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How do you know if a Taurus guy still like you?
(part2)
After that though... I noticed that he got more and more distant everyday...until recently, at my birthday, he sent me some flowers and a cute little present along with a card wishing me happy bday and that I shouldn't be mad at him as all of this was prepared before our conversation. I felt bad a little... but it was really thoughtful and cute of him, so on the next monday when we saw each other again, I said thank you and he gave me another one of those sweet little smile. But things just keep getting more and more distant between the 2 of us and all of a sudden it actually starts to bother me. He's now gone for month...and I've never realise it before, but I actually do miss not seeing him. He goes to work earlier than I do... so everyday when I arrived at work, I'm sooo use to see him and greet him and see his smile...but all of that suddenly just vanish...the first few days was ok... but it's now been 2 weeks and I feel all weird, frustrated...and sad, I didn't think I would miss him that much and I don't even know when I started to feel this way about him. And an even bigger problem is... I don't know how to react when he comes back...he seems so distant lately and I don't know if he's still interested, and I have no idea how to approach him...
How do you know if a taurus guy still like you, and what is the best way to approach them if you've already push them away once?
After that though... I noticed that he got more and more distant everyday...until recently, at my birthday, he sent me some flowers and a cute little present along with a card wishing me happy bday and that I shouldn't be mad at him as all of this was prepared before our conversation. I felt bad a little... but it was really thoughtful and cute of him, so on the next monday when we saw each other again, I said thank you and he gave me another one of those sweet little smile. But things just keep getting more and more distant between the 2 of us and all of a sudden it actually starts to bother me. He's now gone for month...and I've never realise it before, but I actually do miss not seeing him. He goes to work earlier than I do... so everyday when I arrived at work, I'm sooo use to see him and greet him and see his smile...but all of that suddenly just vanish...the first few days was ok... but it's now been 2 weeks and I feel all weird, frustrated...and sad, I didn't think I would miss him that much and I don't even know when I started to feel this way about him. And an even bigger problem is... I don't know how to react when he comes back...he seems so distant lately and I don't know if he's still interested, and I have no idea how to approach him...
How do you know if a taurus guy still like you, and what is the best way to approach them if you've already push them away once?
This is taurus and it sounds so me ... lol
I confirm that he has interest in you ...
i believe he still likes you but taurus tend to take things slowly ...
if you cant wait ... charge to him, hug him and said u miss him so much
dont just only meet him in the office, meet him outside of work as well
ask yourself honestly
Do you think you will choose this guy as the new lover
or
you just enjoy the attention given by taurus ? (which taurus are good at it)
if you just attention seeker,
pls dont waste the bull time ... draw the line immediately
I confirm that he has interest in you ...
i believe he still likes you but taurus tend to take things slowly ...
if you cant wait ... charge to him, hug him and said u miss him so much
dont just only meet him in the office, meet him outside of work as well
ask yourself honestly
Do you think you will choose this guy as the new lover
or
you just enjoy the attention given by taurus ? (which taurus are good at it)
if you just attention seeker,
pls dont waste the bull time ... draw the line immediately
Thank you for your advice, we do meet outside of the job, but only for some PR that somehow are job related to our job. He actually has a great sense of humor whenever it's time to have some fun, he's also very composed and quiet. Right now I don't really know how I feel, I don't know exactly since when I started to actually miss him. I don't think it's just about seeking attention, as I pushed him away at the beginning. But somehow those little gestures over time from him end up making me restless while he's not around. I'm not ready to charge at him, jump in his arms or even telling him that I miss him, because I really don't understand how I feel at the moment. All I know is, it really bothers me when he's not around. But no matter how I approach him, I feel like I'm toying with him... because I have the impression that he's trying to move on...but part of me really don't want to let him go. I still have 2 weeks to figure it out as he's still out of town for another 2 weeks. How could we know if a taurus man still like you or not?
Hi, I'm not a taurus but I'm marrying one. I think you should figure out how you really feel about him and not worry too much if he still like you or not. I just don't think it`s right and honest to dictate your actions base on how he feels or felt about you.
From what I've red, he already told you once that he is interested and you pushed him away...I think it's somehow a normal behavior to try and distant himself to avoid getting hurt. Throughout his actions though I can definitly tell he cares deeply about you. The tricky part here is... the way taurus men give attention is really addictive... they pay attention to the smallest of details and slowly, it does get under your skin wether you want it or not... they are quiet, compose, extremyly funny when need be, charming.... and very soothing... I won't talk for all taurus, but the few that I know are.
You still have 2 weeks as you said to understand your own feelings and then decide what you want to do. If you decide to go after him, give him some clues about your feelings, take it slow and approach him gently. If he still likes you.... don't worry you'll notice it.
On the other hand, if you indeed just enjoy the attentions you get from him...move on and let him be that will be better for both of you.
From what I've red, he already told you once that he is interested and you pushed him away...I think it's somehow a normal behavior to try and distant himself to avoid getting hurt. Throughout his actions though I can definitly tell he cares deeply about you. The tricky part here is... the way taurus men give attention is really addictive... they pay attention to the smallest of details and slowly, it does get under your skin wether you want it or not... they are quiet, compose, extremyly funny when need be, charming.... and very soothing... I won't talk for all taurus, but the few that I know are.
