Need Help from the Older Taurus Gentleman

Its been awhile since I have posted on this board.....as I mentioned in prior boards I met this really nice and sensitive Taurus Gent...he has really opened up to me in the last several months...has shown a little possesiveness in our friendship...because he just broke up with someone who he was in a relationship with for about 5 years, I am a little gun shy about jumping in...(I am a Scorp - Taurus Rising). We get along great and sometimes even finish each other's sentences...I know that when I first started to talk to him I made it clear that the last thing he need was another girlfriend, but I did tell him that I was more than willing to be a special friend to him...he does include me in many things, asks my opinion on just about everything...he's a very special person to me, he feels very comfortable with me but he is going through alot...he works in the same building as his ex, he has moved out, got his own place, he wanted to make sure that I knew this and made sure yesterday that I knew that he had totally moved out...when I ask him what happened in this relationship he just says that there were many things that tore at it but the worst was her substance abuse....I think something else happened and he's not that comforatble telling me at this time...I know I really need to stop babbling...I just don't want to lose him as a friend and I fear that if I get involved something is going to happen because he is quite stubborn and so I am, but he is also very sensitive and considerate...I guess I just want to know the way to his heart....please help

Can you cook? I think he would appreciate a nice meal. Invite him over for supper and set a nice table and you guys can talk. Who doesnt like food? He might be keeping his problems to himself so as not to bother you or sound like a complainer. Maybe you can open the door a little by asking if he is ok now. I personally would not get involved in a rebound relationship. How can you just be friends? Dont you want more if he is willing to provide it??

I agree! You should cook for him. Taurus men like that. I have a taurus man. Please give them time to get over the past relationship because he may be saying he's over it, but he probably isn't. Mine had trouble with that for a while. They have to work at their own speed which is very slow. They love to make love a lot and show lots of affection to him. Let him know you care and will help him with anything. He will like that. They like their women to dress to kill, meaning very sexy or flamboyant. Not slutty. He actually likes it when men hit on you. He can be possessive as you said, but he likes to know that he has a great looking woman. I hope this helps you. That's the way to the taurus man's heart from my experience. Good Luck!

One more thing, they like their women to be a lady in the day and a whore in the bedroom. If you get my drift. Not exactly a bad thing.

It's funny that you mentioned cooking for him...yesterday he told me that once he is totally moved in (which should be by the end of this month) he wants to invite me over for dinner....caught me by surprise....I really want to show him my affectionate side but I am so scared where is heart and mind are now that I don't want to scare him off.....he always says things to me like ..."I have to fill this void I have in my life", he has even confessed to me that when he met his ex they moved in together about 2 months after they started seeing each other...he even admits that it was too fast....I can be very affectionate and sexy, but right now, where are friendship is, I don't think I should be showing that side of me...I don't know...I just really concerned because this is the first time in my life I have wanted to really get to know someone and be their friend, I mean a true friend, before anything else...usually lust takes over and we all know what happens then..not that it's not with this one, he has the smoldering sexiness about him, real earthly if you know what I mean, but I know when it does happen we are not going to be able to keep our hands off each other....oh well, I guess I just take it one day at a time.....its like you said twinkee, they work at their own speed....one thing I do want to ask you, being a Scorp, do you think it's a good idea to be aloof with him...?