How Long Is Long Enough Stubborn Psychos?

Okay so I flipped out and chewed out a Taurus girl, because I'd been in it 3 weeks and was not letting up.
She went from all over me, to "I can't" to, "You can sleep in my bed and hold me, but we can't do non-Christian things."
So after she opened up again, I was so determiend, that I wrote her a love poem and gave it to her.
Before I got a chance to gauge her response, apparently, she told some girl I thought liked me that I was "mentally ill" and thought, "she crushed on me."

So I got very angry, because I saw this as a huge trust violation.
I cursed her out, told her I was kicking her out of my life, and haven't talked to her for 3 weeks.
Three weeks later I'm over it, and have apologized to her sister and friends. They all cool with me.
I asked her Sister to talk to her, and ask her if she wants to talk. Her response was more or less "I WANT HIS DEATH."
She's still so pissed.

Looking back on the whole thing. I over reacted because I realize what she did.
After all that effort, she was finally starting to fall for me, and it was a test of my substance and firmness (subconsciously) probably.
That's why she turned that other girl off of me, because she was 'jealous.' Sound plausible?

Now she is angry, because she opened herself to me and I subsequently quit and ripped her to shreds right when she was about ready.
HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO KNOW THIS?
IS THIS COMMON WITH VIRGO AND TAURUS? I HANG IN THERE 3X AS LONG AS I THINK I SHOULD AND HTEN ITS ALWAYS AN HOUR TOO SOON THAT I QUIT!
GAAAAH!!!!
Anyways, what do you all think?

Same thing happens in her doubts/rejections, I quit right before she was ready to just cry on my shoulder and tell me she loves me.
What is the cure to Virgo impatience when dealing with Taurus, you people are so slow moving, and we are so quick and mercurial. You all MAKE ME NUTS.

Unsure about this one. You see, for all our strength we really do take things to heart. FAR more sensitive than we let on. It takes time to get over a wound. If you strike low and vicious it does more than just the initial reaction of emotional pain, it goes to the quick. When someone is gunning for me in that manner I actually breathe in with hurt and my heart seems to stop, like a knife plunging itself into my chest. Than I have to have time to myself to weep. Have some very defined time to myself, not just to cry, but to process things. Not just from the recoil of the words themselves, but the INTENT to wound behind it. Something crafted with the sole purpose to strike at another.
This usually engages one of two responses. To keep at it and turn the other cheek, or to let the pain spread through me and call done.
It's quite possible jealousy made her speak thus. "Mentally ill..." warning the other girl off of you, not what she wants, etc. Went about it the wrong way though. What she should have said was.."I have feelings for this man, and I'd appreciate it if we would stop discussing what is mine." A polite way to mask what would be laced with Taurean whiplash. i.e. 'BACK THE F*** OFF OF MY MAN'.

And I rather liked the 'stubborn pyschos' quip, it made me smile.

Side note: As to the 'doubt/rejection', we always carry it with us unless we are flat out told exactly where we stand. Once we have that key, it's just an internal heave of relief, and RELAX. We are on even ground, no mysteries.

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