My Bull

Hi I've read a lot of stuff on these message boards about Taurus and I'm pleased to find out that mine is fitting in right along with his norm but its really hard so please give me your prospective on this. He and I dated when we were in high school briefly apparently after I moved away he came looking for me even moved to the town I lived in but I was long gone. Then in 97 we seen each other again we were both married so there was nothing to even think about between us. Now in Sept of last year he found me on Facebook and was begging me to move back home so we could get to know each other. He sent me songs he wrote about us and love poems so I moved back I knew I loved him still I never did stop I have thought of him all these years and he me he even said he would think about making love to me when he made love to his wife. Anyway so now i'm back and when we seen each other the first time it was all over for me the second I looked into his eyes. He too seemed to feel the same then after a few more meetings and long talks n walks I told him I loved him and he told me too. Then stuff happened on facebook stupid stuff rumors and blah blah blah so we have been off and on and hes told me that he wasn't in love with me but he loves me... whatever that means. Every time we stopped talking he would always find some way to start talkin to me again. Send me texts or tell me this is why he can't be with me or soon and then said we should have a fresh start and get to know each other as friends first. So we try and it always comes to deep feelings and emotions between us. I finally seen him again after 3 months of not seeing him he stayed over and we talked all night long hours and hours till the morning then we made love and then talked more and more and then we passed out he was wrapped around me all night as we slept. We woke and it started again talking for hours then he left that evening. He is always talking about other girls texting and calling him I think maybe hes trying to make me jealous idk for sure why he would do that. He always asks me too ALWAYS if I have a date or why I don't stand up to him when we get into it. I always forgive him so easy and I just can't stay mad at him. When hes with me he always asks me what I am thinking... sometimes I tell him I'm thinking how much I love him others how happy I am that hes near me I'm a sucker for this man. He hasn't even let me know where he lives and its been like 5 months...

I have only seen him maybe 10 times in 5 months.. and when he was here I noticed he would barely look me in the eyes he kept pulling away but he kept touching me and talking to me and do you think maybe he just wants to be friends? He even wouldn't let me kiss him on his neck because he said I left a mark last time which he LOVES being kissed on the neck Also when he left after being at my place for almost 24 hours. I didn't mention this he did that he would come back over that night if I wanted him to and he didn't have his girls but he ended up having them so he didn't come but if he didn't want to he probably wouldn't have even mentioned it right? He has called me a few times since he was over the other day and text me but he just isn't letting anything about how he feels out of the bag. Like one day he text me about a month ago and told me he cant get me out of his head he has tried and even gone out with other girls but still if I want him then our love will be that much stronger. I brought that up when he was over and he said well I think I was drinking and he leaned over gave me a quick kiss and said I told you I love you but i'm not in love with you and then the subject changed. He always said how much he wants me and wants all of me and to have everything in life with me but here in the last couple weeks he just hasn't said much of anything about how he feels but if he didn't he wouldn't make love to me right? I am so darn confused!!! I love him so much I am so scared to say too much or not say enough to him

OMG now he just text me telling me about his new place and I quote.. " I think you might like it out here " do you think he is just messing with me? or do you think hes serious?

Taurus men are maddening! (to quote vb)

I'm sorry *hugs*. Wanna give up on 'em and date each other? 😛

^LOL

Seriously y'all I would like some honest feedback... I know Taurus men are maddening but I love him I have tried getting this man out of my mind but nothing works Thank you for your thoughts on the matter

Well, I hope a Taurus guy will answer you. But it sounds like he either doesn't trust you anymore , (not sure what the whole facebook issue was), or if he is recently divorced, he may just want to play the field for now and doesn't want to get into a serious relationship.

He was divorced in 09 2 years ago, the facebook thing was a bunch of jealous people telling him stupid things about me. He says no one else has a chance with him and that he dreams of me every night and yes I would love to hear from a Taurus man on this

Dang bulls and their "come here, come here, get away get away" stuff, sigh....

