I lost my taurus

Hi there,
Three months ago my gf of two years left me(cancer). When we were together we were perfect, i planned on poping the question. She left me saying she fell out of love with me. For the first month i was fine, didnt call txt or even want to see her. Then one day she asked me to come over and stay the night to love on her and cuddle her when she was sick. She held my hand and fought to keep herself from kissing me. I began to cry and i left so she didnt see me doing so.

Two days later i began txting her and begging for her to come back. Well two months go by, she gets a new bf and she told me that there is no chance for us getting together again and shes blocked me from any ad all forms of contact. Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?

It sounds like she has moved on and as hard as it must be, so should you.

You sound like a good person, I am sorry you are going through something this painful.

You deserve better! Take your time you will fimd someone!

Taurus loves money more than anything, the guy she's with probably promised her the world.so don't even beg her back cause you won't win.

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Posted by Taniwha
go back in time and be born 4 months later.

Becaauuuse...?

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Because Taniwha is a clown trying to .....

I'm a cancer and I'm in love with my Taurus and I must be honest when they are done its for real there is not fixing it once they have made their decision to move on. I'll be honest they like security and when she asked you over it was because she needed to feel that sense of being secure with you temporary. But she definitely didn't want to get back together. I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I would be devastated as well because a Taurus is the best sign to fall and actually be in love with.

Posted by TheCancerGirl
I would be devastated as well because a Taurus is the best sign to fall and actually be in love with.

Interesting how experience paints a different picture, for me, my ex Taurean bf was the absolute worst. Lazy, dramatic, perpetual liar, and calculated manipulator. He was quite the charmer though lol..

OP, I am sorry you are experiencing this, especially considering you loved her enough to marry her. I think a lot of posters have given you good advice. It is time to let it go. Let her go. Without me knowing the details of the why to your breakup and her side of the story, all I can say is that you two were simply not a match. That is simply evident in the imbalance of feelings, you felt stronger about your connection than she. Allow yourself to grieve, heal and then live to love another day.

Funny thing is, women like her end up waking up 30 still single, wondering why no man has proposed like all of her friends' guys...little do they know that they had someone that was willing to marry them. Not saying it will pan out that way for her, who knows, but wouldnt that be an interesting turn of events.

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Posted by Taniwha
go back in time and be born 4 months later.

Becaauuuse...?

Because Taniwha is a clown trying to .....

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No. Wispering sweet nothings into her ear as i held her, singing to her because she asked me to, ect....

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Posted by Taniwha
go back in time and be born 4 months later.

Becaauuuse...?

Because Taniwha is a clown trying to .....

No. Wispering sweet nothings into her ear as i held her, singing to her because she asked me to, ect....

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soundslike you were a good option for her at the time.

Just as well you didn't marry her. You had a lucky escape.

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Posted by Aquastic
You sound like a good person, I am sorry you are going through something this painful.

You deserve better! Take your time you will fimd someone!

Taurus loves money more than anything, the guy she's with probably promised her the world.so don't even beg her back cause you won't win.

Why don't people bugger off!! We make our own money!!!!

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Its. Because some have not yet found a rich guy as yet

I just hate the thought of her being with annother man. What changed her feelings was a conversation about kids with my mom. I should also add were both 23 and shes already had a devorce. She didnt fall out of love with me, she saw it was getting too serious and got scared and ran. But i had a chance to try to get her to fall for me again, she didnt even try, all i wanted was annother chance where she actually tried and her stubborn ass didnt want to budge. Btw love stubborn women, idk why lol

Sorry i hit post early. Every single time she saw me even after she started dating this guy she had to fight to not kiss me, she would go to do it and then take a step back before she did.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
Cancer men have no problem finding the next one


Have you seen our board women absolutely go crazy over y'all

Don't let this taint your experience

I never had a problem getting women, they tend to like my open mind and not afraid to be myself even when im at my worst. But this guy who begged her wasnt me, it was this guy who threw logic out the window and only did what he wanted to do. Ive come to grips that im not getting her back right away but i still want to fight for the woman i love. Itl be later down the road when shes ready to be freinds again but shes going to have to jump through hoops to get my trust back. Im not a very trusting person as is and its even harder to gain i once its lost then it was to gsin it in the first place.

