Life after a breakup

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Honeybunniie
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Happy Sunday guys. I hope you guys had a great weekend!

Anywho I would entertain you guys for a min. So after these last couple of relationships ( my last one was for a year and the one before that was 8 years), I have decided to retire from love. Lol I can laugh now and I'm pretty sure this is my aqua moon speaking. I feel like u give so much of yourself to still end up splitting ways... I prefer committing to travel the world, learning new recipes, starting my own business and making my friends laugh. At least these things are rewarding! I hope I don't sound bitter bc I'm not. I'm just over the whole love thing... Please share your thoughts on love and life! I'll love to hear about it!
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Posted by Honeybunniie
Happy Sunday guys. I hope you guys had a great weekend!

Anywho I would entertain you guys for a min. So after these last couple of relationships ( my last one was for a year and the one before that was 8 years), I have decided to retire from love. Lol I can laugh now and I'm pretty sure this is my aqua moon speaking. I feel like u give so much of yourself to still end up splitting ways... I prefer committing to travel the world, learning new recipes, starting my own business and making my friends laugh. At least these things are rewarding! I hope I don't sound bitter bc I'm not. I'm just over the whole love thing... Please share your thoughts on love and life! I'll love to hear about it!
Sounds like a good plan to me. Sometimes love just doesn't work out and it breaks your heart to bits making you feel worthless in the process. Adventure, business and success - these things can be very fulfilling. For myself, I'd throw in art and creativity too.
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Oh yeah. My bull and I will travel together very soon..xoxoxo.

Life without a love is lonely.

Love without a life is miserable.

Find life. Find love.

Is a way to live a meaningful life.


Life without love is just fine. I love it. It's freeing. What happened to your cancer man?
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Didn't work. He was sick and cannot make it. So we had a talked and agreed to separate ways.

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Honeybunniie
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@gemstoned lol I'm not that old. And I didn't say I give up love FOREVER. At this moment I do want to put it aside and cater to myself. Love is special and beautiful but it's not all good either. Sometimes things just don't work out... Sometimes it's more than differences. A relationship take two ppl who are willing to put in the work and sometimes one of the people stop giving the effort. I always try to make my relationship work but they would quit on me. I can not make a person love me. I can only respect their decision and move forward. Timing is everything. And there's nothing wrong with ppl loving when they are young or old.
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@Honeybunnie,

Do not retire from love. Instead take a soul-searching vacation. Take notes of everything you ever wanted to accomplish, financially, mentally and spiritually. Utilize this opportunity to seek your inner self, what did you love and enjoy doing as a child? Do you have a spiritual, faith-based support group? What makes YOU happy besides taking care of loved ones? At times, Tauruses get too involved in taking care of everyone else, we tend to lose ourselves, who we are, and what we want. Take a break from that too.

When the soul-searching vacation is over, the Universe will give you EXACTLY what you're looking for.

This includes the right kind of love.

"The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes."

Marcel Proust
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This has to do with the equips. Transit right now... This means you picked wrong. Basically maybe you made a list or what ever and found a guy that had most of that and tried to make it work. The truth is if a person is independent regardless of male or female and money is not an issue there has to be a mental attraction. Also that who ever is moving in the right directions... This is why women should check in ever month then for sure 3 months and 6... Watching how Mercury cycles affect a persons emotions.

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HoneyBunnie,

I also want to share a poem called Ballad by the poet Sonia Sanchez. There was something mystical and transitional about how we love when we're younger vs our approach to love when we're older.

Find a way to connect those two elements when you take a soul searching vacation.

Ballad

"Forgive me if I laugh

you are so sure of love

you are so young

and i too old to lean of love

the rain exploding

in the air is love

the grass excreting her

green wax is love

and stones remembering

past steps is love,

but you. you are too young

for love

and i too old.

once, what does it matter

when or who, i knew

of love

i fixed my body

under his and went

to sleep in love

all trace of me

was wiped away

forgive me if i smile

young heiress of a naked dream

you are so young

and i too old to learn to love."


-Sonia Sanchez
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@Gemstoned. Glad you are happy and living a fairytale dream...

But sometimes love hurts and the person has no choice but to walk away regardless of AGE.

Glad you have a Taurus which with all that gem in you is quite a feat!!! Let's hope it works eternally right!!
It's not a fairy tale.. it's the truth. Now a days humans don't know how to deal with Long Term Relationships and choose the easiest route (Breaking Up / Leaving) Your SOUR self didn't get my Point. And Yip, I am indeed a Gemini and have ALL of these in Gemini but Self Control is EVERYTHING. Thank God I'm a Virgo Rising and have Saturn Capricorn, Uranus Capricorn & Neptune Capricorn.. My 5th House is Also in CAPRICORN... While having Mars in CANCER which is Fit for the old fashioned life style and Home Life, thanks in advance. My Grandmother is a Gemini and has been married for over 30 years, so signs have nothing to do with Long Term Relationships.. SELF CONTROL Does. Good day 🙂
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I think self control goes both ways. You can't make someone stay if they don't want to stay. To beg them to stay doesn't say much for your self esteem.

I would love the old fashion kind of love and would love to go through life with that special someone until the day I die. But unfortunately it didn't work that way. Doesn't mean that I gave up trying, it just mean that I haven't found someone who's prepared to do their all to keep it going, through the good times & the bad.

Relationship is hard and both people in the relationship must want to keep it going.