Taurus Male

Know ur Boy Friend The natural inclination of Taurean man at dawn is to force himself out of the bed he cherishes so much. But that's the only bit of forcing he'll do, particularly in any relationship. If he wants you then you have to be the one to chase him, but the move will be welcomed. A Taurean male won't actually make many advances and stubbornly waits for those who are worthy of his incredible sensual attention to come running. For all this laid-back man-appeal it may appear that sex means little to him. But actually that's the catch.

The Taurean male's quite seething sexuality, once unleashed on an unsuspecting female who decides to consider him as her partner, can be quite overtly bestial. He thinks as highly of his body as he does of the next meal or the next bath. He loves the pleasures and luxuries of life and is essentially an implacable part of the earth, intensely sensual, and dependable. He is an Earth sign whose energy and sexual drive originates from all that natural organic goodness that ironically he rarely eats. There's actually something quite elusive about Taurean's. You can never quite fathom out where they've come from, or really exactly where they are going to, probably because they really have no idea, nor care about it themselves. This is why it can take a long time to form a deep relationship with a Bull. If you do get past the horns, this affair could be for life. The placid Bull needs gentle handling, both emotionally and sexually. The trouble is that Mr. Bull is often very blind to his own compatibility ratings. He is lured by, and hopelessly attracted to, Fire and Air signs.

The Taurean Man often gets tangled up with the Airy intellect or impulsive brainstorming of these very opposite types from him. He just can't keep up with the mind-bending improvisation that these signs so naturally use to charm their way through life. The Taurus man is warm-hearted and affectionate, and he is intensely passionate. But he is a lover of the pleasures of life, a hedonist in every selfindulgence, and every luxury. Sex is a good, basic pleasure which he enjoys as part of a deep and erotic relationship. If after a heavy night of wining and dining he prefers to sleep off the last glass of brandy rather than spend the night with you, it's not that he's selfish, just that he forgot you for a while. After all, there are other sensual things in his life apart from sex, had you forgotten that?

Cautious by nature, he doesn't jump into anything without plenty of forethought. Even if he takes you by surprise, you can be assured that the intention was there way before you knew it. Underneath a sometimes reserve, he is warm, generous and teaming with earthy passion. A fan of all the pleasures life has to offer, he is often security conscious and dedicated to seeing the fruits of his labor.

When in love, he is loyal, protective and dedicated - a desirable partner for anyone who values a traditional relationship. However, if you think you are going to change this man, think again. He takes the award when it comes to being stubborn, with inflexible habits firmly rooted in strong soil. He can be a bit old fashioned, so asking him out first might take him off guard. It may be best to show your interest, but let him do the asking. Sometimes he is slow to get the idea. Brush up on your flirting skills - but don't be too aggressive. This man loves warm congenial company, tasteful ambiance and home cooked food. If he knows that you made a special effort to please him, it will bring out the best in him. If you can offer an evening that involves all, or any of these aspects, its a good start. Easily aroused and highly sexual, this man does not like to be teased. It is best not to start something you are not ready to finish, unless you make the boundaries very clear. Don't change your moods, your looks, or your attitudes and never try to change him either.

Your Sexual side Taurus, the Earth Goddess is by far the most sensual of the signs. Taurus has a passionate nature and a strong sex drive. Taureans make an art of lovemaking. Their touch is tender and gentle. They have huge sexual appetite and their sexual nature is direct and uncomplicated. Taureans make an art of lovemaking. Their touch is tender and gentle.

Their sexual nature is direct and uncomplicated. Taurus lover takes his own time with everything and is slow to turn on. Tender and steady caresses of hand and physical stimulation excite Taurus lover being an earthy sign. The Taurean is a creature of enormous sensuality. They are happiest when all their senses are being titillated at the same time. Body contact is important and Taureans are big on hugs, kisses and caresses. The Taurean sexuality also has a strongly procreative dimension. Taureans like a stable, orderly life and are renowned for possessiveness; an active sex life is usually part of an ongoing partnership. Taureans are happiest when having sex in their own bed or in natural surroundings that are comfortable.

