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TaurusBull1977
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Its. Because some have not yet found a rich guy as yet
Aquastic-

You seem to have issues with women who prefer to be taken care of.
Funny thing is, the OP didn't mention anything about the Bull being a gold-digger.

Still jaded about your Virgo ex who dumped you and your child for a woman he preferred to take care of instead?

Or did you suffer the same fate with your Pisces ex as well.

You're in NO position to counsel anyone about their relationship problems.

Spare yourself some embarrassment and go find your level of integrity.
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Posted by Brandonb55
Nope. Just told me that she had no answer but that it just happened. Wont tell anyone the real reason.
There has to be a reason.
Two years is a long time to invest in someone.
I am not defending her actions, I just need some clarity as to what happen between the both of you.

Were there any arguments or disagreements you and your Bull had in the past?
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it's alright man.
not everyone on this planet deserves your time.
She was my ideal woman. Never cheated on me, had a bite to back up the bark, never took my shit and gave me a reality check when needed. She has the most beautiful heart ive ever seen and shes just down right gorgeous. Wverything about her is perfect to me. Thats why i love her, why i fell for her in the first place. And she made me beg where no other woman would, just the magnitude of how bad she made me beg was just...... every time with her i was on cloud 9
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People with big hearts rarely break hearts intentionally.
People who are opinionated, speak their minds, will put you in your place...
They will not give vague responses as a reason for a break-up.

What's the real story?
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Posted by Brandonb55
Nope. Just told me that she had no answer but that it just happened. Wont tell anyone the real reason.
There has to be a reason.
Two years is a long time to invest in someone.
I am not defending her actions, I just need some clarity as to what happen between the both of you.

Were there any arguments or disagreements you and your Bull had in the past?
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Just normal bickering between couples
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Posted by Brandonb55
Posted by idk
it's alright man.
not everyone on this planet deserves your time.
She was my ideal woman. Never cheated on me, had a bite to back up the bark, never took my shit and gave me a reality check when needed. She has the most beautiful heart ive ever seen and shes just down right gorgeous. Wverything about her is perfect to me. Thats why i love her, why i fell for her in the first place. And she made me beg where no other woman would, just the magnitude of how bad she made me beg was just...... every time with her i was on cloud 9
People with big hearts rarely break hearts intentionally.
People who are opinionated, speak their minds, will put you in your place...
They will not give vague responses as a reason for a break-up.

What's the real story?
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Trust me lass, if i knew id tell ya. But im as clueless as everyone else here.
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Alltho there was one time where she got offended when i was trying to please her. Trying to get her off was like trying to push a 900lb train with a twig and she looked over at me and i looked bored but yet happy. She said something like we can stop if ur bored. I told her no that she comes first even if it does get tedious sometimes. She got mad and thats all she wrote on it. The next day i didnt get pleasure and made damn sure she got all the attention to make up for it.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
How long were you unemployed?
Did you discuss marriage with her at anytime during the relationship?
Did you take the lead at any time during the relationship?
I was never unimployed, i dont know why i put dont have a job. I did talk about our future and how amazing of a mother she would be. I planned on taking her to the city she fell in love with, new york, a week long trip in new york. Had a hotel planned out, was going to take her to her favorite musical, phantom of the opera and pop the question in time square. I saved for 6 months and telling her i stayed home from work one to two days every two weeks so i could save and the money would add up. She kept teli g me if i was going to propose it would have to be above and beyond so i did beyond above and beyond. I got in contact with the operahouse that was holding it to have the actor who was playing the phantom to come up and bring me the ring. But because of safty issues they said no.
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I asked. She said she didn't know and then i want into trying to plan little things here and there for us to do. She kept blowing them off to stay at home and watch tv with me, wich was fine but it gets boring after a while. I would plan a romantic dinner that i made because she thought it was sexy when she would come home to me in nothing but an apron making dinner. But she started gettjng taco bell n stuff like that even tho i told her not to. Like i said, she didnt try
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Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Brandonb55
See thats sadistic. Im not that kind of person.
She sure sounds like it.

If she's divorced already this young, sounds like she takes the easy way out. There's no loyalty there.

Fuvk her. She sounds pathetic.
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She devorced him because he went back on his word on multiple occasions. And i constantly had to prove that im not him, i still do.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
Its. Because some have not yet found a rich guy as yet
Aquastic-

You seem to have issues with women who prefer to be taken care of.
Funny thing is, the OP didn't mention anything about the Bull being a gold-digger.

Still jaded about your Virgo ex who dumped you and your child for a woman he preferred to take care of instead?

