How do I win back the heart of my Taurus girl?? (her venus and mars are in aquarius). I am a scorpio

This might be a long story. I had failed to give her time and attention due to work. She had been so intensely in love with me for 2 yrs. Its all my fault. This may be complicated.

Two days ago, I went to her studio apartment unannounced. she came out and stood in the doorway, and hugged me. The way she did it was almost to block me from entering... I did enter, and there was a guy awkwardly sitting close to her lady friend. My Taurus lied that he was her friends bf. Turns out that the fellow and my Taurus had been ‘seeing each other’ for abt 2 mths... she says it's something 'simple', and that she enjoys the attention, and group outings.

Being the complete idiot that I am, I told her its over... infidelity to me was impossible to accept. At that time, I was too selfish and blind to see that I had been the cause of all this.

She clung onto me, begging me not to go. I stood firm, and left.

The next day, she sends me msgs shouting that she 'cannot live without me, and that shes going crazy'. I stuck to my guns... i spent an entire day away digesting the situation.

After much careful thought, I realized that I was so wrong. Realised... truly, that she meant so so much more to me than I could imagine... cant live without her. Tried to reach out to her, and expectedly received argumentative responses and a complete reversal in interest.

I know that the fellow was with her... I asked her if she still wanted to break up. She said it was me that wanted it, not her.... all this whispered thru the phone.

Managed to meet with her the next day, and proposed we try to figure things out... we'd leave the next morning to a beautiful resort for a night and have a romantic dinner for two. she seemed pleased and agreed. This was today. Later at night, she called to inform me that she wasnt feeling well, and apologized abt not being able to make it for the getaway.

Since then, she has been very silent...

I have such deep regrets about the hurt I've caused her... and am desperate to makes things right, if at all possible.

QUESTION： should I give her space... or should I continue pursuing for her attention? What should I do?

This might be a long story. I had failed to give her time and attention due to work. She had been so intensely in love with me for 2 yrs. Its all my fault. This may be complicated.

Two days ago, I went to her studio apartment unannounced. she came out and stood in the doorway, and hugged me. The way she did it was almost to block me from entering... I did enter, and there was a guy awkwardly sitting close to her lady friend. My Taurus lied that he was her friends bf. Turns out that the fellow and my Taurus had been ‘seeing each other’ for abt 2 mths... she says it's something 'simple', and that she enjoys the attention, and group outings.

Being the complete idiot that I am, I told her its over... infidelity to me was impossible to accept. At that time, I was too selfish and blind to see that I had been the cause of all this.

She clung onto me, begging me not to go. I stood firm, and left.

The next day, she sends me msgs shouting that she 'cannot live without me, and that shes going crazy'. I stuck to my guns... i spent an entire day away digesting the situation.

After much careful thought, I realized that I was so wrong. Realised... truly, that she meant so so much more to me than I could imagine... cant live without her. Tried to reach out to her, and expectedly received argumentative responses and a complete reversal in interest.

I know that the fellow was with her... I asked her if she still wanted to break up. She said it was me that wanted it, not her.... all this whispered thru the phone.

Managed to meet with her the next day, and proposed we try to figure things out... we'd leave the next morning to a beautiful resort for a night and have a romantic dinner for two. she seemed pleased and agreed. This was today. Later at night, she called to inform me that she wasnt feeling well, and apologized abt not being able to make it for the getaway.

Since then, she has been very silent...

I have such deep regrets about the hurt I've caused her... and am desperate to makes things right, if at all possible.

QUESTION： should I give her space... or should I continue pursuing for her attention? What should I do?

This might be a long story. I had failed to give her time and attention due to work. She had been so intensely in love with me for 2 yrs. Its all my fault. This may be complicated.

Two days ago, I went to her studio apartment unannounced. she came out and stood in the doorway, and hugged me. The way she did it was almost to block me from entering... I did enter, and there was a guy awkwardly sitting close to her lady friend. My Taurus lied that he was her friends bf. Turns out that the fellow and my Taurus had been ‘seeing each other’ for abt 2 mths... she says it's something 'simple', and that she enjoys the attention, and group outings.

Being the complete idiot that I am, I told her its over... infidelity to me was impossible to accept. At that time, I was too selfish and blind to see that I had been the cause of all this.

She clung onto me, begging me not to go. I stood firm, and left.

The next day, she sends me msgs shouting that she 'cannot live without me, and that shes going crazy'. I stuck to my guns... i spent an entire day away digesting the situation.

After much careful thought, I realized that I was so wrong. Realised... truly, that she meant so so much more to me than I could imagine... cant live without her. Tried to reach out to her, and expectedly received argumentative responses and a complete reversal in interest.

I know that the fellow was with her... I asked her if she still wanted to break up. She said it was me that wanted it, not her.... all this whispered thru the phone.