You've put your last coin into the Coke machine and the damn thing's not giving you your drink. You're taking the rubbish out and the bin bag splits spilling a week' worth of wrappers into the street. You need help! The Taurean is always the first to volunteer for that tricky or dirty job. If you want to seduce a Taurus then be loyal and a good listener, always be encouraging about their work projects, show you have a sensual side, and always check out this dream lover's favorite music and food. Headstrong Bulls are most comfortable when they?re in control, but sometimes a little provocation can bring out their best.

Taureans have a great sense of humour so amaze them with your wit. Taureans are also show offs, often experimenting with their looks ? compliment their fabulous dress sense. At first a Taurus may come across as stubborn but there's a soft side to that bull. When they give in to you, they're all yours. Artistic Taureans love good food, drink, theatre and dancing, so splash some cash and make that a three course meal, champagne, a play and then on to a club for some raving and misbehaving.

Devil in You Sometimes the Taurus man or woman is a bit too stubborn. He won't listen to other points of view if his mind is set on something. To others, this can be quite annoying. Taurus also does not like to be told what to do. He becomes rather angry if others think him not too bright. He does not like to be told he is wrong, even when he is. He dislikes being contradicted. Some people who are born under this sign are very suspicious of others--even of those persons close to them. They find it difficult to trust people fully. They are often afraid of being deceived or taken advantage of. The Bull often finds it difficult to forget or forgive. His love of material things sometimes makes him rather avaricious and petty.

geez...

i guess my little bull's ongoing flirtation must have taken place with a fire or air sign girl...

"He is lured by, and hopelessly attracted to, Fire and Air signs."


Great. But if he wants stability.. then an Earth or Water sign is where it's at. Thnx!!

Thats right! Once they get their heart broken by a fire or air sign they need that water to get things flowing again or a earth sign to get them back on solid ground. But yep thats pretty much my bull down to the T. I just love my Taurus man!

I am starting to fall for one myself... Yes the splashes of water on that earth is refreshing!!!

"But that's the only bit of forcing he'll do, particularly in any relationship. If he wants you then you have to be the one to chase him, but the move will be welcomed."

Is this true— I met a Taurus male recently (I'm a scorpio) and I am definitely interested but he hasn't made any moves 😢 This is inspite of the the fact that he's said point blank that he thought I was very attractive and fun to hang out with.. He's recently single.. no idea if his ex is a fire or air sign.. wouldn't be surprised though.. Ahk! Any suggestions on how to court a Taurus Male? Or would he be doing the pursuing if he were truly interested?

***I met a Taurus male recently (I'm a scorpio) and I am definitely interested but he hasn't made any moves This is inspite of the the fact that he's said point blank that he thought I was very attractive and fun to hang out with.. He's recently single.. no idea if his ex is a fire or air sign.. wouldn't be surprised though.. Ahk! Any suggestions on how to court a Taurus Male? Or would he be doing the pursuing if he were truly interested?***

Me too, mine has expressed his interest. However we live 2 hours away from eachother and have yet to go on a real date. We lost contact for awhile and when we finally caught back up he asked, "you didn't go off and get married on me did you." I told him, almost. LOL!!! He knew I was joking. Anyway. We hung out a couple times with a group of friends, but before we lost contact we started talking more frequently and planning to go on a date. When we reconnected a few weeks ago he was supposed to come see me one weekend and we both had to reschedule, then this past weekend he caught the flu. We shall see.

Funny, he has even started calling me nicknames like, baby, little momma. by the way he is 6'4 and I am 5'4. His body is awesome and he is fine. He was on the calendar of the Illinois 2006 most eligible bachelor's calender... Ooooohh. Very successful and influential in his city. A thinker at best and a real go getter. I love those things about him.

Get it! My Taurus is 6'7 love his statue, I'm 5'4 as well. Oh wait I think you know who my Taurus is. Keep lips sealed please! Thanks in advance lol. How did you meet your bull?

