maybe he's into the incest scene if he's acting like that and saying ur like his sister. ha!
how old are u guys? he sounds kinda immature with all the game playing. i'm in my late 20's and all the taurean men i know (which are many) are in their mid-20's to early 30's. i've never seen quite that kind of behavior. u should really look into other placements in his chart. u can't always rely on the sun sign, believe me. my taurus lover acts WAY more like his aqua moon (emotions).
regardless, your taurus has made it clear that he wants u to tell him how u feel. what i do know about taurus, the men anyway, is that they really prefer u to be direct and open with them. it's kind of a double standard since they're unlikely to come out with their feelings but they truly appreciate it and need u to initiate that first step. it's not that they won't express themselves at all but they don't seem to do it unless u do it first. don't expect any romance about it either. even when expressing loving feelings it's more likely to come out in a direct, matter-of-fact kind of way.
your taurus is practically begging u to come out with it. so just step out of your comfort zone and tell him how u feel. they all want a strong, confident individual who isn't afraid to tell them. just be careful. u shouldn't be someone ur not.
ha! my taurus man's venus is also in aries. this probably gives him the more direct approach in pursuing u. mine was quite assertive and pro-active. it sounds to me like the engagement thing is a hoax. if u guys are friends i'm sure u would have heard about his journey getting there with her along the way. most guys i know wouldn't take marriage so lightly. it would often take them years to get to that point.
the thing i must emphasize to u is that u have to let go of that fear. i realize the concept of letting go of a loved one is terrifying. i've been there... many times. i've had to let go of several people that i love dearly over the course of my life and, while it's not easy, sometimes it's for the best. i'm not suggesting that u let your taurus go but realize that everything in life is only temporary. nothing lasts forever. especially people. enjoy the time u have now and don't worry if your confession drives him away. if it does then you will know it was not meant to be anyway. you will have stayed true to yourself and you can take solace in knowing that you don't have to live the rest of your life wondering "what if...?"
it is often the things that we don't do in life that we regret and not so much the things that we do. so take the risk and find your inner strength. no matter the outcome you will gain personal growth from the experience. the more you practice the more you will come to realize that there really is nothing to fear.
He likes you..hes immature..hes playing a game to get you to admit it first so he dosent get rejected..this is my take. Hes having a hard time reading you and so hes doing whatever he can to get a reaction.Unfortunatly your a fish...And so its never that easy! ninja is right...You shouldnt be affraid of loosing him. If you do hes just playing with your head and you are better off without him. My Taurus does weird things too...And one thing I have noticed is that he will never talk about relationships or "us" then all of a sudden when Ive shown signs of getting fedup for whatever reason he scomes out with all this information. about himself and what he wants, how he feels his fears etc lol. Hell just throw out information as bluntly as he can then wait for my reaction...but like you In a fish and so he dosent realize that im onto him! He will Talk about girls His ex, his freedom etc lmao its pretty funny...
My point is that you should just respond to one of his "jokes" by saying that Its too bad hes getting married and see how he responds. He will be shocked im sure and soon enough hell tell you the marriage is off...
Or next time he tells you your like a sister and txts you good night, ask him how his "fiance" feels about him doing this and tell him that if he was with you you wouldnt be too happy about it and see what he says...If he starts asking you more questions about if he was with you then you know your in the clear to start showing him more affection. Just keep telling him that you fell bad and that you dont think this is apropriate becouse hes engaged and you wouldnt be comfortable with it if it was you.
The bottom line is that if you dont tell people how you feel (especially being a fish...we hide emotions so well) they willl never know!
By the way, your adorable!just be yourself- he clearly likes you alot so far! and rember if you loose him by showing you like him too- hes not a good guy inside, hes only using you for attention and your better off with good people in your life. The guy you choose will be very lucky to have you pisces love!
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how old are u guys? he sounds kinda immature with all the game playing. i'm in my late 20's and all the taurean men i know (which are many) are in their mid-20's to early 30's. i've never seen quite that kind of behavior. u should really look into other placements in his chart. u can't always rely on the sun sign, believe me. my taurus lover acts WAY more like his aqua moon (emotions).
regardless, your taurus has made it clear that he wants u to tell him how u feel. what i do know about taurus, the men anyway, is that they really prefer u to be direct and open with them. it's kind of a double standard since they're unlikely to come out with their feelings but they truly appreciate it and need u to initiate that first step. it's not that they won't express themselves at all but they don't seem to do it unless u do it first. don't expect any romance about it either. even when expressing loving feelings it's more likely to come out in a direct, matter-of-fact kind of way.
your taurus is practically begging u to come out with it. so just step out of your comfort zone and tell him how u feel. they all want a strong, confident individual who isn't afraid to tell them. just be careful. u shouldn't be someone ur not.