@copperhead
20 YearsTaurus
Preference
Fair point about the chandelier swinging!
In the long run I'd go for no. 1 too, although the second option can be fun as well! ;p
Iv'e had number 2 and it sucks lol! I would rather have a combination of both but if I had to pick it would be #1.
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Which would you prefer?
1. A relationship that was comfortable, caring and it felt like the other person was your best friend but the sex was infrequent and you weren't swinging from the chandeliers as it were.
2. A relationship that was passionate and with a sex life that pushed all your buttons but wasn't very stable and comfortable.
Obviously, the best relationships have both, but I've had experience of both of these and I've worked out that when I have one, I want the other! Lol