and she has some air placements. Charts would be interesting to see!

What is needed to get charts done?

If you go to astro.com, you can enter your birth info in. Then you can do the same for his. If you don't know birth time then just put midday or unknown. It will still give the basics. You already know his Sun sign of Taurus. You're looking for his moon, Venus, Mars and Mercury which are the main planets. They will be in one of the 12 signs.

He is a Taurus sun

Libra moon

Gemini Venus

Gemini mercury

Taurus mars

I am sun leo

Moon Scorpio

Mercury Leo

Venus cancer

Mars Libra

What does that all mean?

Im not the best astrologer here but here's a few things below that stick out. Also you can Google 'Gemini in Venus man' or 'moon in Scorpio woman' etc and read up on this stuff although probably a waste of time for this fella now, lol.

He's a Taurus so his core self would be taurus traits such as loyal, stubborn, handsome (that one was my fella's contribution!) However, his Venus, which is how he loves, is in Gemini so he will have Gemini traits here. Fickle and flighty are the main ones that spring to mind. Not emotional in the usual way, quite cerebral, likes mental connection over emotional. I didn't get on with a Taurus Sun/Venus Gemini man. Communication was awful. My mother is a Gemini Sun and Venus. It is like talking to an alien!

Mercury, planet of communication, in gemini would be good with words, witty, writes well.

Libra moon can be a bit flighty too.

From an astrology point of view, I would think your moon and venus would not be a match for this man. Long term would be hard work.

Anyone else can chip in here!

No wonder he got hurt by "losing the number" since air placement and gems are sensitive with words.

Interesting. Are they not sensitive with the words they use?

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Unfortunately Linda moon, Taurus sun combo can be harsh with their worra. Blunt. But they will always tell you straight up.

Gemini merc. Can have a bit of trouble expressing themselves and the words they use can come out wrong.

So yes with all 3 of those at play they might be insensitive with their words. But expect sensitivity back.

I deal with it everyday

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Posted by Peachesmal

Posted by Skeleton

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Peachesmal

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Peachesmal

Posted by AgentP911

Its a fair point from Jeane and I would agree he may well be sensitive (his history is not available) and didn't handle his perceived physical rejection well.

My Taurus had himself a couple of sex related paddies during the first year of our relationship. His issues were in his own head. He'd have some sort of really irritating meltdown over fuck knows what which would ruin the moment unnecessarily. Sometimes I'd give him the softer approach and other times I'd give him the stern approach which did tell him if he did not like something then he was free to leave. It's not as harsh as it sounds and it would take a while to get to this stage. He rarely has any type of paddies now but when he does I tend to keep him in check in one way or another.

It sounds like OP didn't go straight to the 'lose my number' bit. I've cut and pasted below:

***Then we were in bed and he got frustrated at me because I was to tired to have sex.

Two months in and he's getting frustrated about her not putting out. Did he mistake her for a tap or something? Just turn it on whenever he wants. Does he feel he has some jurisdiction over her body? I'm not being all feminist here but she was too tired. It happens.

***He huffed and wanted to leave,

That's possibly a turn off and as he did not get the sex he wanted he just wanted to fuck off. Nice boyfriend.

***I asked him to stay and told him being to tired had nothing to do with him. It didn’t I was almost unconscious and this behaviour was a real turn off.

She reiterated her reasons because explaining these things once clearly is not sufficient for him. She wanted him to stay so it is not 'him'.

***He continued to huff

Really? Who has time and energy to deal with your new boyfriend of two months

whinging because he couldn't get his dick in. He'd been told twice. What more does it take?

***and I told him if he continued to act this way he could lose my number.

She probably got fucked off. Well she was tired and probably ran out of patience justifying why she did not want to explain the use of her own body.

***He stayed

So he didn't actually leave as he had threatened to do so.

***and in the morning I thought we worked it out,

Assume they had a conversation of some sort and parted on what she thought were good terms.

***but then later that day he texted to say he was hurt that I would say “lose my number” and that he needed space.

Perhaps things were not as sorted as he thought they were but then he needed to say that he'd like to discuss it further later as he still has some concerns. Then he cowardly said he needed 'space'. He needs space because what? He couldn't put his dick in. Yawn. From then on he just played attention games saying he needed space but then text OP but then went back to wanting space and it just went to shit then.

I think if I were OP I'd look at the whole picture. Is there enough here with this person to try and preserve this? Do you want to? Are you happy with how he chooses to handle things? He sounds a little manipulative whereas OP seems more straightforward. Not sure if he has any Cancer or Leo in there and she has some air placements. Charts would be interesting to see!

What is needed to get charts done?

If you go to astro.com, you can enter your birth info in. Then you can do the same for his. If you don't know birth time then just put midday or unknown. It will still give the basics. You already know his Sun sign of Taurus. You're looking for his moon, Venus, Mars and Mercury which are the main planets. They will be in one of the 12 signs.

He is a Taurus sun

Libra moon

Gemini Venus

Gemini mercury

Taurus mars

I am sun leo

Moon Scorpio

Mercury Leo

Venus cancer

Mars Libra

What does that all mean?

Im not the best astrologer here but here's a few things below that stick out. Also you can Google 'Gemini in Venus man' or 'moon in Scorpio woman' etc and read up on this stuff although probably a waste of time for this fella now, lol.

He's a Taurus so his core self would be taurus traits such as loyal, stubborn, handsome (that one was my fella's contribution!) However, his Venus, which is how he loves, is in Gemini so he will have Gemini traits here. Fickle and flighty are the main ones that spring to mind. Not emotional in the usual way, quite cerebral, likes mental connection over emotional. I didn't get on with a Taurus Sun/Venus Gemini man. Communication was awful. My mother is a Gemini Sun and Venus. It is like talking to an alien!

Mercury, planet of communication, in gemini would be good with words, witty, writes well.

Libra moon can be a bit flighty too.

From an astrology point of view, I would think your moon and venus would not be a match for this man. Long term would be hard work.

Anyone else can chip in here!

No wonder he got hurt by "losing the number" since air placement and gems are sensitive with words.

Interesting. Are they not sensitive with the words they use?

Unfortunately Linda moon, Taurus sun combo can be harsh with their worra. Blunt. But they will always tell you straight up.

Gemini merc. Can have a bit of trouble expressing themselves and the words they use can come out wrong.

So yes with all 3 of those at play they might be insensitive with their words. But expect sensitivity back.

I deal with it everyday

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Interesting. I don’t know much about how all of the elements in the chart work but seems very insightful.

I think it is to late for me to apply it to this guy but nonetheless I can do some research for the future.