You still have 2 weeks as you said to understand your own feelings and then decide what you want to do. If you decide to go after him, give him some clues about your feelings, take it slow and approach him gently. If he still likes you.... don't worry you'll notice it.
On the other hand, if you indeed just enjoy the attentions you get from him...move on and let him be that will be better for both of you.
Hi Leylia12, and thank your for your advice.
I've been thinking a lot about what you said and I definitly agree with you about him getting under my skin. I just didn't realise how addicted to that morning smile of his until now... that he's gone.
The only wannabe solution I came up with, is waiting for his return and see how feel when he's around me again. I think I'm currently too overwhelm with his absence that it prevent me for sorting out my own and true feelings. I definitly don't want to hurt him as he has been nothing but kind, sweet and extremely caring toward me.... even though we haven't talk much lately, I know he still look out for me in his own very subtle way and of course I enjoy that. I haven't feel this way in a long time, it's sweet, sour and bitter all at the same time.
I miss him dearly right now, and everyday sitting next to that empty desk of his gets harder and harder. And that is really hard to understand, because it's not like we have gotten to know each other better lately.... so when was it that he starts to bother me so much? I just don't get it!
I've been thinking a lot about what you said and I definitly agree with you about him getting under my skin. I just didn't realise how addicted to that morning smile of his until now... that he's gone.
The only wannabe solution I came up with, is waiting for his return and see how feel when he's around me again. I think I'm currently too overwhelm with his absence that it prevent me for sorting out my own and true feelings. I definitly don't want to hurt him as he has been nothing but kind, sweet and extremely caring toward me.... even though we haven't talk much lately, I know he still look out for me in his own very subtle way and of course I enjoy that. I haven't feel this way in a long time, it's sweet, sour and bitter all at the same time.
I miss him dearly right now, and everyday sitting next to that empty desk of his gets harder and harder. And that is really hard to understand, because it's not like we have gotten to know each other better lately.... so when was it that he starts to bother me so much? I just don't get it!
Posted by Chouchoune
I miss him dearly right now, and everyday sitting next to that empty desk of his gets harder and harder. And that is really hard to understand, because it's not like we have gotten to know each other better lately.... so when was it that he starts to bother me so much? I just don't get it!
i think you are in love with him alredi ...
whats stopping you? 😄 ... you attached with someone else now?
I'm not exactly sure what's stopping me, I don't have anyone in my life at the moment. I've been missing him a lot since he's gone and that feeling is something new to me. I still have a hard time understanding it. I'm still waiting for his return and see if all those feelings I currently have just go away, or is it something more than just enjoying his attention... knowing he was interested in me? Like I said, before he left,he was acting more and more distant and Leylia was right, he's probably trying to move on and part of me really don't want that, but then part of me feel soo awful and doesn't want to hold him back either. I'm sorry I know it sounds very confusing, but that's really how I feel, it's like I'm stuck in place and no matter what moves I choose to take, it's the wrong one...
I think I understand why you're confuse...and him not being around sure doesn't help. On the other hand though, his absence might just be the catalyst you need to figure out your own emotions towards him and this whole situation. I'm pretty sure everything will be easier and much more clear once you see him again. I'm wondering though...are you the type of person that will just jump into his arm or are you one of those people that is cool, calm and compose and just smile at him? 🙂
One more thing, Taurus men (at teast the one I'm with) don't flirt or are very lame at it. So if somehow you realise you actually do have romantic feelings for him...You might have to be the one to take the first step especially since you turned him down before. You'll also need to be very patient... they are DENSE to a fault! But once that first step is taken and if he still have feelings for you...get ready to be pampered, loved and taken care of like a little princess. A good taurus man treats his woman like no other.
Keep us informed on how things are going 🙂
One more thing, Taurus men (at teast the one I'm with) don't flirt or are very lame at it. So if somehow you realise you actually do have romantic feelings for him...You might have to be the one to take the first step especially since you turned him down before. You'll also need to be very patient... they are DENSE to a fault! But once that first step is taken and if he still have feelings for you...get ready to be pampered, loved and taken care of like a little princess. A good taurus man treats his woman like no other.
Keep us informed on how things are going 🙂
Thank you again Leylia. He finally got back from his trip and I finally got to see him again after all this time. He was suppose to be gone for a month, but then his trip got extended by another 3 weeks. When I heard the news, I was devastated. We have some common friends and acquaintances since we work together and to be perfectly honest, I was a little jealous when I had to learn the news from someone else.
Anyway, last monday when I went to work in the morning and saw him from the back, I was soooo happy. There were lots of people around him and they were talking about his recent voyage. Once things settle down and he finally got to his desk, I finally get to see that gentle smile once again. I felt like crying...really! it felt like I've found something I've lost a long time ago. We talked a little bit about his trip and I decide to ask him if he wanted to go and get a coffee together. He replied he doesn't drink coffee...but he sure could use a cup of tea. We went and take a walk together. I completely forgot how nice his voice sounds. He also had lost a lot of weight and look really nice. I asked him if he missed me... which caught him completely by surprise I think. He didn't give me answer but instead just smile at me and change subject. Then I insisted and told him that he didn't give me an answer. His face suddenly change to this serious and nostalgic look. He sigh then told me that he doesn't know what he could say or what he should say and I quickly replied just the truth would be nice. Then he pulled out of his jacket a little gift that he got for me from his trip. It was a gorgeous hair stick from his trip to Japan. He said he wasn't sure if he should gave it to me at first but then it's not like he could use it himself. I was really touched and said thank you and told him that I really missed him. Then he replied that I shouldn't be too nice with him. I didn't understand so I asked him why. Then he replied because it will make it harder for him and because he's tired and exhausted. I just didn't know what to say so I just said sorry. He gave me another smile and we went back to our desk.
