Jeolous taurus

Ok me and this Taurus have had a past but we stopped talking because he felt as if I couldn't handle him but we stayed friends and still flirted now and then. Recently I posted a picture of me with one of my guy friends and the Taurus immedietely became extremely jealous. When me and my friend were leaving the restaurant we bumped into the Taurus and his friends and they looked like they were going to the restaurant that we were just at. The Taurus yelled at my friend and gave him the middle finger. We walked away and my friend had my phone and asked the Taurus if he was the one that yelled at him. The Taurus said yes and said"why are you with my girl" I had the phone and I didn't know what to say this was on snapchat so I just sent a picture of my other guy friend and he just left me on open. Now his friend commented on a girls photo of the Taurus name and he Taurus and his girl just started following each other on instagram. I don't know if this to try to make me jealous or if he is replacing me. I still really like this Taurus and I don't know how to show him that this guy is just my friend.

Posted by Scorpio123
How old are the both of you?

I am about to turn 16 and he is 17

Posted by tiziani
LOL he's had enough

We are still streaking right now I just don't understand why he told me he wasn't interested then he's calling me his girl and going out of his way to confront my friend

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Posted by tiziani
LOL he's had enough

We are still streaking right now I just don't understand why he told me he wasn't interested then he's calling me his girl and going out of his way to confront my friend

pride

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Do u think he is going to do anything else

Posted by drunkghost
temperamental just like my dad when my dad gets upset I just buy him his favorite go to foods and compliment him they're prideful and stubborn then again check his other chart placements

What can I do to make him not upset and I know his birthday is May 8,2000 but I don't know how to check his placements

Posted by CrimsonGirl
Aw you're both so young. Yeah that's definitely just a combination of jealousy and immaturity. I would just try to let him know that there's nothing for him to worry about and you're sorry that you hurt him. However, if he is rude to you or gets aggressive then you will have to stay away from him. Don't put up with his hissy fits.

I know that he is upset right now do u think that I should give him space to calm down a bit or should I reach out to him and if I do how should I bring it up

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temperamental just like my dad when my dad gets upset I just buy him his favorite go to foods and compliment him they're prideful and stubborn then again check his other chart placements

What can I do to make him not upset and I know his birthday is May 8,2000 but I don't know how to check

his placements

Google natal chart and then type in the info you know and it'll get you knowing some basic stuff also I don't know what he'll do next since I don't personally know him but he's definitely invested in order to get jealous like that

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Sun Taurus 18°29'

Moon Cancer 21°39'

Mercury Taurus 18°03'

Venus Taurus 9°28'

Mars Gemini 3°31'

Jupiter Taurus 18°02'

Saturn Taurus 20°11'

Uranus Aquarius 20°43'

Neptune Aquarius 6°36' R

Pluto Sagittarius 12°05' R

Lilith Capricorn 7°39'

Asc node Cancer 27°20'

This is his natal chart I'm not really sure how to read this information I was wondering if u could tell me more about him with this information

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Aw you're both so young. Yeah that's definitely just a combination of jealousy and immaturity. I would just try to let him know that there's nothing for him to worry about and you're sorry that you hurt him. However, if he is rude to you or gets aggressive then you will have to stay away from him. Don't put up with his hissy fits.

I know that he is upset right now do u think that I should give him space to calm down a bit or should I reach out to him and if I do how should I bring it up

Did this incident just happen? I would maybe let him know that you want to give him space if he wants it, but that you're sorry you made him upset with the whole guy friend thing that happened. Let him know that there's nothing for him to worry about. Either tell him that in a text or call. Calling is always better in my opinion, but I know it's scarier.

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Yeah this just happened yesterday I don't really know how to start this type of conversation without making it awkward because before when he was upset with me over other things whenever I would try to talk to him about it he would be very cold and respond with "what" or "what r u talking about"

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Aw you're both so young. Yeah that's definitely just a combination of jealousy and immaturity. I would just try to let him know that there's nothing for him to worry about and you're sorry that you hurt him. However, if he is rude to you or gets aggressive then you will have to stay away from him. Don't put up with his hissy fits.

