Not sure...

My Taurus and I have been trying to work things out....we went to counseling and even got a place together.

I must admit that I ( the cancer) struggled with letting go of the past and caused a few blow ups...

But lately I am starting to feel almost paranoid, and anxious.

Not sure if Taurus is truly happy with me. Things seem to feel a bit dead.....She says it isnt me...and gets upset when I ask if it is. She tells me im her person and she loves me, but the softer sweeter side of her is gone....

I know shes struggling with weight ( but too stubborn to listen to me or eat the better foods I offer and suggest)

Struggling with mother issues (as a lesbian) and bringing her to our place.....(her mother is old school and very involved with church)

We just moved, and money is tight.

And the commute is longer and were adjusting.

I feel as her dishonesty, the fighting, has changed us....

But I'm confused with my paranoia vs intuition... If shes unhappy why move? Why stay? But if you don't want to leave why no more efforts into the relationship?

Posted by tiziani

Well it's a lot of outside pressure having no money and moving in together at once. That's one thing.

The second thing is if I shared how I feel and I was asked again if I felt differently, I'd lose the will to talk.

Or, just don't want the emotional stress of "talking" this Taurus isn't a talker.

if you want to be happy with your bull - CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY WITH YOUR BULL

also is your bull tells you things are fine, take them by their word and give then the benefit of the doubt.

worry about things that are more crystal clear and not just what your mind is making up to freak you our.

control your state of mind and choose to be happy and optimistic moving forward.

your mind is a powerful thing.