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Posted by Brandonb55
Nope. Just told me that she had no answer but that it just happened. Wont tell anyone the real reason.
There has to be a reason.
Two years is a long time to invest in someone.
I am not defending her actions, I just need some clarity as to what happen between the both of you.
Were there any arguments or disagreements you and your Bull had in the past?
Posted by Brandonb55
Nope. Just told me that she had no answer but that it just happened. Wont tell anyone the real reason.
Wow. What a cop out!
Be glad that she didn't wait until you were married with 3 kids and a mortgage to tell you she "fell out of love with you" and fell onto some other dudes dick.
Silver lining, right?
Posted by idk
it's alright man.
not everyone on this planet deserves your time.She was my ideal woman. Never cheated on me, had a bite to back up the bark, never took my shit and gave me a reality check when needed. She has the most beautiful heart ive ever seen and shes just down right gorgeous. Wverything about her is perfect to me. Thats why i love her, why i fell for her in the first place. And she made me beg where no other woman would, just the magnitude of how bad she made me beg was just...... every time with her i was on cloud 9
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People with big hearts rarely break hearts intentionally.
People who are opinionated, speak their minds, will put you in your place...
They will not give vague responses as a reason for a break-up.
What's the real story?
Posted by Brandonb55
Nope. Just told me that she had no answer but that it just happened. Wont tell anyone the real reason.There has to be a reason.
Two years is a long time to invest in someone.
I am not defending her actions, I just need some clarity as to what happen between the both of you.Were there any arguments or disagreements you and your Bull had in the past?
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Just normal bickering between couples
Posted by idk
it's alright man.
not everyone on this planet deserves your time.She was my ideal woman. Never cheated on me, had a bite to back up the bark, never took my shit and gave me a reality check when needed. She has the most beautiful heart ive ever seen and shes just down right gorgeous. Wverything about her is perfect to me. Thats why i love her, why i fell for her in the first place. And she made me beg where no other woman would, just the magnitude of how bad she made me beg was just...... every time with her i was on cloud 9
People with big hearts rarely break hearts intentionally.
People who are opinionated, speak their minds, will put you in your place...
They will not give vague responses as a reason for a break-up.What's the real story?
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Trust me lass, if i knew id tell ya. But im as clueless as everyone else here.
Posted by Brandonb55
Just normal bickering between couples
Normal bickering about what?
Posted by Brandonb55
Just normal bickering between couplesNormal bickering about what?
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How things should be done with packing for camping, me not having a job with a bitch for a boss, what should be done with the pile of wood in the back yard, you know normal stuff.
Alltho there was one time where she got offended when i was trying to please her. Trying to get her off was like trying to push a 900lb train with a twig and she looked over at me and i looked bored but yet happy. She said something like we can stop if ur bored. I told her no that she comes first even if it does get tedious sometimes. She got mad and thats all she wrote on it. The next day i didnt get pleasure and made damn sure she got all the attention to make up for it.
How long were you unemployed?
Did you discuss marriage with her at anytime during the relationship?
Did you take the lead at any time during the relationship?
Posted by TaurusBull1977
How long were you unemployed?
Did you discuss marriage with her at anytime during the relationship?
Did you take the lead at any time during the relationship?
I was never unimployed, i dont know why i put dont have a job. I did talk about our future and how amazing of a mother she would be. I planned on taking her to the city she fell in love with, new york, a week long trip in new york. Had a hotel planned out, was going to take her to her favorite musical, phantom of the opera and pop the question in time square. I saved for 6 months and telling her i stayed home from work one to two days every two weeks so i could save and the money would add up. She kept teli g me if i was going to propose it would have to be above and beyond so i did beyond above and beyond. I got in contact with the operahouse that was holding it to have the actor who was playing the phantom to come up and bring me the ring. But because of safty issues they said no.
Did you feel or sense any strange patterns in her movements in the last few months before she called it quits?
Ummm... she did tell me she wasnt happy, and i tried to fix that, but she didnt try worth shit.
Posted by Brandonb55
Ummm... she did tell me she wasnt happy, and i tried to fix that, but she didnt try worth shit.
Did you ask her why she was unhappy....
Or did you immediately try to GO IN and fix it?