I know that he is upset right now do u think that I should give him space to calm down a bit or should I reach out to him and if I do how should I bring it up

Did this incident just happen? I would maybe let him know that you want to give him space if he wants it, but that you're sorry you made him upset with the whole guy friend thing that happened. Let him know that there's nothing for him to worry about. Either tell him that in a text or call. Calling is always better in my opinion, but I know it's scarier.

Yeah this just happened yesterday I don't really know how to start this type of conversation without making it awkward because before when he was upset with me over other things whenever I would try to talk to him about it he would be very cold and respond with "what" or "what r u talking about"

Aw I'm sorry he's like that. I know you really like him, but maybe you should try to find a guy that's a little bit more mature hun. I'm not telling you to not try to reach out to him, but if he gets angry like that and pulls away and acts cold and defensive, maybe you should move on... what do you think?

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It's just that I've never had a guy treat me so well, even though he can get really mean when he is upset the good always outweighs the bad. He is really sweet and treats me like a im the only girl that he cares about. But now there is the new girl and I'm not sure this him trying to replace me or make me jealous but I really want things to work out with this guy. And I am someone who is really determined so I don't like giving up on things so easily

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temperamental just like my dad when my dad gets upset I just buy him his favorite go to foods and compliment him they're prideful and stubborn then again check his other chart placements

What can I do to make him not upset and I know his birthday is May 8,2000 but I don't know how to check

his placements

Google natal chart and then type in the info you know and it'll get you knowing some basic stuff also I don't know what he'll do next since I don't personally know him but he's definitely invested in order to get jealous like that

Sun Taurus 18°29'

Moon Cancer 21°39'

Mercury Taurus 18°03'

Venus Taurus 9°28'

Mars Gemini 3°31'

Jupiter Taurus 18°02'

Saturn Taurus 20°11'

Uranus Aquarius 20°43'

Neptune Aquarius 6°36' R

Pluto Sagittarius 12°05' R

Lilith Capricorn 7°39'

Asc node Cancer 27°20'

This is his natal chart I'm not really sure how to read this information I was wondering if u could tell me more about him with this information

I think I found the problem. Baby moon.

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I don't really know how these charts work but I was wondering how a cancer moon would affect the behaviour of him?

Posted by Scorpio123
He sounds really immature and a bit like a bully really, give him space and let him come to you, I think he owes you an apology if anything.

You can decide how you want people to treat you by the boundaries you set, don't let them set it for you. I wish I knew that when I was younger.

Ok I will try my best I'm just afraid that if I leave it as it is he will leave my life forever. Do u think the girl he followed on instagram is him trying to replace me or make me jealous. I cannot tell if he is doing this on purpose

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Posted by CrimsonGirl
Aw you're both so young. Yeah that's definitely just a combination of jealousy and immaturity. I would just try to let him know that there's nothing for him to worry about and you're sorry that you hurt him. However, if he is rude to you or gets aggressive then you will have to stay away from him. Don't put up with his hissy fits.

I know that he is upset right now do u think that I should give him space to calm down a bit or should I reach out to him and if I do how should I bring it up

Did this incident just happen? I would maybe let him know that you want to give him space if he wants it, but that you're sorry you made him upset with the whole guy friend thing that happened. Let him know that there's nothing for him to worry about. Either tell him that in a text or call. Calling is always better in my opinion, but I know it's scarier.

Yeah this just happened yesterday I don't really know how to start this type of conversation without making it awkward because before when he was upset with me over other things whenever I would try to talk to him about it he would be very cold and respond with "what" or "what r u talking about"

Aw I'm sorry he's like that. I know you really like him, but maybe you should try to find a guy that's a little bit more mature hun. I'm not telling you to not try to reach out to him, but if he gets angry like that and pulls away and acts cold and defensive, maybe you should move on... what do you think?

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If u were in my position how do you think I should bring it up or start the conversation?

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Posted by CrimsonGirl
Aw you're both so young. Yeah that's definitely just a combination of jealousy and immaturity. I would just try to let him know that there's nothing for him to worry about and you're sorry that you hurt him. However, if he is rude to you or gets aggressive then you will have to stay away from him. Don't put up with his hissy fits.

