If he is going through a rough time...........

is it best to wait until he deals with and wait for him to make the move?

I wrote an open and honest letter to him. The letter just basically letting him how much I care about him and if he want to have a real relationship and no more late night calls for casual sex.

He called me that same that he received my letter but I wasn't at home. I called him that night but he didn't answer. I was supposed to come by his house and pick up something, but he changed his mind and said he had to be somewhere else. I e-mail him and told him although he rejected, doesn?t mean we are not friends. His responded was,?I didn?t reject you. I?m going through a lot right now and it is hard not able to give people what they want. I care about you and you?re a great person?who knows the future (with a wink).

What ya take of that?