How to know if this taurus girl is jus friendly or (Page 2)

I do not care for 'reality TV', as a matter of fact I don't watch much of it at all. When I do watch I like things like forensics/medical shows, cooking shows. BBC America for antiques programs, DIY and other good things.

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i'd like too add my smart ass comment please 😛



leo- fellow fire sign.....bulls look nice but there crazy. ever been to rodeo's?

that's why you need your chaps (assless) and spurs. 😉

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and we really like to be ridden way more than 8 seconds.that's why they are always pissed off in the rodeos. 😛

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OMG!!!! ROFLMAO!!! I just love you Bells! (holding side from laughing too much) 😄

lol sweet, yea those are so dumb..... I like watching drag racing and nascar.

history chanel, myth busts, pawn star's spike is good 1000 ways too die.

History Channel is cool. Discovery Health, Food Network, the Beeb, PBS and..what was that other one? Brain collapse.

LOL hell yea the food chanel! I love it.


shbamb!!!!!!!!

Background story:

Theres this 2 girl.
A , a random girl in my class
S , the girl i like.
(A and S are good fren)

There was once during A bday before i reali know S, S called me to collect the birthday cake from the canteen below our classroom( i think she jus randomly call someone close to the door as to not alert A) and bring it up to the class so we can give A a surprise. So i brought it up and we celebrated A birthday. During the process of writing A birthday card, my fren played a trick on me and wrote I LIKE A by my name and since then everybody has been teasing me saying that i like A.
This was still ok as i just dun need to make any acknowledgement when ppl teases me..... however since i get close to S, everytime i drop a hint, she will say i like A.

an example:

Backgrond info:A is not going for this class trip

Me telling S : If u cant go for the trip , me and the girls will be very sad.....
S telling me : Haha.. the girls will be sad. You ah. You sad because A never go. Its a different case from the girls haha.
Me telling S : No la, im the organiser and i would want everybody i invite to go !


Im reali afraid that 1 day i might jus tell her, NO ITS NOT A, U ARE THE 1 I LIKE!. I would reali want to do that but i dun think we are that close enough yet..... Is S rejecting me by doing this and im thinking too much or is she jus teasing me —

She's teasing you to gauge interest level, tell her. "It's not A I like, it's you." Point blank, that will get her attention alright.

That time when i ask her casually if a guy ask her out for movie will she go and she said it depends......... i realli wanna try asking but the chances of being rejected is so huge for me........ should i go slow or should i jus go for it ??

nvm i just text her to ask her out for a movie......... this will determine everything i guess? if she give me some excuses that shes not free i will jus forget everything about her?

No, you determine whether or not she's actually got other plans. But point blank tell a Bull you're feeling them and would like to go out.

Omg you serious ?? not that i dun trust u but lol..... if i tell them that and they reject me ..... then thats like so sad. Any other tarus feel that point blank confession will work?


Update: ok i tried asking her out for a movie and this was wad i type
me: S , wanna watch rapunzel with me ? 😄
her: huh? yea , ***,*** (the asteriks are names of some of my classmates) also wanna watch.
can get our class peeps before everyone get busy.





she tried to push it off as though im planning a class movie outing........ am i not direct enough or am i misleading? well any way i organised it and yea we watch it with our class mates today..... she didnt even join us for dinner as she had to meet her frens

Direct. "I would like to take you out on a date. Just you and I."

Posted by venusianbull
Direct. "I would like to take you out on a date. Just you and I."

Taurus fear rejection probably more than you do,fwiw.
She either is trying to force you to make yourself clear,or does not want to be alone with you.
It takes courage to find out which,and we like courage.put on your spurs,grab your balls...and just come out with it.
what have you got to lose? you're not getting what you want at this point anyway,right?
saddle up and just come out and tell her "I want to take you on a DATE."

^ Yes.

or does not want to be alone with you. 😢 so theres chance of this case .........

haha will try again where theres a chance !!! flying this saturday nite. gonna buy some nice souvenir for her and ask her out !

Update:

So, theres a class outing today to celebrate 1 of our classmates bday. so meet up and celebreated. then our whole clique went to have lunch and was queueing outside a restaurant. but S and E(1 of S best fren) said they need to go off early so they went off while at the same time, the waiter led us into the restaurant for our lunch. I was thinking how to pass her my souvenir and the christmas present( a box of choc wrap up in nice wrapping paper) and here came the chance. As i was behind the whole clique , i didnt went in the restaurant and i ran after S. yea and kind of awkardly since E was there, i pass S and E souvenirs from my overseas trip and the christmas present to S onli, after tat i ran off back to the restaurant. was asked where did i go and i lied i went to find a toilet lol! So after a while, got a msg from S saying, u dun have to buy that much.



so at least she accepted the gifts and didnt rejected them. i take that as a good sign??

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Posted by venusianbull
Direct. "I would like to take you out on a date. Just you and I."