I know that he is upset right now do u think that I should give him space to calm down a bit or should I reach out to him and if I do how should I bring it up

Did this incident just happen? I would maybe let him know that you want to give him space if he wants it, but that you're sorry you made him upset with the whole guy friend thing that happened. Let him know that there's nothing for him to worry about. Either tell him that in a text or call. Calling is always better in my opinion, but I know it's scarier.

Yeah this just happened yesterday I don't really know how to start this type of conversation without making it awkward because before when he was upset with me over other things whenever I would try to talk to him about it he would be very cold and respond with "what" or "what r u talking about"

Aw I'm sorry he's like that. I know you really like him, but maybe you should try to find a guy that's a little bit more mature hun. I'm not telling you to not try to reach out to him, but if he gets angry like that and pulls away and acts cold and defensive, maybe you should move on... what do you think?

It's just that I've never had a guy treat me so well, even though he can get really mean when he is upset the good always outweighs the bad. He is really sweet and treats me like a im the only girl that he cares about. But now there is the new girl and I'm not sure this him trying to replace me or make me jealous but I really want things to work out with this guy. And I am someone who is really determined so I don't like giving up on things so easily

Okay well if he treats you well then that is the main thing. If he ever gets abusive with you whether physically or verbally, you get away from him as fast as possible. Not trying to lecture you, you're just the same age as my little sister so I get protective lol.

But anyways, he could just be going through a phase. A lot of Taurus guys are jealous so he might just need to get a handle on it and could very well calm down in the years to come. For right now though I would just text him and tell him how you're feeling. Let him know that you care for him and don't want to lose him. When it comes to that other girl, it sounds like he's just playing games with you.

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How do you think I should bring this conversation up?

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Aw you're both so young. Yeah that's definitely just a combination of jealousy and immaturity. I would just try to let him know that there's nothing for him to worry about and you're sorry that you hurt him. However, if he is rude to you or gets aggressive then you will have to stay away from him. Don't put up with his hissy fits.

I know that he is upset right now do u think that I should give him space to calm down a bit or should I reach out to him and if I do how should I bring it up

Did this incident just happen? I would maybe let him know that you want to give him space if he wants it, but that you're sorry you made him upset with the whole guy friend thing that happened. Let him know that there's nothing for him to worry about. Either tell him that in a text or call. Calling is always better in my opinion, but I know it's scarier.

Yeah this just happened yesterday I don't really know how to start this type of conversation without making it awkward because before when he was upset with me over other things whenever I would try to talk to him about it he would be very cold and respond with "what" or "what r u talking about"

Aw I'm sorry he's like that. I know you really like him, but maybe you should try to find a guy that's a little bit more mature hun. I'm not telling you to not try to reach out to him, but if he gets angry like that and pulls away and acts cold and defensive, maybe you should move on... what do you think?

It's just that I've never had a guy treat me so well, even though he can get really mean when he is upset the good always outweighs the bad. He is really sweet and treats me like a im the only girl that he cares about. But now there is the new girl and I'm not sure this him trying to replace me or make me jealous but I really want things to work out with this guy. And I am someone who is really determined so I don't like giving up on things so easily

Okay well if he treats you well then that is the main thing. If he ever gets abusive with you whether physically or verbally, you get away from him as fast as possible. Not trying to lecture you, you're just the same age as my little sister so I get protective lol.

But anyways, he could just be going through a phase. A lot of Taurus guys are jealous so he might just need to get a handle on it and could very well calm down in the years to come. For right now though I would just text him and tell him how you're feeling. Let him know that you care for him and don't want to lose him. When it comes to that other girl, it sounds like he's just playing games with you.

How do you think I should bring this conversation up?

Maybe start by sending a simple text like "hey. Can we talk about what's been going on? I really would like to clear things up."

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Ok I will try later today I just wanted to say thank you so much for your advice I really appreciate it 🙂 it's nice having someone to talk to about this

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Posted by Scorpio123
He sounds really immature and a bit like a bully really, give him space and let him come to you, I think he owes you an apology if anything.