I felt awful after that because now I think I understand how easy it was for me compare to what he had to endure for those last few months. Looks like our situation have switch. He doesn't seem to understand what I meant when I said that I missed him...you are right about Taurus man being DENSE. He thought I was being nice plain and simple which wasn'
Anyway, last monday when I went to work in the morning and saw him from the back, I was soooo happy. There were lots of people around him and they were talking about his recent voyage. Once things settle down and he finally got to his desk, I finally get to see that gentle smile once again. I felt like crying...really! it felt like I've found something I've lost a long time ago. We talked a little bit about his trip and I decide to ask him if he wanted to go and get a coffee together. He replied he doesn't drink coffee...but he sure could use a cup of tea. We went and take a walk together. I completely forgot how nice his voice sounds. He also had lost a lot of weight and look really nice. I asked him if he missed me... which caught him completely by surprise I think. He didn't give me answer but instead just smile at me and change subject. Then I insisted and told him that he didn't give me an answer. His face suddenly change to this serious and nostalgic look. He sigh then told me that he doesn't know what he could say or what he should say and I quickly replied just the truth would be nice. Then he pulled out of his jacket a little gift that he got for me from his trip. It was a gorgeous hair stick from his trip to Japan. He said he wasn't sure if he should gave it to me at first but then it's not like he could use it himself. I was really touched and said thank you and told him that I really missed him. Then he replied that I shouldn't be too nice with him. I didn't understand so I asked him why. Then he replied because it will make it harder for him and because he's tired and exhausted. I just didn't know what to say so I just said sorry. He gave me another smile and we went back to our desk.
I felt awful after that because now I think I understand how easy it was for me compare to what he had to endure for those last few months. Looks like our situation have switch. He doesn't seem to understand what I meant when I said that I missed him...you are right about Taurus man being DENSE. He thought I was being nice plain and simple which wasn'
oups sry text got cut off...anyway...He thought I was being nice plain and simple which wasn't the case...when I said I missed him I really meant MISS HIM! After all this time away from work... he now has a lot of stuff to do and I don't want to bother him. but every now and then I have this burning urge to slap him and say wake up and notice already!
But no matter... Right now...I'm just really glad to have him back next to me everyday. I'm blushing like an idiot around him lately but he just doesn't get it!!! Instead he asked me if I'm ok or if I have a fever or something? It's cute but at the same time sooo frustrating.
I want to ask him out next weekend...maybe just having lunch together or something like that. Wish me luck!
But no matter... Right now...I'm just really glad to have him back next to me everyday. I'm blushing like an idiot around him lately but he just doesn't get it!!! Instead he asked me if I'm ok or if I have a fever or something? It's cute but at the same time sooo frustrating.
I want to ask him out next weekend...maybe just having lunch together or something like that. Wish me luck!
Well, unless I'm totally dumb, I think it's safe to assume that you indeed have develop romantic feelings for him. I don't think he's that oblivious about your intentions...he just seems to be extra cautious which is normal. For the last few months you guys only greet each other after all so maybe he just couldn't understand why the change suddenly...I could be wrong here though. Taurus men are indeed very slow and cautious when their emotions are involved. If you already know what you're looking for, give him sometime to think it through. Don't worry, from his actions he's definitly not over you. Just be yourself and try to get to know him better...asking him out for lunch this coming weekend is a great idea.
"I'm blushing like an idiot around him lately but he just doesn't get it!!! Instead he asked me if I'm ok or if I have a fever or something"
LOL! yea that sounds about right... gotta love the Bull.
Let me know how things evolve this weekend 🙂
"I'm blushing like an idiot around him lately but he just doesn't get it!!! Instead he asked me if I'm ok or if I have a fever or something"
LOL! yea that sounds about right... gotta love the Bull.
Let me know how things evolve this weekend 🙂
Posted by Chouchoune
When I heard the news, I was devastated. We have some common friends and acquaintances since we work together and to be perfectly honest, I was a little jealous when I had to learn the news from someone else.
And its from who? hottest chick in the office?
anyhow ... wishes you luck
and anxiously waiting for your updates
Posted by NaughtyTaurusPosted by Chouchoune
When I heard the news, I was devastated. We have some common friends and acquaintances since we work together and to be perfectly honest, I was a little jealous when I had to learn the news from someone else.
And its from who? hottest chick in the office?
anyhow ... wishes you luck
and anxiously waiting for your updatesclick to expand
I thought I was the hottest one 🙂
Anyway I asked him out this coming saturday for lunch...he looked baffle at first but I told him I want to know about his recent trip so he agreed with that cute and shy smile of his. I can't wait to finally see him outside of work!
Posted by ChouchounePosted by NaughtyTaurusPosted by Chouchoune
When I heard the news, I was devastated. We have some common friends and acquaintances since we work together and to be perfectly honest, I was a little jealous when I had to learn the news from someone else.