I asked. She said she didn't know and then i want into trying to plan little things here and there for us to do. She kept blowing them off to stay at home and watch tv with me, wich was fine but it gets boring after a while. I would plan a romantic dinner that i made because she thought it was sexy when she would come home to me in nothing but an apron making dinner. But she started gettjng taco bell n stuff like that even tho i told her not to. Like i said, she didnt try
Also newyears i spent alone because she was going to her freinds house for it. I asked her if she wanted me to go after work and she said she didnt care, so i sat at home with the dog, tried to call her at the ball drop and no answer. She comes home and told me that she wished i was there and if course i was ticked off becaue she didnt say anything close to that.
I do.the way she treated me the last three months (even tho i was begging) no one deserves.
I wish i could say im done entirely with her but... ill always be there for her regaurdless of what shes done or what standing were in.
Posted by Brandonb55
See thats sadistic. Im not that kind of person.She sure sounds like it.
If she's divorced already this young, sounds like she takes the easy way out. There's no loyalty there.
Fuvk her. She sounds pathetic.
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She devorced him because he went back on his word on multiple occasions. And i constantly had to prove that im not him, i still do.
Thats an undersatement. Father was mentally abusive, pulled a gun on her for trying to pick her moms car up from his house. One ex was abusive in every sence of the word. Ima laugh if this new bf (looks like a douche btw) ends up cheating or abusing her.
Aquastic-
You seem to have issues with women who prefer to be taken care of.
Funny thing is, the OP didn't mention anything about the Bull being a gold-digger.Still jaded about your Virgo ex who dumped you and your child for a woman he preferred to take care of instead?
Or did you suffer the same fate with your Pisces ex as well.
You're in NO position to counsel anyone about their relationship problems.
Spare yourself some embarrassment and go find your level of integrity.
You also have no right to tell someone not to post.
There is no hierarchy of advice.
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Agreed
Posted by Brandonb55
I wish i could say im done entirely with her but... ill always be there for her regaurdless of what shes done or what standing were in.Wow. Cancer loyalty. But it seems like it's always given to the wrong person.
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Im probably the most loyal person you will ever meet. Litterally no bounds
I got a job. Bery little hours but trying to get a new one. Ive tried getting her out of my head, i cant tell u how many women i used as a distraction the last three months but nothing works. Btw not really use more like offered the distraction i pride myself on being a hardcore gent.
But, her... somehow zhes gotten into my head and no matter how occupied i am she seems to flash through my mind and i loose all concentration and no longer want to continue. Take this example for instance. Was reading world war z and it was in a really big part of the story. Boom, she comes flashing by and lost intrest in reading it for the night. Shes dug her fucking claws in my mind and wont let go no matter how hard i try to erase her.
Lol
Im a taurus and trust me, when we are sick or depressed, we contact people who we trust. She contacted you because she still thinks of you.
Sorry to hear she is with someone else. Wait for a while and if the other guy breaks her heart, she might come back to you.
It has happened to me and i did the same (We can be nasty sometimes)
Posted by Brandonb55
Hi there,
Three months ago my gf of two years left me(cancer). When we were together we were perfect, i planned on poping the question. She left me saying she fell out of love with me. For the first month i was fine, didnt call txt or even want to see her. Then one day she asked me to come over and stay the night to love on her and cuddle her when she was sick. She held my hand and fought to keep herself from kissing me. I began to cry and i left so she didnt see me doing so.Two days later i began txting her and begging for her to come back. Well two months go by, she gets a new bf and she told me that there is no chance for us getting together again and shes blocked me from any ad all forms of contact. Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?
Did she tell you what was the exact reason?
Posted by Brandonb55
Hi there,
Three months ago my gf of two years left me(cancer). When we were together we were perfect, i planned on poping the question. She left me saying she fell out of love with me. For the first month i was fine, didnt call txt or even want to see her. Then one day she asked me to come over and stay the night to love on her and cuddle her when she was sick. She held my hand and fought to keep herself from kissing me. I began to cry and i left so she didnt see me doing so.Two days later i began txting her and begging for her to come back. Well two months go by, she gets a new bf and she told me that there is no chance for us getting together again and shes blocked me from any ad all forms of contact. Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?
Did she tell you what was the exact reason?
