I don't understand..

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lnana04
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Something similar happened with my sister and her Taurus 2 days ago.

She ended it(whatever that is) with him last week. Its been three yrs and no title or hint of a relationship. He just calls at night and expects her to fly across town to him....and she does smh.

So she was doing good not talking to him, and here he starts with the texting and calling. He called her over the es esother night and asks, "so who is he?" She also said he was upset as if he's the one thats been strung along for 3yrs smh. I guess they are back "on" now.

Ive been darn good at listening to her all this time, but im done. No more using my ears for this. I was rooting for them because they are compatible, and he cares to some extent but im tired of her having to make up stories or paint the picture as if she has some control of the situation to cover her bruised ego and feelings.

Make sure that what you have with him is headed somewhere, if thats what you want. Id hate to see you, or anyone else in such a situation.
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@inana04 I date a taurus like what u had describe. He was manipulative and controlling.I didn't understand what the hell type of female he was use too. We started off dating going out to different eating spots but I notices that everytime we go out he is rushing our plans ,he would catch attidude because I'm not coming to his house after we hang out. Later on down the line we had sex then it was a wrap. He had controlling issues ,he would stop act my house at any moment. He would pop up act my job. Then when I stayed a way frm him he would com around again being nice blaming me for his ways then start the controling and manipulation again. The dude had a sexual addiction ,but did not no how to please a women. One thing I learn about taurus people that u have to always demand respect if not these people u will always have a issue with
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Ecent, I see how important it is to demand respect. My sis Taurus is being very interesting now.

She hasnt said much. Last night he texts "So, we're done?" No apology, nothing. She was itching to text back "completely" but I told her not to say anything.

An hour later he texts "I guess you chose the dude you were at the movies with over me. Thats cool, let me know if I should delete your number or not"...no response from her.

Today he posts on facebook(Something he never does) in all Caps "ATTENTION! Dont roll up on me when Im chilling with someone else. It only makes you look like a stalker!" Shes pissed, and dissapointed he's going this route. Straight passed the apology exit, and burning the bridge I guess. I feel its all for a reaction, but he's showing his behind right now smh.

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Posted by ecent
Inana04. Yup now his going to act like a fool, the goal is now to make her feel like shit because he can't have his way. These people will hit below to get pay back. Tell your sister to black him out completely that's how u demand your respect.



Him not having his way is a darn good way to describe his behaviour right now. I couldnt really put my finger on why he's doing it this way, but you summed it up perfectly.

He was still on facebook last night. My sis says his mom posted "what are you talking about? What happened lol?" and he posted back "aww man, I gotta tell you." then he jokes with his cousin "how she gonna believe her eyes over what I say?"....

I would have blocked him long time ago, but my sister is the type that will try everything to make it work. In other words, she needs to see this behaviour to see what it is/was to make sure to never go back to that. I dont know what the future holds, but im hoping she is moving forward.

On another note..

I really was rooting for them, but something is fishy going from a long horrible relationship with a Scorpio to a long "situation" with a Taurus. It comes off to me as if a lesson wasnt learned. She like challenges, and guys that she gotta put in work towards taming, so maybe this was her experience to finally move on past this type of guy. I hope she does.