Help! Taurus Man/ Taurus Woman -What does he want?

Ok, I've been dealing with this Taurus guy for a long time...Long story short he said he didn't want a relationship but he tries to infiltrate himself into my life every chance he gets. For instance, he always ask can he walk me to my car, he touches me in an affectionate manner. Then recently he was asking me what I was doing for my birthday I told him I was going to dinner with a friend he then asked could he tag along..at first I said no but then I said it was okay..Then I told him my friend had to cancel so he calls me on the night of and says were we still going I said I haven't heard from you so I assumed you weren't going any longer. He then says he didn't hear from me so he thought I didn't want to hang out then proceeds to say he had some things to do and if we can go out Sunday. I said I was having a family dinner on Sunday so he asked could he go to that? Of course he's going to have something come up. What I don't understand is why does he keep making plans with me or trying to invite himself into my life?

He's so confusing....

Confusing? He's testing and pushing to see if he can still get away with it. If he set the boundaries he shouldn't be going into overdrive to be in your face over it. Politely tell him you've got things to do minus his company since he can't come up with anything concrete and it's disappointing. Orrrrrr he can step the hell up and quit acting like a fly buzzing round a bucket of shit..no offense to you madam.

I'm not offended...just need someone to kick me in the head to get me away from this person who is suppose to be so righteous 😉

Anyways, previously when he said no relationship I told him to leave me alone and not talk to me but for some reason he keeps trying to be in my life and like you said maybe he is seeing how much he can pull. I rarely talk to him and try to stay away from him but we do have mutual friends. Then on my b-day he says this throw away line like, "we don't have to go out on your b-day, we don't even have to eat to hang out!" I was like Mutha## $ #, but I kept my composure and didn't even respond..I think I'm going to text him and say Sunday is only for family and friends which he is neither. I'm sure he won't get the hint and will still try and hang out with me.

Anyways, thanks...this is the first birthday since the death of my friend and he knew I wasn't feeling well about it and yet he chooses to behave in this manner.

More then. Perhaps he thinks he's being comforting, showing you he's there for you. Being a friend. Though lack of coffee perhaps has me confused. Is he your friend?
My personal fave ( indeed one of many ) when someone is being inclusive and I'd rather they weren't is "What's this *we* shit, you got a frog in your pocket?" 😄

I am sorry to hear of the loss of your friend.