And its from who? hottest chick in the office?
anyhow ... wishes you luck
and anxiously waiting for your updates
I thought I was the hottest one 🙂
Anyway I asked him out this coming saturday for lunch...he looked baffle at first but I told him I want to know about his recent trip so he agreed with that cute and shy smile of his. I can't wait to finally see him outside of work!click to expand
LOL that's the spirit!! you go girl!
So we met for the first time outside of our job this last saturday. He came and pick me up 5 minutes earlier than the appointed time. I was very nervous, but as soon as I saw his smile all the stress just disapear. We went to a small but very cozy pasta restaurant... somehow he knew I like pasta. He was kind as usual, very funny and charming. I've never felt such a presence from a man before...It felt a little intimidating, but at the same time it was very soothing. I bombard him with tons of questions he answer some of them keeping me want to know soo much more about him. I asked him about his previous relationship and his face completely change and he told me that he rather not talk about it. I felt so bad about it as if I just stir up some really bad memories in him...Then I started to avoid his eyes. Suddenly, he put one of his hand on mine and said sorry, then removed it very quickly. His hand was very warm and to be perfectly honest it caught me completely by surprise...and now I just can't get it out of my mind!
After the meal, we went for a walk at the park. Then out of the blue, he asked me what happened? I just didn't expect that so I just ask him what he's talking about? Then he just repeat:
-What happened? You didn't ask me a single question about my trip. Why are we here?
My mind was completely blank...I just couldn't say a word at all! Then I just told him that I really miss him and I was hoping he'll return the favor which he didn't. Instead he told me that I'm lovely and that he was very attracted to my lively personnality, but right now he just doesn't know what to do anymore. He said he had spent the last 6 months trying to convince himself of a certain reality which was extremely hard as he was sitting next to that same reality. He said seeing me flirt with other men everyday was killing him but yet he was completely powerless... then ask me why now? why the sudden change? I just didn't know what to say...but a -I don't know...He shook his head and said -I see. He changed the subject and we kept walking for a while till he decided to take me home.
I don't know where we are anymore. I feel like I've just lost him. I had trouble sleeping for the rest of the weekend. This morning when we saw each other at work, he gave me a smile as usual and ask me if I'm ok because apparently I look terrible. I was touched as he seems to still care for me, but at the same time I was so sad. Before he left this afternoon he wished me a good ev
After the meal, we went for a walk at the park. Then out of the blue, he asked me what happened? I just didn't expect that so I just ask him what he's talking about? Then he just repeat:
-What happened? You didn't ask me a single question about my trip. Why are we here?
My mind was completely blank...I just couldn't say a word at all! Then I just told him that I really miss him and I was hoping he'll return the favor which he didn't. Instead he told me that I'm lovely and that he was very attracted to my lively personnality, but right now he just doesn't know what to do anymore. He said he had spent the last 6 months trying to convince himself of a certain reality which was extremely hard as he was sitting next to that same reality. He said seeing me flirt with other men everyday was killing him but yet he was completely powerless... then ask me why now? why the sudden change? I just didn't know what to say...but a -I don't know...He shook his head and said -I see. He changed the subject and we kept walking for a while till he decided to take me home.
I don't know where we are anymore. I feel like I've just lost him. I had trouble sleeping for the rest of the weekend. This morning when we saw each other at work, he gave me a smile as usual and ask me if I'm ok because apparently I look terrible. I was touched as he seems to still care for me, but at the same time I was so sad. Before he left this afternoon he wished me a good ev
HE wished me a good evening and told me to take care. Now I miss him soo much but I just don't know what to do...
"He said seeing me flirt with other men everyday was killing him but yet he was completely powerless... then ask me why now? why the sudden change? I just didn't know what to say...but a -I don't know...He shook his head and said -I see"
THIS ^^ is where you went wrong. We're logical souls. If you've changed the status quo, we want to know why and you better have a good answer. I know that's frustrating for people who speak out of emotion and passion. I rarely do that myself. I admire it, but it sounds like b.s. to me if I don't get sound reasons for why the change. Take some time and think about an answer to his questions and then knock him off his socks with a well thought out, caring, sweet answer.
THIS ^^ is where you went wrong. We're logical souls. If you've changed the status quo, we want to know why and you better have a good answer. I know that's frustrating for people who speak out of emotion and passion. I rarely do that myself. I admire it, but it sounds like b.s. to me if I don't get sound reasons for why the change. Take some time and think about an answer to his questions and then knock him off his socks with a well thought out, caring, sweet answer.