Or did you suffer the same fate with your Pisces ex as well.

You're in NO position to counsel anyone about their relationship problems.

Spare yourself some embarrassment and go find your level of integrity.
You also have no right to tell someone not to post.

There is no hierarchy of advice.
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Agreed
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But, her... somehow zhes gotten into my head and no matter how occupied i am she seems to flash through my mind and i loose all concentration and no longer want to continue. Take this example for instance. Was reading world war z and it was in a really big part of the story. Boom, she comes flashing by and lost intrest in reading it for the night. Shes dug her fucking claws in my mind and wont let go no matter how hard i try to erase her.
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TaurusMarine
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Posted by Brandonb55
Hi there,
Three months ago my gf of two years left me(cancer). When we were together we were perfect, i planned on poping the question. She left me saying she fell out of love with me. For the first month i was fine, didnt call txt or even want to see her. Then one day she asked me to come over and stay the night to love on her and cuddle her when she was sick. She held my hand and fought to keep herself from kissing me. I began to cry and i left so she didnt see me doing so.

Two days later i began txting her and begging for her to come back. Well two months go by, she gets a new bf and she told me that there is no chance for us getting together again and shes blocked me from any ad all forms of contact. Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?
Did she tell you what was the exact reason?
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Posted by TaurusMarine
Posted by Brandonb55
Hi there,
Three months ago my gf of two years left me(cancer). When we were together we were perfect, i planned on poping the question. She left me saying she fell out of love with me. For the first month i was fine, didnt call txt or even want to see her. Then one day she asked me to come over and stay the night to love on her and cuddle her when she was sick. She held my hand and fought to keep herself from kissing me. I began to cry and i left so she didnt see me doing so.

Two days later i began txting her and begging for her to come back. Well two months go by, she gets a new bf and she told me that there is no chance for us getting together again and shes blocked me from any ad all forms of contact. Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?
Did she tell you what was the exact reason?
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Nope
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Posted by Arielle83
She thought u were over it and could just be friends so that's why she did that.

She saw u weren't over it, so she cut you deeper to make you realise it's done for good.

She must be young and naive, and self serving.

Nobody wants someone to treat them like a mate when all you want to do is cherish her.

Now you know.

Yay once we are truly done.. It's pretty hard to return unless it's truly truly unconstitutional love.. unless it's deep love and we know if it's not... We r fixed sign.. It's all or nothing 😢 sorry for your lost
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Brandonb55
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Posted by Arielle83
She thought u were over it and could just be friends so that's why she did that.

She saw u weren't over it, so she cut you deeper to make you realise it's done for good.

She must be young and naive, and self serving.

Nobody wants someone to treat them like a mate when all you want to do is cherish her.

Now you know.

Yay once we are truly done.. It's pretty hard to return unless it's truly truly unconstitutional love.. unless it's deep love and we know if it's not... We r fixed sign.. It's all or nothing 😢 sorry for your lost
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Well im letting her figure her shit out. Im moving on even tho its hard and she was the one i wanted to marry.but if she does come back its going to be talked about weither she wants to or not because i deserve answers.
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Posted by Brandonb55
Hi there,
Three months ago my gf of two years left me(cancer). When we were together we were perfect, i planned on poping the question. She left me saying she fell out of love with me. For the first month i was fine, didnt call txt or even want to see her. Then one day she asked me to come over and stay the night to love on her and cuddle her when she was sick. She held my hand and fought to keep herself from kissing me. I began to cry and i left so she didnt see me doing so.

Two days later i began txting her and begging for her to come back. Well two months go by, she gets a new bf and she told me that there is no chance for us getting together again and shes blocked me from any ad all forms of contact. Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?
Did she tell you what was the exact reason?
Nope
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You could have asked
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Brandonb55
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Posted by Brandonb55
Posted by TaurusMarine
Posted by Brandonb55
Hi there,
Three months ago my gf of two years left me(cancer). When we were together we were perfect, i planned on poping the question. She left me saying she fell out of love with me. For the first month i was fine, didnt call txt or even want to see her. Then one day she asked me to come over and stay the night to love on her and cuddle her when she was sick. She held my hand and fought to keep herself from kissing me. I began to cry and i left so she didnt see me doing so.

