TheCancerGirl
@TheCancerGirl
9 Years
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Posted by DMV
You're gorgeous. Ive moved for a guy.
Talk to him about it. Bring it up or watch a movie with that storyline. See what he says.
Posted by SensitiveBluesThank you so much..
cute couple

Posted by TheCancerGirlHe approached me with it like 6 months into the relationship. Looking back i wish i would have waited longer but i dont regret moving.Posted by DMV
You're gorgeous. Ive moved for a guy.
Talk to him about it. Bring it up or watch a movie with that storyline. See what he says.
Thank you so much.. How long did you wait before moving.. My man is so annoying he always says he wants me there and in always like when tho haha ??click to expand

Posted by DMVIf you can afford it shop for a 2 bedroom. That way if you end up splitting you don't have to sleep in the same bed as an ex.Posted by TheCancerGirlHe approached me with it like 6 months into the relationship. Looking back i wish i would have waited longer but i dont regret moving.Posted by DMV
You're gorgeous. Ive moved for a guy.
Talk to him about it. Bring it up or watch a movie with that storyline. See what he says.
Thank you so much.. How long did you wait before moving.. My man is so annoying he always says he wants me there and in always like when tho haha ??
Its been quite the journey.
I would suggest NOT living with each other in HIS apartment. People get territorial. Move into a whole new space.
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Posted by DMVNo I agree he has a couple places where he lives but I was thinking I want my own place whenever I move there.. You are so right tho..Posted by TheCancerGirlHe approached me with it like 6 months into the relationship. Looking back i wish i would have waited longer but i dont regret moving.Posted by DMV
You're gorgeous. Ive moved for a guy.
Talk to him about it. Bring it up or watch a movie with that storyline. See what he says.
Thank you so much.. How long did you wait before moving.. My man is so annoying he always says he wants me there and in always like when tho haha ??
Its been quite the journey.
I would suggest NOT living with each other in HIS apartment. People get territorial. Move into a whole new space.
Or shit, dont move in together at all.click to expand
Posted by Redoctober2000
Please do not move just for him...
Check out the surrounding areas first ie when you visit him, stay in a hotel etc in an area near to his and check it out. Do this for a while.. Then move...
But speak to him. You need to be happy living there in case it does not work out, you have a back up plan..
Don't let a big move like that be only on one focus... Him
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by DMVIf you can afford it shop for a 2 bedroom. That way if you end up splitting you don't have to sleep in the same bed as an ex.Posted by TheCancerGirlHe approached me with it like 6 months into the relationship. Looking back i wish i would have waited longer but i dont regret moving.Posted by DMV
You're gorgeous. Ive moved for a guy.
Talk to him about it. Bring it up or watch a movie with that storyline. See what he says.
Thank you so much.. How long did you wait before moving.. My man is so annoying he always says he wants me there and in always like when tho haha ??
Its been quite the journey.
I would suggest NOT living with each other in HIS apartment. People get territorial. Move into a whole new space.
Or shit, dont move in together at all.
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Posted by LiveAndLove
You both look so happy together. Well wishes to you and your guy ❤️
Posted by LiveAndLoveYou are just too freaking sweet ? I've seen that myself which is why I'm conflicted.. I miss him like a crazy person and cry like a baby when I have to say goodbye.. I atleast want to be closer to him.. After that we can share a place?
As to your question, I really don't know. I've seen couples move in together after a month and make it work and stay together for the long term, and others who wait years to try and do it the right traditional way and it fails. When it feels right. That's when you should move forward and take those leaps 🙂 It's different for everyone. But I wish you both happiness.