You pushed him away once. And while he was sitting next to you doing his best all this time to remain friendly??_he saw you flirt with other men on a daily basis. Then suddenly things change or rather you changed. Don't you think it's a little confusing? At least to him it is. He wants to know why all the sudden changes??_ maybe it's because it's his only defense against another failure and getting hurt twice by the same person that he seems to be genuinely fond of. If you look at all his actions so far??_ it all makes sense. He told you once about his feelings and got pushed away. Over time he gradually pulled away??_ went on a trip??_ came back to all this sudden changes. You said it yourself??_ that you guys only greet each other in the morning otherwise say goodbye at the end of the day??_.what could have trigger that change??_something doesn't add up. You said you miss him??_ did you look at his face while you said that? What is it about him that you miss? I don't think he's looking for a confession??_but rather a reason??_ a reason to hang on??_ a reason to believe that all of this is true. Take some time and think carefully about how you feel and give him an honest answer. You said in this thread that you miss his voice, his smile, his kindness and how he pays attention to every little details??_ how he was always there ready to listen to you when you needed...why not let him know all of that—
You pushed him away once. And while he was sitting next to you doing his best all this time to remain friendly??_he saw you flirt with other men on a daily basis. Then suddenly things change or rather you changed. Don't you think it's a little confusing? At least to him it is. He wants to know why all the sudden changes??_ maybe it's because it's his only defense against another failure and getting hurt twice by the same person that he seems to be genuinely fond of. If you look at all his actions so far??_ it all makes sense. He told you once about his feelings and got pushed away. Over time he gradually pulled away??_ went on a trip??_ came back to all this sudden changes. You said it yourself??_ that you guys only greet each other in the morning otherwise say goodbye at the end of the day??_.what could have trigger that change??_something doesn't add up. You said you miss him??_ did you look at his face while you said that? What is it about him that you miss? I don't think he's looking for a confession??_but rather a reason??_ a reason to hang on??_ a reason to believe that all of this is true. Take some time and think carefully about how you feel and give him an honest answer. You said in this thread that you miss his voice, his smile, his kindness and how he pays attention to every little details??_ how he was always there ready to listen to you when you needed...why not let him know all of that—
the bulls are damn hate being insecure ... lol ... thats including me
find a way to tell him ...
tell him that you interested in him ... that you like him ...
tell him how you feel ...
tell him to give you chance to prove yourself ... and force him to accept it ... lol
after all the Bull seeks for assurance ... he just confused now cause why out of sudden
there's gold falling from sky
the feeling you having right now,
that you dont admit you having it ... but yet you miss it, cant live without it and
everyday crave for it ... that's mostly love 😄
Dont give up girl ... you just need to find the track !!
good luck 😄
find a way to tell him ...
tell him that you interested in him ... that you like him ...
tell him how you feel ...
tell him to give you chance to prove yourself ... and force him to accept it ... lol
after all the Bull seeks for assurance ... he just confused now cause why out of sudden
there's gold falling from sky
the feeling you having right now,
that you dont admit you having it ... but yet you miss it, cant live without it and
everyday crave for it ... that's mostly love 😄
Dont give up girl ... you just need to find the track !!
good luck 😄
Thank you all for the advices. I do understand why he needed to know what changed. I try to put myself in his position and it is indeed very confusing. I went through hell last week...seing him everyday and we've gone back to greeting each other and saying goodbyes only.... till Friday. Friday I just couldn't take it anymore so I booked a meeting with him. We work together so it's easy to make up something about work. Anyway we were alone in the meeting room then I closed the door and locked it. He started to talk about our project... but I stopped him and just told him that I'm sorry... that I just needed to see him and talked to him. I told him that I'm currently as confuse as him... and I did exactly what you said Leylia12... I told him what is it that made me miss him soooo much. He smiled at me and said he's sorry too. Then he put his right hand on my face and gently caress my cheek. This is the second time he touches me...he's soooo warm and I loved the way he touched me...and I just can't get it out of my mind!! Anyway asked me to give him some time... as he is so use to be distant and casual towards me... that he needed sometime to readjust himself because he just doesn't know how to act around me. And as nod and put my hand on his neck... I was very pleased to feel him a little shaky... and I could feel his heart racing!!! It was soo cute!
DONT GIVE UP !! 😄
so did Cinderella marry to the prince?
Things have been ok. We're able to talk more casually and we even take our breaks together sometime. These last few weeks, I was able to notice that he's a very complex individual and he seems to have a very conflicting personnality. He's literally the sweetest guy in the world when we're alone...but always turn cold and very quiet when people are around... especially when other guys flirt with me. I can understand that he's uncomfortable... but then again... we're not a couple and I've been toning down my own flirty attitude...but that seems to bother him even more. I asked him what was it that bothers him and he just told me not to worry about it and that he should be the one dealing with his own issues. I was a little angry at him at first when he said that... but then I realise it's not like he was sulking or stop caring for me... in fact, he's as gentle today as he was before... if not more. But not able to understand what is going on and how to help him, frustrate the hell out of me. Beside that, I'm very happy right now... and I'll never get bore catching him staring at me and then see him quickly turn away...really make me feel special 🙂
Wow your Bull sounds so much like mine. I think, even though he's uncomfortable about guys flirting with you, he's desperately trying to get over this issue by himself. They are very stubborn and the problem here is that the only solution is for him to go against his own POSSESSIVE nature. And since you have tone down your own flirty attitude FOR HIM, he might have felt like he failed you... They could be extremely hard on themselves at time. The good thing in all of that is they are as demanding toward themselves as they are toward their loved ones. If they dislike other guys flirting with you or you flirting with other guys, usually they, themselves are very loyal and will never flirt around and put you the same spot they hate so much. All being said, this is only speculations from my side, so I could be totally wrong, but here's what I did to help my own situation back then. They don't want people to try changing them so they also hate it if you change to "accommodate" them. I was in the exact same situation as you back then and all I had to do was little very subtle gestures to make him/them understand that they matter. You said he turned cold and quiet whenever people are around...try moving closer to him and notice his reaction. Whenever guys are flirting with you, don't act and feel guilty about it but instead make him understand that it meant nothing and that you rather have him flirt with you instead. I usually go back to my Bull asking "where's my smile?" and his face light up right away. As for your own flirty attitude, that is something you have to figure out on your own??_I understand that you??re not officially in a relationship with him, but what is it that you want out of this?
