Is there something I should do?

Some of you will remember my name, or icon.

A year ago. [Almost] I dealt with a Taurus, I did some incredibly stupid things admittedly. He did his share of disrespecting me. After that I had alot of self evaluation as well as reclaiming my self-worth, and self-love. During this process I met a wonderful guy. We are engaged to be married next year. We have gotten down to the nitty gritty, I even told him about the entire Taurus situation. [Clearing the air before our wedding.]

Taurus made an entire new account. He asked me how I was three months ago. I said fine that was it. This was on the site.

I am going to make my account private. Which I don't really want do. I am an author, I announce my work on there. I don't want to appear bothered, but I am annoyed. (it is Instagram).

I've since forgiven the situation, but he is actually making the effort to come find my pagw just to like my pictures. It pisses me off. His name brings back a place I should never go. I should really be over this.. I don't care for him.

I guess this was a vent.

I don't understand how he found me, I changed my names on everything, and blocked him totally.

Opinions..?

Busyeye88, I researched IG. I can't block him, but I did report him. I also went down my followers. Low, and behold! He is one of them. He knows me well enough to know I won't delete the account for that sole purpose.

Fuck! You are absolutely right. It came off as "No hard feelings." to him when I responded. To me its like "I really could careless." I don't go find him, I do not like his pictures, I don't even associate. I have reported him. That was a while ago :/

I literally changed everything so for him to find me to follow me is fucking retarded, and he followed me before he even messaged me.... I should not even be dealing with this

Ahhh Busy beat me to it!

Blocking him is common sense, or at least it should be.

Personally, I stroll profiles of chicks I used to know, not frequently, but once in awhile. As for how he found you, that's really simple... He has specific information about you, we call it "Key Words" and inputting any combination into a Search Engine such as Google will net decent results. Every single Social website archives some kind of information about you and makes it available to third party sources, which are all accessible by Search Engine bots (Spiders) who crawl every site daily.

So what if you are like a secret ninja and somehow secured said information? Then one could use Images, copy the file names into a image Search Engine and wala. Same with videos, if you have the proper editing software you uncover the metadata, key specifics about a photograph such as date taken, focal length, modes and even better if it's GPS Enabled, where exactly it was created. There's all kinds of ways to track people down, I employ a lot of them myself when I don't get far with Databases, but it's extremely rare for me not to get a Database hit on someone as the US does everything Digitally anymore.

*Stalker Face*

That's to much to find somebody.

Thank you Busy.

Busy,

No joke it's super easy to track people down. I found all three of the cows I was looking for from my birthday. First one two less than two minutes, second one, her parents got divorced in 2011, and she had actually gotten married herself. The third cow turned up to have relocated to another state in 1989 and within about ten minutes I was in contact with all three of them. lmao.

I like to think so... That's probably my Rising talking though 😛

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I like to think so... That's probably my Rising talking though 😛

You are such a show off =P

Hey Superwoman! 😄

firstly, he is just liking some pics....no biggy...i think people get a little overdramatic with this social media stuff these days....

the issue is you, and how u feel.....so first be honest...

this is a good place to do that....what is the emotional place just seeing his 'likes' brings u back to? you still have feelings for him? of desire? disgust?

why cant confronting him with honesty solve this?

crabs I know...break up and cant even go to a restaurant they used to frequent with ex....everything is tainted with their memory...

i bring the new chick to the same spots bc I know what is good there, and I dont even think about the ex....

also, if this dude really is a creeper, why cant your fiance handle it? if my Sag had a dude stalking her, or acting inappropriate in any way, I would take that off her plate real fast....

You can block him via Instagram. You can block anyone you want to on that. Whether he is or isn't on your follow list and even if their profile is private.

You click on their profile, top right is three dots, click that, it asks if you want to block the user. You click 'block user' and job done.

Why can't you block him?