Need a little help understanding the Taurus man

Hi! So
1. Can you all explain his chart to me please, what's his personality like based on the chart? I'm still learning lol


Sun Taurus
Moon Taurus
Mercury Gemini
Venus Gemini
Mars Aquarius
Jupiter Taurus
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Leo
Asc. Pisces


2. I met my bull almost 6 months ago. I really like him, thought he felt the same. I screwed up a few weeks ago, now I think he's done. He still likes to hang out(we saw each other for the first time since I screwed up only a few days ago) he said the situation is different between us now and we don't talk as often. Do Taurus men ever change their mind? Can get him to open up and make him feel reassured, all that other good stuff if I just show him I still care, do nice things for him, no drama,be affectionate, etc.?

Posted by leodilemma19900730
Hi! So
1. Can you all explain his chart to me please, what's his personality like based on the chart? I'm still learning lol


Sun Taurus
Moon Taurus
Mercury Gemini
Venus Gemini
Mars Aquarius
Jupiter Taurus
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Leo
Asc. Pisces


2. I met my bull almost 6 months ago. I really like him, thought he felt the same. I screwed up a few weeks ago, now I think he's done. He still likes to hang out(we saw each other for the first time since I screwed up only a few days ago) he said the situation is different between us now and we don't talk as often. Do Taurus men ever change their mind? Can get him to open up and make him feel reassured, all that other good stuff if I just show him I still care, do nice things for him, no drama,be affectionate, etc.?

I didn't cheat FYI! Lol

Posted by INTJBull
Cheating isn't the only thing that makes a Taurus back off 🙂 I have high standards for people, so again, it depends on what the infraction was. Whatever it was, was it a one time thing or habitual? Did you lie, are you untrustworthy, are you flaky & flighty, play a bunch of head games etc..... Some characteristics of people I know will not mesh well with me, doesn't mean I dislike them as a person overall, it just means they may get put into a different category. IE: This person will be fine for a friend/associate but they aren't suitable for dating/relationship. I don't typically change my mind about what category they've been placed once I decide where they belong.

Example: I have a friend who really liked me & wanted to pursue a relationship but I discovered that he drinks too much & I know that isn't a lifestyle that would mesh well with mine so even though I really like him as a person, he was placed into the friendzone. He can't come out.

Just made him mad, but REALLY mad :/ but we talked and it seemed like it came down to communication but regardless it still happened. We've had a rocky last 2 months with us doing tit for tat with each other. I actually haven't told him how I really felt. I mean he knows I like him but I never said that I wanted to be more with him as in exclusive.

Posted by leodilemma19900730

Posted by INTJBull
Cheating isn't the only thing that makes a Taurus back off 🙂 I have high standards for people, so again, it depends on what the infraction was. Whatever it was, was it a one time thing or habitual? Did you lie, are you untrustworthy, are you flaky & flighty, play a bunch of head games etc..... Some characteristics of people I know will not mesh well with me, doesn't mean I dislike them as a person overall, it just means they may get put into a different category. IE: This person will be fine for a friend/associate but they aren't suitable for dating/relationship. I don't typically change my mind about what category they've been placed once I decide where they belong.

Example: I have a friend who really liked me & wanted to pursue a relationship but I discovered that he drinks too much & I know that isn't a lifestyle that would mesh well with mine so even though I really like him as a person, he was placed into the friendzone. He can't come out.

Just made him mad, but REALLY mad :/ but we talked and it seemed like it came down to communication but regardless it still happened. We've had a rocky last 2 months with us doing tit for tat with each other. I actually haven't told him how I really felt. I mean he knows I like him but I never said that I wanted to be more with him as in exclusive.

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Oh a little more detail about my infraction,apparently he thought I was trying to be a jerk to him when I saw him out in public because I was trying to show off in front of my friend, I wasn't, I thought he was just trying to be a screwing with me/being a jerk as well. So like I said it was a misunderstanding but he was SOOO angry. The most vulnerable and emotional I have ever seen him because he never displays his emotions.

Posted by INTJBull
It usually takes a lot to make a Taurus REALLY mad, where they actually show it. If there's been a lot of tit for tat arguments & miscommunication in the past I would assume that that would continue into the future & would probably let go of the possibility of a relationship. Taurus wants stability & peacefulness. Sometimes people just speak different languages & it becomes burdensome & frustrating to be misunderstood. I expect some arguments but it should be few & far between & easily settled by being open & honest. As a Taurus, I want love to be nice & easy, not a constant battle.

I recently ended things with a Aries that I had been seeing off & on for quite awhile, who I adore. I wanted it to work out so bad but we just can't communicate. Everything between us was a misunderstanding & it was just too much to deal with because I knew it would never be fixed. I am who I am & he is who he is.