Two days later i began txting her and begging for her to come back. Well two months go by, she gets a new bf and she told me that there is no chance for us getting together again and shes blocked me from any ad all forms of contact. Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?
Did she tell you what was the exact reason?
Nope
You could have asked
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I did, she told me that she doesnt know. I find it bs
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TaurusMarine
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Posted by TaurusMarine
Posted by Brandonb55
Posted by TaurusMarine
Posted by Brandonb55
Hi there,
Three months ago my gf of two years left me(cancer). When we were together we were perfect, i planned on poping the question. She left me saying she fell out of love with me. For the first month i was fine, didnt call txt or even want to see her. Then one day she asked me to come over and stay the night to love on her and cuddle her when she was sick. She held my hand and fought to keep herself from kissing me. I began to cry and i left so she didnt see me doing so.

Two days later i began txting her and begging for her to come back. Well two months go by, she gets a new bf and she told me that there is no chance for us getting together again and shes blocked me from any ad all forms of contact. Is there anything i can do to fix my mistake?
Did she tell you what was the exact reason?
Nope
You could have asked
I did, she told me that she doesnt know. I find it bs
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I see. I'd like to say she's a big liar. Everyone knows the reason someone is not te rigt one, just most are coward to accept the truth.
My question to you, What is it you liked in her so much that cant' let you go?
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Brandonb55
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Somewhere up there is the answer to that. But if u want to know, beautiful heart, eyes that are easy to get lost in, she may not think it but a fantastic body, her personality, her caring nature, not afraid to show who she really is. Allways able to speak her mind and she made me beg like no other woman could. Ive had women make me beg but not to the extent of me litterally being putty and not able to breath without panting. Just everything about that woman is perfect to me lass
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TaurusMarine
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Posted by Brandonb55
Somewhere up there is the answer to that. But if u want to know, beautiful heart, eyes that are easy to get lost in, she may not think it but a fantastic body, her personality, her caring nature, not afraid to show who she really is. Allways able to speak her mind and she made me beg like no other woman could. Ive had women make me beg but not to the extent of me litterally being putty and not able to breath without panting. Just everything about that woman is perfect to me lass
It's really touching how you described her.... I wish, I really wish my ex cancer remembered me like this...
But the truth is, the moment people stop choosing us, they seize to be right for us, HOWEVER we may love them...
Don't lose yourself, 'cause all you've felt for this woman was possible because it already existed inside of you. If this woman could give you so much admiration and love, imagine what the entire world can give you!
Best wishes!
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Brandonb55
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Posted by Brandonb55
Somewhere up there is the answer to that. But if u want to know, beautiful heart, eyes that are easy to get lost in, she may not think it but a fantastic body, her personality, her caring nature, not afraid to show who she really is. Allways able to speak her mind and she made me beg like no other woman could. Ive had women make me beg but not to the extent of me litterally being putty and not able to breath without panting. Just everything about that woman is perfect to me lass
You sound like her 'number one fan'!
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She was my first true love, its going to take a while to pecure those feelings for annother but itl happen. If she does realize her mistake ill be here to listen. Weither or not ill take her back is a different story because she will have to prove that us is the real deal. She may have ben my ideal woman but she has allot more growing up to do than i.
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Posted by TaurusMarine
Posted by Brandonb55
Somewhere up there is the answer to that. But if u want to know, beautiful heart, eyes that are easy to get lost in, she may not think it but a fantastic body, her personality, her caring nature, not afraid to show who she really is. Allways able to speak her mind and she made me beg like no other woman could. Ive had women make me beg but not to the extent of me litterally being putty and not able to breath without panting. Just everything about that woman is perfect to me lass
It's really touching how you described her.... I wish, I really wish my ex cancer remembered me like this...
But the truth is, the moment people stop choosing us, they seize to be right for us, HOWEVER we may love them...
Don't lose yourself, 'cause all you've felt for this woman was possible because it already existed inside of you. If this woman could give you so much admiration and love, imagine what the entire world can give you!
Best wishes!
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I always will remember her as such. Ive already forgiven her more times than anyone in my life. I should of been less forgiving and more focused on myself. Ik that woman or man (i swing both ways) is out there but weither or not ill find or allow myself to see them standing infront of me is a different story.
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Posted by Arielle83
You also have no right to tell someone not to post.

There is no hierarchy of advice.
Arielle,
This is the 2nd time you posted on the Taurus Board with you white-knighting Save-The-Cancer advice.
You rarely get to the root of a problem, just offer your biased opinions as if you were a Bull yourself.
Newsflash, you're not one.

I know Aquastic,
I came for her personally, not you...
Why do you feel the need to jump in and rescue her?
Stop monopolozing this board with your cardinal energy.

If the OP needed Cancer advice, he can visit the Cancer Board.