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Nope
Posted by Arielle83
She thought u were over it and could just be friends so that's why she did that.She saw u weren't over it, so she cut you deeper to make you realise it's done for good.
She must be young and naive, and self serving.
Nobody wants someone to treat them like a mate when all you want to do is cherish her.
Now you know.
Yay once we are truly done.. It's pretty hard to return unless it's truly truly unconstitutional love.. unless it's deep love and we know if it's not... We r fixed sign.. It's all or nothing 😢 sorry for your lost
Posted by Arielle83
She thought u were over it and could just be friends so that's why she did that.She saw u weren't over it, so she cut you deeper to make you realise it's done for good.
She must be young and naive, and self serving.
Nobody wants someone to treat them like a mate when all you want to do is cherish her.
Now you know.
Yay once we are truly done.. It's pretty hard to return unless it's truly truly unconstitutional love.. unless it's deep love and we know if it's not... We r fixed sign.. It's all or nothing 😢 sorry for your lost
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Well im letting her figure her shit out. Im moving on even tho its hard and she was the one i wanted to marry.but if she does come back its going to be talked about weither she wants to or not because i deserve answers.
And now shes with a Gemini...
Im trying. But like i said before, shits hard to not think about.
I just realized, her ex husband is a gem and so is her abusive ex
Posted by Brandonb55
Hi there,
Three months ago my gf of two years left me(cancer). When we were together we were perfect, i planned on poping the question. She left me saying she fell out of love with me. For the first month i was fine, didnt call txt or even want to see her. Then one day she asked me to come over and stay the night to love on her and cuddle her when she was sick. She held my hand and fought to keep herself from kissing me. I began to cry and i left so she didnt see me doing so.Two days later i began txting her and begging for her to come back. Well two months go by, she gets a new bf and she told me that there is no chance for us getting together again and shes blocked me from any ad all forms of contact. Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?
Did she tell you what was the exact reason?
Nope
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You could have asked
Posted by Brandonb55
Hi there,
Three months ago my gf of two years left me(cancer). When we were together we were perfect, i planned on poping the question. She left me saying she fell out of love with me. For the first month i was fine, didnt call txt or even want to see her. Then one day she asked me to come over and stay the night to love on her and cuddle her when she was sick. She held my hand and fought to keep herself from kissing me. I began to cry and i left so she didnt see me doing so.Two days later i began txting her and begging for her to come back. Well two months go by, she gets a new bf and she told me that there is no chance for us getting together again and shes blocked me from any ad all forms of contact. Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?
Did she tell you what was the exact reason?
Nope
You could have asked
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I did, she told me that she doesnt know. I find it bs
And i am. I have a concert my freinds taking me to in portland oregon tonight. Free tickets for an artist i dont know lol
Posted by Brandonb55
Hi there,
Three months ago my gf of two years left me(cancer). When we were together we were perfect, i planned on poping the question. She left me saying she fell out of love with me. For the first month i was fine, didnt call txt or even want to see her. Then one day she asked me to come over and stay the night to love on her and cuddle her when she was sick. She held my hand and fought to keep herself from kissing me. I began to cry and i left so she didnt see me doing so.Two days later i began txting her and begging for her to come back. Well two months go by, she gets a new bf and she told me that there is no chance for us getting together again and shes blocked me from any ad all forms of contact. Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?
Did she tell you what was the exact reason?
Nope
You could have asked
I did, she told me that she doesnt know. I find it bs
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I see. I'd like to say she's a big liar. Everyone knows the reason someone is not te rigt one, just most are coward to accept the truth.
My question to you, What is it you liked in her so much that cant' let you go?
Somewhere up there is the answer to that. But if u want to know, beautiful heart, eyes that are easy to get lost in, she may not think it but a fantastic body, her personality, her caring nature, not afraid to show who she really is. Allways able to speak her mind and she made me beg like no other woman could. Ive had women make me beg but not to the extent of me litterally being putty and not able to breath without panting. Just everything about that woman is perfect to me lass
Posted by Brandonb55
Somewhere up there is the answer to that. But if u want to know, beautiful heart, eyes that are easy to get lost in, she may not think it but a fantastic body, her personality, her caring nature, not afraid to show who she really is. Allways able to speak her mind and she made me beg like no other woman could. Ive had women make me beg but not to the extent of me litterally being putty and not able to breath without panting. Just everything about that woman is perfect to me lass
It's really touching how you described her.... I wish, I really wish my ex cancer remembered me like this...