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You sound like a good person, I am sorry you are going through something this painful.

You deserve better! Take your time you will fimd someone!

Taurus loves money more than anything, the guy she's with probably promised her the world.so don't even beg her back cause you won't win.

Why don't people bugger off!! We make our own money!!!!

Its. Because some have not yet found a rich guy as yet

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lol it's an earthy thing. I notice this, they don't have to be millionaires, but the men NEED to know how to make good money.

it's also with Capricorn and virgo. I get it totally. (cappy mother in law still single and she'd rather make her own money than be with men who don't please her intellectually or give her freedom - aqua venus conjunct aqua juptier --- and the men aren't good with money) lol

my cappy mother in law married into wealth. my Taurus aunty's first husband was ridiculously wealthy, but a jerk ass. she's with a man now who makes good money but he isn't rich or anything, just a good earner. but most of all a good man and good to her and her children.

EDIT - oops I meant my cappy GRANDMOTHER married into wealth. lol cappy mother in law married double virgo father in law, highly intellectual and from a family that values people with great careers and great education. that kind of thing. Oh and the scandals that went on...when you had too many marriages.

Im not sadistic, she treated me like shit the last two months. She wants me back she needs to prove to me that me and her isnt just annother fling that she runs away from again. Its not sadistic its being careful and holding onto my pride.

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You sound like a good person, I am sorry you are going through something this painful.

You deserve better! Take your time you will fimd someone!

Taurus loves money more than anything, the guy she's with probably promised her the world.so don't even beg her back cause you won't win.

Why don't people bugger off!! We make our own money!!!!

Its. Because some have not yet found a rich guy as yet

lol it's an earthy thing. I notice this, they don't have to be millionaires, but the men NEED to know how to make good money.

it's also with Capricorn and virgo. I get it totally. (cappy mother in law still single and she'd rather make her own money than be with men who don't please her intellectually or give her freedom - aqua venus conjunct aqua juptier --- and the men aren't good with money) lol

my cappy mother in law married into wealth. my Taurus aunty's first husband was ridiculously wealthy, but a jerk ass. she's with a man now who makes good money but he isn't rich or anything, just a good earner. but most of all a good man and good to her and her children.

EDIT - oops I meant my cappy GRANDMOTHER married into wealth. lol cappy mother in law married double virgo father in law, highly intellectual and from a family that values people with great careers and great education. that kind of thing. Oh and the scandals that went on...when you had too many marriages.

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I know how to make money, its just the option for actually getting to that point has been hard, everyone of her freinds kept telling me ahes dumb for leaving me, that were were perfect and i never hurt her on perpouse. If i did it was me being a little too rough while wrestling. Im giving up on her, and i am moving on. But if given the chance again im going to be causious.

Posted by Brandonb55
Im not sadistic, she treated me like shit the last two months. She wants me back she needs to prove to me that me and her isnt just annother fling that she runs away from again. Its not sadistic its being careful and holding onto my pride.

What the hell? Aparently s*** is butter lol

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Posted by Brandonb55
Im not sadistic, she treated me like shit the last two months. She wants me back she needs to prove to me that me and her isnt just annother fling that she runs away from again. Its not sadistic its being careful and holding onto my pride.

What the hell? Aparently s*** is butter lol

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Damn curing vocab correction programs...

She treated me like a spider that she felt she needed to kill... there

See thats sadistic. Im not that kind of person.

Wow your relationship sounds just like my young Taurus friend and her EX husband who was a Cancer.

I have seen this combo work, but only when both are mature.

My Taurus friend did the same thing to her ex husband several times until she found a new guy. I tried to understand why and the more I saw her jump from guy to guy the more I realized she really could not be alone. Or didn't want to be. She is not financially stable herself and was looking for a guy to take care of her....hence why she only asked you when she was sick. She was feeling alone and wanted someone there. You happened to be the one who said yes I'll go. Many men ended up leaving my friend once they realized her game. But one guy finally stayed. A Virgo, although they argue all the time now once he lost his job.