Hang in there!!! Good Taurus man is more than worth it.
Hang in there!!! Good Taurus man is more than worth it.
Posted by Chouchoune
I'm blushing like an idiot around him lately but he just doesn't get it!!! Instead he asked me if I'm ok or if I have a fever or something? It's cute but at the same time sooo frustrating.
Girl i know wat you mean.
They r just too dense.
Sorry didn't see the latest updates.
But I must say, he literally sounds like a play by play taurus male playbook. I'd literally do everything the same as him LOL.
On behalf of all taurus' I'm sorry we get jealous, we can't help it!!!
But I must say, he literally sounds like a play by play taurus male playbook. I'd literally do everything the same as him LOL.
On behalf of all taurus' I'm sorry we get jealous, we can't help it!!!
Thanks Naughty for your support! and THANK YOU Leylia for your precious advices. I'm really glad as things have been awesome lately between me and Mr. Taurus. I did what you suggest and it really helped. Whenever guys flirt with me, even though Mr.Bull act as if he doesn't care, but as soon as turn to him and give him a smile or sometime just plain ditch the other guy to talk to my Taurus instead... his face really did light up... and that smile of his really makes me happy. I also don't know why, but lately I've beeen very touchy feely towards him...At first I was afraid he might not like it... but to my surprise... not only it doesn't bother him, but instead he actually warm up to me even more. His quiet nature haven't change, but him caring for me is undeniable...he doesn't express it openly, but his actions are very clear... he pays attention to the smallest of details, me coughing, sighing, yawning...I mean he treats me like a little princess in a very subtle way and I really love it.
Last Friday, we went to a karaoke bar with a bunch of coworkers and they force him to sing! My heart literally skip a beat there. I've heard his voice on a daily basis...but it was the first time I heard him sang...OMG it was awesome! If our coworkers weren't there I would have totally jump on him. We had a lot of fun that night and everyone was trying to make him drink but he was dead serious about no alcohool that night...I asked him why and he said "Who would drive you home otherwise" AWWWWWW isn't he the cutest— Really melt my heart. He drove me home later that night... and I asked him if he wanted to go to my place and he said no, but he would love it if I could keep him company for a while. He took my hand and we went for a little walk??_.Oh I wish that night never end. After walking me home, he gives me my first HUG!!! It felt sooo good! Before I went to sleep that night, I sent him a little text message saying I miss him and he replied —You have no idea!!?? Thinking about that night now make me miss him so bad! Sigh??_.
Last Friday, we went to a karaoke bar with a bunch of coworkers and they force him to sing! My heart literally skip a beat there. I've heard his voice on a daily basis...but it was the first time I heard him sang...OMG it was awesome! If our coworkers weren't there I would have totally jump on him. We had a lot of fun that night and everyone was trying to make him drink but he was dead serious about no alcohool that night...I asked him why and he said "Who would drive you home otherwise" AWWWWWW isn't he the cutest— Really melt my heart. He drove me home later that night... and I asked him if he wanted to go to my place and he said no, but he would love it if I could keep him company for a while. He took my hand and we went for a little walk??_.Oh I wish that night never end. After walking me home, he gives me my first HUG!!! It felt sooo good! Before I went to sleep that night, I sent him a little text message saying I miss him and he replied —You have no idea!!?? Thinking about that night now make me miss him so bad! Sigh??_.
I don't get it...
We Taureans go out of our way most of the time for others. Then you turn around and tell us to back off... It hurts like hell, because we also hate and fear rejection, but we try so hard to do it anyway then you turn around and are worked up because we backed off...
Really?
Look, you pushed him back, you told him you don't want anything from him, and now you are out of your mind because you don't have him there. You made the call, not him. He was honest and open with you, and you shot him down. Now we take this type of stuff hard on our self, but we'll be ok and just move on at our pace.
You need to stop getting worked up about him because you caused the tension, not him. You also need to be straight up and honest with him, he owes you nothing. Actions and words have consequences.
It is this type of thing that pushes a Taurus to the limit, then we crack, and then the whole world is ticked off at us... Stop playing games and either say what you need to say, or move out of the way. If your not honest and open, your gonna hurt 2 people here and be left with a scare that nothing will ever heal.
I don't want to sound harsh and the like but I am caught up in similar situations. You have NO idea how it rips us apart. And eventually, eventually we can't take it anymore (and we take a lot) and then we snap, and enter an emergency shutdown mode where everything becomes 'uncomfortable' all the time. You'll be crying your self to sleep for a pretty long time after this and the void won't go away. We may, but nothing else will.
Decide what you want with him, get the message across and move on together or on in your own direction. You are tempting that which should not be tempted.
You sound really amazing, and I can imagine why he wants you, but you'r really playing a bad game. Don't be surprised when the music stops playing and your the only one standing...
We Taureans go out of our way most of the time for others. Then you turn around and tell us to back off... It hurts like hell, because we also hate and fear rejection, but we try so hard to do it anyway then you turn around and are worked up because we backed off...
Really?
Look, you pushed him back, you told him you don't want anything from him, and now you are out of your mind because you don't have him there. You made the call, not him. He was honest and open with you, and you shot him down. Now we take this type of stuff hard on our self, but we'll be ok and just move on at our pace.