Ooh QueenScorpio sounds like this guy has got you hooked 😄! Sounds like a great guy though. The guy I'm interested in... I don't even know. I could gush about him but I really dont want to b/c that might just perpetuate my crush on him.. which I'm sorta trying to shake :-/ It is interesting though. When I ran into him at another event I told him how I had a get together with some friends and he asked why I didn't invite him. I felt like saying - B/c I can't tell if you're interested! ARGH! But that would have been weird... so I just made something up...

Its interesting I've read a few posts about Taurus men, especially Taurus Male/Scorpio female and the dynamic seems exactly the same! Scorpio Girl meets Taurus Boy. Scorpio thinks Taurus is adorable. Taurus boy acts extremely interested but never follows up. Scorpio girl becomes obsessed to figure Taurus boy out... and on and on. If Taurus/Scorpio are supposed to be good opposite signs, why so many issues?

I don't know though.. I've always been told that when a man wants you, you know it - i.e. he chases. Maybe Taurus is drawn to a lot of things about Scorpios but for some reason it just doesn't "click" correctly. Or maybe he wants to be chased down which I don't do well. Or maybe they are really slow to move and need to test the waters a lot.. a lot a lot. Ha!

I was going to chalk up this guys' inaction to being young - he's in his early 20s... but it seems like standard behavior for Taurus.


OH and about the harem thing! There were a few girls that came his way during one social event and they seemed really interested but he seemed to be really distant with them.. I wondered if they had had a "fling" or something in the past.. or now!

Sigh! Damn you Taurus and your slow slow ways! Or are you just confusing? Or are you not sure? Or are you not interested? Ha!

Oh and the Taurus I speak of is 6'4 and I'm 5'4!!!! Weeeird..

Uhhhh, cancerlady... Oh yeah, I think I do... He resembled an ex libra of mine. LOL!!!

We met through a group of friends hanging out. Someone who knew someone. A friend of a friend, of a friend...

Oh cool. Yep when you assumbed you knew who he was I took his pic off because I didn't know if anyone else would know who he was. Yep them bulls gotta love em!

***Ooh QueenScorpio sounds like this guy has got you hooked 😄! Sounds like a great guy though.***

Not yet, we haven't had our real first date yet, just been around eachother in a group. We talk daily though. We live 2 hours away. We can mostly see eachothr on weekends. Every other weekend (I have my daughter alternate weekends then she is with her Libran dad the other weekend). The last two times he was supposed to come didn't work for us the first time - last minute. This past weekend he caught the flu and we talked as he had the chills and fever. 😢 I didn't want to get sick or I would have went to him. His brother caught it from him.

***Oh and the Taurus I speak of is 6'4 and I'm 5'4!!!! Weeeird..***

Hold on!!! Wait one minute!!! Do you have a crush on - - - - - - - ? LOL!!! To much of a coincident. I am going to have to watch you! LOL!!!

A new libra friend of mine, just got engaged to a Bull last weekend!!! He plays for the NFL.

Cancerlady, oh, I know who he is, but I don't know him personally. LOL!!!

PM me who you think it is...

Haha! Now wouldn't that be crazy. Its great that you guys talk everyday! There is no way that the Taurus and I would talk unless one of us initiated and uh.. looks like I'd have to be the one to do it..

I knoooowwww. What number is his—— Where did you meet him, probably at a g...... 😉

I read somewhere that this month and next month is a time when a lot of Bulls will be popping the question! again, weird.. Now if I can only remember where I read it..

I won't be one being popped the question too though... Too early. I just got out of a marriage. Whew.

Heck yes I'm waiting on my ring as we speak!Ok queen I think you know, how long were your friend and her bull dating before they got engaged?

"if there is one thing I can tell scorps about taurus is too be careful about what you say to us."

Uh oh. Maybe I should run the other way then. I'm still working on being more "positive." It's not that I don't see the positive in people, but I always think people can better themselves and so I point that out... some people take it negatively though.. And I made fun of the taurus I know a few times :-X

Why would they ask you when they can ask me, I'm the only one on this board that has tamed her bull. lol just kidding with you.

