Help advice on TAURUS MAN please

Well I'll try be as short and sweet as possible.

We met in October 2017 as he is friends with a guy I grew up with he always knew about me but we met after briefly chatting the year prior.

We slept together first night after drinking quite abit which i did not expect to hear from him again. He started messaging me a lot, which I found out he was only just coming out of a 3 month relationship where he been taken for granted.

We started meeting up mainly round to his house and we was intimate most times but he text me consistently throughout the day and ringing me when he was away with family. He seemed really eager saying he really really liked me and asked for space 4 days later he messages me saying he missed me.

He was hot and cold after this then didn't know what he wanted and wants to get a job and have his own place before anything could happen. He kept saying he wanted a future now silent treatment after we had an argument because I was always in limbo. He got quite nasty in the argument and now I'm wondering what should I Do?. I do see a future but now he is just ignoring me and it's clear he has lost interest as he would regularly bring up about how he is sick of being hurt and just wants to be single but wants us to be friends?

Any help be so appreciated as I've never met a taurus man before and I've been opened about my feelings but he is always so quiet.

Well I'll try be as short and sweet as possible. 

We met in October 2017 as he is friends with a guy I grew up with he always knew about me but we met after briefly chatting the year prior.

We slept together first night after drinking quite abit which i did not expect to hear from him again. He started messaging me a lot, which I found out he was only just coming out of a 3 month relationship where he been taken for granted.

We started meeting up mainly round to his house and we was intimate most times but he text me consistently throughout the day and ringing me when he was away with family. He seemed really eager saying he really really liked me and asked for space 4 days later he messages me saying he missed me. 

He was hot and cold after this then didn't know what he wanted and wants to get a job and have his own place before anything could happen. He kept saying he wanted a future now silent treatment after we had an argument because I was always in limbo. He got quite nasty in the argument and now I'm wondering what should I Do?. I do see a future but now he is just ignoring me and it's clear he has lost interest as he would regularly bring up about how he is sick of being hurt and just wants to be single but wants us to be friends? 

Any help be so appreciated as I've never met a taurus man before and I've been opened about my feelings but he is always so quiet.

If you only met two months ago my advice would be to cool your jets and start working on building a solid friendship with this bull.

He is just out a relationship, feelings are still raw, you were the rebound. That's not to say something can't come from this but you have to go back to the beginning and start building trust between one another.

They are going to be quiet on their feelings for a while. They are naturally not big talkers of feelings and again, he only just met you. You have to be patient and start showing him he can trust you with his vulnerabilites.

Thank you. He is ignoring me now and hasn't spoke to me for a good few days. He said he doesn't see a future and his sorry he said it in the first place. Guess I just have to accept it and move on because anytime I have tried to reach out he just ignores me.

😢 x

Posted by Cancerlady221991
Thank you. He is ignoring me now and hasn't spoke to me for a good few days. He said he doesn't see a future and his sorry he said it in the first place. Guess I just have to accept it and move on because anytime I have tried to reach out he just ignores me.

😢 x

sorry. he might come around again when he gets his feelings/head/life in check again. don't wait for that to happen though. it could be weeks, months or never.

if i were you (and this may not be the best advice), i would send him a final message saying you'll respect his decision, you valued his friendship while you had it and you wish him all the best and leave it at that.

It’s that mercury retrograde..

Don’t say anything.

Hold off until it’s over.

That’s your only hope.

Thank you means a lot I have been so upset as he always said we got on so well and he told me things he hasn't told anyone. I sent him a final farewell message but he said to much has happened last time we spoke. Just got to realise and grow from it I suppose. Doesn't hurt any less but it's clear he doesn't want to talk to me at all.

Thank you x