How to get a Taurus guys attetion?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Cancerwoman17 on Saturday, March 10, 2018 and has 3 replies.

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@EveryOunce
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Posted by Cancerwoman17
Hi all I’ve matched with this Taurus guy over tinder and this was a while back say December and we both had gotten out of serious long term relationships both relationships lasted two years and he was really hurt by her because they had moved in lived with eachother for a year along with another guy roommate and then found out they had been fucking eachother in secret so he left her. I was broken up with too and it hit me bad so we were kinda both desperate to find someone to take our minds off them and we matched! Lol so he added me on Facebook we chatted non stop he was really all for meeting me until one day he just stopped replying for a full month and I deleted him cuz he was a jerk because he was always online but not read my message so a month later..a week ago he texted me..so we got chatting again and I feel like I bore him and was wondering how could I make out conversations more stimulating enough so he’ll actually come and meet me, It normally was me popping up to him for a chat but now after the ignoring thing I guessed I let him pop up now so should I leave it that way to grab his attention or should I just pop up because who cares but I tend to think guys like the chase so?? Anyway what shall I do lol

Never pursue a Taurus man who has not healed from a relationship. You will always play second fiddle to the woman he once was with that he will love until he can no longer love her anymore. For them it takes a LONG time to emotionally move on. When and if he decides you are the woman he wants to pursue you wont have to question anything because he will be on you like white on rice.

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@Sunsetvirgo
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“We were kinda both desperate to find someone to take our minds off them...”

Make sure you both are over your exes and this isn’t just a rebound for both of u. You mentioned he was really hurt from his last relationship so...

If it’s just fwb either/both of you are looking for while you both recover from ur past relationships, make sure to clearly state that and draw lines where they need to be.

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@AgentP911
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What Everyounce and Sunset said.

If he’s not asking you out then he’s not that interested.

Are you in a position to start dating other people? Have you had enough time to heal? Getting involved with another person (who also isn’t ready) is setting yourself up for trouble.