:/ I just didn't think that he really cared because he never showed anything. So now that I've recognized the problem (seems to be a lot of communication) I can't just still hang out with him, give that stability and affection and kind of wear him down over time?

Also, can you explain his chart too me please?

Posted by leodilemma19900730

Posted by INTJBull
It usually takes a lot to make a Taurus REALLY mad, where they actually show it. If there's been a lot of tit for tat arguments & miscommunication in the past I would assume that that would continue into the future & would probably let go of the possibility of a relationship. Taurus wants stability & peacefulness. Sometimes people just speak different languages & it becomes burdensome & frustrating to be misunderstood. I expect some arguments but it should be few & far between & easily settled by being open & honest. As a Taurus, I want love to be nice & easy, not a constant battle.

I recently ended things with a Aries that I had been seeing off & on for quite awhile, who I adore. I wanted it to work out so bad but we just can't communicate. Everything between us was a misunderstanding & it was just too much to deal with because I knew it would never be fixed. I am who I am & he is who he is.

:/ I just didn't think that he really cared because he never showed anything. So now that I've recognized the problem (seems to be a lot of communication) I can't just still hang out with him, give that stability and affection and kind of wear him down over time?

Also, can you explain his chart too me please?

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*to me

Posted by leodilemma19900730

Posted by INTJBull
It usually takes a lot to make a Taurus REALLY mad, where they actually show it. If there's been a lot of tit for tat arguments & miscommunication in the past I would assume that that would continue into the future & would probably let go of the possibility of a relationship. Taurus wants stability & peacefulness. Sometimes people just speak different languages & it becomes burdensome & frustrating to be misunderstood. I expect some arguments but it should be few & far between & easily settled by being open & honest. As a Taurus, I want love to be nice & easy, not a constant battle.

I recently ended things with a Aries that I had been seeing off & on for quite awhile, who I adore. I wanted it to work out so bad but we just can't communicate. Everything between us was a misunderstanding & it was just too much to deal with because I knew it would never be fixed. I am who I am & he is who he is.

:/ I just didn't think that he really cared because he never showed anything. So now that I've recognized the problem (seems to be a lot of communication) I can't just still hang out with him, give that stability and affection and kind of wear him down over time?

Also, can you explain his chart too me please?

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Sorry I can't seem to write today! Lol *seems to be a lot of miscommunication*

My friend's said I give off a vibe for the most part that I'm not interested in being more, like boyfriend girlfriend more so he just chalked it up to it not being more.

He probably doesn't give a shit!

The other comment about communication styles is important and I agree that if something is too hard and it is too hard to work at then it probably isn't going to get any better and it probably isn't meant to be. As harsh or as sad as that may be it is a very good point. A constant battle ground isn't good for anyone.

Posted by AgentP911
He probably doesn't give a shit!

The other comment about communication styles is important and I agree that if something is too hard and it is too hard to work at then it probably isn't going to get any better and it probably isn't meant to be. As harsh or as sad as that may be it is a very good point. A constant battle ground isn't good for anyone.

That's what I was thinking too but I live two hours away and he asked me if I wanted him to see me when he came down this way. Unless I'm looking too much into that being a decent sign lol

We you can keep it civil and meet up with the fella. As long as he doesn't start pissing about with cancellations and all that then there's no harm in seeing each other and maybe clearing the air. You're not going to really be able to do it any other way.

Posted by AgentP911
We you can keep it civil and meet up with the fella. As long as he doesn't start pissing about with cancellations and all that then there's no harm in seeing each other and maybe clearing the air. You're not going to really be able to do it any other way.

Yea that's what I was thinking... The last month we haven't had a chance to just really relax and enjoy each other's company... It's been a lot of talking about us and confusion because we equally give each other mixed signals... I think we may be just need to go back to the basics and enjoy each other again and stop having serious conversations? Lol

Yeah I think people often forget to live in the moment as they're always too concerned with the future but you don't get to the future unless you get the right here, right now moments correct.

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Posted by AgentP911
We you can keep it civil and meet up with the fella. As long as he doesn't start pissing about with cancellations and all that then there's no harm in seeing each other and maybe clearing the air. You're not going to really be able to do it any other way.

Yea that's what I was thinking... The last month we haven't had a chance to just really relax and enjoy each other's company... It's been a lot of talking about us and confusion because we equally give each other mixed signals... I think we may be just need to go back to the basics and enjoy each other again and stop having serious conversations? Lol

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going back to basics might help. i think you should try and establish a really good, solid friendship first. from what i have seen, taurus move slowly and often seek out a someone if there is a strong friendship at its base. if that is there, misunderstandings can be worked out in the future because they are more likely to want to work things out rather than immediately placing you in a category that is hard to get out of. it takes the pressure off to see if you are actually compatible without confusing it with romantic feelings.

the obstacle with this is that the wait can be frustrating if you are at a stage where they are yet to be. take your time, if there is something there to move the relationship forward, being friends for a while won't hurt.