You can decide how you want people to treat you by the boundaries you set, don't let them set it for you. I wish I knew that when I was younger.

Ok I will try my best I'm just afraid that if I leave it as it is he will leave my life forever. Do u think the girl he followed on instagram is him trying to replace me or make me jealous. I cannot tell if he is doing this on purpose

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I know you don't want to hear this but the harsh reality is that he is unlikely to always be in your life.

At 16, you think the friends you have now are the friends you will always have. They won't be. You're going to grow and each seek your own paths. I am not friends with a single friend from that age even though we all thought we would be. Unless you stay in the area you live in now for the rest of your life, you are going to make new friends, have new loves, follow your own road, wherever life may take you.

These years now are your formative years. They teach you about life, you begin to set standards for yourself and decide what direction you want your life to take.

Don't make decisions from a place of fear. You need to set expectations in your life. How you want to be treated. Mostly that has to do with the respect you demand from others. If people can't do that and want to leave, let them go. You are the constant in your life. You will always be there. Look after yourself first.

Posted by bittercupcake
Sounds like immaturity... i wouldn't be too concerned with it... relationships like these don't last

So would it be a good idea To be the mature one and reach out to him first?

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Posted by Scorpio123
He sounds really immature and a bit like a bully really, give him space and let him come to you, I think he owes you an apology if anything.

You can decide how you want people to treat you by the boundaries you set, don't let them set it for you. I wish I knew that when I was younger.

Ok I will try my best I'm just afraid that if I leave it as it is he will leave my life forever. Do u think the girl he followed on instagram is him trying to replace me or make me jealous. I cannot tell if he is doing this on purpose

I know you don't want to hear this but the harsh reality is that he is unlikely to always be in your life.

At 16, you think the friends you have now are the friends you will always have. They won't be. You're going to grow and each seek your own paths. I am not friends with a single friend from that age even though we all thought we would be. Unless you stay in the area you live in now for the rest of your life, you are going to make new friends, have new loves, follow your own road, wherever life may take you.

These years now are your formative years. They teach you about life, you begin to set standards for yourself and decide what direction you want your life to take.

Don't make decisions from a place of fear. You need to set expectations in your life. How you want to be treated. Mostly that has to do with the respect you demand from others. If people can't do that and want to leave, let them go. You are the constant in your life. You will always be there. Look after yourself first.

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I completely understand where ur coming from and I do realize things like this won't matter 5 years from now and this guy probably won't be the guy that I will be marrying but I am someone who likes to live in the now and I know that right now this guy is really important to me 🙂 and someone that I do not want to leave my life so I want to give my all to try and make it work if u have any advice for jealous Tauruses that would be amazing

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Posted by Scorpio123
He sounds really immature and a bit like a bully really, give him space and let him come to you, I think he owes you an apology if anything.

You can decide how you want people to treat you by the boundaries you set, don't let them set it for you. I wish I knew that when I was younger.

Ok I will try my best I'm just afraid that if I leave it as it is he will leave my life forever. Do u think the girl he followed on instagram is him trying to replace me or make me jealous. I cannot tell if he is doing this on purpose

I know you don't want to hear this but the harsh reality is that he is unlikely to always be in your life.

At 16, you think the friends you have now are the friends you will always have. They won't be. You're going to grow and each seek your own paths. I am not friends with a single friend from that age even though we all thought we would be. Unless you stay in the area you live in now for the rest of your life, you are going to make new friends, have new loves, follow your own road, wherever life may take you.

These years now are your formative years. They teach you about life, you begin to set standards for yourself and decide what direction you want your life to take.

Don't make decisions from a place of fear. You need to set expectations in your life. How you want to be treated. Mostly that has to do with the respect you demand from others. If people can't do that and want to leave, let them go. You are the constant in your life. You will always be there. Look after yourself first.