I will say....leave her alone. Move on with your life. Trust has already been broken before anything really serious between you both. Do you really think you'll have a great marriage with someone who has lost your trust? Plus do you really want to be in a marriage with someone who doesn't love you the way you would like to be loved? My Taurus friend and her Cancer ex should have never gotten married. Trust for them was already broken...and it ended horribly.

Besides she's stubborn, as you said and as we know most Taurus people are, if she's moved on and made that decision... She won't go back OR jump through hoops for you. Why would she do that if she has already found someone else and knows she can get someone else?

I saw my friend move on quickly from guys who rejected her. It's not like she's a slut or anything like that. But she did want stability and searched for it. Once she thought she found it, the past was a distant memory. She's over you buddy. If she is still hurting from a past divorce then she's probably just looking for a stable ground to stand on temporaryly anyway. Chase someone who will truly care for you...

Allright

Posted by Brandonb55
Im not sadistic, she treated me like shit the last two months. She wants me back she needs to prove to me that me and her isnt just annother fling that she runs away from again. Its not sadistic its being careful and holding onto my pride.

You are caught up emotionally and digging in with your claws. Women like and respect men who won't put up with our shit.

I like Bulls but they can be major players and game players. Cut this woman off, she is not worth it, and find a sexy Sag. Or Crab 😉

Posted by idk
it's alright man.
not everyone on this planet deserves your time.

She was my ideal woman. Never cheated on me, had a bite to back up the bark, never took my shit and gave me a reality check when needed. She has the most beautiful heart ive ever seen and shes just down right gorgeous. Wverything about her is perfect to me. Thats why i love her, why i fell for her in the first place. And she made me beg where no other woman would, just the magnitude of how bad she made me beg was just...... every time with her i was on cloud 9

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Posted by Brandonb55
Hi there,
Three months ago my gf of two years left me(cancer). When we were together we were perfect, i planned on poping the question. She left me saying she fell out of love with me. For the first month i was fine, didnt call txt or even want to see her. Then one day she asked me to come over and stay the night to love on her and cuddle her when she was sick. She held my hand and fought to keep herself from kissing me. I began to cry and i left so she didnt see me doing so.

Two days later i began txting her and begging for her to come back. Well two months go by, she gets a new bf and she told me that there is no chance for us getting together again and shes blocked me from any ad all forms of contact. Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?

how could a Cancer lose a Taurus, you make half of my sign look bad, you should be shame of yourself, how could you lose a Taurus, if you lost her, that mean she did not love you or wanted you, she was using you, like you said she invited you while she was sick, then when she got a new boyfriend she forgot you, well you were being used, nothing you can do about it

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We both got lazy. She got scared. Simple as that... when i was more focused on trying to find a better job that payed more so she could quit on or two of her jobs and we would be set, she was more worried about the next trip we would or she would take. Shit happens to the best of us. But im moving on, i fucked up with this girl i started dating shortly after we broke up and i couldnt go through with it anymore because i still loved her, i still wanted her, i felt guilt and that made me feel worse about the whole thing.

Posted by UmiSays
Hey im sorry youre going through this it feels like the end truth is it is the end of this story, for now. You have to have faith to keep going and see how life plays out.
"no love can be guaranteed, doesn't come with a warranty"

And i am, ive made myself look sexier. Ive taken up a few hobbies to take my mind off things. And i hope she sees the mistake she made. Not saying shell own up to it but when i get that call that she told me i might get ill know weither or not she did.

But yeah, a mind that gets this guilty over little things is a big burden. I for one hate it. I could oinch someone and feel bad it sucks lol

And this girl i fucked up with is a virgo, but she still has hope that ill get over the taurus and come back to her, i think i should give it annothechance and give her the chance she deserves not this get two gether for two weeks and leave her because i cant handle my own shit.

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it's alright man.
not everyone on this planet deserves your time.

She was my ideal woman. Never cheated on me, had a bite to back up the bark, never took my shit and gave me a reality check when needed. She has the most beautiful heart ive ever seen and shes just down right gorgeous. Wverything about her is perfect to me. Thats why i love her, why i fell for her in the first place. And she made me beg where no other woman would, just the magnitude of how bad she made me beg was just...... every time with her i was on cloud 9

If the above is correct , then you must have done some SERIOUS shite to make her drop you!