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Posted by AgentP911
We you can keep it civil and meet up with the fella. As long as he doesn't start pissing about with cancellations and all that then there's no harm in seeing each other and maybe clearing the air. You're not going to really be able to do it any other way.

Yea that's what I was thinking... The last month we haven't had a chance to just really relax and enjoy each other's company... It's been a lot of talking about us and confusion because we equally give each other mixed signals... I think we may be just need to go back to the basics and enjoy each other again and stop having serious conversations? Lol

going back to basics might help. i think you should try and establish a really good, solid friendship first. from what i have seen, taurus move slowly and often seek out a someone if there is a strong friendship at its base. if that is there, misunderstandings can be worked out in the future because they are more likely to want to work things out rather than immediately placing you in a category that is hard to get out of. it takes the pressure off to see if you are actually compatible without confusing it with romantic feelings.

the obstacle with this is that the wait can be frustrating if you are at a stage where they are yet to be. take your time, if there is something there to move the relationship forward, being friends for a while won't hurt.

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Yea only a month ago he said he wanted more with me. I just kind of smiled and nodded, which my friend's said came off like I wasn't interested. I'm just a little upset that he went from that to now saying the situation between us isn't the same 😢

I don't know I'm just hoping to show him a drama free relaxed good time side now that I've recognized the miscommunication issue...I hope it works :/

Posted by leodilemma19900730


Yea only a month ago he said he wanted more with me. I just kind of smiled and nodded, which my friend's said came off like I wasn't interested. I'm just a little upset that he went from that to now saying the situation between us isn't the same 😢

I don't know I'm just hoping to show him a drama free relaxed good time side now that I've recognized the miscommunication issue...I hope it works :/

i don't know what it is but something just smells off here. how much were you talking before you had your communication breakdown? it seems like there is more at play than you indicated you weren't interest.

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Yea only a month ago he said he wanted more with me. I just kind of smiled and nodded, which my friend's said came off like I wasn't interested. I'm just a little upset that he went from that to now saying the situation between us isn't the same 😢

I don't know I'm just hoping to show him a drama free relaxed good time side now that I've recognized the miscommunication issue...I hope it works :/

i don't know what it is but something just smells off here. how much were you talking before you had your communication breakdown? it seems like there is more at play than you indicated you weren't interest.

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Oh sorry by miscommunication I mean when he got really mad at me, there was a misunderstanding between us due to miscommuication. Simply it seems like he thought I was trying to be a jerk and I thought he was too when we had seen each other and he got extremely angry with me. That's what I mean. I hope that clarifies things. As far as communicating, it slowed down a bit because it seemed he retreated because he kept thinking I was talking to other guys (I wasn't) like he would ask who I was texting, lean into my phone to sneak a peak, and would ask if I was going to hang out with a guy I used to date. He kept saying he didn't care but just wanted to know because he just wanted to know, but I think he was lying, not sure though. So he was just get hold and cold after that. He would ask to see me all the time before hand, then he said he wanted more with me, then he got cold, then this miscommunication/misunderstanding between us thing happened where he got very angry with me and now saying the situation between us is different. I hope this is what you're looking for.

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Yea only a month ago he said he wanted more with me. I just kind of smiled and nodded, which my friend's said came off like I wasn't interested. I'm just a little upset that he went from that to now saying the situation between us isn't the same 😢

I don't know I'm just hoping to show him a drama free relaxed good time side now that I've recognized the miscommunication issue...I hope it works :/

i don't know what it is but something just smells off here. how much were you talking before you had your communication breakdown? it seems like there is more at play than you indicated you weren't interest.

And especially with your friend. 😐

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Yea, which makes me curious to learn more about his chart but I'm still new to this. Could you explain his chart to me? It would definitely be appreciated!

i might be completely wrong here but (going out on a limb) could it be he has met someone else?

(i mean his venus is in gemini...just saying)

Posted by jeane
i might be completely wrong here but (going out on a limb) could it be he has met someone else?

(i mean his venus is in gemini...just saying)

I mean with these situations you never know 100% so there's always a possibility. What does venus in gemini mean?
I mean if he did meat someone else why even still want to hang out and ask when he comes to my city do I want him to come see me? When he got angry with me he got very angry, I've never seen him show that much emotion before. And if he did meet someone else why even get angry over me? He said the situation between us is different now 2 weeks after being really angry with me because he didn't even want to talk to me after he got so mad and he usually never shows that much emotion. It actually blew my mind lol because he's usually so calm collected and guarded but this time he made this huge scene in public that's how angry he was.

Oh and I forgot to add two months into seeing/knowing each other he found out that I was dating other guys as well. We had no commitment so I wanted to keep my options open, but after he found out he started to withdraw then which would explain the hot and cold and constant asking about my old boyfriend and wanting to know who I was texting.