I completely understand where ur coming from and I do realize things like this won't matter 5 years from now and this guy probably won't be the guy that I will be marrying but I am someone who likes to live in the now and I know that right now this guy is really important to me 🙂 and someone that I do not want to leave my life so I want to give my all to try and make it work if u have any advice for jealous Tauruses that would be amazing

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How you deal with him is by telling him that his behaviour is unacceptable. You explain that this person was your friend and that even if he wasn't, that his reaction was excessive and showed him a poor light.

You tell him that you value him as a friend and that if he still wished to be friends that you would like that very much however he is not to behave life that in the future if he wants to retain your friendship and respect.

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Posted by Scorpio123
He sounds really immature and a bit like a bully really, give him space and let him come to you, I think he owes you an apology if anything.

You can decide how you want people to treat you by the boundaries you set, don't let them set it for you. I wish I knew that when I was younger.

Ok I will try my best I'm just afraid that if I leave it as it is he will leave my life forever. Do u think the girl he followed on instagram is him trying to replace me or make me jealous. I cannot tell if he is doing this on purpose

I know you don't want to hear this but the harsh reality is that he is unlikely to always be in your life.

At 16, you think the friends you have now are the friends you will always have. They won't be. You're going to grow and each seek your own paths. I am not friends with a single friend from that age even though we all thought we would be. Unless you stay in the area you live in now for the rest of your life, you are going to make new friends, have new loves, follow your own road, wherever life may take you.

These years now are your formative years. They teach you about life, you begin to set standards for yourself and decide what direction you want your life to take.

Don't make decisions from a place of fear. You need to set expectations in your life. How you want to be treated. Mostly that has to do with the respect you demand from others. If people can't do that and want to leave, let them go. You are the constant in your life. You will always be there. Look after yourself first.

I completely understand where ur coming from and I do realize things like this won't matter 5 years from now and this guy probably won't be the guy that I will be marrying but I am someone who likes to live in the now and I know that right now this guy is really important to me 🙂 and someone that I do not want to leave my life so I want to give my all to try and make it work if u have any advice for jealous Tauruses that would be amazing

How you deal with him is by telling him that his behaviour is unacceptable. You explain that this person was your friend and that even if he wasn't, that his reaction was excessive and showed him a poor light.

You tell him that you value him as a friend and that if he still wished to be friends that you would like that very much however he is not to behave life that in the future if he wants to retain your friendship and respect.

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What if I want something more than a friendship?

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Posted by Scorpio123
He sounds really immature and a bit like a bully really, give him space and let him come to you, I think he owes you an apology if anything.

You can decide how you want people to treat you by the boundaries you set, don't let them set it for you. I wish I knew that when I was younger.

Ok I will try my best I'm just afraid that if I leave it as it is he will leave my life forever. Do u think the girl he followed on instagram is him trying to replace me or make me jealous. I cannot tell if he is doing this on purpose

I know you don't want to hear this but the harsh reality is that he is unlikely to always be in your life.

At 16, you think the friends you have now are the friends you will always have. They won't be. You're going to grow and each seek your own paths. I am not friends with a single friend from that age even though we all thought we would be. Unless you stay in the area you live in now for the rest of your life, you are going to make new friends, have new loves, follow your own road, wherever life may take you.

These years now are your formative years. They teach you about life, you begin to set standards for yourself and decide what direction you want your life to take.

Don't make decisions from a place of fear. You need to set expectations in your life. How you want to be treated. Mostly that has to do with the respect you demand from others. If people can't do that and want to leave, let them go. You are the constant in your life. You will always be there. Look after yourself first.

I completely understand where ur coming from and I do realize things like this won't matter 5 years from now and this guy probably won't be the guy that I will be marrying but I am someone who likes to live in the now and I know that right now this guy is really important to me 🙂 and someone that I do not want to leave my life so I want to give my all to try and make it work if u have any advice for jealous Tauruses that would be amazing

How you deal with him is by telling him that his behaviour is unacceptable. You explain that this person was your friend and that even if he wasn't, that his reaction was excessive and showed him a poor light.

You tell him that you value him as a friend and that if he still wished to be friends that you would like that very much however he is not to behave life that in the future if he wants to retain your friendship and respect.

