making amends with a bull (or two)

my two older sisters are both Taureans (and I'm the cancer baby).. they truly understand me and for that I love them to death.
but it seems like we're always having some type of falling out with each other.. if it's the three of us not talking to each other or two of us not talking to the other.. and right now it's the two against me.
I'd love to say I didn't do anything to piss them off, but apparently my own life choices as an individual seems to affect them greatly when it has nothing to do with them to begin with!

what's the deal with my bullheaded sisters? I can't ever tell if they're being protective of me or if they are intentionally trying to alienate me? maybe both.. who knows?! 🦇

I don't think that they are purposely trying to destroy you lol. But, bulls are extremely protective of family members. So, maybe they see something in your "life choice" that could potentially be problematic for you. I wish I had more of the story to go on. But, good luck. 🙂

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I don't think that they are purposely trying to destroy you lol. But, bulls are extremely protective of family members. So, maybe they see something in your "life choice" that could potentially be problematic for you. I wish I had more of the story to go on. But, good luck. 🙂

i see what you mean! the thing is all I'm asking if of their acceptance of my own choices (no matter the issue but it seems like every year it becomes more serious) -- i allow them the same-- accepting of the decisions they make though not completely understood... they don't 'owe' me that much but don't I deserve it? they say when I think that way I'm being selfish... which in turn becomes a whole other thing..lol i want to be okay with them but they expect some kind of apology from me, almost to say, "you should be sorry for not allowing us to intervene and make judgement on your personal life..." unconditional love.. that's all I want back! lol.

I see what you mean! And yeah that does seem a little off. Haha.But love you should never seek acceptance from anyone else but, yourself and Jesus if your religious. Lol they are your sisters, and they will just have to get used to you making your own life choices.

I know that sucks but, bulls need a little time go get used to things in general. So let them know you love them, and its okay that your ignoring me for now. But, also let them know that you are your own person. Bulls can be quite bossy. Just give it time. 🙂

acceptance.. I know... you're right, I always tell myself that I don't need their acceptance but for some reason I just yearn for it! and yes i agree, bulls are quite bossy.. and being the youngest, well IT SUCKS! lol

but thank you 🙂