You need to stop getting worked up about him because you caused the tension, not him. You also need to be straight up and honest with him, he owes you nothing. Actions and words have consequences.
It is this type of thing that pushes a Taurus to the limit, then we crack, and then the whole world is ticked off at us... Stop playing games and either say what you need to say, or move out of the way. If your not honest and open, your gonna hurt 2 people here and be left with a scare that nothing will ever heal.
I don't want to sound harsh and the like but I am caught up in similar situations. You have NO idea how it rips us apart. And eventually, eventually we can't take it anymore (and we take a lot) and then we snap, and enter an emergency shutdown mode where everything becomes 'uncomfortable' all the time. You'll be crying your self to sleep for a pretty long time after this and the void won't go away. We may, but nothing else will.
Decide what you want with him, get the message across and move on together or on in your own direction. You are tempting that which should not be tempted.
You sound really amazing, and I can imagine why he wants you, but you'r really playing a bad game. Don't be surprised when the music stops playing and your the only one standing...
Posted by Chouchoune
and I asked him if he wanted to go to my place and he said no,
You are directly hinting him 😛 but he might be conservative
its so obvious u both like couple (based on your story)
whats still stopping you both of officially being together?
all you gotta do ... is demand ... not ask ... and then smooch him 😄
Hi Omagall, If you red the whole story...You'll see that I didn't play any games. I did turn him down at first...because I didn't have feelings for him and I did not want him to waste his time. But he was still very caring and kind towards me...then he left for over a month...that was then that I had realised I actually miss him. All those little gestures of kindess, all those smiles and that look... all suddenly just vanish. I thought I just miss the attention he gave me...but that wasn't it. I genuinely miss him, and I already told him about how I felt lately. I didn't hide anything. In fact he told me he needed time to readjust and I'm fine with it....I have moments where I feel restless and impatient...but when I think about what he had to deal with all this time I think he more than deserve some time. I'm a Gemini and a very restless one...I always want to do things, talk and I'm all over the place, but as soon as I see him or hear the sound of his voice I feel at peace... I'm surprise at how tamed I am around him... not in a bad way. All my worries just go away when I'm with him. His smile put me at ease, when he looked at me I feel pretty but defenseless at the same time. If you ask me if I love him? I really don't know... but right now, he's the one thing I want and don't feel like sharing. I discover that I could actually be possessive and petty... I never thought being taken care could feel this good!
And Naughty, we're not officially together, but we care for each other a lot. And I really like how things are moving... our relationship is very honest. I had all the time I need to think things through... He should be able to have his don't you think? 🙂
And Naughty, we're not officially together, but we care for each other a lot. And I really like how things are moving... our relationship is very honest. I had all the time I need to think things through... He should be able to have his don't you think? 🙂
Your story is very cute and honest 🙂
Gemini and Taurus...one of my all time favorite couple is made of this combination (Steffi Graff and Andre Agassi). How are you guys doing lately? Was he able to sort out his own feelings? Judging from his actions... I think you're on the right track. And I totally agree with you... I've also become very tame around my Taurus, I can totally related to that lol. It's weird isn't it? I'm an Aries and I'm also restless but somehow, the way he looked at me, the sound of his voice...really put me at rest and at peace.
Keep us informed I'm rooting for you guys!
Gemini and Taurus...one of my all time favorite couple is made of this combination (Steffi Graff and Andre Agassi). How are you guys doing lately? Was he able to sort out his own feelings? Judging from his actions... I think you're on the right track. And I totally agree with you... I've also become very tame around my Taurus, I can totally related to that lol. It's weird isn't it? I'm an Aries and I'm also restless but somehow, the way he looked at me, the sound of his voice...really put me at rest and at peace.
Keep us informed I'm rooting for you guys!
I once had a Taurean who loved me for a whole year before I fell in love with him. And the change in my attitude towards him was like Night and Day.
Suddenly he got my time and my priority.
Well gurl, It may have happened to you too.
He bared his interest towards you once and you declined. Taureans are good at reigning their feelings in and if they decide to stop goign for you they can too.
So before he is completely closed off in his pursuit of you. If you really like him now? Go for him.
Let him know how your feelings have changed since the first time he told you how he felt...
We women seem to have to make moves towards our taurean men...
Be careful, be smart, be yourself and let him know he is appreciated... I should go to sellp now I am exhausted. But I coudl say more next time.
I wish you all the best
The fact that he bought you a gift shows he is still interested in you!
Suddenly he got my time and my priority.
Well gurl, It may have happened to you too.
He bared his interest towards you once and you declined. Taureans are good at reigning their feelings in and if they decide to stop goign for you they can too.
So before he is completely closed off in his pursuit of you. If you really like him now? Go for him.
Let him know how your feelings have changed since the first time he told you how he felt...
We women seem to have to make moves towards our taurean men...
Be careful, be smart, be yourself and let him know he is appreciated... I should go to sellp now I am exhausted. But I coudl say more next time.
I wish you all the best
The fact that he bought you a gift shows he is still interested in you!