What if I want something more than a friendship?

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Friendship is the first step to any decent relationship. A relationship is only as good as the friendship that underpins it.

And I agree with Tiz, maybe give him some time before you broach this with him. He might not be ready to hear you yet.

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Posted by Scorpio123
He sounds really immature and a bit like a bully really, give him space and let him come to you, I think he owes you an apology if anything.

You can decide how you want people to treat you by the boundaries you set, don't let them set it for you. I wish I knew that when I was younger.

Ok I will try my best I'm just afraid that if I leave it as it is he will leave my life forever. Do u think the girl he followed on instagram is him trying to replace me or make me jealous. I cannot tell if he is doing this on purpose

I know you don't want to hear this but the harsh reality is that he is unlikely to always be in your life.

At 16, you think the friends you have now are the friends you will always have. They won't be. You're going to grow and each seek your own paths. I am not friends with a single friend from that age even though we all thought we would be. Unless you stay in the area you live in now for the rest of your life, you are going to make new friends, have new loves, follow your own road, wherever life may take you.

These years now are your formative years. They teach you about life, you begin to set standards for yourself and decide what direction you want your life to take.

Don't make decisions from a place of fear. You need to set expectations in your life. How you want to be treated. Mostly that has to do with the respect you demand from others. If people can't do that and want to leave, let them go. You are the constant in your life. You will always be there. Look after yourself first.

I completely understand where ur coming from and I do realize things like this won't matter 5 years from now and this guy probably won't be the guy that I will be marrying but I am someone who likes to live in the now and I know that right now this guy is really important to me 🙂 and someone that I do not want to leave my life so I want to give my all to try and make it work if u have any advice for jealous Tauruses that would be amazing

How you deal with him is by telling him that his behaviour is unacceptable. You explain that this person was your friend and that even if he wasn't, that his reaction was excessive and showed him a poor light.

You tell him that you value him as a friend and that if he still wished to be friends that you would like that very much however he is not to behave life that in the future if he wants to retain your friendship and respect.

What if I want something more than a friendship?

Friendship is the first step to any decent relationship. A relationship is only as good as the friendship that underpins it.

And I agree with Tiz, maybe give him some time before you broach this with him. He might not be ready to hear you yet.

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Ok how much time time do you think I should give?

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Sounds like immaturity... i wouldn't be too concerned with it... relationships like these don't last

So would it be a good idea To be the mature one and reach out to him first?

Yes... if it gives you a piece of mind. But I was saying that he's the immature one. You can't have a sustainable relationship where there is no balance....

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I heard Taurus men were really stubborn though and would never admit that they are in the wrong even if they know they are is that true?

Posted by tiziani
OP, you didn't do anything wrong. But there's no point trying to talk with the guy when he's in that place. It's not like he's looking for reasons. Give it time. He's probably more embarrassed at himself that he acted out in that way. It's not a reflection on you.

Do you think that when he has calmed down he will come and talk to me about it or should I bring it up

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Posted by bittercupcake
Sounds like immaturity... i wouldn't be too concerned with it... relationships like these don't last

So would it be a good idea To be the mature one and reach out to him first?

Yes... if it gives you a piece of mind. But I was saying that he's the immature one. You can't have a sustainable relationship where there is no balance....

I heard Taurus men were really stubborn though and would never admit that they are in the wrong even if they know they are is that true?

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You don't have a Taurus man here. You have a Taurus boy.

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He sounds really immature and a bit like a bully really, give him space and let him come to you, I think he owes you an apology if anything.

You can decide how you want people to treat you by the boundaries you set, don't let them set it for you. I wish I knew that when I was younger.

Ok I will try my best I'm just afraid that if I leave it as it is he will leave my life forever. Do u think the girl he followed on instagram is him trying to replace me or make me jealous. I cannot tell if he is doing this on purpose

I know you don't want to hear this but the harsh reality is that he is unlikely to always be in your life.

At 16, you think the friends you have now are the friends you will always have. They won't be. You're going to grow and each seek your own paths. I am not friends with a single friend from that age even though we all thought we would be. Unless you stay in the area you live in now for the rest of your life, you are going to make new friends, have new loves, follow your own road, wherever life may take you.