Managed to meet with her the next day, and proposed we try to figure things out... we'd leave the next morning to a beautiful resort for a night and have a romantic dinner for two. she seemed pleased and agreed. This was today. Later at night, she called to inform me that she wasnt feeling well, and apologized abt not being able to make it for the getaway.

Since then, she has been very silent...

I have such deep regrets about the hurt I've caused her... and am desperate to makes things right, if at all possible.

QUESTION： should I give her space... or should I continue pursuing for her attention? What should I do?

I have several questions.....

1. How did you find out she was cheating with the 'guy on the couch?' You mentioned that you saw him sitting next to her lady friend, but you failed to disclose how you found out about their courtship.

2. If work is keeping you busy, why haven't you asked her to live with you? Two years is a reasonable time to either marry or shack up. Is this a long distance relationship?

3. You said she has been silent after not being able to make it to the getaway. How long has she been silent?...Be more specific about this silence. Is it non-communication, the attitude and cold-shoulder, or is she just shutting you out?

What I'm sensing from you OP is 'all projection.' You're not fully grasping your reality. You're turning this dilemma into a passionate soap opera. You're writing the script in your head, and she's playing out a character that YOU created.

....And you, sounding like the main character who is about to pass out on the stage from mental anguish.

Are you omitting something from this story?

Most Scorps I know have a low tolerance for infidelity and betrayal. They will NEVER take the blame for someone else's infidelity.

Most Tauruses I know (including myself) are quite possessive over our loved ones, sometimes a little insecure & fearful too. If we feel that we have even the slightest chance of losing you, we will fight for you (especially if we are to blame). To fight for you, just to fall ALL the way back is not something most Bulls will do.

Both signs are out of their elements here.

OP purposely missed out LOT of details. For sure.

Yeah, if i felt i was being dragged along a d not apprecited i would look for attention else where...however not without putting up a fight first. I would break up before cheating though.

There are details missing for sure...

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Posted by Boots1313

Yeah, if i felt i was being dragged along a d not apprecited i would look for attention else where...however not without putting up a fight first. I would break up before cheating though.

There are details missing for sure...

You break up first

Discuss issues ect

Not straight cheat

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Yeah, like i said i wouldnt go down without teying and exhausting wvery option and us in the process.

I also talk too much and express/communicate everything. So basically in order for me to go and cheat...my s.o would basically havw to be ignoring me completely for weeks or stepping out on me himself. At that poont why even bother being in a relationship.

Op...you lucked out. Gtfo there. Find a better relationship

Hello

..maybe im wrong ..Here but ...WE will See 😆

I know that Taurus Girl ...

I See her at Work Sometimes ..

She ask for my Number ...and WE Had some Dates ...that typical Taurus behavior ...she give me presents ...was distant and aloof ..Like they are ..i was helping with her move and saw her Mom ...

WE Had some great Moments at Work ..and some nice Dates ...

So i ask her Out. ..at that time i start falling in Love ...

So i Made Dinner for her

WE Made a fire ...she stay Till late night ...Alone in my Garden ..

And WE kisst us heavently !!!!!

So real and so nice her eyse was Sparkling

I was Sure shes in Love ...

So i was 100% Sure shes in Love ...

OK next week ..i was in Relationship Mode

And Text her and voicemailing her maybe to much

WE saw us at Work ...and i told her ...i dont want to Rush or Push you ...

WE saw us again ...i try to kiss her ...but she wasnt in the mood ...but she was cuddling with...me ...and we talkt ...about everything

She knew that i was thinking WE are exklusiv ...i could feel that i maybe was to pushy for her

And shes talking alot of her University Situation that is so stressful for her ..and shes really in Stress ..shes even going Back to her Patents

She told me :

1: i Always need longer

2: lets See where it leads

3: i cant give 100% now

4: i Had a relationship where one have more than the other ..and that will Hurt someone

And Nr.5 and my Favorite :

5: whats even time 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 dafuk

OK now If i ask her she seems ...to be Not avalible ..and very in Stress ...and i dont know when i got time next ..is all she told me ..shes pushing me away

At Work WE Talk nice and good Like Always ...she even told me

I Like U alot ..and our Dates was very nice ..

And that Kissing Moment ..was. Beautiful ...

So im confused

I have some Theories

1: i scared her with my Tempo ..and she needs to think ..and See me at Work ...and will Check me Out at Work and will See If i Change or Something ...🤔

2: she isnt where she want to be in Life right now ...?!

3.: She Just got bored because ...she knows i want her ..,

4: thats hard for my but i have a very ..good Intuition ....so she was talking about her Bad relationship ...and im Sure she was the Person that have more ...and she was Hurt ...

And isnt over that Guy ...so that Guy ...is the Brother..of our Female Boss ...what makes the Situation Kind of funny ...And now she mirrows that Guy on me !? ...and Just playing with me ...to boost her Ego !? ...

I could need some Help

I want to send her a voicemail soon ...with a of im thinking and what is Up with us..bla bla ...