But the truth is, the moment people stop choosing us, they seize to be right for us, HOWEVER we may love them...
Don't lose yourself, 'cause all you've felt for this woman was possible because it already existed inside of you. If this woman could give you so much admiration and love, imagine what the entire world can give you!
Best wishes!
Posted by Brandonb55
Somewhere up there is the answer to that. But if u want to know, beautiful heart, eyes that are easy to get lost in, she may not think it but a fantastic body, her personality, her caring nature, not afraid to show who she really is. Allways able to speak her mind and she made me beg like no other woman could. Ive had women make me beg but not to the extent of me litterally being putty and not able to breath without panting. Just everything about that woman is perfect to me lassYou sound like her 'number one fan'!
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She was my first true love, its going to take a while to pecure those feelings for annother but itl happen. If she does realize her mistake ill be here to listen. Weither or not ill take her back is a different story because she will have to prove that us is the real deal. She may have ben my ideal woman but she has allot more growing up to do than i.
Posted by Brandonb55
Somewhere up there is the answer to that. But if u want to know, beautiful heart, eyes that are easy to get lost in, she may not think it but a fantastic body, her personality, her caring nature, not afraid to show who she really is. Allways able to speak her mind and she made me beg like no other woman could. Ive had women make me beg but not to the extent of me litterally being putty and not able to breath without panting. Just everything about that woman is perfect to me lassIt's really touching how you described her.... I wish, I really wish my ex cancer remembered me like this...
But the truth is, the moment people stop choosing us, they seize to be right for us, HOWEVER we may love them...
Don't lose yourself, 'cause all you've felt for this woman was possible because it already existed inside of you. If this woman could give you so much admiration and love, imagine what the entire world can give you!
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I always will remember her as such. Ive already forgiven her more times than anyone in my life. I should of been less forgiving and more focused on myself. Ik that woman or man (i swing both ways) is out there but weither or not ill find or allow myself to see them standing infront of me is a different story.
Really?
Posted by idk
you're annoying the fuck outta me.
JUST SAYIN.
Well, u dont have to be in this conversation. U chose that not me.
Posted by Arielle83
You also have no right to tell someone not to post.There is no hierarchy of advice.
Arielle,
This is the 2nd time you posted on the Taurus Board with you white-knighting Save-The-Cancer advice.
You rarely get to the root of a problem, just offer your biased opinions as if you were a Bull yourself.
Newsflash, you're not one.
I know Aquastic,
I came for her personally, not you...
Why do you feel the need to jump in and rescue her?
Stop monopolozing this board with your cardinal energy.
If the OP needed Cancer advice, he can visit the Cancer Board.
Great...
Then you and Arielle, and that bitter Aquatic nitwit can continue this conversation on the Cancer Board.
The Virgos may entertain the nitwit visitors on their board.
But most Bulls here don't.
No more advice from me.
Good Luck to you!
Posted by busyeyes88
I can see there is the usual "taurus woman bashing" from the "usual" cancer "fans"! Lol lol
I was trying to get to the root of the problem...
But as usual, the bashing comes in again!
Good Luck with that Busy, lol.
I did this before. It wasn't because I didn't love him, it was because I wanted to give him my full and undivided attention that he deserved.
Posted by Musicology
I did this before. It wasn't because I didn't love him, it was because I wanted to give him my full and undivided attention that he deserved.
Confused.
Posted by Musicology
I did this before. It wasn't because I didn't love him, it was because I wanted to give him my full and undivided attention that he deserved.Confused.
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How may I help you?
Just what do u mean u did this before? Im just confused on it is all
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Aquastic-
You seem to have issues with women who prefer to be taken care of.
Funny thing is, the OP didn't mention anything about the Bull being a gold-digger.
Still jaded about your Virgo ex who dumped you and your child for a woman he preferred to take care of instead?
Or did you suffer the same fate with your Pisces ex as well.
You're in NO position to counsel anyone about their relationship problems.
Spare yourself some embarrassment and go find your level of integrity.