These years now are your formative years. They teach you about life, you begin to set standards for yourself and decide what direction you want your life to take.

Don't make decisions from a place of fear. You need to set expectations in your life. How you want to be treated. Mostly that has to do with the respect you demand from others. If people can't do that and want to leave, let them go. You are the constant in your life. You will always be there. Look after yourself first.

I completely understand where ur coming from and I do realize things like this won't matter 5 years from now and this guy probably won't be the guy that I will be marrying but I am someone who likes to live in the now and I know that right now this guy is really important to me 🙂 and someone that I do not want to leave my life so I want to give my all to try and make it work if u have any advice for jealous Tauruses that would be amazing

How you deal with him is by telling him that his behaviour is unacceptable. You explain that this person was your friend and that even if he wasn't, that his reaction was excessive and showed him a poor light.

You tell him that you value him as a friend and that if he still wished to be friends that you would like that very much however he is not to behave life that in the future if he wants to retain your friendship and respect.

What if I want something more than a friendship?

Friendship is the first step to any decent relationship. A relationship is only as good as the friendship that underpins it.

And I agree with Tiz, maybe give him some time before you broach this with him. He might not be ready to hear you yet.

Ok how much time time do you think I should give?

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A week? Or when will you naturally see him?

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OP, you didn't do anything wrong. But there's no point trying to talk with the guy when he's in that place. It's not like he's looking for reasons. Give it time. He's probably more embarrassed at himself that he acted out in that way. It's not a reflection on you.

Do you think that when he has calmed down he will come and talk to me about it or should I bring it up

No idea, to be honest. I know there are times I acted out so much, I cringe everytime I think about it and that's enough to want to break the ice with the person.

You're better off working to your own timetable. Just give it a cooling off period first, that's all I'm saying.

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It's been almost a week a now I don't know if I should message him or not or if I should ask his friend throughout this week I realized that me not saying that the guy was my friend could be making him think I'm not interested in him

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Aw you're both so young. Yeah that's definitely just a combination of jealousy and immaturity. I would just try to let him know that there's nothing for him to worry about and you're sorry that you hurt him. However, if he is rude to you or gets aggressive then you will have to stay away from him. Don't put up with his hissy fits.

I know that he is upset right now do u think that I should give him space to calm down a bit or should I reach out to him and if I do how should I bring it up

Did this incident just happen? I would maybe let him know that you want to give him space if he wants it, but that you're sorry you made him upset with the whole guy friend thing that happened. Let him know that there's nothing for him to worry about. Either tell him that in a text or call. Calling is always better in my opinion, but I know it's scarier.

Yeah this just happened yesterday I don't really know how to start this type of conversation without making it awkward because before when he was upset with me over other things whenever I would try to talk to him about it he would be very cold and respond with "what" or "what r u talking about"

Aw I'm sorry he's like that. I know you really like him, but maybe you should try to find a guy that's a little bit more mature hun. I'm not telling you to not try to reach out to him, but if he gets angry like that and pulls away and acts cold and defensive, maybe you should move on... what do you think?

It's just that I've never had a guy treat me so well, even though he can get really mean when he is upset the good always outweighs the bad. He is really sweet and treats me like a im the only girl that he cares about. But now there is the new girl and I'm not sure this him trying to replace me or make me jealous but I really want things to work out with this guy. And I am someone who is really determined so I don't like giving up on things so easily

Okay well if he treats you well then that is the main thing. If he ever gets abusive with you whether physically or verbally, you get away from him as fast as possible. Not trying to lecture you, you're just the same age as my little sister so I get protective lol.

But anyways, he could just be going through a phase. A lot of Taurus guys are jealous so he might just need to get a handle on it and could very well calm down in the years to come. For right now though I would just text him and tell him how you're feeling. Let him know that you care for him and don't want to lose him. When it comes to that other girl, it sounds like he's just playing games with you.

How do you think I should bring this conversation up?

Maybe start by sending a simple text like "hey. Can we talk about what's been going on? I really would like to clear things up."