Taurus fear rejection probably more than you do,fwiw.
She either is trying to force you to make yourself clear,or does not want to be alone with you.
It takes courage to find out which,and we like courage.put on your spurs,grab your balls...and just come out with it.
what have you got to lose? you're not getting what you want at this point anyway,right?
saddle up and just come out and tell her "I want to take you on a DATE."

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Haha. Well at least you're the man asking the woman out. Does this work on both genders? *feels sheepish*

hahaha dun ask me why but i just know.... call it the O type blood(being orbservant), leo intuition. I just know its not the right time to ask her out yet......

today, i felt like i was run over by the lorry twice when talking to her.

1st time: i was asking her wad she was doing( actually i know but yea jus trying to strike up a convo). so she told me she was watching some drama. so i replied saying haha then do watch, i shall not disturb u. She said haha no la we can talk, but nothing to talk about. i replied haha i must be very boring :p . after that, wad she replied really hit me hard.....darn hard, although i already knew this problem long ago but yea it still hit me real hard. she said,"haha no la... its just that we have no common topic" ..... isnt this like a fatal wound in a relationship?? yea actually i realise the problem already and im trying my best

2nd time: she say that she can talk very well with this guy,D, because he think like her and that why they click very well.

with my pride and ego..... after being told that, its like being slam by the lorry right in the face and being run over 200 times.

Aw poor Leo. *hugs*

Chocolate makes everything taste better.

LOL You are not 'orange' Dec, want some vanilla? LOL

Don't you tell him to 'hit it and run'! 😛 Harumph.

Find out her interests Shinso. And be direct. Stop hinting at what you want and be a Lion. So what if she clicks with another dude? He might be utterly and completely friend zoned and she's just being oblivious Cow making conversation. We need direct speech. No 'guesstimating', no second guessing. Do not talk down to the girl, but make it plain. If you want to talk to her, tell her so. Have a question about one of her mates, ask her. Don't expect her to know what tripwires set off your ego or for her to be 'magically delicious' and intuit what is in your brain. If you want her to know, tell her.

See? Now that's direct. ^ *high fiving 25th*

hehe ........ trying very hard now ............

any tips on how to continue our convo?? its like everytime im the 1 speaking and shes always giving me short reply.....hard to continue the conbo. 1 of the main reason might be because i dun know her well enough and she like to keep things to herself.

yea i know things should come naturally but yea dun know why.... just kinda stuck

It's natural Shinso, everyone from 14-40 and beyond has that internal "ACK" when you're around someone you're crushing on or infatuated with. Get to know her, that is probably why conversation stalls a bit. That and we do guard ourselves to an extent. As you get to know her, she'll open up more.

haha realli hope so........ recently its like we are drifting further and further apart.... sometimes i see her online on msn and want to talk to her but i realli cant find any topic to start on. Same for texts...... its frustrating that u wanna text her but no reason to and in the end, u didnt text her

Hey there 25thdecan:

I have experienced exactly the process that you describe. A very lovely Taurus (and aren't you all so very lovely) who at first was quite warm, but after a bit seemed to have cooled a good deal. It is my sense however that I am being measured, rather than dismissed. It is actually rather hard for me to be sure, but that is what I am at least hoping for.

Course, as an Aries, who could possibly be anything but interested in me?
Or perhaps that is a source of confusion on my part, and I really have been dismissed—
Nah, couldn't happen!!!!

hahaha..............im quite confident that she jus wanna be a normal fren rather than anything more that...... guess im kinda irritating for texting her everyday ? yea i guess so....... wo wun be irritated if a guy u dun like txt u everyday...........😢

Thanks taurusdreamer 🙂 this few week had really been a bad and busy weeks .
2 week ago she started replying less and less of my texts.
i asked her if i was irritating
she asked me wad do i think and why?
i got really upset bcus i know the answer deep dwn in my heart (as a leo arent we over possesive ?? haha........)
so i jus replied good nite and appeared offline on my msn
a few secs later, she replied on msn saying wad is this, i said why
so i said that yea i think im irritating and im jus checking if im being a irritatant
so this is wad she told me....i didnt say you were. but just that i dont kinda see why u want to know where i am always yeah u get it right. After that she said i sounded pissed and apologize saying if she had offended me in any way.
i was not pissed of cous....its me being irritating u know..... so i told her i wasnt pissed and even if i was, i am pissed with myself....

the next day i text her something like that and since then i didnt text her anymore..... only talk to her on msn if shes online. im sorry for the incident ytd. i guess as a nobody, i have went overboard and intruded into your privacy. dun worry i wunt text u anything like that again......

she said that we have no common topics so i was jus trying to share with her my life.... and yea i wanted to know more about her too. Just trying to strike up a convo and protect this dying flame... so sorry but i didnt wanna talk abt it till i was ready to tell it to anybody..... i guess the reality is really cruel huh? im irritating......