As a Taurus female Taurus I will give you my all. But do anything to betray me or my trust , I will kick drop to the curb so fast your feet won't touch the ground and there'll be no going back !

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See i did everything right. Never cheated, never went back on my word, and never abused her. She just.... left

I seem to have started a war on here... my bad!

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Posted by malloryor
Funny thing is, women like her end up waking up 30 still single, wondering why no man has proposed like all of her friends' guys...little do they know that they had someone that was willing to marry them. Not saying it will pan out that way for her, who knows, but wouldnt that be an interesting turn of events.

why be with someone you don't love?

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Not saying you should stay with someone you dont love, but based upon what was written and the little knowledge I have about these two, I gather she was absolute shit to the OP. It wasnt about falling out of love, it was about finding someone else who made her the center of theor universe. It just seems like selfish actions on her part, especially the playing and tugging at the ops heart strings. She opened up that wound and then is amazed that he was asking her to give him a second chance!—

What a fucking bitch. Sorry.

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Damn she sounds horrific, taurus women are not the truth.

yuck

that* Taurus woman.dont generalize us

The more of these stories i hear the more i will generalize you.

I guess there right about cancers then haha see ya
edit: actually nah I know better my sis is a cancer nicest person I know I guess its just cancers who fall under the bitter category that I have a good idea of, with you being the model. Thanks for your insight

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I actually resent that. Im not a bitter person, take my situation for example. Im not mad with her, she did what she felt she had to. Me doing the begging was dumb. But everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

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Funny thing is, women like her end up waking up 30 still single, wondering why no man has proposed like all of her friends' guys...little do they know that they had someone that was willing to marry them. Not saying it will pan out that way for her, who knows, but wouldnt that be an interesting turn of events.

why be with someone you don't love?

Not saying you should stay with someone you dont love, but based upon what was written and the little knowledge I have about these two, I gather she was absolute shit to the OP. It wasnt about falling out of love, it was about finding someone else who made her the center of theor universe. It just seems like selfish actions on her part, especially the playing and tugging at the ops heart strings. She opened up that wound and then is amazed that he was asking her to give him a second chance!—

What a fucking bitch. Sorry.

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LMFAO dont be. She did what she had to.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
Brandon what are your placements?


I'm curious. U seem to like Earth.

The only other woman i wanted decided she wants to give this other guy a chance... i have no replacemts besides rosey palm and her five sisters. I dont need anything more for now, like i hate being single but... whoever said i dont need anyone now is right. I need to be single for a while

Posted by UmiSays
Anyways back to the topic @OP dont put up with anyone's butter. As the quote goes "if you look into your heart and see nothing wrong, what is there to fear?"
Which is true if you knew you were a good person then dont trip. Good people do win.

Rarely. Ive had more heartbreaks in my life than most people do in three. I know how to handle myself and i know whats needed to keep a woman just wiether or not they are willing to try is what kills me

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Brandon what are your placements?


I'm curious. U seem to like Earth.

The only other woman i wanted decided she wants to give this other guy a chance... i have no replacemts besides rosey palm and her five sisters. I dont need anything more for now, like i hate being single but... whoever said i dont need anyone now is right. I need to be single for a while

damn you're as dumb as bricks, do you purposefully do that?

i asked what your Astrological PLACEMENTS are

go check on cafe astrology

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Gotcha. I dont actually care what their sings are. It all depends on personality and heart to me. Compatibility is a key factor between the sings but if i dont like them they have no chance.

Like i said, compatibility between the sings does hold a key factor in some parts of things.

Ik. And i am. I never said it was the end of my story. Just a new chapter.

Posted by Brandonb55
Im not sadistic, she treated me like shit the last two months. She wants me back she needs to prove to me that me and her isnt just annother fling that she runs away from again. Its not sadistic its being careful and holding onto my pride.

She wants you back now? Was this a back and forth relationship-has she wandered off before?

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Posted by Brandonb55
Im not sadistic, she treated me like shit the last two months. She wants me back she needs to prove to me that me and her isnt just annother fling that she runs away from again. Its not sadistic its being careful and holding onto my pride.

