
SirHorns
@SirHorns
11 Years5,000+ Posts
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Posted by Hotbeefy
Venus Cancer in 9th house.
Venus semi-square Sun
Moon square venus
Venus bi-quintile Saturn
Venus conjunct midheaven
Venus sesquiquadrates pluto
Venus Square Ascendant
In honest, I never felt self-worth since I'm nothing but neglected hollow shadowling. I should move out to another country. 😐





Posted by evalani05
Venus Aries in 3th House
I believe that to be at peace with yourself is more important than to focus on your self esteem. Analyzing yourself can be dangerous if you can't control your thoughts properly.
It takes a certain amount of darkness,self discipline,reasoning and battles with your own mind.
No one should validate themselves through the eyes of the others and yes it's about others,if we would be alone on this Earth self esteem would have not existed.
Why i should be responsible for what others think or see of me?Why i should get myself charged with all that,good or bad?Why i should compete with others or let someone have all that power on me by actually let them project their own thoughts,experiences,accomplishments,failures,vision,energy on myself?
How can you even have a self worth if you always leave up to others expectations?This life it's not about others,it's about your own journey,i know it sounds selfish but it's meant to be exactly that.
And being selfish it hurts,pain is good,it makes you wonder,it makes you learn and it makes you cut all your ropes.
But it's not about being selfish on a daily basis,it's about knowing what you want but at the same time hurting someone on the process,it's inevitable.
I don't think that people belong to one another,like a possession...the more you get to know a person,the more you're closer to lose her,knowing separates things from one another,people,thoughts,being certain of something gets you limited and it's closing all your vision,it gets you settled.
Being at peace with yourself doesn't mean you should stop from living or do your best,on the contrary,work hard,achieve your dreams,never give up but do it because you own it to yourself and because you are drived by you,not because of someone.
You are unique and you should follow that uniqueness!


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