capricornstrong
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Need help with the ignoring stage of the bullman
I did apologize as I feel horrible. I do try to reach out to him but he doesnt reach out back. He did pick up the phone when I did call but it was a very short call and of course no call back. Its been a week and he is not budging. Its crazy because its my normal behavior to shut down and ignore(not him). But never had it happen to me before so not sure how to handle this. I do send him a daily text to check in but no response so I am about to stop those. Not sure what to do as I am thinking he is done with me since its only been a few months verses years of history. I really am into him and do want him as a part of my life. Never met anyone more stubborn then myself before lol. Any advice on how to handle? Also he has a venus in gemeni which is a bit scary to me but a mars in capricorn which is less scary for me.
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Its crazy because its my normal behavior to shut down and ignore(not him). But never had it happen to me before so not sure how to handle this.
Doesn't feel good to be on the receiving end, does it?
LoL. I know how you feel about being ignored.
If the two of you really have a connection then he should come back around when he's ready. Cant say the dynamics will be the same though. If he's hurt enough to kind of disappear and take a break then this fallout will be a memory that will probably stick with him, and you will have to regain that place where you once were...if possible. Im no Taurus but its been my experience with one.
If the two of you really have a connection then he should come back around when he's ready. Cant say the dynamics will be the same though. If he's hurt enough to kind of disappear and take a break then this fallout will be a memory that will probably stick with him, and you will have to regain that place where you once were...if possible. Im no Taurus but its been my experience with one.
Thanks for your replies apprecite them. And spicensugar no it doesnt but we all learn life lessons.
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Some back story:Been dating for a few months and we get along really well. Our charts are compatible minus the fact I dont know the time of birth. We have extreme chemistry and connect on an emotional level. We were friends before we started with each other. Have some of the same circle of friends. He was persuing me for a bit but I did not realize until a few days before he made his move.
Neither of us were looking for a relationship me just becoming suddenly single after almost a two decade marriage and him getting hurt several times. He is younger then me in his late 20s and im in my 30s. However after about two weeks that quickly changed we still did not want titles but we ok if it led to a relationship. He started to tell me that he had feelings for me. That he loved being with me, around me, loves this and that etc. Pet names started, pda, extreme affection, together almost everyday, periods of days when we didnt leave each others side. I can tell he cares. He also does things for me and tries to take care of me in little ways. Being a cap I am very independent however I have had several recent tradegies so im a bit of an emotional cap right now.
I am surprised I let him in so quickly normally I am very guarded truthfully my husband was the only other man I let in. The others I would date for like a month and get rid of them. I would always know in a short period of time if I could be with someone. This one just came in and swooped me off my feet bit of a shock to me really especially because of my circumstances.
Anyhow fast forward we just had are first real arguement it was started because of some drama going on in our circle which trickled to us something really messed up happen and I had to react on someone because the drama came at me. You know us caps not s@@@ starters but we will react quickly when you mess with us. So a few days later tension still high we had an arguement about something that had to do with an ex of his and it had somewhat to do with the previous drama. Me being already pissed about the situation I let my attitude get the best of me instead of approaching the subject calmly. Really snapped on him and I did drag it out a bit. When I angered I dont use my head to well always disliked that about me but thankfully that doesnt come out usually unless provoked.
I did apologize as I feel horrible. I do try to reach out to him but he doesnt reach out back. He did pick up the