Thank you Leylia and Thank you Ariangurl. Things have been good lately, I mean our relationship is moving very very slowly but steadily. I don't think I've ever met a guy as quiet and private as he is. I never had to work that hard to extract any kind of information from someone lol. I manage to somehow learn that he had a single girlfriend thoughtout his life, but when I ask more questions about his previous relationship... he quickly change the subject...I understand that it is none of my business... but somehow it got me sooo curious. I finally got to meet his closest friends as well...I could tell they were all shocked when they saw me... like they just saw a ghost...it's only after talking to them that I understand why... apparently I'm the first girl he's ever brought along since his ex girlfriend...which was like 15 years ago!!! That got me even more curious about his past! All I've manage to learn through his friends was... he loved her very very much and he was deeply wounded by her and it took him years to get over whatever happened. His friend then told me to take good care of him. After dinner with his friends, he invited me back to his place to watch a movie, a horror movie to stay in halloween spirit lol. Things were quiet at first then I move right next to him acting as if I was scare...then to my surprise, he pulled me in and put his arm around me (God! it felt good!). At the end of the movie, he turn around and look at me and said... "I know that movie didn't scare you at all!" He totally got me! I think I was blushing like an idiot, but he kept staring at me straight in the eyes. I felt defenseless, but at the same time soo excited. He shook his head, smiled and ask me "What should I do with you?" That was provocation!!... and boy! did it work! I was completely speechless, then he gave me a little kiss on the forehead and hug me very tightly. We spent the night together, but nothing happened... we just cuddle up to sleep... and it was the best night of sleep I had in forever!!!
Posted by OmagaIII
I don't get it...
We Taureans go out of our way most of the time for others. Then you turn around and tell us to back off... It hurts like hell, because we also hate and fear rejection, but we try so hard to do it anyway then you turn around and are worked up because we backed off...
Really?
In my opinion, it's because like your opposite...scorpio...you treat a person as if they are "the one" and its kind of scary, especially if it feels too soon. It's like "what makes me so special?"...and the treatment almost made me suspicious at times. I went thru this 1st with a Scorpio, and then with a Taurus. The Taurus was more bold and I pushed him away saying he was too young, which I felt he was at the time. He's been paying me back x100. I had to end it this weekend. I feel he wants me to say "I want to be with you" but I've hinted it a million times, and he's told me in every way possible he is not interested, although I feel differently. Imo, he wants me to be more direct and will torture me until I come out and say it....just how I tortured him because he wouldn't say it *sigh.* I just can't anymore, BUT I've learned some lessons. If I get a second or third chance with him, I won't turn him away. If not, I'll know how to treat someone else that shows their interest in me, especially if I like them. Playing hard to get is NOT it anymore lol.
I get how nine times out of ten, it's the other persons fault.
Chouchoune,
You're on your way to success, I guess so. when did you start dating this guy?
I dated mine June then we broke September due to my Stubborness in moving with him and then got back
again October but he wanted me to moved in with him again, so I did. We lived together just a month now.
I don't know how to put it... as we're not officially dating. I don't even know what our relation is to be honest, but I enjoy it and he seems to be comfortable with whatever happened. If I have to time this whole thing, I would say we started to see each other at the beginning of August... A week after he got back from his long trip. I told him how I've miss him... and everything started from there I guess. Since then, he's like a pandora box... the more I get to know him, the more I want to know...it's addictive! I'm quite independant so I don't mind doing stuff alone and all...but whenever I see him...then and only then I've realise that I've actually miss him...I really don't know how to put it into words... it's weird.
Oh I see,
He seems very slow... He is the same as my Taurus Guy office mate before. We been working together
2 1/2 years in a one company until I quit the job to move on my life and career growth as well.
He really likes you but be careful not to give him any hint that you're a flirt type 'cause that
will rage his jealousy and mess up the relationship.
He is slow indeed, but honestly I kinda like the pace. My previous relationships have always been quick. And this time although I'm not the one dictating the pace I do enjoy every moment of it. Reading this forum and seing all the complains about how taurus Guys being slow and cold did scare me a little. But this is different...I took time (cuz I have lots of it with him) to look at our relationship, and you know what? I haven't got a single doubt about him liking me and him caring for me. His actions are crystal clear, but unlike me he doesn't really voice them out. It did bother me a little at the beginning since I'm very talkative, but the way he look at me, the way he smile at me, I just love it! I also appreciate how honest he is. He already told me about my flirty attitude...He said that he finds it somehow charming but at the same time it scare the living hell out of him as he just don't know how he'll cope with it in the long run. I asked him what could we do? and his reply was a simple "I don't know, but I'm thinking about it" that made me laugh but at the same time it really reassure me as he didn't ignore it or try and make me feel like everything will be ok. Leylia12 was right... he seems to be very harsh on himself...everytime I make an effort to adapt or go out of my way to please him, although he does appreciate the effort...I can clearly see him getting very uncomfortable... and I think this is the biggest issu at the moment. He wants me/us to be happy but is so afraid to fail at it. So I'm patiently waiting for him and I don't mind, because I know all along that deep down he really has my best interests at heart and he will never do anything to hurt me. 🙂
hahaha...you have to understand that negative side of Taurus man. My new Taurus man wasn't so slow
when he was courting me. He was intense and I told him during reconciliation after break up that I
need some air sometimes 'cause I can't handle his jealousy and his drama thing which he understands.
After we broke up, I gave him a cold shoulder... lol , then he contacted me. I was happy when we had
a break up because I love being a loner sometimes and do many things with friends and office mates.
Ladies problem is too focus to their guys. regardless of their signs. It's red flag.
I don't like slow pace. lol. not my ideal type from a man. It looks ladies thing. lol
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