how to break up with my Taurus man

I was never good a break up's or relationships. This is why I must ask for advice.
I want to break up with my love, because, I know he deserve's better. And I don't
want him to be waiting around for me right now, esspecially, since I got myself
into a big mess!

I want to do it in a way, that he would understand,
but still would like to be in my life. I wanna do it
in a way where I won't hurt him that bad. Because
his ex broke up with him, and he hates his ex now. :/
and i don't want it to be like that between us!

so what i'm asking for is, what is the easyest way to break
up with my taurus man?

Definitely what GB said. You tell ANY guy that as a reason for breaking up with them, they'll call bullshit.

Chances are, if you wanna cut him loose, you aren't gonna have him in your life. That's just how it goes.

Sorry.

From a scorpio I was told that my Taurus would be devastated, but I think it just drama to be in control of everyhing?