She wants you back now? Was this a back and forth relationship-has she wandered off before?

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U misunderstand lass, i ment IF she wants me back.

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Posted by Brandonb55
Im not sadistic, she treated me like shit the last two months. She wants me back she needs to prove to me that me and her isnt just annother fling that she runs away from again. Its not sadistic its being careful and holding onto my pride.

She wants you back now? Was this a back and forth relationship-has she wandered off before?

U misunderstand lass, i ment IF she wants me back.

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OK got you. I dont recommend going back to her especially if she had someone after you and then came back-I think there will be a lack of respect there. Cancer guys are verrrrrry sensitive and not strong enough for me personally, but then im not a Taurus-I have 2 Taurus friends and they like the cheeky chappies 😉

Guys are bulls and cow are woman. Both are pretty cool to have in your life forever as long as you don't fuck it up...

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Funny thing is, women like her end up waking up 30 still single, wondering why no man has proposed like all of her friends' guys...little do they know that they had someone that was willing to marry them. Not saying it will pan out that way for her, who knows, but wouldnt that be an interesting turn of events.

why be with someone you don't love?

Not saying you should stay with someone you dont love, but based upon what was written and the little knowledge I have about these two, I gather she was absolute shit to the OP. It wasnt about falling out of love, it was about finding someone else who made her the center of theor universe. It just seems like selfish actions on her part, especially the playing and tugging at the ops heart strings. She opened up that wound and then is amazed that he was asking her to give him a second chance!—

What a fucking bitch. Sorry.

Nah dude, this dude just can't get over the fact that she doesn't like him. And her doesn't know how to say no and stick up for himself. He still wan'ts her back after all they have been through. I bet my bottom dollar he doesn't even know what this girls favorite song is, or what makes HER feel good. He's only worried about what makes him feel good, which is to be needed and wanted for a cancer. That's never gonna work with a Taurus woman, they are independent as fuck.

OP this girl didn't want to be with you before, now you basically wan't to go back to how it was. You have no idea who this woman is now, she has changed allot and you haven't had the guts to move on. your stuck in the negative place you were in at the end of the relationship. Move on and get yourself on your feet.

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Thats a pretty broad assumption there mate. But your right. Shes no longer the woman i fell for. And i am moving on, its just taking a while is all.

And to prove myself, her favorite song is measured in love from the movie rent. Being cuddled by her animals is what makes her feel good. I put into consideration both parties not just one over the other.

What's wrong with fixed signs in a moon?Haha

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it's alright man.
not everyone on this planet deserves your time.

She was my ideal woman. Never cheated on me, had a bite to back up the bark, never took my shit and gave me a reality check when needed. She has the most beautiful heart ive ever seen and shes just down right gorgeous. Wverything about her is perfect to me. Thats why i love her, why i fell for her in the first place. And she made me beg where no other woman would, just the magnitude of how bad she made me beg was just...... every time with her i was on cloud 9

like a goddess, eh?

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Indeed my freind. And i slept soundly knowing this goddess was mine.

Posted by Taniwha
Then now you realize whats best for both of you is to move on, good on ya mate. Its hard for sure but you and your self growth are worth so much more than that relationship ever was.

A pint of guiness and a good freind is much more important than any woman. Thats for damn sure. You know its weird, i always prided myself on pleasing a woman in bed and out, but not a single woman ive been with has been able to make my loyalty to freinds ever deminish. A freindship is so much more important to me than any lover ever could be. Allways has, allways will. Idk if that makes me shallow or not.... does it?

Posted by Brandonb55
Hi there,
Then one day she asked me to come over and stay the night to love on her and cuddle her when she was sick. She held my hand and fought to keep herself from kissing me. I began to cry and i left so she didnt see me doing so.

Two days later i began txting her and begging for her to come back. Well two months go by, she gets a new bf and she told me that there is no chance for us getting together again and shes blocked me from any ad all forms of contact. Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?

What mistake?
Did she go in detail to explain to you as to why she fell out of love with you?

Nope. Just told me that she had no answer but that it just happened. Wont tell anyone the real reason.