If Taurus is in love............

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Daydreamer on Tuesday, October 18, 2005 and has 9 replies.

Would Taurus Hesitate to Date Someone with Kids from a Previous Relationship

Taurus may hesitate to date someone with children from a previous relationship due to their desire for stability and comfort. They value loyalty and may need time to build trust before fully embracing a relationship with a partner who has children. Their approach depends on their personal values and readiness for a blended family.

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@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

ohhhhhhhhhh tough one. I've done it, but I shy away from baggage like divorce and kids and stuff like that. Truth is, we ALL have baggage from the past. Maybe if he is slowly introduced to kids if would be better.

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@Daydreamer
20 Years

I am divorce and I have 2 small boys. I think my Taurus friend also has a child, but he is not admitting to it.....yet.

I might have baggage, but he is a basket case.
But I have my life and kids on track.

I wonder if he is shying away because I have children....
When I see him, he always asked me who is taking care of my kids.

I'm frustrated, I don't understand him!

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@Daydreamer
20 Years

For sagitTAUrus,

My Taurus friend and I are childhood friends.

He remembers all the classes we had together and I didn't realize he was in those classes.
(There are lots of things I don?t want to remember about my childhood anyway....).

He was more teasing me in school?. I guess like all boys do when they like a girl.
But again, I couldn't have imaged my life growing up without him. He always was an important part of my life.

We just met again after 10 years. He said to me, ?I knew someday you and I was going to have sex?.

But strangely, for me, I feel him and I are made for each other.
That is just my intuition speaking and I strongly believe it.

I know he is going through tough times, he tells me he is glad that he knows me.

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@Daydreamer
20 Years

Hello sagiTAUrus,

That is funny, hey it might just work for you too.

It works for me, because I also knew my friend and I was going to have sex someday.
Boy......I never felt so alive!!! He's GREAT!

It's been a year since we met.....is that long enough to tell him my feelings?
I wrote him a letter...yes, it is hand written and I send it to his home address.
The letter I wrote him is very personal, so I can't share it.

Is it a turn off for Taurus if someone express their feelings to you?
I hope he doesn't poke fun at it.........

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@taurusgirl
21 Years

We just met again after 10 years. He said to me, ?I knew someday you and I was going to have sex?.

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.... I know this isn't the point, but tauruses are so freakin' blunt it makes me laugh. It's as if we have to spew it out innappropriately or we'll never bother saying it.

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@yattayattahey
20 Years

LMAO that is so true, I wouldn't DARE tell you what "the Taurus guy" said to let me know that he was interested. It still makes me blush. I fell off my chair. So totally out of the blue and (i thought at the time) completely out of character.
Then I thought "OMG that is sooooooooo HOT". And it was ON!
I prefer that than some smarmy wooing with flowers and dinner, blech! In other words, don't tell me I'm pretty, I won't believe you, tell me ya wanna _______________ and that's completely different!

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@yattayattahey
20 Years

LMAOOOOOOOOOOo damn board censors! I read that and was "WTF? marker? huh?"
So ya think he is enamored, eh?
I really try to resist the urge to guess what he is thinking. I figure he will tell me in his own time. He has said a couple things earlier on that would have me believing that, but not too much since. But I figure, by the same token, that means nothing has changed either. We don't get to see each other that often, which is a bit of a strain so I just try and not worry about stuff if I can help it.

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@yattayattahey
20 Years

Oh and to clarify things...he didn't say anything like when we first met, we were acquaintances. This happened a couple years later.........wooooooo even Hotter!