"Uh oh. Maybe I should run the other way then. I'm still working on being more "positive." It's not that I don't see the positive in people, but I always think people can better themselves and so I point that out... some people take it negatively though.. And I made fun of the taurus I know a few times :-X"

Defiantly a no no. A taurus does not liked to be rediculed about anything that they do, major turn off.

Cancerlady they were dating 1 year only.... I know, he is insane about her. I met him through a friend of mine he went to college with and her one night out with my friend to meet them. She is a very nice person. They deserve eachother. Two very good people.

Oooooh and the way he did it was classic. It was a whole day of romantic antics leading up to the proposal that evening.

Cancerlady, how long have you known your super star bull?

*** I always think people can better themselves and so I point that out... some people take it negatively though.. And I made fun of the taurus I know a few times :-X***

Funny I just accept people for who they are, if I can't live with it I don't. But then again. I have been mostly involved with Librans. That stuff kinda rubs off on you.

It'll be two yrs in Dec. Something happened with his ex girlfriend that he had to deal with so that kinda prolonged our relationship not to mention what he does for a living but from a couple of little birdies that he's friends with has threw hints at me that he's planning to pop the question so I'm just trying to be patient and not dewell on it too much but its hard especially when you are in love.

Cancerlady, I sure hope it happens soon. congrats!!! Where did you guys meet?

My chart is fulll of air and fire. It is in my profile. Sag, leo aqua, libra, mostly

Luckystar, are you a libra? I can't remember.

"and astrologer say we are easy to read, like a nursey rhyme."

This is true! A bull can be tamed you just have to know how to understand and relate to them. I have tamed my bull! It can be done lol

LoL @ cancer

Totally agree with you.

Go CL!

Congrats Queen and Cancer Lady!! Sounds like I need to hook my Cancer mom up with a Taurean!!

My boyfriend is also Taurus, and I'm Capricorn. We're both hard workers so we hardly see each other and/or stay in touch, but there is just something that keeps the both of us 'there.' Stability? Who knows? This topic is a wakeup call to me to be a little more assertive/aggressive. He has mostly fire and air in his chart, and I have mostly water, so he's the one making all the moves. But I don't wanna miss a good thing! LOL!

I am really starting to fall for my Taurean. I am a skeptical scorp... I am liking me some him though... LOL!!! Although the Virgo is nice too 🙂

Queen you may like the Taurus but I think the Virgo would be a better fit.

Caplady, you think the virgo is better? Why?

"Defiantly a no no. A taurus does not liked to be rediculed about anything that they do, major turn off."

Hmm Taurians no likie being made fun of? Now THAT probably explains the lack of follow-up more than anything else.. *shrug* it worked w/ my Gemini ex...

*"He is lured by, and hopelessly attracted to, Fire and Air signs."

>>True. My dad is a Taurus and my mom an Aries.*

I think Taurus with some other earth signs in his chart would love fire signs - they add excitement to the mix.. they probably behave in ways he can't quite behave and so he's drawn to that? That would be my guess anyway.

Queen I say that because the only thing that you and Taurus have in common would be great sex but other than that you'll really won't see things in the same light and even with sex scorps are down for sex and Taurus are usually a bit cautious about it so its really not a good chance that a scorp/Taurus relatioship would end up being long term. Virgo you have alot in common with and you're more like ying and yang with each other. If you are looking for something long term I'd say go with the virgo. He's a better fit.

Cancerlady. I guess it all depends on the individual. I dated a Taurus years ago and the only thing that ended our relationship was that I moved to another country. It was wonderful. We are still close. So, I might not be able to agree with you on that. Actually I have been knowing the Taurus(2yrs) way longer than the Virgo (3 wks). We had mutual friends and we always had this strong chemistry, lost contact and just reconnected. So, I will see how it goes. Frankly we have a whole lot in common. Personality, preferrences, careers, goals etc. So I can't agree with the compatibiltiy issues.

BTW, this Taurus was really down for sex... LOL!!! Where did you get your information Cancerladay? Just curious. Does your Bull have and ex scorp?

BTW, my ex-bull still tells me he loves me after about 15 years. He says I will always be special to him and there will always be a place in his heart for me. Love me deeply as a friend I assume, since he is married with children. LOL!!!