I finally asked him to tell me how he feels about me... He said " you know I think we should see where our friendship leads I loved sitting and talking to you and yes even waking up with you in my arms..." is he telling me he thinks this may lead to more than friends or what—

Hang on a second...

You don't know where he lives? Perhaps he has a girlfriend that he isn't telling you about.
He wouldn't ;et you kiss him on the neck because it left a mark? Perhaps he has a girlfriend he isn't telling you about.

Some guys just need to know that they have a woman waiting in the wings if he feels like moving out of the relationship he's already in: Perhaps YOU are that woman waiting in the wings.

Seriously, you're talking about feelings and whatnot but why? You see him hardly ever, you don't know where he lives - therefore he's never invited you to his home, you can't even kiss him on the neck, he's talking friendships and then filling your head with self-serving bollocks about "I can't stop thinking about you" etc etc. Sure, he MAY be thinking about you - but is head may also be with another woman.

Sheesh, don't be this guys bit on the side - he's either interested in something more with you, or he isnt. If he was he'd have made it clear instead of filling your head with crap words - and he'd show you by way of action that he was interested.

You may love him - but he isn't showing you much respect.

Respect yourself and tell him you won't be messed around, would like more from him and if he doesn't want more then you're out of there.

And mean it too.

I think he's getting pie elsewhere to be honest.

Dangling the carrot by way of words is a fantastic way to fuck with your head. Sounds like he has it down to a fine art.

In the back of my head I feel that he is involved with someone else... he tells me he has his own company nice cars n house n all this stuff then he always shows up in the piece of crapt cars his sisters he says or his moms truck and he talks big but never has proof of anything I have searched for his supposed company and I can't find it also he has multiple cell phones one he says is just for friends the other is only for work that he doesn't give the number out to as well as his home phone... I figure you are right about there is someone else I have just wanted so bad not to believe it. I'm stupid in love thats for sure... I told him today if we can't be together then i'm leaving state to find another job and he hasn't responded yet thanks for your thoughs NzAqua

And everytime he calls me hes not home hes always driving or at a store he never answers his phone when I call and he usually doesn't text or IM until really late at night... WOW I do feel like such an idiot He is really good at this game and I am so damn gullible One time he sent me this message that talked about how beautiful I was last night when I walked out of my house and blah blah well I text him and said wow guess that wasn't for me cuz I sure didn't see you last night then he said I didn't send you a message and I was like yep you did and then he said OH that was a song I wrote did you like it— OMG hindsight is 20/20 RIGHT? so i've turned my life completely upside down for this man and basically been a hermit staying home just waiting to talk to him online or for him to come see me with absolutely NO LIFE but I do believe its time to move on... So all you ladies out there dating a Taurus... BEWARE they can be very deceiteful... I felt like hiring a private investigator to find out what is really going on with him to give myself closure but I don't think hes worth that 150 to tell you the truth... I hope he is madly in love with me and thinks about me every single day for the rest of his life HA HA HAAAA

Ok so I finally got my answer... I went out of town for a couple days and he conveniently came by so he said when I was gone which he knew I was gone. So I text him and he never said one word after he said he came by for like 5 days which was unusual he usual talks to me within a couple days so finally Saturday night I text him and said what is the deal.. He text me back and said I don't know what you are talking about well he finally told me "I'm with the love of my life and the one I wanna grow old with" and to leave him alone. He went on acting like he didn't even know who I was and on and on. I guess I knew in the back of my mind that this was what was going on but I just didn't want to believe it. I'm so heartbroken and pissed that he played with my feelings like that.

I'm sorry about your Taurus..it seems he wants to date women and doesn't want to settle down just yet...as Dreamer said, it sounds like the gf texted you back. Very rarely would a guy say "Leave me alone, I've met the love of my life." He is playing the field and loving it. Shame on him for stringing you along.