Ok I will try later today I just wanted to say thank you so much for your advice I really appreciate it 🙂 it's nice having someone to talk to about this

Anytime girl! I'm dating a Taurus too so I don't mind helping at all. I know that they can be hella stubborn.

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It's been almost a week now I decided to let the situation cool off before I messaged him recently he was hanging out with one of his close friends and the night of this friend added me on everything and has been snapping me I dont know what this means I'm not sure if I should message the Taurus guy or his friend about what's going on cause maybe his friend would be more open about what the the Taurus guy is feeling since they are really close and his friend is a Leo like me what do you think I should do

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Now that I'm over that.... why would the Taurus be jealous if he didn't want nothing serious? It's because he didn't know he wanted something serious until he realized you could possibly be taken. And yes he is trying to make you jealous but also his ego is hurt. How to fix this... whether he responds or curses you out send a message about the issue and apologize and leave it at that and let him wallow in his miserableness until he either comes to his senses or never speaks to you again.

Either way you'll know where you stand and you can move on if you want or get him back. Be prepared for both scenarios... and you're young... this will pass I promise.

How should I start the conversation? Was waiting a week too long what if hes over it?

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Aw you're both so young. Yeah that's definitely just a combination of jealousy and immaturity. I would just try to let him know that there's nothing for him to worry about and you're sorry that you hurt him. However, if he is rude to you or gets aggressive then you will have to stay away from him. Don't put up with his hissy fits.

I know that he is upset right now do u think that I should give him space to calm down a bit or should I reach out to him and if I do how should I bring it up

Did this incident just happen? I would maybe let him know that you want to give him space if he wants it, but that you're sorry you made him upset with the whole guy friend thing that happened. Let him know that there's nothing for him to worry about. Either tell him that in a text or call. Calling is always better in my opinion, but I know it's scarier.

Yeah this just happened yesterday I don't really know how to start this type of conversation without making it awkward because before when he was upset with me over other things whenever I would try to talk to him about it he would be very cold and respond with "what" or "what r u talking about"

Aw I'm sorry he's like that. I know you really like him, but maybe you should try to find a guy that's a little bit more mature hun. I'm not telling you to not try to reach out to him, but if he gets angry like that and pulls away and acts cold and defensive, maybe you should move on... what do you think?

It's just that I've never had a guy treat me so well, even though he can get really mean when he is upset the good always outweighs the bad. He is really sweet and treats me like a im the only girl that he cares about. But now there is the new girl and I'm not sure this him trying to replace me or make me jealous but I really want things to work out with this guy. And I am someone who is really determined so I don't like giving up on things so easily

Okay well if he treats you well then that is the main thing. If he ever gets abusive with you whether physically or verbally, you get away from him as fast as possible. Not trying to lecture you, you're just the same age as my little sister so I get protective lol.

But anyways, he could just be going through a phase. A lot of Taurus guys are jealous so he might just need to get a handle on it and could very well calm down in the years to come. For right now though I would just text him and tell him how you're feeling. Let him know that you care for him and don't want to lose him. When it comes to that other girl, it sounds like he's just playing games with you.

How do you think I should bring this conversation up?

Maybe start by sending a simple text like "hey. Can we talk about what's been going on? I really would like to clear things up."

Ok I will try later today I just wanted to say thank you so much for your advice I really appreciate it 🙂 it's nice having someone to talk to about this

Anytime girl! I'm dating a Taurus too so I don't mind helping at all. I know that they can be hella stubborn.

It's been almost a week now I decided to let the situation cool off before I messaged him recently he was hanging out with one of his close friends and the night of this friend added me on everything and has been snapping me I dont know what this means I'm not sure if I should message the Taurus guy or his friend about what's going on cause maybe his friend would be more open about what the the Taurus guy is feeling since they are really close and his friend is a Leo like me what do you think I should do

Okay so you haven't talked to him yet?

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No I didn't have the guts to 😢 but I messaged his friend and he said he didn't know that happened cause he wasn't with them but he asked me if I was into the Taurus and I said maybe idk