Posted by LiveAndLoveAgree. After all we have nothing to add in this world. We only have time and memories to make.Posted by TheCancerGirlI think you're in love 🙂 If this is the only life we get, enjoy it to the fullest ?Posted by LiveAndLoveYou are just too freaking sweet ? I've seen that myself which is why I'm conflicted.. I miss him like a crazy person and cry like a baby when I have to say goodbye.. I atleast want to be closer to him.. After that we can share a place?
As to your question, I really don't know. I've seen couples move in together after a month and make it work and stay together for the long term, and others who wait years to try and do it the right traditional way and it fails. When it feels right. That's when you should move forward and take those leaps 🙂 It's different for everyone. But I wish you both happiness.
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Posted by Redoctober2000THIS ^^^^^
Please do not move just for him...
Check out the surrounding areas first ie when you visit him, stay in a hotel etc in an area near to his and check it out. Do this for a while.. Then move...
But speak to him. You need to be happy living there in case it does not work out, you have a back up plan..
Don't let a big move like that be only on one focus... Him

Posted by LiveAndLoveI think so too.. ?Posted by TheCancerGirlI think you're in love 🙂 If this is the only life we get, enjoy it to the fullest ?Posted by LiveAndLoveYou are just too freaking sweet ? I've seen that myself which is why I'm conflicted.. I miss him like a crazy person and cry like a baby when I have to say goodbye.. I atleast want to be closer to him.. After that we can share a place?
As to your question, I really don't know. I've seen couples move in together after a month and make it work and stay together for the long term, and others who wait years to try and do it the right traditional way and it fails. When it feels right. That's when you should move forward and take those leaps 🙂 It's different for everyone. But I wish you both happiness.
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Posted by M143This is so true .. Thank youPosted by LiveAndLoveAgree. After all we have nothing to add in this world. We only have time and memories to make.Posted by TheCancerGirlI think you're in love 🙂 If this is the only life we get, enjoy it to the fullest ?Posted by LiveAndLoveYou are just too freaking sweet ? I've seen that myself which is why I'm conflicted.. I miss him like a crazy person and cry like a baby when I have to say goodbye.. I atleast want to be closer to him.. After that we can share a place?
As to your question, I really don't know. I've seen couples move in together after a month and make it work and stay together for the long term, and others who wait years to try and do it the right traditional way and it fails. When it feels right. That's when you should move forward and take those leaps 🙂 It's different for everyone. But I wish you both happiness.
The rest are just not really important.
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Posted by MontgomeryThank you so much for the compliment I'm grateful for that.. He lives in Tampa I love it there.. No really worried about the place just wanted to make sure the timing was okay. I'm sorry your move didn't workoutPosted by Redoctober2000THIS ^^^^^
Please do not move just for him...
Check out the surrounding areas first ie when you visit him, stay in a hotel etc in an area near to his and check it out. Do this for a while.. Then move...
But speak to him. You need to be happy living there in case it does not work out, you have a back up plan..
Don't let a big move like that be only on one focus... Him
Bizzy is absolutely right-- I wish someone had told me that before I moved across the damned country.
I hated where he lived, and I went back home after 18 months.
I wouldn't have listened, but still... that second pic-- sweetie, yer a knockout.
You write your own ticket. 😏
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Posted by MontgomeryPosted by TheCancerGirl
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See that hand on your arm... ?
That's possession-- the good kind.
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Posted by Redoctober2000
PS. Is that how you guys dress in the US? Even if you were at a club, I don't even think you could get away with dressing like that in the UK?
Posted by DMV
I say f..u...ck it. Throw caution to the wind and go be with your man!
Posted by Redoctober2000From the front of the pic you may think my but is out but no is was Cover the dress has a full black leotard inside of it..
PS. Is that how you guys dress in the US? Even if you were at a club, I don't even think you could get away with dressing like that in the UK?

Posted by M143Of course.. thanks so much for your kind words. I really appreciate them.
Carry on cancergirl. You are still beautiful.
Nothing in this world does matter except how you look at yourself not what others have told you to do so. Their opinion might be their principles in life and you are not slave to follow.
That is beautiful indeed celebrating anniversary with your bull.
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I also wanted to ask a question today. How soon is too soon? I am curious as to how soon would be too soon to move closer to him. I am still not sure if I actually want to live in the same household yet because I like the dynamic of still having the traditional dating phase once I am able to see him on a daily basis. Right now we have never had that, we have only experienced flights every few months and thats far from traditional. I ask this question first because he moves like a hybrid snail/turtle lol and secondly because sometimes he can be indecisive about the time frame. I have notice that with most of his decision making but when it comes to this I want to make sure I am not moving too quickly. I can work from anywhere I am blessed with a career that allows it so I'm kind've just waiting for him to give a solid gesture. Give me your opinion guys.